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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like the new guy but he's got a g/f, wonder if I should get back with my ex, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for around half a year. He was single but i was in a relationship. Two months ago i broke up with my bf (not because of the guy i like). he tried to kiss me only about two weeks after the break up but i backed away, because it was too soon. Then last wee... (154 words)

What kind of a relationship is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my friend who I am starting to like has asked whether i want sex with her I've said yes an we are both going to next week. Neither of us are virgins and we are quite close. thing is I don't know whether this is the beginning of a fuck buddy a relationship or a one of... (69 words)

I don't know how to be friends with and build a relationship with the girl I love.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this very beautiful girl in my computer class, we both go to church, but not the same one and we both love God with all our hearts. One night before bed I asked God "if she is the one, Lord, I ask that you shine a golden light down upon her for me to see" and about a ... (147 words)

I'm no longer attracted and we barely speak. Can we rekindle this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I had an amazing relationship with this girl that was beautiful. We hit it off right away, and moved in together a few months after dating. It seemed perfect at the time, but now its so drab, our entire relationship is dying. Im not attracted to her anymore, we b... (100 words)

How do get a person's trust after you have lied about something big?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to thank all of those who answered my question and gave me some advise and tips. I post a fallow up on my situation and I really need some more advise. Please go to the posts on oct.20 my online name is hobbie and the post was..I didnt tell my online guy that I had a ... (167 words)

We both like each other but are too shy to talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi guys, I think this is a tricky question to answer but this guy is interested in me, i know this because he has told me and i have also told him how i feel. I don't know him that well as i met him at college at the start of Sept, the problem is everytime he talks to me (even ... (121 words)

Bad burning pain in vaginal area after sex. What can it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, so heres my question. everytime me and my bf have sex i get really bad pains around the entrance of my vagina in a ring shape. It stings really bad and is like a burning pain. it gets so bad that we have to stop having sex because i cant handle how sore i... (129 words)

My girlfriend said it'd be okay if I received oral sex from another woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, I've been in a relationship for the past seven months with out any infidelity towards my girl friend. I'll admit that I am the jealous type when someone hits on my girl and she loves that about me. Ever since yesterday, I ask her about giving oral sex to me and she declined ... (276 words)

He is abusive and accuses me of cheating constantly. How do I stay away??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband been together for almost 2 years we have a baby of 1 year . I love him alot and always have respected him. Since I was pregnant he has always accused me of cheating on him even when I was carrying his son. I have never gave him no reason for him to think ... (413 words)

I broke up with my girlfriend 4 years ago but now I feel regret.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this is a really stupid question or not but here goes: I broke up with my girlfriend about 4 years ago, she was quite jealous and it drove me nuts. In the end I didn't treat her very well, I started to ignore her. Until one day she confronted me at university... (366 words)

I thought he liked me but he talks to so many other girls. Is he just a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. I think I just need a little bit of help with this one. Hope I don't tire you all out while reading this. I met a guy in our accounting class about two months ago, and he took the effort to come up to one of my girlfriends suggesting that he would like to create a... (1574 words)

My breasts are swollen and swore, what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My breast are swollen and sore for the last week or so . But now there are still big and swollen but not sore . I took a test last night and it came back as no. Just wondering what's going on with me?? My last peroid was over on oct 7 and we had sex on the 18th .... (64 words)

How does one deal with a commitment-phobe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How does one deal with a commitmentphobe? I know that he more than likes me. He has proven it on many occasions over the past year. He just freaked when I mentioned the word relationship. He is still around writing, calling, caring. He took abuse from me when I thought he was ... (98 words)

My boyfriend is only able to have sex once a day. Is it normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are only able to have sex once a day. Then if it has been too many days in a row then he can't do it at all. Sometimes we can go a week without doing anything and he can still only go once, or have to wait a few hours to be able to go again. He is older than ... (294 words)

The only guy I trust is my friend. How can I trust my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and ive been dating my bf for 3 months and i have serious trust issues. Every guy ive dated has cheated on me more than once or left me for another girl then came back when he got tired of her. I dont trust my bf and i feel bad about it. I want to trust my bf but i just ... (137 words)

