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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I just need a way to move on, I should be over it all by now yet I'm not. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep having dreams that my ex and I are back together and it's driving me mad! We broke up in February and were together eight months so you'd think I'd be done with missing him and thinking about him at all by now, but there are days when I feel miserable about what ... (410 words)

Raised my stepdaughter as my real child up until I caught her having sex

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 44 and have been happily married for 10 years. I have no children of my own, but my wife has a daughter from a previous marriage. I love her to death and raised her as my own since she was 6 years old. She is now 16, turning 17 in 2 months Everything was good and we ... (334 words)

How long should we wait until he introduces me to his children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 19 my boyfriend is 33 and has 3 kids. I was wondering when would it actually be the right time for him to introduce me to his children. He has 2 girls, one is 9 and the other one is 2 and he also has a boy but he's about 10 I'm really not sure. We do have a relation... (161 words)

I broke up and I regret it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend. The reason why I broke up was that I didn't feel in love I didn't have that butterfly feeling. Through he was the most wonderful man I met he loved me so much and would have gave me the moon. But things got so fast between us I ... (173 words)

My boyfriend's brother's girlfriend speaks badly about me to other people! Is she just jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do about my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend? We're going to a wedding in belgium the day after tomorrow. Sleeping in the same hotel as my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend. Last night my boyfriend was at their house sorting out the hotel arrangements and... (585 words)

I feel like we're drifting apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend, both still in high school, have been dating for about 10 months. We've been pretty close so far, but lately it seems like he's pulling away from me. I can tell he still loves and cares about me but i start to worry sometimes. And i wonder if maybe he's not ... (116 words)

It seems I'm addicted to love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it that I am love dependent? I realised in my last very long relationship that we had become dependent on each other. That we needed each other and didn't have lives of our own and so I broke it off after three and a half years. I stayed single for a year and as soon as ... (342 words)

LDR boyfriend needs to stop being so clingy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a week now. we have known eachother since summer only problem is i live 8 hours away from him so were doing the whole long distance thing. he is so clingy. i talk to him everyday and when i try and hangup he doesnt want me ... (104 words)

Lip gloss as a lubricant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh my gosh, well, I was like really well in the mood. And I used lip gloss as a lubricant, and I'm scared can this damage you? :/ Any help would be very much appreciated. ... (35 words)

Should I return the favor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - The guy im seeing right now has fingered me a few times but we havent done anything very serious. im wondering if i should do anything for him in return ...?... (31 words)

How do we stop this from becoming a train wreck?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age - Me and my fiance have been together three years and we love each other very very much. we used to have sex alot and now it seems we hardly ever have sex? I am blamminh myself it really makes me feel insure and causes other problems I have discussed this with him but nothing ... (134 words)

How can I stop overthinking things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

12 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, i'm 23 and ever since i can remember i've always been a person who over thinks things. e.g. I always used to be paranoid about what other people thought about me, what i looked like, how i talked etc... Now that i'm older that has kind of faded away, it's still there just ... (198 words)

Does spotting count as your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does spotting count as my rag?? My rag was to start oct. 6 and I spotted on the 8 and then again on the 9. Is that my rag or just spotting. And does anyone know why that might happen. ( I am under a lot of stress right now) but thanks for anyones help! Thanks ... (60 words)

Stuck with old lover,new person treats me better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I was with this girl C for nearly two years, for the first year the relationship was perfect and I fell madly in love. But as time went on, the relationship fell to pieces, she left me. Everything came out she cheated on me, and id cheated on her (believe it or not ... (216 words)

Boyfriend's ex died 7 months ago and I feel he is just stringing me along

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. His ex-girlfriend, who found out she had leukemia about a month before they broke up (about 2 years ago) passed away about 7 months ago. My boyfriend still talks about her, and often says he misses her, whic... (220 words)

Does fingering mean I'm not a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I see sex as a binding act of marriage, but I'm with a guy I love. I told him I do not want to have sex, and he's ok with that. The thing is, every time I'm with him, things get a little further. I enjoy it, but should I? Last time I was with him I allowed him to fin... (128 words)

