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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

B/f wants a break until I prove myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - god i dunno , im with my boyfriend nearly a year and it was possibly the best thing i ever done . it really was like he's my bestfriend , he was there through everything and equally in turn , i love his friends, social life and family . i love him . but lately i am having a ... (138 words)

My children want me to try again with my wife but I just want OUT!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was 1000% commited to leaving my marriage. I have filed for Divorce 6 months ago. I am not happy about it. I did not ask for what has happened. My wife, who I have many many past hurts against such as she is very abusive, including physically. She is a control freak and ... (385 words)

Long distance boyfriend cheated and I just feel numb

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two and a half years told me yesterday he cheated on me.the thing is,we have a long distance relationship...we met over the computer and met for the first time in August.it was..an okay trip.i was startled by his appearance and wasn't attracted to him at first ... (376 words)

What does a naked man look like?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I am a teenager. My hormones are all over the place. I have always had more of a physical/emotional attraction to women. But I also like men. I just dont know what I am yet. I know what a woman looks like naked because I see myself in the mirror all the time when I take ... (109 words)

Stretch marks everywhere! What works on them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I weigh around 105 lbs and im around 34C-D. But I have stretchmarks everywhere on my breasts, and I can feel them and see them and I dont like it, is there anything I can do? I have tried Bio-Oil and I stopped using it because I forget to put it on/didnt work anyway. Are ... (85 words)

Is he ignoring me because he doesn't want to be the reason I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in the middle of a finishing a long term relationship, with which we have a beautiful three year old. It has been a very stressful relationship. It has taken me' three years to finish it. He leaves on Wednesday. Over the last year I have become friends with a guy from ... (432 words)

LDR-How do you bear weeks apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 17 and in an LDR, I would just like to ask if anyone else has ever been able to bear weeks apart, because it's starting to make me so sad. ... (34 words)

Been in love for 2 years with her but afraid to tell her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am in love with my best friend and have been for about 2-3 years but over them years we have become very close. But I wanna tell her but as you can see we are both girls . . . but also I don't wanna do anything that might ruin our friendship?? So I don't really no what to ... (66 words)

After sex she has burning sensation,what is this from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is on the pill and everytime we have sex her vagina starts to burn when we are finished is my sperm doing this?... (26 words)

Is it painful for a man to have sex the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - question dear cupid is it painful for a man to have sex for the first time i've still got my forskin just wondering if it will be. because i'm worried it will be. if you can answer my question thank you very much.... (44 words)

Wife is driving me crazy! Can't I have a morning to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is driving me crazy. I have been unemployed for the last few months and finally found a new job that I started last week. When I was off work, I woke up with the kids each morning because I'm a pretty early riser. I would get them ready and drive them to school a... (335 words)

Essay for scholarship, can I write it in First Person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! :) Alright this is pretty basic. I'm writing an essay for a scholarship that I'm applying to. I need to know is it okay to write it in First Person? The topic of the essay is basically What is your greatest hurdle in life and how did you overcome it. It took me a whole day ... (123 words)

I am insecure and it's eating away at my relationship with my BF...how do I fix stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. So, my boyfriend is 22 and I am 20. We have dated for about 4 months. No problems were found until back in late June of this year when he was sitting down and said my ears were big--but then that he liked them. Okay, before I continue I'm just going to say that I ha... (506 words)

Is my husband abusive or is it just me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need an outside opinion of my relationship...I don't know if my husband is abusive or if I an or both or what I'm supposed to do about it!! I feel like I'm losing my mind!! I've been married almost 2 years and we've been separated on and off for one of those years. ... (933 words)

Big questions about living in New York?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i am finishing college soon and i hope some people from Newyork would read this. i dont want to work in my country i would love to spend the sacend half or whats left of my life outside and i want to expraince being in a man with in millions of people in newyork=... (137 words)

