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reader, Griffo  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 If you are having a home dinner, wear a nice dress as though you are going out. It helps to make the moment more special and it's not often that we do this anymore, a tradition almost forgotten.
You may both make the dinner together or you can surprise him when he comes over. A picnic is also nice, find a field where you can eat some cheese and drink some wine under a secluded special tree you both discover, followed by kissing and love making. But the secret is to be chivalrous and mysterious.
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reader, confusoholic  +, writes (20 October 2010):
confusoholic is verified as being by the original poster of the question hmm so it seems that by and large guys don't mind it :D
Ok, i guess i'll cook up something special and think of some other personal stuff:)
thank you, every one :)
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reader, ilikedumplings  +, writes (20 October 2010):
My girlfriend gave me a card on my birthday just this year, but we've been only dating a month before then. I really loved it, I guess it would depend also on the content of the card, because I felt really touched with what she said, and I know I'll treasure it always.
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reader, HotGeek  +, writes (19 October 2010):
My view: anything from the list but a poem.
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reader, confusoholic +, writes (19 October 2010):
confusoholic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo food it is. And can you elaborate on the 'do something sexy' part? :D
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reader, glassblower  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 My boyfriend likes it. He says he'd feel guilty if I bought him anything because he always gets me cards and the like. I hope your next boyfriend is better than your ex and treats you right. :) Best of luck! xoxo 3 glassblower
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reader, Griffo +, writes (19 October 2010):
I think a home made dinner is very sexy. But cards and flowers are usually things that men would give to a woman. I think if you do things that are sexy you may get a better response. For most, women are more emotional beings and men are more physical beings we think of sex a lot so if you do sexy things to make him think of you in a sexy way that would be nice to him for sure
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 October 2010):
Probably amongst the reasons he's an ex. Maybe he just wasn't that great.
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reader, confusoholic +, writes (19 October 2010):
confusoholic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, i was asking this coz my ex bf never used to seem like he liked getting anything which i made...or maybe he was just too materialistic.-_-
Ah well, its worth a shot :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 October 2010):
Amazingly, we do. We never admit it though. That's where the old saying "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" - hence why if you cook something for your boyfriend it will pretty much work. Cards and poems are also treasured, even if it doesn't seem so at times.
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