How do I get our spark back?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I was wondering if someone could give me a basic answer on how to get the spark back, from a "could of been" thing. I liked this guy and he liked me, and now that we are back in school and we never see or text each other anymore. And to my mistake we kissed at a danc... (98 words)

Girlfriend is too busy, so she dumped me. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years now. I have been attending a millitary-esque college and have only just been allowed to go home to see her(about a 3 hour drive). She is a senior in high school and has two foreighen exchange students living with her, so ... (278 words)

Why do I find teenage girls attractive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm a 22 year old guy and would just like to know why I still find teenagers attractive, nothing under legal age of course, just barely legal really turns me on. My last few girlfriends have all been 16, it's not that I don't find girls my own age attractive, just the ... (75 words)

I didn't tell her girlfriend that he had another woman. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I met a man in a bar. He was handsome, sweet, very loving father. We were seeing eachother for almost six months. I met his friends, stayed the night at his house, met his children (who were sweet but being from a divorced family myself, they just knew me a daddy's ... (222 words)

How do you do something spontaneous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i wan to do something spontaneous/be moe spontaneous for my girlfriend?how do i do that? any suggestions? :D... (18 words)

Friend is being deployed to Afghanistan -- how to stay in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - A friend is being deployed to Afghan for 6 months next year and to be honest i'm terrified. I have no experience with this kind of thing and am completely lost as to what to expect. I know you can write letters etc... but i don't know how long it takes for people out there to ... (158 words)

Buying online erectile dysfunction meds

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age - Does anyone have experience buying ED meds from online pharmacies without a prescription? I hear the ED drugs from India are safe and effective, but I also read that importation of generic ED drugs is illegal. There are some generic ED drugs that are safe knockoffs and do not ... (126 words)

He sent emails to other women and says its because he's afraid I'm going to leave him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 6 years, Lee, and I are struggling with trust issues due to betrayals by both of us (I slept with 2 other people our first year while he was married and he continues to be set up by friends, text/email females, set up accounts on dating sites and facebook, etc. within ... (350 words)

Because of my abusive sexual past my boyfriend is afraid of overstepping bounds

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I'm having some serious issues here. I wont disclose any actual information or names, hence anonymous, but I would really appreciate some advice. I've been dating my boyfriend steadily for almost two years now. We've reached a marker where we want to take our relatio... (282 words)

Girlfriend acting suspicious. Cause for concern?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My first ever question to Dear Cupid! This question may sound textbook, but I would like an outside opinion. About 6 weeks ago, my girlfriend decided to take some time apart. She said that she needed a week to think about what she really wants. We had a stupid fight ab... (560 words)

She left her husband for me and now I don't want her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont think I love my girlfriend of two years anymore. Here is the situation, 2 years ago I met this girl, but she was already married for 4 years but something happened and we started talking with one another and before you know it we were getting preety close. I really liked ... (336 words)

Help me get back the one who is more than life to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So the most horrible thing in my entire life just happened. I lost the reason why I live, I lost my girlfriend. We broke up because she caught me using a gay chat site, and on a webcam site. I've done this to her before and absolutely regret it all. I'm straight, I know that ... (307 words)

Why do you answer to these questions?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any point of this...things happen ... (69 words)

Will a LDR abroad ever work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have someone I like dearly that I met while in Spain.I barely just know a lot about him but when we were together in a group me and him were like together talking and had the best connection out of everyone! We keep in touch from when I call him I do most of the calling but ... (171 words)

Why don't I love my boyfriend?? am soo sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - omg so my boyfriend is SOOOO sweet... he says he loves me after 3months..but i like him..but i dont love him.. when he says i love you tons and tons.. i know he does and i can feel it.... i dont say anything back.. i just say ok.. and hung up the Phone.. i feel ... (188 words)

Is there a chance we could be friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well there is this guy and for the longest time I was hopelessly in love with him. If he needed or wanted anything material or intimate, emotional? Definitely physical... I got it for him. Being in love with someone is nice but in my case it just hurt too much. He knew how I ... (251 words)

