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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is she acting like a bitch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have no idea what to say to my mother. i did exams for uni a few months ago and ended up with my second choice cause i didnt get great results. my mam wouldnt let me view or appeal any of them and so i took my second offer. now 2 months later. i am still living at home and ... (127 words)

Difficult situation with someone 4 years younger than me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right well here is the story i need help on and i hope pepole can help me: There me who is 16 and this boy which is 12 so 4 years younger than me. we met and the second day we went out because we really really like each other and i didnt feel right so i dumped him 4 day... (221 words)

Yikes!!! I can't stop masturbating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ill start off by saying that im 16, and im a girl. im also a virgin, but not by choice. if it was up to me, id be having sex all the time. with girls and guys. im bisexual. i go to school online, so im always at home on the computer, and my parents work from 5 am till 7 at ... (208 words)

Sad about leaving the house I grew up in. Please help me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - We are selling our house because we can no longer afford it. I just found out that someone made an offer on the house. Now I have no clue if I should be upset because it will be weird because someone else will be living in the house I grew up in. But I am also excited for a ... (78 words)

Getting a girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I am a 17 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend before never kissed a girl nothing. Never had anyone really love me. I don't have any friends that are girls. Thing is I been talking to girls but I have not asked them out. I want to get a girlfriend befor... (287 words)

Over protective mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry that this is so long. Im just lost and need some guidance. Im 16 years old and im having issues with my mum. Me and my boyfriend of the same age have been together for nearly a year now. However my mother has only known about this relationship for about 6 months a... (620 words)

Tempted to break up with her for someone else but what if it doesn't work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

- Using an old account, currently 18. Hmm, well, this is a tricky one. I've been going out with someone for a year, she's lovely and we're best friends. This october i've started university, and am living 2 hours from home. Problem 1: I don't miss her. I'm not the kind of pe... (412 words)

Am I smothering her here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My gf and I used to date three years ago for about two months and she broke up with me cause things got too heavy too fast. I was devastated. After a while we became friends again. We work together but not in the same department. Any ways, we started dating again almost t... (394 words)

She says she has no time to herself and I'm scared she'll break up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend, we are both around 20. We are together for almost 2 years. I really love her and care about her. We had our ups and downs, many times in the last year. Many reasons, not always the same, every time we had an argument or fight. But in the end we were toge... (342 words)

Can I ever give my all to someone again without the thought of them cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to really start. But my ex of 3 yrs told me she wanted a break in March of this year. Our relationship had been going on for 1-1/2 yrs long distance b/c I went off to college, but we had decided to stay together. Our 3 yr anniversary was on Valentine’s day of ... (790 words)

Should I take my wife back again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - HI, my wife and i been seperated for 4 months now. We had our ups and downs but i still lover her and we have a son together. She submitted the divorce and havent pay for it yet but she met her old boyfriend after 4 weeks when she kicked me out and now she wants to get back ... (79 words)

Don't know who to choose... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! ok i'm in a bit of a situation, and it's starting to really upset and confuse me. i met a guy, and have been with him 8 months. he's pretty much perfect to me, well mostly. he treats me well. everything was going well, but i started going out a bit more with all my frie... (282 words)

I'm confused about my feelings...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been masturbating since i was 13 but had never had an orgasm. a few months ago i started watching lesbian porn and it really turned me on and had my 1st orgasm. now its the only thing i watch when i masturbate. i have been feeling things for a female friend. am i a ... (60 words)

I'm so lost and hurt...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A month after we met he started to like me. i liked him too but i said no only because i wasn't ready yet. so he stopped talking to me, i asked him why he was doing that and his reply' i don't hate you i'm only doing this because i know it would hurt you, you hurt be by ... (98 words)

If a guy doesn't call or text his girlfriend everyday, does that mean he doesn't love her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it necc. for me to call my girlfriend everyday just to prove that I love her deeply? I don't like talking on the phone much...I will text, but I don't want to feel obligated to call or text her or anyone else. Why do people put all these rules on love and what a person ... (269 words)

Ashamed of telling my boyfriend where I live. Any tips to approach this topic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a serious issue. I'm with my bf for more than a year and... he doesn't know where I live. Actually, I don't want him to know. I came for college in an important city, from a small village. My bf lives in the college town. I'm ashamed to tell people where I come fro... (269 words)