He's an alcoholic and I have to get out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age - I have known this man for 38 years and have recently begun a relationship with him 3 years ago. The first 2 1/2 years were inredible. The last 6-8 months have been not so desirable. He is truly an alcoholic. The verbal abuse is abhorent! I love him but want to get out so ... (72 words)

I'm scared to finger myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know the general advice out there is to not try and force anything, but for a while now, I've wanted to try fingering myself. The problem is, when I try, it usually feels tight and uncomfortable and usually I give up before I even get a finger in because it doesn't at all ... (148 words)

Can a girl simply have weak orgasms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always been kind of disappointed with the results when I masturbate. I watch or think about something to put me in the mood and can get to what I think is an orgasm through manual clitoral stimulation only (because I'm not comfortable fingering myself just yet). I mea... (158 words)

Should I wait for him or not! I need your help please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 14 years old almost 15,ive been talking to this guy since febuary and we have had a few ups and downs and since about august we have been really really cloase,we talk on the phone everynight we text eachother everyday,we have told eachother were in love with eachother and ... (169 words)

All of a sudden he's scared of commitment, should I get out now/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started dating about two months ago, the relationship is going pretty fast. We both work interstate for 2 weeks at a time, but we have spent all our time off together. Whilst being at home he told me he wants to meet my family (extended family and all), and i ... (165 words)

What is the best way to approach her and ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known this girl for a long time and we have been friends for a while now. We laugh and cut up in class all the time. Tell each other stories of the past and future. We actually think about that kind of thing, but what is the best way to approach her and ask her out? Any ... (64 words)

I get such a rush looking at this girl who isn't my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29 and in a serious relationship of about 18 months and we live together. It has been a good so far but if im honest not great with many ups and downs and bad times. We have just come out of 4 counseling sessions due to her being unable to cope with my being friends with ... (143 words)

Is he serious when he says he wants a serious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MEN! how would i know when a man is serious when he tells a woman he wants to start a serious relationship? And HOW would i know if he just saying this because he's vulnerable and despaerate to just have someone to be with at that moment and time? HELP! THANK YOU ALL IN ... (57 words)

Why does sex hurt more on my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does sex hurt more when im on my period? It doesn't always hurt the whole time of intercourse, but it does eventually hurt at some point EVERY time. Im more aroused when on my period, but sometimes it even hurts enough to bring tears (i almost never cry, especially from phy... (62 words)

Amazing guy who ticks all my boxes but he's engaged!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really unsure what to do. I have me an amazing guy who basically ticks eveyone of my boxes but he is engaged. I know I should just cut all ties but I can't help thinking that maybe I should see what happens, or am I just setting myself up for a fall?... (53 words)

I hate being so skinny and want to gain weight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to gain weight, but don't know how. Im an 18 yr old female, about 5 ft 2 in and somewhere between 90-98 lbs...the women on both my mothers and fathers side of the family are skinny, petite women. and i have a very fast metabolism. Um, im a Meth addict of nearly 7 ... (233 words)

Why does a guy behave like that & not speak a word&does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so this guy in campus has been making eye contact and smiles but that's just it.he never tried to speak to me.and whenever we looked at each other like for few secs he continues to look until I look away. after that I noticed his friends stare at me,smile and lightly ... (169 words)

Should we tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Laura - my best friend Mike - my boyfriend and my best friend Fabio - Mike's best friend and my good friend Well Laura likes Mike ALOT. She knows that I like him as well and that he likes me. What she doesn't know is that we are going out. Fabio and two others know about ... (90 words)

Is sending me his phone number at 1AM suspicious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

9 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, i hope this is explained clearly enough to make any sense. A guy friend of mine, who used to be a "FWB" sort of, slept with me a few months ago and he's not single. Now i know he wants to do this again, he flirts etc... which i won't do. This part is confusing, we were ... (253 words)

Should I stay in Canada till after I have the baby and then move to the US?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out I am pregnant after visiting my long distance boyfriend. After much discussion we agreed to keep the baby and have now reached the point where we need to decide our next step. While he would like me to leave Canada and join him in the US but I think I ... (190 words)

