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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive got a boyfried who ive been with nearly three years, we are going to be moving in together in a few weeks time although i have doubts. this is because ive just started a new job where i have met a really lovely guy i cant stop thinking about him but it makes me feel guilty ... (91 words)

I miss her so much! Can I try to get her back again? Can't even imagine my life without her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I were together for close to five years. About 3 years in, after living together for a year, she broke up with me and decided to move out. She said she'd lost that spark and felt like I was taking her for granted. It completely devastated me - I was terribly... (573 words)

Is this wrong or not... what my boyfriend said?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so thursday was me and my boyfriends year anniversary so we went out and had dinner and yesterday was a second part to it we went and saw a scary movie and went to a haunted house well i know he checks out girls cause i see him but last time he saw a group of "hot" girls run ... (128 words)

I just want to tell him to fukc off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i put a post up here before about me going for dinner with the ex, now in it i flirted slightly not too much but he didn make any comment, he wasn't really looking at me to be honest he couldnt wait for me to leave but then he said can i met you sat, i'll ring you during ... (152 words)

He was sending out so many signs he was interested, now he's just shut down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy who goes to my church... He is my good friends older brother (only a year older than me). when she found out i like him, she took my phone from me and texted him from it so that i would have his number cuz i was too afraid to ask. he texted back the next ... (468 words)

In love with my room mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - SO i recently moved into a 4 bedroom townhouse with my 3 roommates. 2 girls 1 boy. John and i had a connection from the minute i first picked him up from the airport. we had talked a couple times over skype and we got along really well. when i picked him up it felt like we`d ... (1270 words)

My fiance got arrested, am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance got into some trouble with the law a few days ago. We are all pretty upset about it, including him. When we went to bail him out of jail, he went straight to his dad and hugged him for minutes and broke down. He hugged me for about 5 seconds and didn't say much to me. ... (253 words)

I think he is only with me because of our baby. How can I be sure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think he is only with me because of our baby. How can I be sure? He in no way shows that he loves me or even cares about my feelings. When I'm angry at him he never apologises and tries to make out like I'm the bad person. He never wants to spend time with me and never puts ... (501 words)

What games are on the zone 60 games console?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this site is for love questions, but I can't seem to find the answer anywhere, and no other website's are any help, and I know I'm very likely to get an answer on here. Does anyone know what games are included on the zone 60 games console? Me and my mum were thinking of ... (61 words)

Aaaah!!! He loves us both!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of a year and I, had been arguing about the fact that he still keeps pictures, on both shoebox and on his laptop of his ex girlfriend. One time, he told me that he love his ex girlfriend and that he will always love her, but that he loves me in a very different ... (210 words)

I hate the thought of him with someone else and I am angry with him for lying to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about three months ago, mainly because our sex life had declined and I had started liking someone else. Since then nothing has happened between me and the other guy, and I have been seeing a lot of my ex boyfriend. We have agreed that we ... (389 words)

Wedding Blues: Maid of Honor who cannot dance, no gift bought yet and other disturbances

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dearest Aunts and Uncles, I'm in a bind. My absolute favorite aunt who is 32 is getting married! I'd love to get her something special. She's a social worker, lives in New York and is down-to-earth :) So I have four problems. She wants me to walk with my best friend (30) and he ... (158 words)

Is it wrong for us to enter into a strictly sexual relationship with each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been in love with a man I know for 20 years. We are both currently in committed relationships, but the opportunity to have a strictly sexual relationship has come up. Neither one of us want to give up our current relationships, we just want our friendship t... (107 words)

Is this considered cheating on my long distance boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this considered cheating on my long distance boyfriend? We are in a LDR in different countries in Europe. We are both in university. I am supposed to go for a walk with a guy I've met recently in my uni. He's fun, I've had dinner with him and his flst mates a couple of t... (185 words)

Does anyone have a boyfriend with a super-hot or successful ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, ladies! I've been reading this site forever, and it's inspired me to write a story for a women's media outlet that I hope will help a lot of girls and women. I'm looking for women who have a boyfriend with an amazing, successful, super-hot ex-girlfriend (maybe she's even an ... (109 words)

Sorry, I called out the wrong name during sex, but hey, you should really meet her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Three years ago, my then-boyfriend called out his college sweetheart's name during sex. I was quite surprised, and of course it totally ruined the moment. Sadly, it happened another time since then - same person, same name. I realize one time, innocent mistake. But tw... (187 words)