Does my ex still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up a week ago due to him believing I was ignoring him when I was in fact just giving him the space that he wanted. Things were really awkward during the first few days, we never talked, never looked at each other, kept a well distance... (365 words)

Boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm having some mixed signals interpreting my boyfriend and would be happy for any advice and input. thanks. :) basically the story goes like this: my boyfriend and i (both 21) met a month ago and kicked it off from the first date . we have tons of things t... (453 words)

I want out of my LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - In short i have a long distance casual relationship and i would like to finish it but in good terms, keeping the friendship bit - if possible. We talked, liked each other, went out, slept together, traveled to meet everywhere ... during months. I just want out. I have ... (167 words)

I feel like I was just his security blanket

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I am 34 and I'm married to a 28 year old clingy man. We been together for 7 years married for 1 we have a 2 year old son togehter. Here's the thing he cheated on me before we got married with a 17 year old and got her pregnant after knowing her for two weeks. I took him ... (302 words)

Will our relationship last if we refrain from talking about our feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know if this is weird, strange, problematic or w/e but me and my gf rarely talk about our feelings towards one another, we don't really need to, usually we know we love each other by the way we we look into each others eyes or when we cuddle and kiss. My question now ... (145 words)

Afraid my friend is moving too quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend has been with her boyfriend just less than a year now, and six months of that time he has been in different country. She talks about "their wedding" all the time and even emailed him pictures of the ring she wanted and told him her ring size, though he never asked or ... (115 words)

Getting back with my ex, is it a mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex boyfriend for 2 years, we split up 5 months ago and i didn't know how i was going to live without him. We ended things really badly and he had been treating me like dirt for as long as i could remember, he didn't even want to see me and when he did it was such ... (538 words)

Should I date my roommate/best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Um, I'm not really sure how to put all the information out with the question, but hear goes. I have a roommate that likes me. Here is the problem: 1-neither of us could move out if it didn't work out. 2-I am interested in her, but I don't know if is in that way or not. and 3-I ... (95 words)

Boyfriend's ex insists on being in his life! Its making me paranoid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. My partner and I have been together 8 months, it's a long distance relationship and we talk and text daily and I see him every 5 weeks. During his week off he also has to see his children (2 and 4 yrs) and I am always very supportive of that, I have not met them ... (376 words)

I'm still holding out hope ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been broken up for a month now and I still love her deeply and care for her very much. I never wanted the relationship to end and thought about marrying her one day. However she's had a new boyfriend now for about 3 weeks, which she started dating about 1 week ... (136 words)

Love is patient?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Love is patient. Pre-Marital Sex is impatient. Opinion please cause this one really made me think a million times.... (23 words)

After the breakup we're back to "friends" but I want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok he broke up with me and wouldn talk to me for ages and then he says he wants us to be friends now we met up once a week and nearly talk/text each other ever day which was more then we use to do when we were going out. but i don't want to be friends i want to be more. how can ... (104 words)

Iv never been able to relax or have "fun" - teach myself tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hiya guys and gals for the last couple of weeks i have been doing some self reflection, my gf left me a few weeks ago, i loved her loads, but however, i am slowly accepting my loss and accepting her as a friend instead. - this isnt the issue however. My ex - henceforth "... (244 words)

Do guys stress about first dates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - do guys get just as nervous as girls do on first dates? what are some of the worries they have? i always get stressed out before the first date and the guys always seem so nonchalant and calm. why is this?... (41 words)

Says he wants to be just friends and then he flirts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Why would a guy insist that he just wants to be friends (he has a gf) but maybe only contact you once or twice a week to chat and when he does it's usually in a flirtatious manner? For example he calls me "hot" and stuff like that.... (48 words)

How is it with medical practioners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know they don't get emotionally involved with their patients.But in my experience there are a few who really are compassionate and loving and are very sincere with their patients and their familes. I though I had met one like that whom I emailed, texted and called for my r... (127 words)

My wife used to dominate me but won’t really do it anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - We’ve been together for 6 years and have four children with two from her first marriage. We've had a very stressful few years when I went self employed but see a light at the end of the tunnel these days. The problem is I go crazy without some domination every now and then and ... (524 words)