What am I supposed to think when he gets weird about texting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for about three years now.Though we never texted and spoken only through gmail we've been freinds for the past three years. We had patners during those times though we never told each other. For quite sometime both of us have been single now.He started te... (239 words)

I'm just not sure where I stand in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 8 months. We have gotten closer as the months went by. He used to phone me regularly and we would spend most weekends together unless he has to work. We got on so well, we would laugh, chat for hours. He even told me that he feels I'm 'The one' and ... (317 words)

Guys put off by a 24 year old virgin?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do guys feel put off if a girl is a virgin at 24? I'm pretty shy and lacking in confidence because of being mentally and physically (not sexually) abused when I was younger. I've never told anyone that I'm a virgin because I find it really embarrassing, most of my friends ar... (159 words)

Too difficult to have sex, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are having an issue having sex, she's a virgin and she's really petite. So she told me she wanted to have sex, so i start to touch her and i realize shes really tight, i barely fit my middle finger inside her. so when i try to put my penis inside of her it ... (121 words)

My g/f wants to get intimate while on web cam, I'm not sure how I feel about that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, so I wrote several times on your website, and I would like to thank everybody for the help that you acquired me. So my story is like this I’m with my gf 3 years…and we have a problem I’m on 4 year of university and I’m on this program Erasmus…I travel a lot. So this ... (218 words)

Did my ex get my virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I were discussing our pasts with each other and we can't seem to agree on whether or not I am still a true virgin. Right before my ex and me broke up we did try and have sex, however he is quite large and after getting just a little in, like 2 or 3 inches the ... (108 words)

How did you know he/she was the right person to settle down with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my mid twenties and my boyfriend is almost 30. We both are mature, hard-working adults with steady professional jobs. I am happy with our current status. All of his friends are getting married. We have lived together for about a year and a half and were dating a few ... (275 words)

How do I approach my work colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey i like this girl at work but i dont know how to ask her out... once i asked her she said no... i might think she like me too... but i dont know how to approach her!!... (38 words)

I really think that I'm in love with a friend of mine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really think that im in love with a friend of mine. We talk ALL the time, make each other laugh and we are really close. I told him that i liked him as more then a friend and asked if he liked me in the same way but he said that he wasn't sure wich im sure means that he ... (192 words)

Ex is causing me wedding day blues... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my son when I was 19 as I was finishing my freshman year of college. My baby daddy was 26 and a total dead beat. We had dated for only a year. It's been five years since I gave birth and I'm getting married to the man I should've had my son with. Unfortunately, m... (148 words)

How can I stop being so mean to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex just broke up with me 2 days ago... He says that I'm tooo mean... I love him dearly but what should I do??? I trip on him off of the smallest things... Help!!! I need it badd!!!:( what do I do... We live together still sooo I know that I still have a chance... I just ... (78 words)

Is this worth pursuing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been thinking about telling this guy that I like him and I want to get to know him more. We've only known each other for a few months However, in the past I have been nervous about telling guys that I like them due to the fear of rejection and embarrassment. ... (234 words)

I keep on dreaming that one day she will come back to me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend few months ago. I made many attemps at reconciliation, but non of them work. FINALLY I GAVE UP. She has cut all contacts with me. She has even changed her phone number. She never reflected on my emails which i recently wrote her. She never tries to ... (81 words)

Why did she do that???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - please help!!! my girlfriend and i broke up. we got back together around two weeks later. i begged her to come home even when she was shagging her ex husband whom she is stll liegally married to! the question is.. why do i feel that she cheated? why did she overlook what she ... (101 words)

How do I gain that trust in guys back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here's the deal... Back in the first half of this year, I was in a relationship with this really nice guy. Or at least.. he was nice at the beginning of the relationship. Anyways, long story short.. we crossed boundaries that I never wanted to cross in the first place.... (367 words)