Good websites for dating???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - What are some good websites for local online dating that can be used on mobile internet? (I use my cell)... (20 words)

I'm really missing my ex-girlfriend after breaking up with her and realise how good we were for each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really missing my ex-girlfriend after breaking up with her and realise how good we were for each other. Here's my story. I met my girlfriend at 18, she was quite out of my league but we were at university together and just had an amazing chemistry. After chasing... (389 words)

No boyfriend and it hurts...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It's bit confusing for me... actually I'm 18 year old girl with simple and average looks... my problem is that i dont have any boyfriend and I'm really upset with this... I dont know, is there is any problem with me... i have got everything - i m a nice, average looking gal, ... (70 words)

Why won't he admit it??? Are there any MORE lies???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I actually was talking about this on here earlier. The thing is ive been with a guy for almost a year now. Weve had our ups and downs before. After petty breakups for no reasons, we got back together and went to our home town for a visit. We got a hotel room. We got into an ... (223 words)

So sick of my husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - please help ive been married for 5 years, my husband dont cuddle, kiss or have sex with me unless he has been drinking, he goes out to the pub lunch time and comes back when he feels like it and thinks its ok. he constantly complains about my son and does nothing around the ... (101 words)

Can anyone explain this weird phenomenon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Can anyone explain this weird phenomenon? When I was single I had barely gotten any female attention. Now that I'm not single anymore, it's like suddenly they are lining up to hit on me, seduce me, even try to kiss me. Okay mostly they are drunk while they are doing these ... (73 words)

Does that gesture mean "I love you" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, people. I just wanna ask you something.. Ok, first off, let's make things clear: my boyfriend of 15 months doesn't say "I love you" too often. When he does, he says it with a low voice, he's not used to express his feelings, never had a girlfriend before (he's 25 ... (174 words)

How can I encourage him to show his feelings more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm 21 and in my first long relationship and it's almost 6 months now. I'm white and I'm dating an Indian guy who asked me out after getting to know each other at school in chem class. The relationship is secret from his family which i totally respect. A couple weeks into ... (446 words)

I'm so unhappy about the way I look and how my life is going...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, don't know where to start, before writing my problem, I would like to describe about myself, i am a b.tech graduate , after marriage never worked. I gained weight after giving birth (85kgs) never imagined myself in this shape, i look ugly fat, adding to this i don't ha... (136 words)

I would love to have a father figure in my life...

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi 30 Years, I have been struggling with some sort of sexual feelings towards older man above 50 yrs. I was sexually abused between the age of 8-13 years by some of youngsters in my family. Some how managed to come out, at my teenage badly need of father love due to some ... (771 words)

I want to start looking again but I just can't. My heart was broken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My last break up was a year and a half ago and proberbly my worst. I did so much for her and she cheated on me, I suspected and found out on my own. I actually thought i was gonna marry her. Like they always say - lets be fucking friends!i told her to fuck off and we haven't ... (102 words)

How can I stop being a menstrual bitch?!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It's my time of the month at the moment and I am being such a miserable cow. All I want to do it sit on the sofa, watch tv and eat Chinese food and chocolate cake. The worst thing is that I'm being so horrible and mean to my boyfriend. He's so lovely and makes an effort to hel... (209 words)

How do I get my wife to show me affection again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just returned from a deployment from iraq. my wife had an affair with another woman. I have forgiven her for the infidelity but now she will not have sex with me. The other woman is now trying to get my wife to leave me by laying these games. How do I get my wife to show ... (64 words)

I'm really afraid that I will go back to him, which is the last thing I want.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was finally able to end very emotionally abusive relationship. I'm not saying it wasn't any of my fault--I still blame myself for being an enabler and not setting any boundaries with him. He stalked me for a while afterwards and while I think he's stopped (for now), I sti... (166 words)

What would you take from his comment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I finally plucked up the courage to tell a guy (family friend) that I never wanted him to regret or feel guilty about what happened between us years ago and I don't regret it either. He told me the feeling was mutual. I said I will always have a soft spot for him and feel... (254 words)

Why is he doing this after a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks in advance for reading! First, some back story-- a year ago, I was in a FWB/ casual dating type situation with this guy, we'll call him X. After about six weeks, I ended things with him, and started a serious relationship with another guy, A, who I am still with, we live ... (237 words)

Am I being selfish for wanting to start a family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been marred for five months. He is in gradschool and I'm work. We dated for 8 years before our wedding. I would like to have a baby but, he don't want one until schools done and he has a good job. That's like in five years. Thats if he can find a job... W... (68 words)

