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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She say's she wants me to grow in my walk with God before we can have a relationship???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a great, pretty girl at my college late this past summer. It felt like there was chemistry from the start, we were talking every day, hanging out a few times a week, texting alot, talking about fun things we could do in the future. It seemed like since every night, she ... (370 words)

I am close to getting married but feel I might be making a BIG mistake

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I thought things were settling down after a recent spate of arguments between us. Here is a bit of background: I've always had a problem with my time management. I try to get around this by just forcing myself to set my watch faster etc. This has always annoyed my fianc... (603 words)

Partner lied about marital status and now I'm pregnant with his child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my "fiance" for over a year now. When we met he informed me of his situation, that he was divorced with 3 children and that he wanted to be with me, marry me etc. Fast forward to now, I am now pregnant with his child and long story short, since being preg... (208 words)

I have fallen in love with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know I will seem like a very selfish person but I need some advice. I am a 28 year old mother of two daughters and I have a wonderful husband who would do ANYTHING for me. He has always been respectful and tried to show his love. He is also a wonderful father. Our marriage ... (284 words)

The only time my b/f is nice is when he's drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 yrs. All of a sudden, we haven't been getting along at all. Seems the only time he's nice, is when he's drunk. Last week, I went out for drinks and a game of pool like I always do with a close guy friend, from out of t... (124 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend three weeks ago .............

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been out for about nearly a year. 5 days before our one year anniversary (bf+gf) i broke up with him. he messaged me the day we broke, that once he gets his life back on track, he'll come back for me again. the reason was because he has been extr... (549 words)

We're supposed to be going to counseling together, but he hasn't went yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - help!! ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 years. we have 3 kids together an have been threw alot!! there has been more downs then up an im currently doing counselling to help me change into a better person. the problem is he is ment to be doing it as well an hasnt yet ... (103 words)

Girlfriend with a friend when she could be with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on this, my girlfriend is swamped with work at the moment, exams at school. Usually I get to see her once a week, I won't get to see her this week and I'm so angry, because right now at this very moment. She is spending time with a friend of hers. I haven't ... (172 words)

Best friend dilemma

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) I don't know if I'm in the right or the wrong here.. My best friends have always been my best friends since nursery, all through primary and now in the academy. They've made new friends and I too have made new friends but we've all somehow managed to stay together as... (321 words)

I just can't get over him, please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I cant seem to get over my ex boyfriend! we broke up nearly 4 months ago and then got bk together but now have been broken up for over a month now! i cant remember any of the bad things that happend between us just the good and i miss him so much! When i try an talk t... (198 words)

Are her actions and remarks sarcastic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age - i have been close friends with a beautiful woman 29 yrs old for 2 years now. i let it slip because of a situation that came up, that i have been in love with her. all was fine till that moment. she said she felt very awkward and i think she is seeing someone else as well. my ... (295 words)

Does my boyfriend think I give rubbish hand jobs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, I was giving my new boyfriend a handjob (the first time I've done it with him) and everytime I got into a rhythm he would grab my hand and change what I was doing, eg. make me go faster or squeeze harder. Does this mean he doesn't like what I was doing??... (53 words)

Is he saying what I want to hear for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, a year ago I started a new weekend job and met this guy. I instantly felt attracted to him, and we started talking. Gradually, we started texting and hanging out after work, and after about a month we kissed. Every time we met up after that we kept kissing, and he was ... (354 words)

Living in fear of in-laws

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got married to my husband last year in march and have been living with his father since. At first his father and I had a good relationship but lately he's changed he's a bit rough. I've talked to my husband about it and he has assured me that it's not because I've done any... (187 words)

Hurt, confused, used

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my ex and i had some easy fix issues in our relationship that never got worked out because when I wanted to talk i was met with attitude. when we were at a dinner date the other day and with her knoledge i was fumbling through her new new phone I noticed a text conversation ... (158 words)

He says he loves me after just 3 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was getting to know my boyfriend for 3months..we chatted on phone and texting non stop.. hes soo sweet..her asked me to be his girlfriend i said yeah..hes told all his friends and family about me.. he wants me to meet everyone and hes really fond of me..he... (247 words)

My friend is after my ex, do I confront him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so my girlfriend and i have been broken up for about 5-6 months now but i still care for her very much. To be honest shes the first thing i think about after i wake up and last thing before i go to sleep. Ive tried to improve my self in every way since. from physically by ... (501 words)