Where art thou Romeo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, I have never had a boyfriend or never had anyone fancy me. I'm popular, outgoing and loving but no one wants to be with me. It's not that I'm not preety and I'm not fat, just ordinary, people say I look like Dani Harmer, along with the thick curly hair. Since I... (161 words)

Subtle flirtation tips needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need some subtle flirtation tips to use tonight on this guy I've fancied for about a month. There is a chance he likes me too but I'm not sure. I'm going out with a group of friends 2nite and he's one of them. Please help!... (49 words)

Husband calls me names that no responsible woman would take!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a husband who is too controling, mean, bitter and heartless. I am not working because we have two kids together and I am the one taking care of them, every day he calls me all kinds of bad names that no responsible lady can take, before and after i had my kids he ... (111 words)

Has anyone ever experienced an ectopic pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went to the emergency room because I had nausea, diahorrea, and leg pain. They told me I was pregnant. All i did was cry. So I made my first prenatal visit and the doctor says he doesn't see a fetus. He then told me he was rushing me to the emergency room. So I'm at the ... (136 words)

What can I do to make this feeling go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well i was bicurious and i fooled around with a girl for the fisrt time, I really enjoyed it but now after its over i feel wrong and "dirty". What can i do to make this feeling go away? I dont understand why i enjoyed it well i was doing it but now feel very bad about it. ... (79 words)

How can I get him to prove to me he cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is confusing me. When I'm with him I know that he cares and that he trusts me, but he has problems putting things into words, I get it and I respect that he is still trying to let himself be vulnerable. But it is starting to get to me. I don't know how to deal with ... (121 words)

Why do I always get so nervous when I go out on a date and how can I calm down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so last night i met this guy through mutual friends. he is really nice and wants to take me out on a date. the only problem is me. every time i go on a date i get extremely anxious before hand. like i cant eat etc. im 21 and i have never been kissed so this contributes to ... (104 words)

I want to be good mates with him again but I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

- Dear all agony aunts and uncles at cupid. i have a slight problem, and i think i know what i need to do, but i would like your advice too. so there's this guy, and i've ALWAYS had a thing for him, and he knew but i don't think he's ever had a thing for me because he never... (199 words)

Why does my mom speak so badly about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I'm 20 years of age and living with my mom as I cannot afford to move out yet - my boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. My boyfriend is very responsable, he pays rent, works, studies at university, owns a car and looks after his parents financia... (320 words)

How to overcome problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been loving one of my best friends, both of us didn't cross our limits) for 7 years. he is all to me but we felt that we cannot convince our parents so we decided to be good friends. suddenly lot of distractions in my life. before 2 years i met with a bitter ... (300 words)

Which is the best choice for the future of my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Which is the best choice for the future of my relationship? I've seen similar questions asked on here, and decided to post b/c of my situation. I regretebly cheated on my long term girlfriend. I now know it was a horrible mistake. She's the woman I want to marry; without ... (267 words)

Would you dump your boyfriend if he had a low/poor sexual experience at the beginning of a long term relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

- I'm 23 and I've only had sex once and that was when in was in my first year at uni. It was pretty simple in that it was just in and out missionary. I haven't slept with anyone since although i am fairly confident when talking to women even ones I find attractive. My real fea... (131 words)

He doesn't want a girlfriend because "things are too crazy"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just wondering.i had a boyfriend,he always saying that he's so lucky for having me.that he want to share his life with me.but why?he broke up wth me,why is it?i thought he loves me,and it's breaking my heart.those promises.why?he said he decided not to have a girlfriend now ... (59 words)

Why can't I keep friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Going off what people tell me, I am a nice person. I am a genuine, trustworthy and kind. I'm not bitchy and I don't talk about people behind their backs I to am fun to be around. I seem to make people laugh even though I am not funny, I'm just very mad and laugh about really s... (340 words)

He broke up, but I don't want to give him up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i had been going out for over 10 months. Everything was going ok untill the second day after he started his couse. The started fine. I sent him a text saying going college will make us hardly see eachother. I got a reply saing we need time apart its not working. He ... (237 words)