Annoyed that my friend backstabbed me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I broke up on and off about 3 weeks ago, but kept talking and arguing for a few weeks. It was getting so difficult that last week i decided to completly cut off all communication with him because he kept leading me on. I am still in love with him and still ... (265 words)

How can I stop this bullying before it gets out of hand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my cousins oldest child is showing major signs of being a bully. she has locked my oldest daughter in a car in the heat of the day, she shoves her off a trampoline and pushed her into an unsocialized pittbull. she is 4 yrs old and my kid is 3. she only does these things when ... (142 words)

Does she only see me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

- Okay, I really need help. I have a female roomate who has lived with me now for the past 2 mos. I had met her earlier this summer, and recently she needed somewhere to live, and I stepped in to help her. Anyhow, her and I get along extremely well, and we have alot of fun ... (223 words)

I can't be without my boyfriend, but I can't carry on having his dad talk about me in this way.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, here it is. I suffer from slight mental health issues. Having been bullied since I was about 10, I have learned to block a lot of things out, but eventually it all gets on top of me, and I have serious breakdowns, to the point where I curl up in a ball on the floor and cry ... (484 words)

He doesn't want a relationship, I do....and it's killing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 11 months ago. At first I blew him off alot but finally gave in and went out with him. From that moment, we had an instant connection. I found out a week later he was in a long-distance relationship but I didn't let me that bother me because you can't help ... (426 words)

Based on his depression and a past incident, I'm really worried about him going out clubbing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My 27 year old bf of 2 years kissed another girl over a year ago, and up until a couple of months ago had made a fake profile with another man's pic rather than his own and was talking to other girls online pretending to be someone else. He said this was due to the severe ... (344 words)

I love this guy to pieces and don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been having so much trouble with this guy I work with. A couple of months ago he said to me (while drunk) that he loved me and wanted a relationship with me. For three weeks after that night he never spoke to me, until I found out he has a boyfriend. He said to me he's ... (339 words)

What's the point of a woman being confident if there's always going to be another woman that's better-looking than you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey iv just had this question in my head a few days and i just wondered what mabye you guys thought ? whats the point in woman being confident if theres always going to be another girl thats always better looking then you ? theres perfect girls everywhere even on tv you cant... (103 words)

How does a break up work if you both have the same friends? This is so hard to end!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. So I'm sixteen and my girlfriend is fifteen and i think i'm about to break it off. I think its just kind of over for me. It's taken a while to stop being in denial about it because i remember how in love with her i used to be. I'm sort of confused, and I know this break ... (295 words)

Help, my girlfriend may not love me! Suspicious things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in different cities, but seen ... (383 words)

My boyfriend doesn't have a job, has no money, hasn't taken any steps to go back to school, stays out all night, won't watch our daughter, and calls me a nag and a bore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 yrs. We have a beautiful daughter who will be 2 in December. Me and my bf havent been getting along at all. He blames me for everything. He works 15hrs a week for welfare. He takes a nap everyday. Its atleast 4 or 5 hours. I dont ... (215 words)

I'd like some advice on clothes to wear to a bar.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like some advice on clothes to wear to a bar. Do you think it would be ok to wear a small black top, black or white jeggings , knee high boots ( i have a black pair and a grey pair ) , and either a bolero jacket or a dressy coat ?. Both of those that i have are black. the ... (164 words)

Do you have any insights or thoughts on how to improve my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How I feel: Honestly its no one fault, its just mine, people tell me what I should do rather when I should be telling myself what I should be doing. I sometimes even go as far as not thinking the situation through, or even go as far as over thinking a certain situation. I jus... (751 words)

Should I get pregnant knowing my fiance doesn't want another child?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have 3 boys (5,2,1 week), i just gave birth to a baby on 10/14. I desperately want to try for a girl and he doesn't want anymore children. 2 are his and 1 is from a previous relationship. He now wants to use condoms and get me on birth control, but i want to try ... (154 words)

I feel so desolate and isolated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hey guys i dont even like posting as i feel im bothering you with my problems but i need someone to talk to as i feel so down. im 35-im stuck in a dead end job-stuck in a debt management programme thanks to my grasping ex who left me in 50k of debt which im paying back. i have ... (266 words)

I'm worried about my future because of my sexual orientation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Well, I am a 26 years old male and I’m virgin by my choice. I’m gay or at least bisexual, I like both men and women both attracted me but when it comes to sex, I feel I’ll be more comfortable with men. I don’t want to be with men, because I feel making sex with... (232 words)