I slept with a prostitue and it wrecked my love and wrecked my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 4 months ago, the girl I love broke up with me, justifiably, because I hurt her. We had met whilst both studying the same course, and when we got together, she had already been besotted with me for some time. We we're together for about a year, and although things were very ... (1137 words)

How can I keep our relationship a bit challenging without giving him the impression that I'm not interested anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i like says he likes a challenge but shocked me when he told me that he loves me so soon into our relationship. As i think so too, i replied back with "i love you too". How can I keep our relationship a bit challenging without giving him the impression that I'm not ... (61 words)

What to do when your boyfriend comments on his ex's picture?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been together for a month and 9 days so far. He already told me he loved me and i told him i love him too, but yesterday i found out that he commented on some other girls picture. Its not the fact that he commented on her pic, but its just what ... (109 words)

Is masturbation bad???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been looking at some of the things on here and suprisingly loads of people my age masturbate, yet all guys I know do but only a few girls do... why do you think this is coz most of them say its dirty and they just wouldn't because its wrong. I'm confused why they all ... (75 words)

How can I get closer to him... (he has autism)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, Theres this guy i really fancy from a club i go to *Jacob*. he's not down all that often, and when he is, it's never really for more than 2 weeks. anyway, i'm not all that good at flirting, and he's also autistic, so he might not be able to interpret my actions. is ther... (223 words)

Is porno all the same to women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so if a girl finds evidence of her guy using "porn", does it make any difference what kind? like would some swimsuit issues be as bad as an X-rated video? Does the type of content matter? What exactly is porn to you? When people hear the word, they seem to think only of fi... (239 words)

Does my boyfriend love football more than he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is obsessed with football. Absoloutly obbsessed. and many times i think to myself that he loves football waayy much more than he loves me. He's told me he loves me but the truth is, he'd much rather be playing football. How can i connect with him more so he likes... (86 words)

I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Its about a month until my boyfriends birthday (and mine.. because its on the same day) anyway.. I dont know what to get him, ive asked him and he's just told me to get him a football or something .. I probrably will get him a football but i want to get him something else ... (69 words)

Why does he keep bringing up this other girl???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Background information : So there is this guy, I met him when I first moved here. We went through a lot of drama together but then I finally said yes to going out with him. We dated for 5 months and then abruptly ended the relationship. I found out that he had a huge party ... (631 words)

DO women have better sex than men???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner was basically saying in not so many words that I should be jealous that women have better sex than men. I.e. better and longer orgasms. I felt quite annoyed about this, as I had never really thought about it until this conversation. Now I can't get it out of my min... (137 words)

I want him to make me WANT to be his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I'm seeing. Its been going on for about 6 months and we've gotten pretty close (no sex) and he wants me to be his girlfriend but I keep saying no. Not because I'm being difficult but because he doesn't treat me the way I would like a boyfriend to. I know he ISN'T ... (243 words)

Does he just want the physical with me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship with a guy from past ten months.. but everything seems to have changed by now.. earlier he used to be all luvie-duvie, talking to me all night.. but now he wants to sleep early, does not want to listen to what I gotta tell him.. even when he ... (133 words)

Why won't he just leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i was seeing this guy for a few months, i then saw he was quite a jealous person and was after control of me. Slowly i have begun to detatch from him and told him we are not compatible and just to leave it now, as for another thing i dont think we want the same things in ... (120 words)

Should I still try to meet my boyfriend's friend who I liked before I met my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well heres the thing, i have a boyfriend who i really do care about but before i started going out with him i met this other guy, well not exactly met i just saw him and thought he was really cute so i started to like him. Hes my boyfriends friend, and before i started going ... (150 words)

I feel I'm stuck in a rut... Great advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys i recently been having problems in my relationship with my girlfriend. we have been together for about 3 years now we have a 17 month old baby and shes fantastic. the best thing that ever happened to me. the issues i have been having with my girlfriend is... one she ... (327 words)

Help!!! How do I confront her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I have been raised a gentleman and I keep fit playing various sports and going to the gym, so I'm not unattractive. I have been in a relationship for a year now, and I have very strong feelings towards this girl. I have always done ... (176 words)

She said she couldn't return my love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age - I am single. Over the past few years i have grown very close to a workmate who is 15 years younger than me. She is also single. I have fallen in love with her. I told her and she said that although we were best friends she could not return the my love. Understandably I have ... (131 words)

