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Does receiving a BJ from many people too often reduce sensitivity?

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Question - (19 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello,

I'm a 35 years old guy who addicted to receiving BJ. Since when I was 23 years, I started receiving BJ from many gay men(I'm a good looking lad). I average getting two to three BJ per week from different guys. From the age of 23 to 28, half of my orgasm came from BJ. Then I met my current boyfriend who addicted to giving BJ. So we're a great match. I stop seeing other guys since I met him. During the first 5 years, we did it two to three times a week. I rarely masturbate. He always drain me before I feel the urge. Everything was great. However in the past couple years, I noticed that I don't get much good feeling from BJ if we do it more than once a week. It almost like my brain gets use to the pleasure from BJ. When I try to release myself from traditional jack off, I get almost no feeling until I orgasm. I checked the head of my penis and was sure that the skin was not thickening and no injure (I'm uncut). Is it possible that my brain got used to the BJ that I've received so much for so long time?

Have anyone had this kind of experience? I still want more than once a week but it's no fun without good sexual feeling. I don't think it's normal for a guy my age to be able to enjoy sexual pleasure once a week.

I'm sorry if my story irritate anyone (the part when I was young and messed with many guys). I've never told this story to anyone except my boyfriend.

Please advice,

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A male reader, Ven United States +, writes (19 October 2010):

If you are talking about getting used to the same kind of stimulation day in and day out, yes it is normal for guys to get used to one kind of experience.

If you mean that you literally have no feeling in your penis until you near orgasm, I suggest you see a doctor.

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