29 year old virgin and waiting for the right one. Will I find her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi am 29 many say am a good looking guy, thing is i have allways bin shy around women god knows why some girls ask how come u havnt got a gf ya such a lovely guy thing is am still a virgin i wanted to save myself for the right person am not religious or anything now ... (144 words)

I waited for him for years but he had sex with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hay im Thorn im 15 (sorry im bad at spelling) and i have a love hate thing with my boyfriend who is alot older than me and im not gona say how old altho im only 15 im very mature and i think things throuh im not the kind of girl who dose things without thinking. so its realy ... (527 words)

I can't stop masturbating over my co-worker!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i need help i work with a polish women shes 23 small blonde hair big boobs face and smile like you wouldnt beleave she just looks awesome, shes so friendly get on well every time i speak to her or even look at her i get an massive erection never looked at any body like this a... (93 words)

We are back together but instead of things getting better, they are worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know whats going on in my relationship or how my boyfriend thinks. When we first started dating he sent me text messages that say have a nice day or something like that. but he never showed anyone that he was with me, he wont hold my hand or kiss me even when he was ... (161 words)

I'm uncomfortable with him seeing a female friend. Can I say anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2 years went behind my back and met up with his ex. He also had some semi naked photos of her on his computer which I accidently found. We had a row and made up and decided to give it one last go. Thing is, my trust, although improving, is difficult. He's just ... (85 words)

I'm having weird issues with my vaginal area. Who should I talk to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im really scared. im onyl 13 and im going through things im my life right now that i know i shouldnt be and top of that im worried aboot my vaginal area. my cliterus is really red and sore, it seems swolen if this is possible? and i just dont know what to do it hurts to do ... (193 words)

I want friends to know I have a boyfriend but afraid of my parents finding out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend will have been going out for a year as of December 15, 2010. Only thing is, nobody else knows. My parents hate the fact that one day I'm gonna move out. They don't want me dating anyone cause they think it will make me move out sooner. If anyone were to know ... (141 words)

Strange odor and I'm embarrassed to see the doctor!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - umm i have a weird sort of odor on my clit and around it? ive used generic yeast infection treatments, but nothing seems to work. its a sort of weird kind of fishy smell....and no matter how much i was its stil there..i refrain from letin my partner go down on me, and finger m... (80 words)

How can I get over someone and not be so upset all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I was just wondering how you get over someone?? because I am in love with someone but they don't love me, but everytime I try to forget about them something just comes along and just reminds me of them, or someone will say there name or something like that. But anyway I... (100 words)

Is it possible to have sexual chemistry but not like the guy as a person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Is it possible to not like someone as a person but still be really attracted to them? I ask this as a guy friend of mine, who lets just say has a reputation AND a girlfriend of nearly a year, is to be honest a bit of a sleaze when it comes to women. The thing is when we've been ... (223 words)

I don't feel as though I belong. Is love enough to keep us together anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for 9 years. I love him. He is the only man who has been in my boys life. He"s been a father never had to be. I'm not very close to my husband kids I feel as if I don't belong, is love really enough to keep us togther?... (56 words)

My hair stylist hurt my feelings. Should I go back to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm quite upset. i went to the hairdressers today, and i didnt like some comments that my hairdresser made. she said my colour had faded( i had my hair dyed blonde, but the person who dyed it didnt put much blonde in ) and i didnt even think it looked faded, although it doesnt ... (335 words)

I rejected him, now I regret it! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently this boy I know added me on msn and starting speaking to me loads, like everytime I signed on he was there, speaking. Then I went on holiday and he was always messaging me and when I came back same thing again. I told my family and they were just joking the usual: "he ... (159 words)

How do you tell if a boy likes you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you tell if a boy likes u... (9 words)

5 days ago I said something to my boyfriend that I regret and he hasn't contacted me since