My man won't give me any!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 2 yrs now. When we first met the sex was hot and heavy and I couldn't keep him off me. Then, 6 months later I found out I was pregnant. He already had 2 boys and didn't want any more kids so at first he was not very ... (254 words)

Boyfriend lying about talking to a particular girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half and things are getting complicated. Throughout our relationship, we have always been jealous/insecure and it got worse and worse through time. We are exactly alike in that way. But a big issue keeps popping ... (512 words)

How can I attract guys at this party to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old, and have not been in a relationship. Someone asked me out but I knew I would not last 1 day with him. I fancied this guy at my badmington club but he has recently got a girlfriend. I have 3 partys coming up where I will be socialising with guys I don't know. ... (66 words)

Having bad anxiety in this long distance relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years he is 24 and I am 21. I love him more than anything, and I know he is the one, and the same goes for him. However..he has been 11 hours away from me since I have started dental school. Which I ... (361 words)

I get depressed and violent around the time of my period

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i get violent towards my boyfriend when i have my period, i also get very depressed. we argue like mad and ive actually hit him! i hate it and i only do it when im on. it always start about a week before i come on and whilst i am on. normally we dont argue. can u please ... (66 words)

I'm completely in love with my friend but don't want my boyfriend to get hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I used to have a massive crush on and now we are going out. The problem is we've got nothing in common and he bores me to death. Another problem is that I've started to have feelings for my friend. He's a really cool guy and is really genuienly nice and kind ... (158 words)

We went out and had a great time but he's hardly texting me now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So an old college 'guy' friend from last year popped up at the beginning of the month with an email on facebook. After that he text me constantly and wanted to meet me and said loads of sweet, nice things about me. I met up with them one weekend and we went to the seaside and ... (432 words)

Getting rid of everything to do with the ex a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to get rid of memorabilia of my ex, like cards, cinema tickets from the first date and photos. We were together for a long time and he was my "first love". But he's changed so much and not in a good way. I'm so upset with his attitude towards me after we broke up I do... (101 words)

My fiance does sensual massage and I'm having a problem with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some help please! I went to a sensual massage therapist and feel in love with her at first sight. Well after a few months, we starting dating and we fell head over heels in love. Well, after 3 months of dating, I told her I was having a hard time dealing with her job ... (224 words)

Don't always believe him when he says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 2 yrs (now) broke my trust just under a year ago by seeing his ex behind my back and quite inappropriately flirting with another girl. We made up and now we're good again. Except he says he feels like I never believe him when he says he loves me, and how I sometimes ... (75 words)

Dinner with the ex and I don't want to make an ass of myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay first dinner with ex since break up he broke it off so nervous and then to day he said it was just two friends metting up ha can you belive it so anyways i thought it was a date so how do i flirt a little with him without seeming to needed and he be interested again... (99 words)

I'm mad at myself for being so vulnerable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I asked a question before about this guy I liked and whether to tell him I liked him etc...and everyone said to go for it and I did...He knew I liked him and this time I just went for it...Well he replied he has a girlfriend and wanted to make it known and he values our ... (184 words)

Am I being unfair or selfish by feeling like my needs and wants are being brushed off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been married almost 2 years. Second marriage. My first marriage I was with the man for 11 years and married 8. The sex was less than great. In the end we went almost a year without having sex. I hated having to beg for it and it was like that all the time. I love ... (111 words)

Do I have a reason to be worried about my boyfriend's past drug use?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and eight months. We've lived together for about two. Early on in the relationship, I knew he had had some one-night stands in previous years, between the ages of 18 and 20. He also told me he had smoked weed on a couple of ... (299 words)

How can I avoid dwelling on "what ifs"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd appreciate your comments/insight into the emotions I've been feeling lately about my new bf of 2 months, and some advice on how to make myself less worried, please. Everything is going great, I think he's lovely, and he's told me he's "smitten" and thinks I'm "awes... (350 words)

We have different attitudes toward fitness and it's bothering me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5yrs, I broke up with her because the relationship was in limbo. 3 days passed, I missed her and knew I loved her and want to be with her. 3 months later I convinced her to get back with me. 2 months later I'm questioning a co... (191 words)