Why does she hide posts to her ex from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am really in a state of panic and unrest over my current situation, and need serious advice. I have been with my girl for over a year, and we love each other very much. We had some problems early on when our relationship was not clearly defined (it started out mainly as a ... (583 words)

Ex says she's missed talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - For the past two days, I've been able to talk with my Ex after a breakup. During the breakup, we talked some, and then it just stopped. We've talked about the situation and she says that "if we are meant to be, it'll happen. Just not right now". She isn't looking for a ... (373 words)

Should I disclose a past prostitute visit to my girlfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a committed relationship now. However, a few years before, I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I did so because I was feeling depressed, things were looking bleak, and thought I wouldn't be in a relationship. I don't have any desire to cheat, or visit one again. ... (66 words)

Why does she have to have the same name as my ex?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear agony aunts and uncles, I am currently friends with a girl who has the same name as my ex. Me and this girl have been spending so much time together in the summer and getting closer. We are not exclusively goin out but we have kissed once. And I do want to ask her out. ... (186 words)

How do I show her I'm back to being the man she fell in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with this girl for eight months. We have much in common and have had lots of great times during this period. Sure we have had our downs and well, and a few arguments along the way. We pretty much hit it off from the first date, and there was definate ... (798 words)

Should I leave him alone or wait to see if he realises that I really care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused this guy says things like I went overseas with the wrong girl, if you had of been there with me it would have been awesome! and I wouldn't care if we did nothing at all as long as we were together! Then he suddenly changes and pulls away, he said he has been hurt ... (115 words)

I am questioning my husbands commitment and ability to be an adult

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am questioning my relationship with my husband and his commitment to me. I feela s though his selfishness is getting in the way of our relationship. I have a 7 year old son who my husband has adopted and helped raise and my husband is very close to my niece and family as ... (554 words)

Should I work on becoming friends with her instead, or just completely forget about her and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I’ve known this girl three years ago, when both of us were twelve. We were classmates. Now we’re in different schools. I fell in love with her. I sent her two letters and a gift and I think I went a little too far, because she then started calling me a ‘sicko’. She told me ... (332 words)

I'm worried if I hadnt discovered these messages he would have gone ahead and had 2 girlfriends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my bf for 8months now and ive totally fallen in love with him. However, he has an ex girlfriend who he broke up with coz he cheated on her (not with me). She moved to a different city for the most part of this year and now she's back to our city. Im in college so ... (396 words)

I'm scared I'm never going to get over him or be able to move on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. This might might be quite long so please bear with me! i was going out with my ex for two and a half years and we broke up a week ago because his family are moving halfway across the world and i know i dont want a long distance relationship and it generally wasnt ... (203 words)

Should I see a dietician before I embark on this new healthy lifestyle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Trying to improve my health and get into a healthy eating routine and start jogging to increase my energy levels and improve my libido drastically. Would it be advisable to see a dietician first to get started as I have no idea where to start and what to do?... (52 words)

I cant let her marry her cousin, but I am not in the right place for marriage either! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help,serious advice on my situation. I am 22, she is 21. Our society is not like yours , so things are different and complicated. her family wants her to marry her cousin now. She has her option which is she has to marry now,she can marry her choice which again has few ... (204 words)

Too much masturbation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've tried reading up on the internet about the effects of too much masturbation but i thoguht i'd ask on here too. I'm a 16 year old girl who's a virgin and doesn't want to lose it till 17 at least and I've been masturbating for probably around two years. Thing is, i th... (269 words)

I hate my job, and struggling with love! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i cant stop thinking about these things! this is not completely realated to realationships. im 13, still classed as a kid to some people. i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and we are going along fine and all the rest. i have a job as a waitress in a hotel, i hate it. ... (195 words)

How could I possibly find a way to strike up a conversation with her when she is in her office all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is my conundrum: This new girl just started at work (by just started I mean A week, maybe a week and a half ago). She is always in her office and I never get a chance to bump into her outside of that damn office (by the way, there are others in the office at the sa... (148 words)