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A week last sunday I said something to my boyfriend which I really regret and I didnt mean. Everyone gets wound up sometimes and for me I blew and blurted it out. Well since then hes not spoken to me, ive text a few times, called and last night after leaving him for 5 days I ... (139 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't know what love is or if he wants to marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your help. My boyfriend and I got into this big argument/discussion last night and even though we cleared a lot of things up, there are just some things I'd like to get your opinion on. Some things he said still kind of stick out in my head. He kept mentioning how h... (209 words)

How do you hire a private detective?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How to hire a private investigator? Is it expensive? I need professional help to discovery truth about my suspicion. ... (27 words)

Do you think he is interested in me or using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

- Hi, I'd just like some help with figuring out if a man I've met is genuinely interested in me or is just trying to take advantage of me. We met a few months ago and he comes to my workplace most evenings in the week (not specifically to see me, but because he has to be... (454 words)

3 year friendship but I want more. Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known her for three years now, and I've liked her for a while now. We're pretty close friends. It's just, she's on my mind so much that it hurts sometimes. I have a feeling that she doesn't share these feelings, even though she does care for me a lot. I want to tell her ... (373 words)

My friend's husband is starting to compliment me and I don't know what to make of it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi would like some advise please. My friend's husband seems to like me. He told me the other day that he thinks i am beautiful, he doesn't make me feel uneasy normally and i have had the impression before that he likes me but i thought no more of it. He also touched my knee ... (223 words)

Did he use me for sex or is he worried about our age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i broke up with my ex a while ago but we agreed to remain friends. nearly 3 weeks ago he invited me to a party at his mates and his friend, who i had been speakling to on fb, was there and even though he is 6 years older than me we ended up having sex. i didnt hear from ... (177 words)

I can't give in to my husband's sexual demands and now he's sulking

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age - I'm 46 been married 28 years. my husband demmands me to do things sexually that i'm not comfortable with. I've always gave in in the past but his recent demmand i just cant do. I've tried it but i dont like it. we have been fighting about it for 3 months now. He sulks and says ... (114 words)

Could drinking interfere with the results of a pregnancy test?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i think im pregnant because my period is over a week late. im 15 years old and very worried as the potential father is 21. i have had nearly every other sign so i took a pregnancy test today and it was negative but i was drinking last night and wondered if this could interfere ... (61 words)

My husband just doesn't seem to care about me at all anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont really know what I am looking for but i would like any opinions and advice that anyone can offer. My husband and I have been together for 6 years since we were 16 and have never had a GREAT relationship but obviously we are content because we are still here. We have been ... (1504 words)

Stress taking its toll with LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years and i have just become a long distance relationship due to college. We live 4 hours apart and the new surroundings and stress-ors have taken a tole on us. Neither of us are losing love for each other but because of the stress have begun to fight over ... (66 words)

Is he just being sweet with me to get a leg over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, Ive met this really nice guy over plenty of fish we speak on the phone everyday have done for around maybe 2 months or coming up 2 it but weve never met but seem to get on he goes on about moving in and stuff and already says stuff like love ya Anyw... (260 words)

Can I make a woman happy with a small penis?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hello people, I am not a native speaker of English. If I make mistakes, pls forgive me. if you do not have this problem, I don't think you can fully understand what it feels like to have a small penis. My character has unfortunatelly been built based on this bitter fact. May... (156 words)

Should I stay with my separated man and wait for my happy end, or hit the road after 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a bit of a bother here. I'm 26 turning 27 in 6 days and for the past 2 years I have been in love with Ed. Married. We got caught out in August 2008 after 2 months of sneaking around and she has gone mental on him. Calling the police, saying that he's raped her (she... (1064 words)

Does it seem like she's interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m a 17 year-old girl, and I like an older woman (29). I knew the first time I saw her that I liked her, and tried not to due to the age difference and the fact that I thought nothing would ever happen. But I can’t help it. For the past 18 months she’s literally all I can ... (250 words)

What kind of behavior is toxic?