Been dumped but not actually told?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever been in a situation whereby you have been dumped but not actually told and you are given the silent treatment? Me and my boyfriend have not been speaking for a week now due to an argument (my fault), I tried to get in contact but hes ignoring me, now I think its ... (63 words)

He says he loves me yet he's snogged someone else!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya, im 15 and ive been going for my boyfriend for 5 months but a couple of weeks ago he was at his best friend's party and got completely drunk and snogged another girl? but the girl was sober and shes liked him for ages and she pulled him into a room and started kissing him. ... (150 words)

How can I make an income, I'm so tired of being broke!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a full time job but we are always broke 3 days after he gets paid. i cant GO to work because he says he cant handle our 3 kids on his own. i also dont have a computer (i am writing this from my phone). i need to find something i can do from home to make money. im ... (77 words)

How can I get him to see things from my side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a guy in another country. I am planning to go there to see him, because we want to spend time together. The thing is that its cheaper for me to just buy him a ticket to come to my country, but he says he doesn't want me to sacrifice just for him. ... (147 words)

He's making me feel worthless... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old female who is dating a 27 year old man and our relationship to me is going nowhere. he never wants to listen to my feelings or how i feel. he is always right and im always to blame. i had to basically stop talking to my guy friends which i knew since middle ... (126 words)

He's changed since I found out my mum had only a few months to live...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya guys not really sure what im asking for here but ive been on the site a while and have a problem and would like some outside opinions. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months it was the typical started as friends and it grew into love and a relationship. No... (246 words)

I have a 30% chance of living so he dumped me for his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I fell for this man, he was everything to me. I was diagnosed with cancer, which is spreading to my lungs...I have a 30% chance of getting through it...but when I saw messages on Kellen* phone (I was using it because mine was broken) I noticed he had messages from another ... (160 words)

What if we like each other and then cant afford to visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago I met someone online who told me that he liked me about a month ago. I know to be careful on the Internet as people may not be who they say they are, but given the site I met him on, as well as seeing photos and talking through Skype, he seems pretty genuine. We'v... (186 words)

I told him I quit my escort job and now he wants to date me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We met about a year ago in strip club where I was working. He tipped me good and told me that he want to meet me outside of the club. So I gave him my number. He knew I was escorting so he asked to meet. I really liked him so i went to see him. I enjoyed our time together... (295 words)

He asked me to be his FWB buddy and I said yes because I love him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. I'm 14 and I'm in love with one of my best friends (guy). He knows and he says he loves me too. I have known him for ages and we went out for a while too. Then we decided to just be best friends again but we are what he calls ' fuck buddies ' and he has asked me if I will ... (121 words)

I am falling for my ex's cousin!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - For about a week my feelings for one of my closest friends have grown even more. We talk every night on msn because we don't see each other at school and talk for hours on end. And on Tuesday night I wrote on my personal message saying 'your so blind' directing at him, that's ... (327 words)

Help me !! I want peace of mind and happiness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am almost 40 now earning well and feeling settled in life after building my career and struggling to get to this comfortable status. Just when I thought my life begins now... the so called hell broke loose. Pre- marriage : I met my wife during college days. I was 21 a... (1117 words)

My husband said I deserved to get cancer ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had a breast cancer scare and thankfully have just found out that whilst I'm Ill it's not cancer... Phew!! But my husband was really werid and uncaring through the whole thing and the final thing was when the results came back he said " well it would have served y... (160 words)

We want to have sex but what goes where?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with the sweetest guy anyone can get and we are starting to think about sleeping together. He isn't pressuring me into doing anything i don't want to because we made a decision on it together and we arranged a date. The thing is he has never slept with ... (99 words)

Hotel employee keeps hitting on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am staying a season at a bed and breakfast in a very small rural community. The innkeepers' 20 year-old son works for his parents doing odd jobs around the place (maintenance, shuttle driving, etc.), so I have to deal with him pretty often. Every time he comes around, he ... (889 words)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and I haven't heard from him even ... (67 words)

ITs been 14 months and we love each other, so why wont he commit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 14 months. He is 39 and I am 31. He has a little boy age 3 and I have 3 children ages 14,9,9. We accept each others children but he just won't commit in any way. We live separately and his son lives with his mum! We love each other very much ... (76 words)