I'm fed up with the conflict with my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been fighting a lot lately, I feel like it is over. He wont even look at me, I cook dinner as normal and he wont sit down with my son and I. He leaves as soon as i get home and doesnt talk to me all day or night. I will not back down this time, I am being ... (148 words)

After a couple of bad relationships I'm afraid of being used

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya everyone! Well, I don't know where to begin. And I'd just like to really talk to someone about it I guess. I'm 19. I have Asperger's Syndrome. Fortunately, I was diagnosed when I was 7, and by now, no one even realizes I even had it. My love life has been rather... d... (600 words)

How to do oral without pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on performing oral on a girl. I performed oral on my girlfriend for the first time two weeks ago. It was my first real time licking a girl. I did it once to my neighbor as a dare when I was 9 so that doesn't really count. Well I guess I did a good job b... (211 words)

How does sex feel the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yes, I am a virgin and proud. Dont want to have sex but can someone tell me how it feels the first time and how to masturbate myself scared i might hurt myself and stuff around the house i could use to make even more pleasure.... (46 words)

Why do guys want a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so im a girl and a virgin. Want to have sex but scared i might get pregnant. But Anyways i read somewere that guys like it when girls a virgins for sex or something. Why is that? Explain please.... (40 words)

He's flirting more since he's had a g/f?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy who I have in a couple of my classes that asked me out but I had said no. We still talk so theres no problem there. Recently though Ive seen him with another girl (hand around her waist, etc), and since then he's been more touchy with me. Like he'll get too close ... (116 words)

Will my calling her so often take anything out of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i and my fiancée knew each other from 2 years... and last month we got engaged... it is an arrange relation since our both families were very good friends... now i have moved to london for my mba... we both were very depressed while departing... few days couldn't manage to stay ... (113 words)

I'm confused by these latest texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had a FWB for months, but it was certainly more than sex. He lives abroad so we do not see each other that often. He started to say that the sex bit confused him and he was not able to see things straight. But he also said he finally understood he wants to spend time wi... (168 words)

My boyfriend betrayed me in the worst way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I am hurting at the moment. My boyfreind has broken my trust and has done teh worst thing any one could ever do to me. I though he was a good guy. I told him about my past sexual abuse by father and he told his famly about it. I can belive he did. he told me that ... (146 words)

Is it really right to strike someone in this situation?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was surprised and a bit shocked by some of the responses to A recent post about a guy wanting to know if women found it attractive when a guys junk happens to show. Several of the women say that they would slap the guy in the face if his junk happened to peek out. Do y... (227 words)

How can I turn this around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 32 the same age as my girlfriend. we have recently moved in together, i have started university i am finding it hard and quite stressful. as a result of this my sex drive has diminished somewhat. my girlfriend finds this very difficult and gets very upset about it this ... (87 words)

What does "wandering eye" really mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean by "wandering eye"? I've read a few posts here about women who are upset that their boyfriends/husbands are "looking" at other women. I've never read anything about a man who is jealous that his girlfriend/wife "looks" at other men though! Why do you think ... (75 words)

Is it normal for shorter girls to feel this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just under 5 foot, 18 years old and a bit curvier... I've never had a boyfriend despite being quite outgoing and flirty. I'm not desperate just concerned that because of my height guys just look at me as a cute little sister or a friend. Don't mind particularly at the ... (74 words)

We are eventually getting married why won't he talk about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it a problem for me to mention marriage and/or anything about marriage and/or weddings to my boyfriend? We are not engaged yet, but he says we will be eventually. Why can't I talk about these things with him? This has been my life-long dream: to get married to someone I ... (69 words)

I am friends with my ex boyfriend but he now has a controlling girlfriend what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Past few months I have started talking to my ex again and have become good friends. However, he has a girlfriend and basically, she is not nice and has in the past been very controlling of him and has been possessive. He has mentioned to me that they have had problems and rece... (183 words)

Another Porn Issue

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age - Again....another porn issue. My boyfriend (who will be 50 next year) has 1182 snipettes of short porn movies, at least 3 folders of nude 20 somethings for his viewing pleasure and he doesn't understand why I might have an issue with this. I don't mind him gettin off to free ... (168 words)

My boyfriend cheated with one of my close friends and I can't get over it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello,im hoping someone can give me some advice..so ive been w/my boyfriend a little over 5yrs we have 2 children together absolutely almost perfect that is because when about 5yrs ago he slept w/1 of my closest friends.shes my friend but shes a hoe,shes slept with most of the ... (127 words)