I wonder if I am just building false hope for myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, was just wondering if I could get peoples thoughts on this, Theres this guy I met and I have fallin head over heals for him and have done for about 3 months now. But about 2 months ago he started going out with another guy. It wasn't until afterwords I fou... (380 words)

Peoples sudden ability to rip apart ones heart that they loved, one time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How is it so easy for humans to just fucking shred the life and heart out of another in any instance, but im speaking of 2 people as deeply in love as you can get, who stay with each other for along time, one of them starts to lose it, but they do not really fight, they have ... (232 words)

I am crazy about him, is it too soon to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He cooks me dinner, sends me messages saying sweet dreams almost every night and i'm pretty sure he told me the other night while i was half asleep that he "really likes me". I'm crazy about him but haven't wanted to say anything ... (65 words)

Getting a boner just by kissing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy.. i was wondering, is it normal for a boy to get a boner just by kissing the girl? thanks... (21 words)

Did the pill suddenly make my period lighter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I started the microgynon 30 pill last night, i followed the instructions and started on the first day of my period, this morning i noticed i was bleeding as much, cos i usually bleed a lot at night, is it because of the pill? or is there something wrong with me?... (51 words)

Does playing hard to get work on a shy guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy and I have a tiny bit of history, ie one night (just kissing). Anyway now he's acting like a bit of a prat. He is the one that didn't want a relationship, no matter how casual. So the other night we were out together because we have a lot of mutual friends and he ... (168 words)

He slept with a girl while we were broken up, is that cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused with the situation I am in now with my boyfriend. I broke up with him in May because I felt that he was way too overprotective with me..that it always lead to arguments. He kept asking to come back and I always said to give it some time for us to think of what ... (391 words)

How to create a fear of loss in your ex/ does it backfire?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've read the ebook of Matt Hudson "Get him back forever". He writes how to get your ex back by making them jealous via facebook (pictures out partying with friends,writing with other guys, having "massive fun") I know they should think that youre moving on, but doesnt... (97 words)

How do I make this whole thing work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have this guy friend who became slightly more than just a friend. I was never really interested in him, didn't see him as that attractive though other girls seem to be very impressed by him and find him charming... Anyway, somewhere along the way some friends told me ... (643 words)

Smooth? Or hairy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

9 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i was wondering if guys like down there smooth or hairy on woman ?... (14 words)

She said she'd marry me but 3 weeks later she says she wont?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i m 20 yrs old and i propesed a gal of age 22 she was my senior in colldge...after many propses atlast she says yes to me..we were in relationship..and happyli spended time togeder..late night talks,movies,long drives..we spend a very happy time..but after 25 days she msg me ... (73 words)

When he gets near me and try to kiss and look for me all I can imagine is him cheating on me with her !

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I see that i have a lot in common with most of you girls. I just found out that my 1 yr. and half boyfriend who i have a 2 month baby with cheated on me. while he was in Dominican Republic visiting his mother. He left me being a month pregnant and by myself and but i didn't ... (280 words)

I haven't told my mother I'm pregnant but I can't keep it a secret forever!

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heya guys and gals im back agai with another problem for u im pregnent and im a teenager so its a teenage pregentcy my bf`s mom is so happy but i havent told my mom in this case she might be happy for me but then i am going to leave collage wat should i tell my mom i thi... (92 words)

Is my Mom wrong for going behind my back with my kids.

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I wanted to ask this question and hope for many replys so I can show my mom bias views. My mom has underminded me several times when it comes to my children. I have always saw her as my bestest friend ever. I am always honest with her. When I was a child, I saw my ... (1526 words)

How can I get over my 1st love?

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help getting over my ex. We've been together for 2 years. At first he was really nice and sweet but then after a few months he changed. Mostly my fault but also his mothers and his. Anyways we ended up having a baby together and only after 5 months he broke up with me. ... (122 words)

Marriage, Health Concerns, Responsibilities and Frustrations are crushing Me!