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28 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I've heard people say that a guy is "toxic". Obviously i know that that's a bad thing but what would you class as toxic? What kind of behaviours etc...?... (29 words)

Looking for a great play list of songs to work out to.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Last spring I went through a rough break up and I still have some slight bitterness about the whole thing. Lately I've been getting slightly out of shape and have wanted to start working out again. My job has been making that a bit difficult but I have been finding some time ... (172 words)

How can I repay my mom for her kindness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, this isn't a relationship question, but i'm sure you will do your best to help me out. Ok, here goes. My mum is the most amazing person I've ever known, we have been best friends ever since Dad (her husband) died in 2001. She has always done her best to help me out a... (444 words)

Any ideas why he cut off communication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Earlier this year I met this guy and we became friends. There was nothing between us as we were more aquiantances than friends. We exchnaged the odd message now and then but thats pretty much it. Fast forward a few months and we found ourselves in the same place. We hung o... (295 words)

How do I get myself together and what do we do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When i get angry sometimes, I tend to say stuff I dont mean(names or things, that I manipulate him into believeing) I hurt him, and was lowering his self esteem, He wasnt happy so he got out. WHat do I say he said hes not holding grudges but he also said he wants to be alone. I ... (417 words)

Should I reach out to her, or should I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a great long-distance friend, someone I always hoped I'd be more than friends with though that never worked out. We knew each other over 2 years. I've always been private but with her.....I just felt a comfort I've NEVER felt with anyone else. She felt the same an... (534 words)

He says I try to control him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I try to control him, I have been hearing this a lot. We are broken up now but I want to work on this for myself even if WE still happen to get together. How do I manage that. I know it may do with trust but I dont know how to solve it. Also he used to tell me I tell him one ... (107 words)

I'm 18 and dating a 42 year old married man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've kind of dug myself a grave here. I'm dating a man who's 42, and I'm only 18. But there one huge problem that I used to let slide but now it's starting to get to me. He's married. I used to just brush it off, but every time I see his and her car across the street, I start ... (241 words)

My boyfriend isn't used to someone saying no to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my now ex boyfriend has been used to girls running after him and doing anything for him, ive told him to leave me alone as ive got things that i want in life also, and a relationship is a two way thing. Hes also a jealous person. So whats his problem why does he keep coming ... (75 words)

My wife thinks that my ejaculating inside of her will make her fat!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife does not want me to ejaculate inside her because she thinks sperm will make her fat, even though she doesn't eats junk food all the time. We have been married 18 months and I have to pull out just before I cum or wear condoms. This has been bothering me. I do not see ... (68 words)

How can I make my parents understand that I am in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - (I'm 17 and my girlfriendf is now 18, we're each other's 1st love) I'm EXTREMELY annoyed with my parents! Why? Simple they keep on saying that S is my "friend" and that I don't love her I only like her -.-, if I liked her why would I give her a HEART necklace -.-, Why would I ... (182 words)

Why am I hurting so bad when I was the one that ended it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months last thursday. he called me a bitch for the first(and last)time because i didnt call him wenesday. he had a key to my apt and spent 2 nights a week with me and weekends. we never faught much but when he called me outa my name i told him ... (172 words)

I feel like I have lost another family member, I don't know what to do anymore....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. Im hoping somebody can help me get some answers to whats wrong with me at the moment. I am 37 years old and feel like im going mad. I shall start at the begining. When I was 6 months old, my biological mother left me out in the rain over night. My nan found me t... (587 words)

Do they still have control in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi could someone please help me with this question? If somebody is trying to control you by refusing you something and they probably thought you would chase them for it, then do they have any control over you if you walk away and say ok i will go and get the thing that i want ... (57 words)

After we broke up I was so angry I went to his mum and told her everything! I know this was a terrible thing to do but I still want to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I of a year and a half just called it quits 2 days ago. I feel a sense of anger but I still can't get the sadness out. I told him I still wanted to be friends and I know he agreed just to be nice. So last night I did something stupid... I was pissed off of ... (223 words)

First time am having sex in my life need to have some suggestions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and one of my friend but she's really not my girl friend we gonna have for first time and me for first time having sex she asking me to keep my penis inside her am just scared to do that and she want me to cum in her mouth bcus fist time I'm having and I dunno what to answer ... (74 words)