I'm worried it is just becoming habit instead of having meaning!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are together for around 8 months for now. And recently, we started to sleep together, yes just sleeping and heavy petting which includes me giving him handjob and blowjobs and him fingering me. However, I have discussed with him about our closeness at the... (211 words)

I just don't understand guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't get it. I met this nice guy at a friend's party a while back, exchanged numbers and now if I have any contact with him its only because I initiated it! The funny thing is I didn't ask for his digits, I asked if he was a member of a certain social network to which he ... (162 words)

Got too close to my fiance's friend, now he's distant, is it because of what could have happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting married in July. However, last year I started falling for one of my fiancés friends, he has loads of friends but me and this one became really close, chatting everyday, having the odd lunch or whatever during the day, until we had a big night out and one of my ... (382 words)

Would a guy pick the girl with the big boobs?

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21 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - embarrassing question... :S would a guy rather a girl with an athletic body, LOTS of muscle, long legs, a six pack, and a good bum but has small boobs (A)... or would he rather a girl with an average or skinny body, with big boobs? both girls have good personalities a... (61 words)

I'm not ready for a relationship so why do I even care if this guy contacts me?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a first date recently...it was a little awkward just because I had first date jitters. I asked him if he wanted to hang out again, which I guess I shouldn't have, but I couldn't help myself. He said that he would like to hang out again, but that he isn't looking for ... (232 words)

Bisexual or just curious

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys and Gals... Don't know what I'm really looking for here, suppose its for someone to relate so it doesn't all feel so bizarre and illicit. Basically, I'm a straight girl, virgin, no real experience to speak of, but very into guys. I know I want a relationship wit... (169 words)

Why does my boyfriend like his ex's butt better?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i am totally aware as to how ridiculous this is but omg help!! So im in a long distance relationship, been with him now for 2 years (both our longest relationships so far)and we see each other not often but atleast take 3 holidays per year to go visit (as in 2/3 week holi... (269 words)

Wife and social networking

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife of 11 years has started to go on social networking sites various this includes web caming not to much to worry about i know but she got into a web relationship including web sex i wasnt a good husband due to the duress of shift work and the bad moods that come with ... (136 words)

Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has been chattinng to this girl who likes him.. shes been really flirty with him. i saw her text messages yesterday and i replied back to her.. i asked my bf he said i have nothing to worry about and that i have no idea how much he loves me and would nev... (174 words)

Father of my baby is having thoughts about my friend!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupids, Really need your help. Last night i found out that my boyfriend of 1 yr 2 months has been speaking to my female friend, he told her that he's been having 'thoughts' about her, and that he was waiting for a kiss off her. I'm fully aware he hasnt actually done an... (185 words)

I am 15, want to be with 24 year old online guy and feel depressed!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 yrs old. i am in love with a guy he is 24 we met online...i hate my life no one loves me i don't have any friends i am always depressed my parents hate each other my dad is having affair...i can't talk about my problems with my mom bcoz she is blind i don't want to make ... (566 words)

Did he have the wrong impression of my feelings for him?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my story is quite long but please go throught it and advice me. my sister who is older than me and is married have always think that my cousin is in love with me. it is due to his behaviour towards me. he would wink at me. text me saying sweetheart, honey, .. but i find... (288 words)

My long distance relationship has problems.

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in this relationship for 11/2 yrs. We were in a distant relationshp 2 hrs. He was trying hard and took turns traveling to see each other. I had been going through my own thing, graduated from college and could not find a job for 8 months that also placed a strain ... (756 words)

My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands

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21 October 2010 (M)

age - My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I have an abnormally high sex ... (169 words)

Shy guys! How do you respond best to girls?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Shy guys. Please give me the lowdown. For example: How do you respond best to girls? Or how you like to flirt? If you hadn't had a girlfriend before, how would you like a girl to approach you? Is virginity reall such a big deal? Please give me some insight. I like this guy so ... (64 words)

Her mom says I can't be trusted and now I can't see her till she's 18!

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Im kind of going through the same thing here only we've only been dating for a year but its been the best year of my life so far :) well her parents made us break up because her mom says I can't be trusted and i can kind of see where shes coming from but we didnt do ... (105 words)

I want him to french kiss me!