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It is going to be long and complicated. I basically wanted to share. In my late twenties and married for three years I have been wanting to pursue my Ph.D. when fate took a devious turn. My parent got ill suddenly with cancer. My parents had to move in with us as they would... (512 words)

I want to coordinated colours with my homecoming date!

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - alright so im going to homecoming dance with this girl that im in love with and well, yeaaa i guess is not only her but me as well cuz im kinda juss whatever bout homecoming..but dont couples usually go matching? like i kinda wanna ask her bout her dress color and all but i ... (90 words)

I think about her every second and its driving me crazy!

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everybody , thanks for the time you re spendin on order to give me some advise , here is my problem , im in a LDR for a long long time , and its been ages since i didnt see my gf, but lately i just cant seem to stop thinking about her, i mean i litterally think about he... (220 words)

How do I get back a person I lost?

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a question i lost a person that i totally love..but i really want to get the person back, im doing the no contact..its been 4months since we been apart,i try to talk to the person but nothing works.?? should i wait more?? i know the person still loves me..but i dont ... (58 words)

My OCD boyfriend is very selfish

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 6 months. He has OCD and everything has to be in specific order with him. He treats me right overall, but throughout the day he says some pretty hurtful things without realizing it. he has poor manners overall and I don't ever dare to disagree with ... (344 words)

I love her but she loves her husband

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey all, just some advice...I'm a single 38 year old male that is in love with my female best friend, that is married. nine years ago her and I met and it was a moment in time I will never forget. I could see that she could see right through me and we just hit it off from that ... (457 words)

(User's Title) The devil exsits ans sleeps next to me

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i know if my husband fathers another child... (10 words)

Is reading body language important?

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I know if this girl in my class really likes me? I don't want to do anything drastic like jump up and ask her. Is reading body language important? I like her a lot too, but I just want to be sure so I can move on and start a relationship. Any help would be greatly ... (59 words)

I am tired of being sad and anger

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am always feeling angry and sad with myself. I sometimes sit here and I cry because I feel angry with myself for not knowing what to do with my life or career. I am always on the internet doing career quizzes trying to find which career is right for me; then I get frustrated ... (145 words)

We have been dating for 5 months but now he says he needs some space and time for himself

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9 October 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months, he is separated for 20 months but the divorce is not final. They have a 3 year old together. We have been seeing each other about 2-3 days a week and have professed our love to each other so... (250 words)

I am in a live in relationship but would like a relationship with another guy

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for about 2 yrs and weve been had a good relationship. There is another guy tho that I had a relationship with (kinda) and we have started to talk again and he's started to invite me to hang out again. My bf doesn't like that because he knows that I ... (162 words)

Do I look fat in this?

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am about 132 and 5'7 3/4". My husband keeps saying that I am fat. Are there any circumstances under which, or cultures in which this would be considered fat? Are there any guys here that consider this proportion too fat for their taste?... (46 words)

He has stopped connecting with me, should I call or email him?

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy from for over 7 years. We met back in college. We had a nice connection, and strong passion between us. I have not heard from him for a while. Should I call him or email him? I have known this guy from for over 7 years. We met back in college, and he’s a t... (464 words)

I have come between two brothers

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help i came in between two brothers :( I met this guy and we became close friends one day he told me he like me but i told him i didn't feel that way about him .so he stop talking to me and we didn't hangout anymore .But then his older brother told me he liked me even before h... (127 words)

I want to know how to approach girls

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello A few weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me a few days before our 1 year anniversary. We are still decent friends and talk frequently. She told me that this weekend she is going on a date and may begin to date. I want to move on and begin dating, but I'm not sure how... (90 words)

My ex said he would meet up with me but keeps putting it off

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9 October 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been talking on and off..i recently asked if he wanted to talk more often and he said ok and that he had no problem with that and i mentioned about meeting soon and he said ok to that as well. It took him about 10 days to call after that..and then i called th... (433 words)

Is it normal for a girl to want to have sex on her period?

