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writes:my boyfriend thinks that my parents hate him but they don't they just don't like the fact that i hide it from them the first couple weeks then they found out. they took my phone away and said i could never talk to him again until i ran away and after that they accepted him as my boyfriend. but when we hang out at my house my mom gives him the cold shoulder and avoid him not even giving him a chance. he doesn't feel wanted there. my parents don't trust us when we go out so its hard to get away from them. i just wished they all got along i'm so closed to ripping all my hair out. i have no idea what to do and i need help... Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelOfthemoon +, writes (19 October 2010):
First I think you your mom should sit down and talk about what you guys have in your minds. Tell her what you feel and how you feel about everything and ask her to tell you how she feels and why she is acting like that maybe all you guys need is to talk and see what eachother is feelng and come up with a solution. Talk to her. -angelofthemoon
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reader, greg mai +, writes (19 October 2010):
Just be nice and funny. show a lot of respect but don't fake it. Have a conversaton with them. Try to relate. good luck.
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
I hate to tell you this, but parents usually don't get along with the guys that their daughters bring home. It's just the way things go until you reach a certain point in your life.The best things you can do are things that are going to help your parents trust you. If this boyfriend leads to you sneaking out at night, or ditching out on chores, or getting lower grades, they aren't going to like his influence on you.Your best bet is to become a better person with him in your life. Then you can give him credit, and at the very least they will accept the two of you dating.
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