B/f and I have argued every day since June!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is my best friend,soul mate everythin i ever wanted. when we 1st got together he showed me so much love and care. he always wanted to txt me, see me,be around me. and moaned tht i never gave much bak. i didnt realise untill i read our msn chat logs tht i was sch a ... (239 words)

My friends always say the teacher is staring at me

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a little confused right now because I... (507 words)

Each time I mess up there seems to be less love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Sometimes on accedent i hurt my gf and i dont mean too. i never want to hurt her. its the stupid small things that i say that hurt. when she gets hurt i get hurt because i didnt mean to do it or say it. i need to know if were right for each other if i keep hurting her. r we ... (88 words)

Just not interested in sex..what do I do to help both of us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do really about this anymore so I thought I'd ask for help. I just don't like sex. My boyfriend is attentive and very good at what he does, but I just don;t ever feel like it. Well I do and I initiate it but then I just lie there waiting for it to be ... (148 words)

I want my cheating girlfriend back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 18 years old and i just had my first relationship ever which ended yesterday, it was going on the 6 month mark. in our first month, she kissed/made out with two of her guy friends then told me about it( within 2 weeks of them both happening), she felt guilty but didnt... (591 words)

Am I still grieving the loss of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If you know that you have meet an amazing man who you are happy with and treats you well,how come i cant help but sometimes think how i miss an ex?I have a child with him do you think this is why i think about him?i never understood the breakup as he left me suddenly,found out ... (75 words)

My girlfriend tried to cheat on me in the past and now its hard for me to trust her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is on a space break with me for a week. It happened because i dont trust her with other guys and i am always scared that she will cheat on me or dump me for someone else. She flirted with my best friend and he asked her out to take her on a date. Even after i ... (135 words)

In the dark mishap has led to much pain!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Long story short my bf accidently put it in the wrong hole. It's really sore and completely killed the moment seem as I wasn't expecting it!! (it was pitch black and we were sing a condom in his defence!!) anyway I'd like to ask if there is anyway of getting rid of this ... (68 words)

We have huge arguments about my husband's best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I would love to get opinions. I am recently married to a wonderful man, and we are very happy except one thing - we have huge arguments about his best friend. I dont want to get into too much detail about his friend,but I think i have to explain to assure you that ... (408 words)

I dumped g/f 10 months ago and want her back!

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I dumped my girlfriend 10 months ago and everyday I regret it. I treated her bad. Now she's hanging around another guy who treats her like a queen and she acting in a way that she didn't act with me. It torments me to watch anothe guy make her happy. I'm regret that it took for ... (108 words)

They say masturbating makes you more horny

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi guys,i'm 14 and i had only started masturbate a few months ago. At the start few weeks i kept doing it,up to 4 times per day.and now i had always feel so horny and wanted to have real sex.what should i do? do i have to stop masturbating?and my school keep calling in people ... (86 words)

Torn between what is and what could be

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from a guy; (that I had gone out a... (841 words)

How do I put on weight and make my boobs bigger?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - pls help me Im too skinny and my boobs are very small. Im 17 years old and i think that im never gonna get large boobs, my confidence has break down in pieces pls help how to get large boobs and how to gain weight pls do answer ... (48 words)

Should I start a long-distance relationship with this guy, or stay with my boyfriend who will never leave me?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for nearly 4 years. At the beginning we were deeply in love with eachother and we had so much in common and we would talk for hours and hours and we never fought and were so happy with eachother. Two years into the relationship we started fighting... (519 words)

I'm so nervous about my children growing up and having sex too young, then ending up pregnant!

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my children are not old enough yet but one day they will be and this subject really makes me nervous. teen pregnancy. iv read a few just in the past few weeks on this site and that was enough for me to want to go get a couple of chastity belts and build a 500 ft wall around my ... (140 words)

What should I do about this mess? And how do I get him out of my system for good?