Should I confess to my friend that I love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man of 8 years. The marriage has been OK but not great. Two years ago I started a new job. I met new people in this job and have established some wonderful friendships. One of the people I have met and built a friendship with is a lady that I admire very mu... (197 words)

Could I be the girl he is talking about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy online about 3 or 4months ago. I talk to him all the time. He has recently split up with his other half and has been very down about it, and I have just been a person thats there for him to chat to. He can be quite flirty but he says that he is like that with lots ... (124 words)

My life is a mess and I feel trapped! HELP!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and I just can't DO this anymore. I don't know. I'm so bored, alone. Trapped in my city and I hate it so much. The only thing keeping me going is the promise of going to Univerisy next year, but that's stressing me out and I don't know. I'm just...nothing. My friends ... (289 words)

My girlfriend is hungry for a woman and doesn't want me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is bi-sexual. She got her last experience with a woman 3 years ago. She's hungry for a woman.. she want one badly.. so badly that she does'nt want me anymore! It's been 6 week we had sex and she's saying it's simply cause right now all she want is a woman and men ... (86 words)

She rejected me, is there any way to salvage our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Good evening people! I need some advice here - just like everyone else posting on this website. I've fallen for one of my closest female friends. The rumours were circling around the school were quite rife, so she already /kind of/ knew before I told her. So, I aske... (170 words)

He accuses me of cheating but he's the cheater!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend broke up with me becuz he thought i wuz cheating on hym becuz some one told hym that. but hes cheated on me plenty of times but that doesnt mean i would cheat on hym and would never cheat on hym becuz hes my everything to me and i love hym soo soooo much!!! so plz ... (63 words)

I want to stop my daughter from making a big mistake!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age - My 20 yr old daughter is making the biggest mistake of her life, I know that everyone says kids need to learn by their mistakes and I totally agree but not when it can ruin their future. 5 months ago she came home and told us that she was dating a guy called Paul, he is 36 , ... (290 words)

He has photos of his ex in his album and I don't like it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age - i am in a long distance relationship and have been for over a year, we see each other twice a month 3 to 4 days at a time, he has called me every night since we met. My problem is just last week he began putting photos in his family album and I saw that he included a picture of ... (181 words)

What do men think when they see this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've seen a lot of questions about breats but haven't bumped into something like this: what do you men think when you can see the shape of a womans nipple, like if she's cold and gets hard nipples, or maybe she's not wearing a brassier and u can clearly see them giggle when she ... (67 words)

What does this "free agent" text mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband got a text messages from a female saying," I'm glad you have the same number. free agent?" and another message giving her address. also wrote," free agent?" again. i need to know what does she mean when she saids,"free agent?"... (43 words)

I'm nervous to watch porn with my man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently saw my boyfriend watching porn, he does a few times a week he didn't know that I knew, it bothered me but I decided to ask him if we can watch together, he of course is all for it, the problem is I'm not quit sure how to act, I mean I love sex but it'll just be ... (90 words)

If he has feelings for me, why is he with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this will be long so please bare with me, I need insight fron strangers. Well anyway I have strong feelings for a guy friend. He is a co-worker of mine. He started at my work six months ago. Right away we hit it off and had everything in common. Within weeks we became close ... (652 words)

Bipolar Marble Statue!! How Can I Spark His Wild Child Side Without Scaring His Timid Side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, deep breath. There's this new boy in school (I'm new too) and I'm afraid I've started to really take a liking to him ever since the first day of school. I know this sounds pretty odd, but the first time I've ever saw him, he was staring right back at me. I just knew from... (849 words)

Would he be comparing me to his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all.. I'm really attracted to this friend of mines, he's single and so am I, we usually flirt and all, but that's it (prob because we live on diff states, we met online btw.) Anyways, long story short, he still meets up with his ex of over 1yr to have sex, he claims its ... (84 words)

It seems like only I'm working on our relationship problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age - Split up with my husband 4 months ago, not because we don't love each other any more, in fact we're quite nuts about each other, but because there are many factors we just can't seem to overcome - culture differences, huge age difference which became a problem because of not ... (199 words)

How can I find the right one for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and I have never had a serious relationship. Now, I'm scared because I'm getting older each day and I just can't find him. Boys/men aren't interesting me at all because I can never seem to find anyone that has the same wave of thinking as I do. I am so frustrated and ... (71 words)

Stale relationship, should I try something with this new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Been with my boy for 4 years and a half now. Living alone and not buying the idea of having him move in in my own house. He says he doesn't like some aspects of my personality and, after all these years, I still don't feel him as being "family", if you know what I mean. I love ... (173 words)