He is so confusing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - we were friends for a long time.. we met during our review for our nclex exams. we were always talking during our review about our life, lovelife, dreams and hopes.. he is silent but becomes talkative when we talk.. after our review, we go to coffee shops to study more (only ... (612 words)

Is this feeling normal? Do any other girls get this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im not really worried about what im going to share but i just want some answers lol :) im only 13 and im going to be honest about it, so already any readers will be thinking shes just a kid it dosent matter but i feel im mature enough for a relationship. my boyfriend is 15 so i ... (173 words)

We didnt manage to have sex but she was still wetter than normal, why was this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so me and my girlfriend are ready to have sex, catch is, she's a virgin.So I try to be gentle and all and wear condom,because I hear it's sometimes really painful.I try,she cried really loud and I stop because I don't wanna hurt her,so i stop again i tried 2-3 tymes but ill ... (108 words)

How should I take things from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age - hello i am 45 he is 42, i met him quite by accident and we have started to date, things were looking fine but now i have the feeling he is backing off.................not sure whether heis feeling insecure and i should try to reinforcre or i should step back also and let him ... (57 words)

I need help, I think I'm about to do something very stupid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help im about to do something very stupid (maybe) SO as you imagine im brokenhearted, we broke up 6 months ago, we broke up she says couse i was "mean", i think she just did not love me. We dated for 3 years, she asked several time to get married and i did not what to ... (574 words)

Can't find a job. Advice anyone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This probably isn't the right place to ask as this isn't relationship related at all, but I thought maybe some of you could give me some advice. I finished college in July and moved in with my boyfriend over a month ago. The whole time while I was at college I was unable t... (257 words)

Together for 3 years and planning on getting married, but I still have not met any of his kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 yrs. We see eachother almost every other day since the first day we started dating. i have 1 son from a previous marriage, and he has 2 sons (living w/ him) from a previous marriage, now age 7 and 13. When we met, he was s... (312 words)

Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I work away on a mine site. I work away from home for 2 weeks at a time. I met this wonderful guy, called 'Matt' about 3 months into my job. He had noticed me as soon as I started and telling my friends he really liked me. I ended up giving him my number and we talked and ... (338 words)

When is the right time to tell someone you love them?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When is the right time to tell someone you love them? I've been with my new bf for 2 months, and I feel I've fallen in love with him. I wasn't expecting too, and wasn't looking for a relationship when I met him, but he is truly lovely. He tells me he adores me all the time, ... (153 words)

Help me to understand my bi-sexual boyfriend...What shall I do?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi xx Im so confused, i Really do need some help :'( My boyfriend and i have been together 4 years (were 20) and hes recently (last 6 months) come out as being bisexual, and i really want to be okay with it and to understand how he feels and to support him but when i tr... (302 words)

My boyfriend is confused whether he loves me or his ex-girlfriend

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is confused whether he loves me or his ex-girlfriend - we are dating for a month now but he can't seem to get over his EX-girlfriend... they were in a relationship for 6 years n after that she has left him for another guy... it's been a year now, but a week ... (121 words)

I'm worried my past might come back to haunt me!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 24 yrs .typically from a cultural family .i have bitterness in relationship in my past.with many .everyone were a cheater .just made for physical relation .this hurts me a lot .due to my past even some of my fren scolded me .i was helpless .i had to struggle alone in ... (196 words)

Do I mean something to him or has he been just messing me around?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, there's one thing i'm wondering myself all the time. When a man fell for a lass, would he want to be in contact regularly and yet would want to know how's thing going with that girl? I lost my faith in love since my first love failed years ago. So i need your ... (573 words)

How do I deal with this crazy girl who wont leave me alone?