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28 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm writing this as i've been in this situation for too long now, just over a year in fact. I feel like i'm being manipulated and would appreciate any feedback. It all started when i got back in contact with somebody i knew from school, it had been about 7 years since i'd... (542 words)

How can I ever be her special guy when she was a prostitute who slept with 300-400 men?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All - this is a follow up question from one of my previous ones - How do I cope with my girlfirends past - those that read my last message will remember that she used to be a bargirl in both the Philippines and Singapore and has admitted to me that over a 2 year period sh... (645 words)

I have a probation officer, should I tell my boyfriend?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help debating on if I should tell my boyfriend, that I have been with for over 5 years, that I recently got charged with stealing from my job. It's been a year or so and I now have a probation officer. I've never been in deep trouble like this before so I don't know how ... (96 words)

I think my husband is a sex addict! Please help

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice, me and my husband have been married for 15 years and have three kids. He has also cheated on me 3 times and one of the times got thown in jail for it and then three years down the road he cheated again. After the last time he cheated he was sleeping with the ... (237 words)

Girlfriend will not treat me as a lover, no sex, kissing, nothing!

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm i being unfair when i get no physical contact in my relationship, on which i will elaborate. I have been dating my girlfriend now for close to two years. Within that period she has cheated on me. I found out that she was a escort on which i tried to stop her, and ha... (402 words)

I may not see my LDR guy for 2 years

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in a long distance relationship with d man of my dreams.i might not be seeing him till about 2years from now.i don't want d way we feel for each other 2 change before then.how can I make this work?... (40 words)

For the ladies - how long does it take for you to orgasm?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i was wondering, this is for the ladies. How long does it take for you to orgasm?. I know everyone if different but surly there must be some connection. This is either Oral or vaginal i guess anal too. Or better how long (time wise) do you prefer your sex go on for.... (53 words)

What should a guy do about hair down below?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what exactly should a guy do with his pubic hair? i seem to have alot, although i'm not sure how much alot really is... Do any girls have some advice or suggestions?... (34 words)

I need help getting rid of Mr Gutter!

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm facing a real dilemna and really need advice asap. This past August I started dating a guy I met at a conference. We instantly clicked and things between us only keeps getting better and better. He's divorced with 2 kids who live with their mother, and I also have 2 kids ... (397 words)

How often should a boyfriend compliment his girlfriend?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in college and I'm curious to know how many times you compliment your girlfriend, or receive a compliment from your boyfriend. This is an on-going issues with my girlfriend because she says I don't compliment her enough. What's the norm? Once a week, once a day, what? ... (61 words)

She has me so confused!

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im really confused i gave my girlfriend some time to think becuase she told me that shes unsure shes happy being in a relationship. Ive given her sooo much space in the last couple of days, but she will tell me she loves me all the time if we dont communicate for a few hours, ... (72 words)

He wants me to find him a girlfriend ... but what about me?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear ______ I've like this guy for awhile. I met him online but Ive seen him aroundbefore but never talked to him. He went to the same high school i didand graduated same year. I met him once with his friend we talked andhad coffee and made them some of my culture food. We... (155 words)

I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend! Should I tell him how I feel?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy he is so cute but he is already with someone else!!! its so not fair he's noticed me and everything and he allways teases me and talks to me if its fair to say there relationship is coming apart but the girl is my best friend!! should i tell him i li... (96 words)

He has a girlfriend but I love him!

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i am in love with a guy who is in a relationship and i don't know what to do. we can call him J. we went to high school together and spent the second half of our last year together all the time. we kept in touch during our first year of college by text an... (433 words)

Does she want to work things out or is she stringing me along?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope someone can give me some advice, i have a real problem going on in my life right now. me and my ex fiance have not been together for about 5 months since we broke off our 6 year relationship. i moved out here from chicago to los angeles to be next to her and then she ... (321 words)

Need advice on how to be a modern day Elizabeth from Pride and Prejudice?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - To have a Mr.Darcy you must first be an Elizabeth... I fear I'm closer to being a Lydia, what a fool I've been. I'm upset at myself for not trusting my instincts and falling for an a**faced jerk. Now I'm trying to maintain my dignity and my sense of self and am finding it very ... (107 words)

Second date, still no intimacy, what am I doing wrong?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, went on a second date tonight with a girl. It started off well, went to "trivia night" at a bar, she was responsive, pretty indicative that we both are still into each other from the first date... However, as the night went on, it felt like I was just talking to a gir... (189 words)

I'm uncomfortable with all her male friends!

