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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a crush on my cousin and i'm not sure what to do. I'm feeling pretty depressed at the moment, as there was a family party last weekend, and unfortunately, i couldn't go to it because i went to London the week before last, and i'm going away again soon so i couldn't afford to go, as i would have needed a hotel room if i had gone to the party. So i'm feeling really down because i know he went there and i really wanted to see him again. I saw him at my brother's wedding about a couple of months ago and during the reception, we danced together during one song, and as we were dancing, he asked me if i had a man in my life! I said no and he said "no?!", as if he sounded surprised. But he didn't say anything else about it after that, so i'm not sure if he has the same feelings as i do or not. Later in the evening, his mum told me that she thought i looked beautiful, and his dad bought me a drink. At one point, he was stood at the side of me when we were stood near the bar and he was leaning his arm against the bar, so it sort of looked like he had his arm round me but he didn't, if you get what i mean. Do you think that body language could have meant anything? He also told his mum that he had asked me earlier in the evening if i had a man in my life. His mum asked if i did and i said no and she said i should have a boyfriend. Do you think that could have meant anything?It's a shame because we don't live close to one another. We are on each other's friend's lists on facebook, and i'm wondering whether to ask him if he enjoyed the party last weekend, and say i wished i could have been there, and i'd like to ask him if he'd like to meet up sometime, whenever possible, but i dont want to come on too strong. What do you think? Before i saw him this year, i hadn't seen him for 6 years, and i don't want it to be years until i see him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): what do you think i should say to him, ven ?. do you think it's a good idea for me to send him a message asking him if he enjoyed the family party last weekend first, and say i was disappointed that i couldn't go, and perhaps have a chat about when i went to London ?. Hopefully at some point, i'll be able to ask him about us meeting up somewhere too. what do you think of how he acted towards me ?.
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reader, Ven  +, writes (19 October 2010):
So talk to him. The longer you wait the harder it will be to casually pick up conversations with him online.
I will caution you to research the health and legal risks of dating someone that closely related to you.
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