Why won't he make a move?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my guy have been dating for just a little over a month. I know he really likes me because he's told me and we've also talked about being more than friends. Everything is going great, the only problem is he won't make a move! Like nothing! I dont understand what the ... (79 words)

Is this usual in Germany?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In fact if I could speak German, I should post it in German agony website... One day, I was travelling in Germany, I went to a kind of pub which looks normal. Some people started to speak with me. One German young guy suddenely asked me to look his eyes then without... (153 words)

When his daughter is here I'm invisible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I hate to be 'one of those women', but I don't understand why I feel this way. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. We both have one child from previous relationships. He a daughter (4) and I a son (3). We have also been living together for about 10 months. ... (394 words)

Should I be concerned about my wife's new friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old guy who is married to a very attractive 24 year old. We have been married for almost 3 years. My wife has reciently made a couple of guy friends at her job, and one of witch she exchanged numbers with. They text back and forth often and reciently they have ... (199 words)

My ex is dating a new guy. Do I have a chance to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I started dating this girl about a year ago and 3 months in I made the mistake of kissing another woman. I was really drunk and it was a huge mistake. After cheating I realized I really didn't want to be with anyone else because it felt so wrong. I did not tell her until ... (246 words)

Why do people say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a bit confused about this people say that the beauty is the eye of the beholder but in this world we tend to look at beauty in a different way; It's been said that people who are beautiful gets the best of everything good grades,raises/promtions,jobs/careers and spouses. ... (184 words)

I am stuck in a situation and do not know how to help myself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a grown up person, divorced with a grown up child and I should know better, but I am stuck in a situation and do not know how to help myself. I know that I should leave him specially at my age I must know better. I think/know he is dating/wining and dining other w... (690 words)

I want to have sex with my wife like in the porn movies

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 1) How to make my wife to blow mine back after I had make love with her btw she always blow mine first before we have sex. I had ask her to but she always said it's very irritating and I told her that's is yours what so irritating I lick hers until she orgasm and she will be ... (137 words)

If I keep acting like this I'm going to lose my best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I've posted on here before about this same problem but I'm still having trouble dealing. I fell for my best friend completely after we slept together a couple of times and I just can't seem to get over it and I'm worried I'm going to end up ruining our friendship.W... (328 words)

He's sneaking around, how is it my fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - After being with my boyfriend for eleven months, we were on the computer together. He was going through emails and I happened to catch a glance at something. Knowing he would flip out if I brought it up that exact second, I wanted to do a little research. After he left ... (282 words)

She says she'll have a better time at the club if I'm not around!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age - What would yo tink if the person you are dating for the last 4 months is adamant that she will have a better time at a club/party if you are not around, and that i should find it "sexy" if she come back and tells me about how much fun she had.... (52 words)

Is he replacing sex with porn after a year?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year in five days. For the last couple of months, I've known about his porn problem. He didn't tell me, I had to find it on the computer one day. There was A LOT of it too. I tried talking to him about it, but the only thing he had to say ... (271 words)

Why do women like sex toys much bigger than real life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend wants a sex toy about 7 inches, maximum 11, and while I do find it arousing, I would rather she not use it every day. She says it's "what she likes", even thought I am actually below average myself as much as I hate to admit it. Am I just beating myself up for ... (64 words)

I'm not sure but I think my friend might be a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Recently another girl and I have become close friends. I thought it was a little strange at first that we are friends at all as we are from different social groups, but we get along really well. She invited me to go camping with her and we did. We were pretty d... (200 words)

How do I get my daughter to see what a jerk her boyfriend really is?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age - I need advice. My daughter has bee dating her boyfriend for 4 months now. She thinks they're serious. He turned 21 a few weeks ago and chose to spend his birthday with another girl...."just a friend"...because she promised (after he and my daughter started dating) she'd take ... (562 words)

He "does not know what he wants", I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! 6 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. I accepted it and he kept on calling me every two weeks for 3 months... when i asked him whats going on he assured me again that "it was over" and a few days later he called me again saying he was sorry and misses me so muc... (335 words)

Why do so many marriages fail?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do marriages fail? So many people get married, and feel that they are marrying their true love, while imagining that they will be together forever. They have relationships where the committment is "iffy" and there are lies and betrayals before marriage, yet they feel tha... (230 words)