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28 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and almost 4 months but one thing bothers me and its her guy friends. i only know a few of them that are my friends as well but there a lot i don't know should i be worried? i keep hearing from her that she and this guy joke ... (121 words)

I'm having trouble concealing my penis!

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28 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I have a very odd problem. My problem is I am having trouble concealing my penis in my pants(especially shorts). I guess you could say its above average in size, 8 inches long and 6 inches around. The problem is many times it just looks like I have a boner in my pants when I ... (106 words)

Am I going to get an STD from having anal sex?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had anal...I read somethings on here...he dont have anything that i know of neither do i .so does that mean im going to get one or have an std already ?... (35 words)

My bf is ditching me on my birthday, am I being stupid for feeling hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

28 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Just when I thought my boyfriend loved me, he goes and makes plans to hang with his friends on my birthday. He doesn't even mention it...he also chose not to spend his birthday with me, but I decided not to get angry/hurt since I had known him only 5 months then. Guys, maybe ... (123 words)

Is he just friendly or is he working toward something more when we see each other?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Reunited with an old friend. Mostly through fb and text. I will see him in November and have developed quite the crush. While neither of us has said anything he ALWAYS responds to my messages REALLY QUICKLY and uses lots of smiley faces. Is he just friendly or is he working ... (63 words)

He never tells me what is bugging him!

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my bf so much we have been together for 3 months but when something is bugging him he doesnt tell me right away because he thinks itll start a fight and sometimes it does but that shouldnt matter if its important right? And it always is to me. Always. How do i get him to ... (119 words)

Why won't my boyfriend Fench Kiss me?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for eleven months, we have a great relationship, very much in love, great sex life. We love foreplay, sex, oral sex (both for me and him). We're so close but there's one thing he will not do and that is French Kiss. I've asked him on many occasions ... (180 words)

Questions about pregnancy before I see my doctor next week.....

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 5 weeks pregnant and I just have some questions on about how much weight I can pick up. I'm a pretty strong female (I think) and I don't want to overdue myself and hurt my baby but I don't want to come off as one of those annoying pregnant ladies who think they can't lift ... (96 words)

Does she like me or is she just a flirt?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to a girl in school and we seem to enjoy each other, we talk and play around. She will stare at me in class and Ill turn around and she will make faces. Girls always like hugs and stuff and all that I know... This girl will hug me and then if we are standing ... (93 words)

Pregnant, and my partner doesn't know and has another girlfriend.

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a teenage girl and I'm pregnant. I haven't told the father that he has a baby on the way because I don't know how to and he already has a girlfriend. How should I tell him that he is going to have a baby?... (46 words)

I want to regain my husbands trust and confidence

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I dated for three years and were sexually active. When we got married, I just stopped wanting sex at all, but I did continue to masturbate. I dreaded sex and just had no interest. And when I say dreaded I mean I would just pray I wouldn't have to do it, but I ... (809 words)

His dad found our sexy texts and now thinks I am gay so he is not allowed to see me anymore!

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28 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - So me and a friend of mine were planning to experiment sexually and we were planning and talking about it through texts, we were really good friends and just wanted to try it out, well i guess he was careless but his Dad read the messages and thinks I'm gay. We still talk just ... (149 words)

Is he gay or straight?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello Hi i'm bisexual ok and I have a friend who claimed not bisexual but he said he's cool to snuggle cuddle with me like really close no space at all, which is weird. do you think any straight man on earth would allowed this? well i still dont know if he's Bi or not but he ... (94 words)

I don't like my gf's guy friend, but I don't want to overreact . Help!

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling jealous. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half, and for the past 3 months our relationship has been long distance. I will be visiting her in about a month. When we weren't apart, it was obvious that one of her male friends was really into her, ... (227 words)

My best friend wants the boys when I like them!

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28 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - This all started a year ago when I meet this boy I really liked him We became good friends and he liked and we made out couple of times but then my best friend said she liked him too and she also made out with him and she told me to stop talking to him Then then after summe... (145 words)

I don't know which of the two men to choose from!