This site makes me feel worse, not better!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently learned of this site via some friends, as 3 months ago I went through a very bad break-up with The Only Woman I ever loved and still love. And, with my recent introduction to and utilization of this site, I have found that it has only intensified my pain behind the ... (192 words)

I know of somebody who is being unfaithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i know of someone who has been unfaithful to their parner.they live together and have a kid. i dont want to be stuck in the middle of all this but i also dont want to snitch because its i dont want to be involved in all this. so the unfaithful (U) has fallen for (L), the thin... (184 words)

Does anyone have any idea what this discharge could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i stayed with my boyfriend for a week and a half, and as you could imagine there was a lot of sex. Just before he brought me home, the discharge from me was tinted red with blood and i had already had my period and havent bled anymore since, now i've read that when a woman ... (75 words)

I think he likes me but I am not sure ...

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im a 15 yr old girl an i need some advice.ok so me and this guy friend i,ve known for some years have been flirting with each other at school and stuff then he found something i wrote in the back of one of my books with stuff i like about him(ya i write everything im ... (282 words)

I guess this is how heartbreak feels

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - eh I guess I should start with the story first before going straight for the question, seeing it will be confusing if I don't. I have this crush. I have a crush on my teach for two years, he's 26 and I just turned 18, last month. He's always so kind. We were so close with my... (417 words)

My ex asks a lot of questions about my private life ...

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex who i have a child with,asks me alot of questions about me and my private life not just about the child, i was seeing him for around two years.He then left me and got married 3 mounths later.Do you think this is a controll thing or a bit of regret? ... (65 words)

I beleive my ex is stalking me

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been dating this guy wll over an year. Things started to go bad when his child mother came back in his life. She started to cause problems. We resolved our issue and move on. Now months later she back. I accused him on playing on my phone and harassing me. The guy is the only ... (278 words)

My girlfriend wants a threesome but I'm against it!

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I have been going out with my girl friend for about three years now and lately she has been having this urge to have sex with another guy and then another girl (threesome). I am not comfortable with this at all due to various reasons which can/will arise after th... (109 words)

She said she just wanted to be friends but then we made out a lot.

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A couple weeks ago this girl im friends with told me she just wanted to be friends theres more to the story i posted it on here before. So me her and a friend went to a concert and she was touchy feely with with me so i was confuzed and last friday me and her went to another ... (121 words)

I am a little bit scared at meeting her parents!

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok im 14 going on fifteen and im not a virgin but i got a problem. my girlfriend and i just recently got back together we have been together 3 times now but my question is i'm going to meet her parents and im a little bit scared that they wont like me or they will think i am a ... (66 words)

My boyfriend complains that I am not pulling my weight!

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23 October 2010 (F) age 41-50 - My relationship is on the verge of breaking... or I think ...and the sad thing is that I am not sure how to fix it or if it can be fix at all. The thing is that I moved in to another city to be with my bf about a year ago. About 6 months ago, I got a managing position and ... (250 words)

We think she has become an attention whore!

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known my best friends, "Yve" and "Kali" for my entire live. I'm the youngest of our trio however I was always the most "Mother Hen-ish", but as recently as two years ago Yve became much more independant than always clinging onto me. At first I was happy for her, that she... (452 words)

I'm 25! Am I the only virgin out there?

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so im 25 year old female im a virgin and i've never had a real boyfriend. There have been guys that im interested or who are interested in me and i just get very protective of myself. And im the only virgin out of all of my friends and everybody always ask me if i boyfried ... (118 words)

He is a good guy but often bails out on me, tells lies and puts me on the back burner!

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for almost 5 months now (we're both 19). He's a good guy. He means well, and I know he cares about me. The only problem is his lack of maturity. He's a month away from possibly losing his license for a year, and he's yet to send for the paperwork he ... (180 words)

My boyfriend has reneged on giving up weed now that I am pregnant!

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now and over the course of high school and college. Now, we are both out in the real world working full time and building our future together. My boyfriend and I have both smoked pot recreationally, however, i recently found out that ... (422 words)

My married neighbour keeps flashing her cleavage at me!

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My neighbour lady is 36 years old and married. She is always showing her cleavage by bending down in front of me. I don't know it is accidently or not. We are also friends. I likes her very much and wants her. But i don't know if she wants me or not. How can i know that she ... (143 words)

How to approach my teacher once I graduate!

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so here's the deal. i'm an 18 year old student and my teacher is new to the school this year, he's 25 and i think he's amazing! students can't add teachers on online networks so i only have access to info on him from 2-3 years ago on his public myspace. i don't know if ... (205 words)

She is so perfect I wimp out and can't talk to her!