I almost caught my b/f having a "crafty tug", how do I tell him I'm not freaked out about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This question could be a bit long and I apologise for that. The situation is, today I came home from work early and when I let myself in the hall I noticed my partner jumped up and switched off the telly really quickly and sat back down again. When I came in I noticed his... (289 words)

it a natural desire not to have my boyfriend go to something like this without me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend's dad invited him to go to a conference that is for dancing. Although the event is not advertised as a place to meet people, the dancing sessions are set up man and woman, so if a single man is there, they will couple him up with a woman to dance with. It is a 3 ... (324 words)

Does it mean he really doesn't love me if he can't respect me enough to tell me the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does it mean he really doesn't love me if he can't respect me enough to tell me the truth? I see lying as a lack of respect. And I have doubts that true love and disrespect can co-exist. People talk about lying to someone to "not hurt them," but I'm having a hard time understa... (114 words)

Ex-boyfriend buys you drinks all night, then makes out with another girl infront of you.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would an ex-bf buy you drinks all night then make out with some girl at the bar almost in front of you? My ex, who broke up with me 8 months ago recently asked me to go out for a drink with him to "catch up". I said "sure" but next week sometimes. Then accidentally, las... (254 words)

Why do people always exclude me? I am a good and nice person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Making friends and connecting with other people has never been easy for me. Even when I think I’m doing well, it turns out I’m not. Recently I met two girls and it was the first time they met each other as well. We went to a coffee shop and talked and laughed a lot. All three ... (161 words)

Friends with benefits, ex or boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for about 3 years..we broke up because he got a job offer overseas...whilst he was there, basically nothing changed, we still spoke everyday and shared everything. After a while as there was no indication that he wanted t get back, i started dating. He ... (127 words)

I'm 30, will my penis grow anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Q I am male age 30 yrs: Q-I am a 30 year old male with a 4 and half inch penis. Will my penis grow anymore? It is correct for sex, If not then what to do ignore me english grammer. What the correct size of women vagina and male Penis pls help and guide. ... (74 words)

Do I bite my lip for the sake of the kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend for over 8yr.yes we have children together,but i notice about 2yr. in we were so different we have nothing in commin just are kids,i stayed so long because we have kid,but i do have love for him,but i am not in love with him,so do i bite my lip for my ... (63 words)

I'm obsessed with b/f's ex but he broke up with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's ex and the funny thing is, he was the one who broke up with her! My bf and I are colleagues working under the same company but different branches and his ex used to work at the same branch as I do. When I first started work, my colleagues wo... (225 words)

How should I reply my ex-girlfriend after her break-up ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex knows the worse thing she can do to me is to break up but she did it all the time. She decided, after one year relationship, to work in a different city. She broke up with me one month ago, then she changed mobile and didn't want to talk to me anymore. Today she sent her... (212 words)

Should we break up for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused with the situation I am in now with my boyfriend. I broke up with him in May because I felt that he was way too overprotective with me..that it always lead to arguments. He kept asking to come back and I always said to give it some time for us to think of what ... (391 words)

I ditched everyone to marry him and then he changed his mind! Now he wants me to drop everything again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i feel so lost and confused i'm not sure of anything anymore . i'm 19 and i just got engaged to my boyfriend of 1 yr and 2 months i'm really young i know but i love him so much he's all I've ever wanted and i can't picture my life with out him .however just recently... (346 words)

After we broke up my ex said we were best friends ... now she's disappeared completely! What changed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've posted about this girl before, see my recent posts for more details, but something is still bothering me very much. Before we were on a "Break" but as of now we're officially broken up. She had a myriad of reasons why. She said I wasn't there for her when her dad died, ... (409 words)

Seriously ill past acquaintance wants to get back in my life again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Now this may seem heartless even merciless if being extreme but this is how it is.... I knew a woman who has 4 children a few years ago. She was living in a refuge and I allowed her into my home to get away sometimes. The thing is...her children were unruly an... (446 words)

Is her love for me as two-faced as her love for her family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Have i mis understood or do i simply walk away? Last night i told my girlfriend of my paranoid jealousy and told her i didn't want her to go to skegness on the 80's weekend with her sister. She told me she would help me and stand by me and support me through councelling. I a... (272 words)

Is he genuine or was that just a bunch of excuses? And why did he reappear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, here's what happened. 6 months ago, i started talking to this guy. I have known him forever. Well...almost 10 years now. I met him when i was 9. We used to play sports in the same country club but we were never closed with each other. It was definitely nice to reconnec... (439 words)

Is there any hope? He wants space!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend since may, we met hit it off right away and saw each other everyday. only 4 weeks after we met he had to move home to where his family was which is about 3 hours total on a train. i left the decision up to him about weather or not to keep seeing ... (570 words)

