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writes:Can you help me figure out what to do ?. I like this guy who i used to know at school. He has a funny sense of humour ! We are on each others friends lists on facebook. I was online very late at night once, well actually, it was the early hours of the morning. All of a sudden, his name came up on the instant messenger on facebook, and he had sent an explicit message. he asked if i would give him oral sex and said " i bet you want to " and he said " why text ? ". I was shocked so i didn't reply. He was in a relationship for a while, he wasn't with his girlfriend then though. They have been on and off for a while. He created this group about himself for a laugh and he said that when a certain number of members had joined, he would give them a prize. I joined for a laugh and i was the person who was supposed to win the " prize " lol, and he said " one lucky lady has won a date with me ". i'm assuming he meant the person who had just joined , but how did he know it was a lady who had just joined, unless he had been keeping a close eye on the people who joined, and why would he put that a date was the prize ?. He was back with his girlfriend at that point, but i have noticed since then that they have broke up again, so he is single at the moment. Also, he would know which country my favourite band is from, as i post about them a lot on my page, and on his group about himself, he put that one of the places he performed ( he pretends he is a performer who goes on tour ) was the country my favourite band is from. He didn't mention any other countries, so i'm not sure if that's a coincidence, or if there is some sort of meaning to that.Lol i know all this might sound confusing, but i'm not sure what to do. I'm actually going to his home town soon and i might see him around as it's a very small area. We used to live near each other, so some of the places i might be going to used to be my local, and they are still his local places as he still lives there. I'm wondering what to do if i see him around ?.
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 If you see him around let him make the 1st move because this will help you figure what his intentions are and after reading all that you said ... If I were in your place I wouldn't associate with him no matter how well I knew him . I don't think I would like to be spoken to so cheaply without respect....
he might be funny and a friend but just keep him that way ..... nothing more than a friend that's all I can say
I don't think he respects you enough .... to deserve you besides he doesn't seem to be steady ....
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reader, Ven  +, writes (19 October 2010):
Explicit messages fall into 3 categories:
1. Something you send to someone you are currently dating.
2. Tasteless humor directed at close friends who know you better.
3. The perverted ravings of mentally underdeveloped tools.
Based on what you have said, I'm guessing 3. That being the case, I would stay away from him.
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