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12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok have a problem I got a girl trying to re-add me on facebook she dosnt seem to get the hint after all the trouble she has caused by saying and doing nasty things she has pushed altogether 3 friends away and 2 mates against each other . I've given her 3 chances and she's blown ... (181 words)

Did I do the right thing or should I have stayed and tried harder?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so I've been dating this guy on and off for about 2 yrs now and i left my finance for him . i realized while i was in engaged that i wasn't happy i just thought i was . when in reality my ex bf made me happy he always has .so i ended my 1 month engagement and poured my heart ... (366 words)

Is he realizing he might be as into me as much as I might be into him?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met a guy (J) who at first I wasn't very attracted to but after getting to know him a little better I began to see something in him. My best guy friend (D, who I happen to live with, along with a few other people) has been hanging out with J a fair bit lately, ... (533 words)

Is this a male thing or or does he some weird issue ....

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ugh !! I am really confused. I have been with B for 3 years , we broke up ( over stupid issues that we are both correcting) but continued to date , we go out once or twice a week and talk daily . He tells me he loves me . The problem I have when I ask about our relationship ... (168 words)

Any suggestions on how I could get her back?

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12 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My Ex and I broke up 10 days ago. We were together for 4 years, living together for most of it and travelling Europe for 18 months in the middle. She has suffered from depression for most of her life however went reasonably untreated through our relationship, on... (962 words)

Are men who watch porn more likely to ogle women?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I understand men glance, and I understand men look at attractive women. If the woman is extremely attractive or if she is scantily clad, I understand men will probably want to look a little longer. So, what I am wondering is if my boyfriend watches porn, somewhat regular... (355 words)

I am just so tired of being so lonely, and feeling so undesirable.

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12 October 2010 (F)

age - My husband and I have had many problems in our marriage, we have been married 30 years, and the past 15 years, we have not had sex. I got tired of being turned down, so I let it go. Due to recent things that have happened in my life, I told him I could not live this way ... (416 words)

Can you date your half brother?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is it ok to date your half brother?i didint know him till the start of summer, i didint know i had a half brother till dad died then mum said we had a half brother... (35 words)

Unable to orgasm, help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old, I have masterbated plenty of times and my boyfriend has preformed oral and vaginal sex on me countless times... although I have a high sex drive and I am able to experience the first two stages of sexual pleasure (arousal and plataeu) I am not able to orgasm. ... (81 words)

Trouble keeping an erection during oral/sex! Help!

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12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 20, and i have been having trouble keeping an erection while having sex. i dont really have trouble getting one, but after maybe 2-5mins i tend to lose it. a little background info; i was hurt at work about a year and a half ago suffering a inguinal hernia. it was a terrib... (424 words)

What does he feel for me?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i met this guy, we are friends, he was always helping me, then he introduced me with his mum, dad, mum boyfriend, brother all his family, anyway we have been drinking so much one nite, then he told me how much he likes me and he has been in love with me and tons of thing... (361 words)

Why would he think he would be the one for me?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i met a guy who im not interested whatsoever, we just talk once in a while. at the begining when i met him, he asked me if i was a virgin. he insisted to know and for some weird reason guys tend to know who is and who isn't (like if its written on our forehead). at the time ... (480 words)

Does he like me or is he just leading me on?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so. I really like this boy, he is cute, nice, and funny. We flirt a lot when we text each other and over the phone he seems to like me. But when I ask him to hang out, he always ruins our plans. The one bad thing is, is that he has a girlfriend. He is also known for l... (81 words)

I have a fat fetish and want my girl to be even bigger!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i have a big problem. I've been dating the same girl for a year and i told her i have a fat fetish and i needed her bigger. so shes gained about 20 lbs for me but i am still not nearly sexually satisfied. i know for a fact im in love with thia girls personality just not ... (116 words)

How can I find out if he is interested in me?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i would appreciate alot if i get help. Theres a guy who i have in class i think he is gorgeous i think im staring to like him. How can i know if he kind of like me or something?? i would really like to have a relationship...with him.. we started talking a little but what ... (72 words)

How can I get over all this and start over?