I Love Him, But Can He Forgive My Past?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two months now (not long huh?) and everything was fine last night. we were out with some friends having a meal and we had an arguement on the way home (i've been staying at his for the best part of a month now) we managed to ... (371 words)

Online guy dropped out of sight, and a month later comes back begging for another chance?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, thanks for taking time to reading my question and looking forward to your answers. I posted a few weeks ago about a guy who I met online. I felt we had a good thing going but he dissapeared on me after two weeks of chatting. Just went quiet after saying he'll be travell... (299 words)

A lost 15 year old

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Moderator's Note: Two questions combined. Soo, I have a crush on this one guy at school, and I thinking I'm actually starting to like him. I only have 1 class with him, so I don't see him often. We hang out with different groups. The only thing we have in common are the teac... (471 words)

We argue alot after sex! Is it because I'm not satisfied?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem in my relationship which is really starting to get to me. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. He is loving, kind and generous. The problem we have is in the bedroom (or so I think). When we meet up, we are physical with each other, ki... (194 words)

Is my body normal?

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8 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi, im 15 years old.I love my body, short,small breasts,wide hips, that stuff. Theres just one thing that bugs me, my clit.i dont know how to explain, but it sticks out like its big.you know what i mean? Its always been like that since i started masterbating a few years ago and ... (112 words)

I want to go out with a boy who's only 11?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this boy who is younger than me by 2 years. i am 13 and he is 11. i really like him and we are now going out but all my friends think its wrong to go out with a boy that is younger than me. i dont know what to do. what should i do?... (57 words)

He cheated on his ex but says he wouldn't cheat on me because "he loves me"

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend cheated on his ex girlfriend twice and he has openly told me. He went on holiday and had sex with a girl while sober. He then lied to his ex girlfriend about it and made up a story about someone kissing him and him not knowing how to respond to cover up about him ... (155 words)

Did I make a huge mistake and push him away?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy Jacob at church and weve been hanging out alot, and i kinda started liking him in the beginning and thought he did too..time went by we started getting to know each other more and more and i felt he really liked me so i kind of told him that i am not sure how he ... (537 words)

If you're questioning if he's the one, then he's probably not, right?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When do you know he's the right one? Or do you? I guess if you're questioning it, he probably is NOT the one?... (23 words)

How can I stop fighting with him and just make him happy?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, now with a man i would like to know what's the best thing to really make him happy? And how do i seriously stop myself from arguing and fighting with him? I love him dearly and i want to make this work but i know the arguing pushes him away... Can you guys and girls please ... (70 words)

Was it ok to do this with my cousin?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really confused. This question was the reason why I made this. Last new years eve my very distant cousin Tyler and I were absolutly best friends. We knew everything about each other and we liked all the same things. Well, we were walking down a street on new years (btw I ... (222 words)

I feel like I was a rebound and she just used me

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8 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend left me and in a few days she started dating a guy she used to date and it's been heartbreaking. I feel like she used me as a rebound or just plain used me. I knew for a fact that I wanted to marry her and I loved her with all my heart and I would always tell ... (148 words)

How do I wait it out without over reacting and chasing him away?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been on a break a week and a half now. He hasn't called or texted much and neither have I. He asked for this break because he feels guilty considering he is still married, but they've been separated over a year and she cheated during their relationship ... (169 words)

I love two men, now what?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I strongly feel you can love more than one guy at the same time, but perhaps you might love one more than the other? I am in a very, very crucial point in my life. I have one many who is desperate for me and the most honest and sincere man a women can find, but we met a little ... (272 words)

My dad cheated and I don't know what to do. help please

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8 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi recently...well actualy last year me and my brother were home while my mom was out of town. me and him were just chillin, me playing guitar and him listening to music. but then he went downstairs and came up and said he heard another woman in my parents bedroom. then he saw ... (218 words)

I get close to them and then the spark is gone?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help i need advice asap please :/ Hi well my problem is me i and the way i treat my guy friends.I am 18 and have yet to have my first boyfriend,but i have a bunch of guy friends and well it has been causing some drama in our tight group.My main problem is that i start getting ... (155 words)

Attraction to my cousin, is it wrong to take it to the next level?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so here goes... when i was a little girl i was introduced to my cousin who was a bit older than me.. i was instantly attracted to him.. as the years went by me and my first cousin wasnt particulary close but .. still when we met up at family occasions there was still this ... (114 words)

The sex is great but I can't stand him!