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21 October 2010 (F) age 26-29 - My boyfriend said he wants to french kiss me, and i do too, but i dont know when he will. and i really want him to. help? ... (27 words)

What is considered cheating?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone what is it that is considered cheating.what did the person do to be called a 'cheter' ...thank you!... (23 words)

My friend got a married woman pregnant and now doesn't know what to do!

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - please help to my friend. My friend is a student with me. He had sex with the wife of his house mate and she is now pregnant. My friend is aftraid and still a teenager. He doesnt know what to do, should he tell his housemate's wife to have an abortion? ... (55 words)

My boyfriend can't marry me because of my past.

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In the beginning of our relationship I told my boyfriend about my past sexual relationships. I have slept with more guys than he has girls and have had a few friends with benefits type situations. I wanted to be honest and upfront with him because I really fell for him hard and ... (183 words)

I don't know if I should tell my parents I am meeting my online friend

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on a chat room and after 2 months of talking I found out that he was different to other guys on it. I added him on msn as I do to some other people. It was quite a shock when everyone else who I added on the chat room to msn wanted me to do rude stuff on cam. ... (197 words)

She's cheating and I don't know what to do about it

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i'm in love with this other lady, we have been together for 4 years now. my problem is she hadn't be faithful, i once got her with a man who is like twice her age, then she ask for forgiveness, and now when i'm with her, her cellphone is either in silence or off. please help, ... (61 words)

Dreaming of having sex with some of my guy friends

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I don't kno how to start this off so ill just jump in to it. Lately I've been having dreams about having sex with some my guy friends but I don't think of them in that of way. I am not a virgin and I don't have a boyfriend at the moment. I don't kno if its just me or if ... (78 words)

Girls say its small! Is it?

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and I want to know why girls keep telling Me that my 7" long 6" girth penis is small? is it small or what? please answer. ... (29 words)

Boyfriend touchy feely! Is it just about sex?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with my boyfriend for four years now. He is a very caring person and I love him a lot. But My question is that he is very touchy-feely. Whenever he is with me he cannot keep his hands off me . He never can just hug me or kiss me without trying to take it further. So, is ... (73 words)

Doomed to a life of being single

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Am I doomed to remain single? I have been so for all of my life. no joke. I have never found anyone that I like well enough to get into any sort of relationship with, at least not anyone that I can be with. Anyway, I don't know what's wrong with me. I am too embarrassed to ask ... (251 words)

What else can I do to make her feel happy?

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i have been i love with this girl for over an year,and things have always been ok. She has been very easy going . When we got together, she told me that was a phase and now she wanted a serious, long term relationship. the question existed for 4 yrs but i confirmed when it ... (350 words)

I told my girlfriend I cheated on her, but wasn't completely honest about what happened. What should I do?

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so I am 18 and in college and my girlfriend who i care about very much is 17 and still in high school. about two months ago I made a horrible mistake and cheated on her with another girl. I kissed her and got a hand job from her. I called my girl friend up the very next ... (138 words)

My son makes me happy, my boyfriend does not

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so where to start.. I am unhappy. I gave birth to my first child on October 2nd and even though my son makes me happy, my boyfriend does not. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. When I first started dating him, he was a rebound. After time, I really st... (525 words)

Torn between my ex and his friend, who should I choose?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i dont really know how to start this off so im just gonna jump in. me and my boyfriend have been going out for amost a year now. and in that year hes been to jail 10 times. I love him to death. but now he just got out the other day and introduced me to a friend of his who i ... (150 words)

How can a man get over thier ex in a month and meet someone right after and claim to be in love with that person?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How can a man get over thier ex in a month and meet someone right after and claim to be in love with that person? I had been with my ex for 5 1/2 years and now I am 8 1/2 mos pregnant. He left me, a month ago, and then met someone I knew right after. They had only been da... (126 words)

I feel my girlfriend is holding back on her affections!