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 3 years, we are happy and enjoy a fulfilling sex life. She loves having (unprotected) sex on her period and in fact we have done so regularly almost every month since we started going out. In fact this is when she is at her horniest and 'begs' ... (209 words)

Two girls like me, but will going out with one of them ruin their friendship?

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is girls in my class and they both like me. But I like only one of them and I am afraid if I go out with one I might screw up their friendship. How can i decide? I need help.... (41 words)

Could he just want to be friends or is he trying to build a relationship?

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We are both in relationships but a man whom I met 2 times thru works keeps texting me about everyday life. He text me sometimes several times a day. He is flirty but never crosses a line. Could he just want to be friends or is he trying to build a relationship. This man is so ... (76 words)

I got into a lot of fights with my friend, and now he wont talk to me

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friend got into a lot of stupid fights and now he won't talk to me! I've said sorry and everything, all he keeps saying is "its not your fault." But I still feel like its my fault. So I decided to give him space after that, something happened at home and I was really ... (332 words)

Did I do something to turn him off?

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in Boston right now, met a cool guy. We hung out for a month, then he made a move on me and we've been close since then. I'm leaving Sunday to go back to the UK, we've hung out but he's different. Not as close, he's tired from class which I get. Today I playfully said l... (118 words)

I found out my boyfriend was going to cheat on me!

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, i love him and i do think he loves me were generally very happy, we brokme up for a month in summer and got back together in august, the problem is while we were getting back together he'd been talking to some girl on facebook and i ... (405 words)

B/f dumped me but I can't accept it and don't want to move on!

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have been with my bf for over 10 months 2 weeks ago out of the blue he told me its not working out and he dumps me. I find out that he did not like certain things i did but never went as far as this before. I lied to him for a good reason and other things but i was ... (148 words)

How can I be happy and single?

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - All advice would be much appreciated! I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend, and I think I need to work on myself for now as I keep having crushes and it's distracting me from school. So what do single people do in order to make themselves happy? Single girls or women, ... (63 words)

How can I progress to having sex?

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend takes most of the same college courses in my county local community college, we like each other and visit each other all they time. The farthest I've got is making out. How can I take it a step further and have sex with her? Please help me out with this.... (52 words)

Autism is preventing me from having relationships. Help?

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was diagnosed with Aperger's syndrome when I was a young child. The basic description of that is that you are exceptional at some things and lacking at others. I, for one, have photographic memory. Many people say that they have it, but they usually don't. I can literally ... (293 words)

My male friend is mad at me because I talked to my ex

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A male friend of is mad at me because I had a conversation with my ex-boyfriend today.I quit being friends with my ex about 2 months ago..My ex has called and text,but I havent responded... So my male friend told me just to text him and say I had a boyfriend,and that should ... (136 words)

I need suggestions for a special gift

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. This isn't much of a relationship question but here it goes: My best friend is moving away next year, he's like a brother to me and I'd really like to do something really special for him before he leaves. Whenever we exchange gifts during the holidays we alwa... (121 words)

Open relationship to save a long distance relationship?

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9 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i'm in the forces and soon i'll be going away for 6 month. 3 Months ago i met a girl while i was away with work and have gotten into what seems like a really intense and serious relationship. We seem to have fallen for each other and are talking about moving in with each other. ... (289 words)

I don't want to sleep with my teacher but I did flirt with him

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know there are tons of questions involving students adn teacher sbut i have yet to find an answer. I don't want to sleep with my teacher. Originally i did but i ditched my 6th hour to go to his class because he had a planning period and i am confused. We talked the whole hour ... (108 words)

LDR I don't understand why he can't make more of an effort!

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9 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi am 22 f. I'm in a distance relationship fro 9 months. And I love my guy. We were best frens for 6 months prior to that.We haven't met all this while. For the first 3 months we were just great.Then he got busy and drastically cut down on communication.. that made me feel ... (325 words)