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12 October 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I can't get over everything that happened with my ex. I mean, while we were together we had issues, because of my past he didn't trust me and called me names. He didn't like people knowing of our issues so everyone (in his family and circle of friends at least) thought we were ... (552 words)

How can I get control of myself? I get so upset when my husband spends time with his friends!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well i need some advice about this problem that ive been dealing with for a long time.well me and my husband live in another state and we come down to see family once in while,and my husband tends to hang out with his friends sometimes. the problem is i get so upset when he ... (112 words)

My fiance is starting to have feelings for friend who helped her while I was on tour overseas

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12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my fiance and i have been togather for a year and a half and im home on mid tour from afgahanstan and we have a six month old daughter but about a month ago she told me that she thinks that she is starting to have feelings for one of her friends that she met wright after i ... (182 words)

How do teenage guys act when they like a girl?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my question is kind of general, but I've been wondering this lately. I have a lot of guy friends, and they all act in different ways around me i.e. shy, goofy, show-offish etc. so I was just wondering what you guys (mostly teenage guys or those who were at one time :) ) ... (73 words)

I'm so confused..what should I do? It's so stressful..why can't it be easy??

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend broke up September 17. Its been a while since then. We still talk and hang out at school. I still have feelings for him, and he knows. My feelings for him are slowly going away. See before we were dating we were great friends, now its just not..the same. We... (412 words)

How does this work? Do I wait for him to call or text?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a new widow as of March..yes, I am grieving, and yes, I miss my husband tremendously, but lately I find myself wanting to just be with a man. I don't want a relationship, but just someone to you know be with --be touched-- kiss-- and whatever. I was out the other night ... (188 words)

I live in the States, he lives in Spain!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry guys for so much details I just figured the more the better and also I am not an organized thinker so please excuse my spontaneous thinking! Ok so I met this guy on my last night in Spain and I really like him. The only thing is I live in the states and he lives in S... (415 words)

After 1 week online guy wants to meet!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys. My first day here. OK here it is.... I met a guy online who ive been talking to for one week,not long i know but, for some reason i really like him and my feelings grow by the day. He says he likes me too, but wants to meet before deciding whether to pursue anythi... (136 words)

HELP , should I MARRY this girl ?

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12 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl and I fell in love with her , it was in a different city where I live and she was coming for a visit to Denmark , we hanged together for two days , and in the end of the second day I told her that I liked her very much and she said she like me a lot too and we ... (490 words)

How do I make the Lotus position more comfortable for my guy?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there any tips you folks have to make the Lotus position more comfortable for me and my man? We're both about the same height and weight (about 5"10 and less than 160 pounds). I would love to have sex with him in this position for an extended amount of time, but the fact ... (90 words)

He always has to be right, even if its about stupid things!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi so i have a question dealing with my bf. We've been together 5 years. He's very opinionated and is a no "BS" kind of guy. he's got a good heart but sometimes when he's having a conversation with somebody and they disagree or make a different point, he always has to be right, ... (371 words)

I'm so sick of his hot/cold behavior!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, theres this guy I've been seeing. We started seeing eachother in like early april. Then at the end of may, i suddenly didnt hear from him, so I was wondering what was going on. So after a week of not hearing from him, I found him on myspace, and asked whats the problem. ... (384 words)

GUY GIVING FREAKISHLY MIXED SIGNALS?? PLEASE HELP!!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I've had my eye on, and while he's uber-confident and has no problem talking to other people, he always seems to have trouble talking to me. (Mind you, this guy is somewhat of a womanizer, and has no problem being super physical with a girl he just met) Yet,... (201 words)

Hurt, confused, hopeful, scared... Please Read! What do I do???

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12 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I was with a girl for almost a year and 6 months (Officially 1 year and 3 months June 09 - Sept 10), and things were great. To give you background on the relationship: We had great times, memories, our families got along, and really fell for each other. It was a fun, happy ... (1586 words)

She's not the same girl I was dating 2 years ago

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12 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, and it doesn't seem like she is the same girl that I began dating so long ago. When I first met her, she had several friends, was funny, enjoyed hanging out with people and didn't necessarily have to be around me 24/7. Now, ... (254 words)

B/f asked me to move in with him but I'm afraid of losing myself!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has asked me to move in with him. It's a big deal to me because I've never lived with a guy before and I usually need a lot of my own space in relationships. I'm wondering if anyone else who likes their own space has experience with living with a partner? And ... (417 words)

Friend avoids me just to stop rumors from starting

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married to my bff. I also have another best friend who is also married. We had an emotional affair that ended when work warned us. His wife works in office at our job as well. We still text daily but here is now the problem. He became one of my bosses at work. Now he ... (304 words)

We went out 4X but she cheated!