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 20 and my gf is 16, yea yea some of you think thats wrong. But i dont plan on having sex with her anytime soon, im in it for a relationship. We have been dating for 2 months now and we have a good relationship and we love each other. But sometimes i feel like shes holding ... (168 words)

Do I stay with the old? Or go with the new?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been happily with someone for the past 15 months. There has been nothing wrong with our relationship. He is the only one I feel comfortable around, and can completely be myself around him. And he thinks I'm absoulutely pefect, and does anything to make me happy. But ... (309 words)

Porn the reason he's tired all the time?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have lived together for 2 years. We are planning to get married next year. We used to have sex about 2-4 times a week. He always tells me I'm sexy. However, within the last 6 months, we've hardly had sex at all. The last two ... (404 words)

I want a first kiss without being controlling!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I make a move to have a first kiss with my boyfriend without coming off as the controller in our relationship? We haven't kissed yet, and I know he wants to, but he's scared to try. Any advice?... (40 words)

I don't want my ex I just want him to be upset that I am gone!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I left my abusive husband 2 years ago. I won't get into the details of the abuse because it is over now, but I will say it was very cruel and he did cheat and lie a lot. When I left him, I swore to myself that I was going to be stong and get my life together. I moved very ... (321 words)

I want to stop being jealous of the guy she lost her virginity to!

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, me again. Warning you ahead of time that this is quite long, and I'm not a good writer so bear with me. Here is some info to start with- Ok me and my girl have been going out for 6 months now. We are in a committed Long distance Relationship. We practically know ever... (670 words)

He deletes my comments on FB and likes and unlikes as well

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex, (I'll call him Jay) I had an instant connection with him the moment I met him, but our relationship was short lived. He broke up with me because I was "distracting him from his baseball career." (he was a baseball star in his league) Later he confessed to me that he ... (488 words)

I don't look innocent! Is that a bad thing?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so some guys think i look not innocent but i really am innocent! i havent done anything bad and they know that, but they think i just look like im not innocent. is that a bad thing?... (39 words)

Breaking up with boyfriend was a mistake I want him back!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf of 3 days short of 5 months. I regret it now! I have tried talking to him but he doesn't think it'll work out (I broke up with him bc my dad didn't like him). I have a to get that out of the way, but my main concern is he won't talk to me now or even ... (163 words)

Are you SURE he isn't flirting with me?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have asked about 3 of my friends this and they can't give me an answer. I have this guy friend "Chris", we met last year in class and have been friends sense. I immediately fell for him and wasnt sure if he did. He would always flirt with me by poking me and such and ... (258 words)

Sleeping with a friend's ex, does that make you a bad person?

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21 October 2010 (M)

age - A few years ago I had a brief affair with the ex-wife of a very good friend of mine. I had known him for about 10 years and they had been divorced around 6. I had never even met her until about 6 months before we started seeing each other. When I first met her she was at his h... (826 words)

I am going round in circles with the father of my baby

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been out this relationship for some yrs. He cheated but apologized i he was with his new girl but continued to tell me how much he missed me But we still talk but in the mean time he leaves her and goes with someone else. but still continues to tell me he loves me and ... (132 words)

My best friend and my ex flirt in front of me

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex-bf broke up about a month ago on a Friday. That following Monday I found out my bff likes my ex, and that day she told me to get over him and that she was going to ask him if he would ask her out. See, while me and him were dating, from what I saw and what I h... (327 words)

I was hoping attraction to my 2nd cousin would fade, but it hasn't

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very deeply, sexually attracted to my second cousin. I'm confused whether he returns my feelings - I'm 18 and he's 26. It's not a phase. I've had a very visceral reaction to him since I was very young, about 11 years old. Even though I've hoped that it would fade or I ... (322 words)

Mixed Signals From My Best Guy Friend?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking to my guy friend for a long time, and i like him a lot. We talk all the time, about everything and anything, he's my best friend. BUT he has a GF, so I haven't told him my feelings. We've covered extendedly our past exes, oddities, and he tells me stuff about ... (265 words)

Since we had sex I have heard nothing from him!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old with little dating experience and very very confused! Please help! I met a seemingly great guy, Steve, online. We messaged for five months and eventually met offline. I felt we had a really strong connection and would get along wonderfully. We've been datin... (279 words)

The guy that made me feel alive again.. but he's taken now.

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17,just call me joy a girl who didnt want to fall inlove again because of my ex-boyfriends who once destroyed my life then leave me so after my last boyfriend i decided not to love again cause im scared that i might be the one who will suffer at the end everytime someone is ... (642 words)

Does my girlfriend like me anymore?