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's my problem, 5 months ago I met this guy (GUY B) at work and at first I didn't really get attracted to him. But after like 2 weeks of working with him I got attracted with his physical appearance and personally I usually get attracted to guys' physical appearances but ... (804 words)

Should I take him back or just let go?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I love him and he loves me. It's totally a proven fact. So here's what happend. I'm 19. He's alot older then me, and we broke up the first time because he did not have a job and I was paying rent and all the expenses. I freaked out. He was also still married and said ... (368 words)

This situation is so confusing, I don't know what to think anymore!

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm a bit confused on how to put this because it's got my head spinning really. i apollogize in advance if i sound a little stupid. for almost a year, myself and my ex from 2 years ago would occassionally meet up and do 'stuff' together. but 3 months ago, i met someone el... (354 words)

How do I tell him how I feel?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do i tell him how i feel?? i live with my boyfriend...im 8 months pregnant... the thing is that every time im sad i cant tell him why im sad...we have been through a lot of things together....he change when we started living together. he put me aside some times for his fa... (182 words)

Should I take the chance and borrow from him or file bankruptcy to get a fresh start and rebuild my credit??

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a financial question that involves my current boyfriend of two years. It will take some explaining so stay with me..... THE UNEMPLOYMENT: I am one of the many people who lost their job and haven't been able to find another. I've been unemployed for 1 year an... (388 words)

Crush asked me to go for a walk....im wondering why

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i asked a question the other day about my crush that broke up with his ex of 8 years, 5 months ago. so, we are actually going to lunch together tomorrow and i am so excited/happy/nervous. not sure where we are going to eat yet, we both said we would think about it after i asked ... (133 words)

My boyfeiend keeps going back and forth and I cant seem to get over him!

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been with this guy since our 7th grade year and i am now a freshman in college. We had our ups and downs like normal relationships. During our 9th grade year he kept breaking up with me and then 3 weeks later we would get back together. That summer we fell head over ... (352 words)

Posh doesn't mean rich!

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I went to a University open day. As to be expected a lot of people from up and down the country went along too. I'm from London and though I knew I probably sounded 'posh' in comparison to the other possible students having a look around, I was completely hurt ... (135 words)

Facebook lie has gotten out of hand

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I made a fake fb when I was like younger and lied about my age and name and put a fake picture...well I started that just for fun, but Never stopped using (about 2 years later aka now) I fell in love with a guy that I started talking to... He says that he loves me and we've ... (157 words)

I want my married lover to take off his wedding ring when he's out with me

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok yall i have been dating this man for a least a years and some months! however our relationship is getting deeper and deeper everyday! when the two some us started dating we both agree to no feeling no attachment ! now that time change words have change too.. he told me if i ... (269 words)

I’m trapped between three guys with no way out

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems like a life time ago but it was merely two years when I fell in love for the first time with my dream boy (Boy N), however when my best friend turned on me and told him I didn’t run away I started to talk to him. He showed little interest but that didn’t stop me I ... (460 words)

Should I let my wife's relationship with Matt bother me?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I let this bother me? My wife is in nursing school. The past two days she's mentioned having lunch with the same guy. Matt. When she first mentioned him back when school started I casually asked about him. She said he's married but having problems. Mid 30's. Drives... (360 words)

Has my relationship got a chance of lasting?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year now. In the last five months or so, alarms bells have been ringing; saying somethings not quite right here. I am in love with him. I worship the ground he steps on. I am in full time training doing a degree in adult ... (228 words)

Should I confront my bf about the inappropriate text messages?

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28 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years, last year, he lied to me about texting another girl because I would get "jealous", when I confirmed I wouldn't, he apologized and now tells me when he texts another girl. This morning though, after our two year anniver... (238 words)

How common is it to see women that resemble porn stars in reality?

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28 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I got a question its kinda weird.. Minus the girls with boob jobs, Is the natural breast in porn really what most girls breast look like? How common is it to see pornstar material in reality? Just wondering.. its not that its important to me, i personally like my girls ... (59 words)