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my b/f for 5yr. the sex is great,but the rest of the time where together i can not stand him he bothers me,what should i do... (29 words)

She is losing faith in me and I don't know what to do!

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance and I have been engadge for one month, one month ago we were in malysia and bali, it trully was the best holiday that I have ever had. She too agrees.in 20 day of the holiday, we never had a disagreement, argument or anything negative, we both felt like we made the... (491 words)

I think he's rather take my friend to homecoming rather than me!

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Apologies for the longness in advance. This guy that I kind of like (and used to "like" me) asked me to homecoming. Of course I said yes. But what bothers me is that he makes me feel like an option. It may be I'm overreacting but it seemed like everyone was asked so creat... (290 words)

22 year old virgin wishes for a boyfriend

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old female and i never had a boyfriend ever!..also im still a virgin...lame i know..anywayz my super lame situation is getting to me, making me feel bummed out i feel like a freaking loser. i cant get a boyfriend and im still a virgin. no guys around my age is ... (169 words)

Why am I putting up with this from her?

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8 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am going through this meeting up and being overly nice to my ex, she dumped me about 5 months ago now, we see each other about 2-3 times a week, i take her shopping whenever and wherever she wants to go, we are still sleeping with each other. She knows i still love her and at ... (257 words)

Jealousy! How do I stop it?

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8 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So.. I've come here in need of help. For the first time, I'm accepting all my problems as my own faults. I've tried so hard to look into how to becoming less jealous and really, I can't make a connection and get on improving myself and becoming less jealous. Jealousy ruins re... (765 words)

Most Embarrassing thing Said to Date

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What is the most embarrassing thing you have ever said to your date or someone you like?... (17 words)

My ex wants me to be his friend but I don't think I can

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just broke up with my 1.5 years boyfriend. We had so much fun together. I love him a lot. He is really nice boyfriend. The reason we broke up was he can't get over his feeling for the girl that he tried to get 1.5 yrs ago. Actually, the problem arise 1.5yrs ago. The ... (504 words)

Should I tolerate my girlfriend spending time with a guy who likes her?

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8 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Situation: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for over a year and since about 2 months ago she has mentioned how she has made a new guy friend and they have on a number of occasions since been out for drinks, dancing, and dinner (but always with other people to my ... (224 words)

Why is my ex boyfriend rubbing his new girlfriend in my face after 3 weeks?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I will make this as short as I can, because I really need perspective and reassurement, and I appreciate your time. My ex and I broke up faily mutually 2 months ago. We were together for 2 and a half years, and we had a very passionate realtionship. We... (477 words)

How can my wife be so loose when she never had children, and supposedly not much sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

8 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a very personal question, sometimes I am very confused about it. When I got married to my wife, according to her she have not had any man in her life in last seven years. Before that she had only one short relationship(three months). It was seven years ago. When we h... (293 words)

Why do I keep baming myself that its my fault the relationship failed?

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8 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend of four years broke up with me. she is an english teacher and she got 2 master degree, 1 in english n 1 in writing. she is asian which came over to this country more than 30 years ago, she always have great family support. when she was a child, she always have bad ... (1662 words)

How do you know when he likes you or not?

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know exactly when i guy is interested in you or not.. with details what does he say or do t give it off that he may have a crush on you or may like you.??? Also is their something that a guy saids or does for you to get a clue that he does not like you..and does'nt... (71 words)

I don't have a girlfriend and that is what is on my mind most of the time

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8 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - right now things are going alright my grades are pretty good I am in great shape getting pretty cut and have many friends. the only thing I don't have is a girlfriend and thats what's on my mind most of the time. My question is how can I get girls Im attracted to, to... (964 words)

What can I talk about to a guy that is cute but is in a gang??and is not easy to figure out his emotions??

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i just met this guys recently at a friends party and he thought i was cute and i thought he was cute as well. so then the week after that it was his birthday so i sent him a message saying happy birthday, i dont know if you remember me but i just wanted to wish you happy ... (255 words)

She said I was a bad date and she hates me and I don't know why!

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8 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I went to a dance with this girl Im friendly with, at the moment she hates me and wants to avoid me. I have no clue what I did and she won't talk to me. I talked to her took pictures with her and in my fb profile pic she was in there also. Im not that hyper Im really chill ... (424 words)

I don't think we can be together because he doesn't see children in his life and I have a son!

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8 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I fell in love 4 years ago and got my heart broken for the 1st and only time when he cheated on me with someone that worked in the same bar as him. We were both young and not really ready to b serious so I forgave him and we remained friends but everytime we felt ... (507 words)