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been falling for this girl for a little while now, she is everything a guy could ever want. pretty like drop dead gorgeous funny smartest person I know even if her grades don't reflect it and she has an amazing voice for singing. today I saw her preform and she ... (481 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I still have nightmares of being sexually abused?

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, my boyfriend and I were talking about our relationship this morning and he asked me what my first time was like. He's my first lover and I didn't know how to answer. It took him four different tries to really...do everything because I was so scared. We ... (193 words)

What should I say when I meet up with my ex?

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been broken up with my ex for a month and a half and in between those months, he has been calling me just cheking upon me, telling me what has been going on with him, basically work and staying home, his family etc. He has even said more than twice, he misses me and ... (167 words)

My boyfriend never climaxes!

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a sex issue. my boyfriend is the type of guy that can last forever in bed. YET, he never comes. he can last two hours and not come. he says that he doesn't care because all he wants to do is pleasure me. i do all these things so that i can make him come, but he just ... (184 words)

Married co-worker keeps staring at me

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am 30 and work in IT. I am married and have a seven year old son. I have always been faithful to my wife (and any previous partners) and will continue to remain. I am trying to figure out what to do about a married female co-worker. Maybe this is all in my head, ... (569 words)

My ex-girlfriend was a compulsive liar, but I still love her!

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have had a compulsive liar of an ex gf and she even went as far as to say her ex bf hung himself. even though we broke up a year ago i have started to love her again and am gettin jealous again that she with other guys even though its just to make me jealous but i need a ... (69 words)

Boyfriend wanted a break and said we may get back together in the future

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guys he needs a break and says we may get back together, but we may not? We had been dating for 14 months and were suppose to be getting married this summer. We broke up about three weeks ago. He had said I was the one for him and I was stuck with him. ... (171 words)

I know my ex wants to date me again but I am confused as to her intentions

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - To recap; -She broke up with me 5 months ago (no cheating or abuse, her reasons for the BU, she wanted to be independent (see if she can be on her own), loved me but wasn't "in love" with me, felt as though we were more roommates, the standard GIGS lines. -We were together... (876 words)

I'm ashamed for people to know that I'm attracted to big women!

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Over the last couple of years I have been very attracted to big women but havent told anyone about it. Its my deepest secret and I have a huge problem with it. I am attracted to all women but there is just something about a big woman that makes me go crazy. When I s... (97 words)

I'm scared to move in with my boyfriend and his father, they are difficult to live with!

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are pregnant and even though i spend the night at his house daily I still don't live with him 100%.Im a little scared to move in cus he's a difficult person to live with, and so is his father.Im scared that if i move in we'll start having problems and ... (62 words)

My marriage is such a mess!

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I get past this, or should I even keep trying? My husband of 21 years had to fly to Texas because my father in law was dying. I had to remain home because of extra expenses of me and the kids. My husband shared a hotel room with his brother, sister, and a woman who is ... (598 words)

I'm 22 and feel I'm getting old. When do people usually find "the one"?

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys, I'm worried that i wont find the right guy. I'm nearly 22 and i feel like my dating life is nearly over. I would probably like to be settled down by 25 and marrying/kids about 30. Ive got a guy in my life, but he tends to invalidate any bad feelings i get and doesnt... (113 words)

Should I tell my mother I am addicted to porn?

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23 October 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I watch a lot of porn and I know I should not but I do because I'm addicted. Should I tell my mom so she can block it? Or do you no ways to become unaddicted ?! Please help!... (41 words)

I'm a senior, should I date a freshman?

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I guess this is more a matter of me conflicted with myself. Last night, a group of us (me, a good friend of mine, his girlfriend and 3 of her friends) wet to a haunted house. Long story short, me and one of her friends spent an awful lot of time together. The only proble... (350 words)

Will my boyfriend notice that I am a virgin?

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23 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 22 yrs old and i'm a virgin by december im going to cabo to be with my bf and he thinks im not a virgin ive masturbated and donde sexual things but never had a man in my life and im freakin out and im scared to be with him will he notice im a virgin?... (57 words)

I am afraid a guy I met online will tell all and the life I have built will crumble

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23 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone heres my problem . i started at a different college for the second time . quite quicky i was put on the rugby team . for many years i had / still am unsure about who i am - seeing as so many people have played cruel mind games on me . i think i am bisex... (327 words)