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writes:I talked with the guy I still like (he used to be interested in me also). We went to homecoming together and it all felt like it was going somewhere. Then tonight, I IMed him and we talked a bit cause he was doing HW. He then told me he had to focus and he'll talk to me later and I told him okay. Then I see him having a conversation with my friend, who is the type of girl he goes for. Apparently he's too busy to talk to me, but is fine having a conversation with her. I may be overreacting but I felt really hurt. This isn't the only time, sometimes he completely ignores me, but then he goes and does things that lead me to believe he is interested. What is going on? Why is he acting like this? Is he interested or am I another playtoy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): He's immature. If he had a genuine interest, he'd be consistent in how he acts. Since he isnt, it highly suggests he's playing a stupid game. Dont pursue this clown.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 If at times he completely ignores you he can't be that interested ,can he ?
A genuine interest is consistent.
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
If he can't figure out how to show serious interest in you, your best move is to pretend like he isn't interested at all. You just end up sitting on and never dealing with all those emotions for something that may all be in your head.
Be single, and be strong in that. If he likes you, let him come around and show it.
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