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12 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im only 13 so im new to love and my off and on gf is cheated on me all 4 times we went out but i love her lot and i cant resist her i just love and she promises it wont happen again but i think it will i see how guys look at her shes eye candy but all my friends and some of ... (76 words)

How can I say "I love you" to my ex when I'm dating someone else?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex said he likes being single and he wants to go back to that but we only broke up 3 days ago. I'm dating my best friend right now and it's great so far but I miss my ex. He said that he wants to get back together in a few years. Now he's like "can we just be friends for a ... (162 words)

To gift or not to gift?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently ran into a highschool classmate on line and he and I clicked. We live on opposite ends of the country and I will be traveling to his side in a week. I will be spending part of my trip with him. This will be the first time that he and I have seen each other in 14 ... (90 words)

We're both attracted to each other, but we're both married. What should we do?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age - About 15 years ago, R and I both started work at the same company. He was married, me not. There was instant attraction on both our parts. We don't work in the same dept, so only saw each other occasionally. No real conversation, just hi, how are you I married A about ... (199 words)

Was I wrong for ending things? He's not over his ex!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age - I am 46 years old and have been dating a man 53. He has never been married. His last relationship lasted 7 years she left him suddenly for another man and moved to another state. We have been dating for almost a year. I have asked if that relationship was over with her and ... (283 words)

Why did my ex send me a link, then not respond?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, I havew a question. I have recently split with my BF, and not contacted him at all for 6/7 days. Why did he send me a link to a search engine / toolbar thing on IM on the 6th day of my no contact? then when I responded with ' Thanks' How are you?' he signed ... (97 words)

Can there ever be too much sex?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can there be to much sex in a relationship? I know its bad if you barely do it so i was wondering if it could be bad if you do it alot. Thanks ... (33 words)

His ex is trying to steal him back!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...I'm 16 years old nd I've been dating this guy for about a year nd a few months now but his ex girlfriend I feel is jealous of us nd shes trying to steal him away from me.it's not like he was her first they went out over 5 years ago nd is very frustrating n on top of all ... (89 words)

He's not putting in the effort anymore, should I worry?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I first got with my boyfriend he was the most romantic man I've ever met/known. He used to do the loveliest things for me all the time that used to make me so happy and I totally knew how into me he was. This carried on for almost a year, he had made me things, written me ... (348 words)

Does he fancy me and is he worth pursuing?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is beginning to drive me mad. Where to start? I've known this man pretty much my whole life but we haven't been in constant contact, last year he messaged me saying he was going to be around where I was staying for studying and wanted to meet for a drink. I'm prett... (284 words)

How do I stop fantasies about our relationship and wondering if its serious?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months now, and I've run into a kinda personal issue. It doesn't have anything to do with him, he's perfect, treats me great, and I love him with my all my heart. The problem is I feel like he's the one for me, and since that thought, I've been ... (246 words)

Boyfriend says it's over if I get another tattoo!

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all My boyfriend has told me that he might leave me if i get another tattoo, piercing or modify my body in any way. We have been together for 5 years and i love him dearly. He is very sweet and kind and i do value his opinion on body modification. I was 15 years old... (327 words)

Girlfriend and I have very different sex drives, and the distance is making it worse.

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my girlfriend and i have been together for 5 months. its the first openly gay relationship we have both been in and im the first girl she has slept with. i love this girl more than anything in this world. I have been really ill in hospital, and despite the fact she liv... (326 words)

My flatmate wants me to cheat on my girlfriend. How do I make her stop?

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12 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, ok this may be confusing but i need your advice so please read. i fell head over heels for a female friend of mine that i shared a student flat with about a year ago. i told her how i feel and we had sex on 2 occassions. however, she was totally in denial about her... (331 words)