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21 October 2010 (M)

I'm in love with my coach!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am In love with my softball ast. Coach he is 26 I am 17 I no he has feelings for me because he is always texting me and flirting with me we hang out every friday at the football games the biggest problem is I have a bf that I have been with for 3 year but he just doent treat ... (77 words)

I was in a physically abusive relationship and can't seem to get over feeling terrified about being anywhere alone!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am almost 21 i was dating this abusive guy was in a relationship for about 9 months, he would always hit me, push me down stairs broke bones i could not talk to any one about this he threatend to kill me. i have not talked to him for almost 3 years but i am still having ... (117 words)

She lied about meeting an ex and it still haunts me!

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some help sorting out my thoughts. I've browsed a couple of other questions none ever really gave a distinct absolute answer. Don't know if there is one. 12/2008 I met Susan. Shes 26 im 23. Instant attraction - nothing I had ever felt. Started dating, 4/5 week... (558 words)

The guy who had broken my heart is back...!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's back. -Que dramatic music!- Can I ask a simple question to those of you out there who had their heart broken before? Let's say that you met a guy/girl who you fell head over heels for. You hung out with him/her ALOT and you've kissed quite a few times, but no relations... (344 words)

Why is my boyfriend suddenly ignoring me?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is very trustworthy and our relation is for 3 years. but now-a-days i feel that he is ignoring me, not talking with me like previous. i am not understanding his problem. i asked him several times but he is avoiding my question.is he loosing his interest in this ... (57 words)

He may be the father of another woman's child and I'm finding it hard to trust him!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married to my husband of almost 5 years and we have 2 beautiful daughters together. We have been going through some rough times lately because we found out he may be the father to another little girl who is the result of an affair that happened a couple years before we got ... (309 words)

My sister is setting herself up to be used again, what should I do?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age - My sister went out with this guy for almost 6 years. They always fought about the stupidest things because they both thought that they were right about everything. Last February they went through a rough patch. He would constantly flip out at the littlest things and then leave ... (327 words)

Husband texts other women

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some opinions on how you feel about your husband texting/talking on the phone with other women. We have been married for about a year and I trusted him that he is a good husband and will never cheat on me, but now im not so sure. He started to text and talk to... (550 words)

My ex is damaging my new relationship

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up a while ago and I found someone new who makes me happy and my ex is keep calling and texting me all the time I don't respond to any of it but when he first did this I told him to stop and leave me alone but obviously it didn't work he wants to be ... (119 words)

Depression and its Effects on Relationships

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just wondering how many relationship that have broken up due to one partner's depression. Who broke up with whom, and when when the others depression was better did you end up getting back together? Can a relationship be fixed if one partner needed out to fix their ... (59 words)

Married and confused about love

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21 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been married to my wife for 1 year now. We have been together for almost 10 years. This is the first time we have lived together and everything seemed to be going fine. We don't fight and we treat each other with respect. We do not have any children yet. I have recentl... (433 words)

Need to talk to my b/f about problems in our relationship without sounding bitchy

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a talk with my boyfriend about how he has been treating me and acting and how I don't like it and etc. What are ways to do this without sounding naggy, mean, bitchy, insensitive, annoying, etc. I just want something that wont sound accusing like i'm telling him how ... (517 words)

How do I go about satisfying my bi-curiosity?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to try having a sexual experience with a woman, but i'm not sure how to go about it. I have been bi-curious for a while now, but i have only ever been involved with men, although, i am a virgin, and i haven't dated many guys, and the guys i have dated have treated me ... (94 words)

I've really offended my friend help what can I do ?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - advice please. i think ive really offended my friend. we went for lunch yesterday and she was going on about some baby toy for her 5 month old for a while and i went into the shop to look for it to buy for her and was quite tired yesterday and just mentioned-probably not in ... (199 words)

Why can't a guy get it in his head a girl is taken?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a boyfriend, but there is this one random guy who is insisting I'm like a whore because I'm friendly and have guy friends but I also have girlfriends too, but this one guy knows I'm taken, and keeps asking me to do stuff. I've told him to stop. I've ignored his texts ... (94 words)

B/f says he can't move on till his ex gets pregnant or married?

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try my best to cut a long story short. My current love interest, the father of my near 1yr old is still in love with his ex girlfriend and has said on a few occasions that he can't move on until she gets pregnant or gets married. Just a little history. I met ... (754 words)

B/f's friend is always texting him when hot girls are around!

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21 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend's friend is always texting him to come out because there are hot girls. is his friend just being a guy or does he try and pick up girls when hes out with him? ... (35 words)