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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Working in a prison, I've fallen in love with a prisoner

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I work in a prison as a librarian and seem to have fallen for a prisoner. He has told me that he likes me. I just don't know what to do. He's out in 6 weeks and seems very geniune about the possibility of us. I havent given too much away to him as to wether i am interested as i ... (219 words)

First cousins, both were with others, but in love with each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and i am in love with my first cousin which is also 22 years old. i live in texas with my boyfriend and two kids and he lives in chicago (no kids). when we were 5 or 6 years old all our family and us lived in mississippi. We got caught kissing by my mom and we ... (290 words)

My new husband just found out he's the father of his ex's baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I dated for almost 2 years before recently getting married. Just a few days after the ceremony, we got a call from his crazy ex girlfriend who had never left us alone the whole time we had been together. She was saying she just had a baby and her boyfriend who ... (327 words)

Why can't insecure people get over they're negative experiences from the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm an insecure person, I have all those symptoms, but I cannot afford professional help so I came here, because I know that you're very helpful. I kind of "discovered" the root of my insecurity, it lays in my past, I've been cheated 2 times, people around me ... (411 words)

I can't stand being single anymore!!!

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I am 17 years old and still in high school. I can't stand being single anymore. I really can't. I have never kissed a girl before never been loved by a girl before I can't take it. I see all these other people getting all this love but for some reason all the girls see me ... (172 words)

I do want a boyfriend, but I'm shy. Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what can I do? Well you see, when ever I get real close to a boy, I wait for him to ask me out. What's wrong with that? The reason why I don't ask him out, first is beacause I don't feel close to him. Is there anything wrong beacause I alway's reject going out with a boy? ... (73 words)

Why is my husband texting this woman so much?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is my husband texting another woman? I looked at his phone and he has texed a lot to lots of people that he works for because he is in charge of training for his company. Most of the people are people that are on his same level in the company and it seems to be harmless ... (254 words)

Why wont he kiss me when we're having sex?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my bf and I have been going out for a month and a half now. And everything, has been going quite well. Though, there is a problem, he wont kiss me when were having sex, or when i give him a blow job. I dont get it, is it me, he use to not be like this, could he have ... (63 words)

My past is destroying my current relationship

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello In the past I have had quite a few relationships that ended badly and im not in good terms with my ex's My last relationship ended because my girlfriend cheated on me then dumped me for her ex that she told me she hated and never told me why. This has affected my sel... (180 words)

Was my timing right asking her out?

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16 October 2010 (M)

age - Am i "lovesick" Hi, back again to give you a follow up, interesting to find that i am still thinking of the old school friend i bumped into, she has certainly had an affect on me, why is it some people you give no farther thought to, she has been on my mind and it is a nice... (214 words)

He's cheating on her with me and she doesn't know, but he doesn't know I KNOW he has a girlfriend!!!

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like my boyfriend but if i say honestly i am with him to have a good time till the end of next year because i dont have much to do and then i will be moving to another country. the problem is that i dont really care what he does but he is cheating on his girlfriend ... (120 words)

What are some of the negative effects that lying to one's partner can have on a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is honesty really the best policy when it comes to one's life partner? I hear people say that it's better to live with one's guilt rather than tell one's partner if there has been a one time betrayal. But wont guilt over lying eventually take a toll on the relationship? Is it ... (135 words)

Are my boyfriend and his sister in love???

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has a sister in a different university who visits him after every two weeks and stays at his place for one week sharing the same bed. her university is in another city, she dresses badly and i got love letters written to my bf from the sister. like i want to spend ... (82 words)

How can I get him to send money over to for our son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I want to ask about husbands natures - does anyone know how to tackle them once you trust them, they dodge you, how to ask for money for my kid and myself while living in Pakistan on vacations and he is living in UK? he is the only son but never received support from ... (168 words)

I just wish I really knew what he felt...

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past year, I've had this relationship with this guy. We started out as friends, and we flirted a lot when we texted and talked online. So he comes to visit one night, we kissed. Every time he came to see me after that, we would go a little further. So we had sex, and... (441 words)

I diverted my phone as I was upset at him but it resulted to more trouble

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to get this off my chest. Let's call him Robert. To make my story short, he was my friend online and he was in a relationship with a girl during that time. I really had no plans to meet him but he surprised me one day when he followed me to a bar. We were friends for... (658 words)

Voice your opinion on giving 12 year old children iPhones and the access to FREE PORN that Safari browser gives them.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age - I would just like to know what parents out there or any one for that matter thinks about the fact that in our society we protect our children from movies with inappropriate sexual content with NC-17 ratings, but we hand them and iPhone as young as age 10 and let them browse the ... (174 words)

How to achieve bigger hips?

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16 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Okay I dont know if its posible but I dont have any hips and i want some.(; How can I make that happen if it possible?... (27 words)

Text interpretation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a text question. So I met this guy last week and we fooled around. That was on a Saturday night. So I get this text Thursday night that says "Still wanna hang out. We need to mess around soon". My response was "OK sure." So then Friday night comes and I am out. I send ... (202 words)

When is my bad luck going to end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when is my bad luck going to end, nothing in my life has been simple. people may say "oh just get over it, your life is what you make it" but nothing i do ends up being simple, i reckon iv gone through more in my 20years of being on this earth then 20 people go through in a ... (926 words)

How to find a girl for our 3some?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are looking to have a threesome and we are excited about it. I'm 21, he's 33. However I have no idea how we can find a girl we both like, who likes us both!! I've been on about every dating site looking for a girl, found nothing so far. We dont go clubbi... (122 words)

I need some help with trust issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - people plz help. i have been in a relationship with this girl for last 3 and a half years and i really love her but the thing is last some days i have been feeling a lot lost and wanting for space.... actually started my masters recently, so new college though not a new... (181 words)

Therapy in books?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am 13 years old. This isnt much of a relationship question, but I desperatly need some answers. Ok, so I have been really depressed and I feel unloved and unwanted and unneeded. So I want to read a really good book. I want to read a fiction book that is about love and ... (99 words)

Am I just seeing what I want to see?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! okay so this is the setting: i am a freshman girl, and i know a boy who is in 8th grade. i think he likes me, but im not very sure. he added me as a friend on facebook, and has commented on almost every status i set. he talks to me thru inbox and chat almost every day and ... (121 words)

Conference Call During Dinner Date Bad, or Wife Overreacting?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age - What's the word out there on a husband who suggests an early dinner to his wife. ; she says she's not very hungry but will keep him company and enjoy a glass of wine. Food is ordered and husband announces he is expecting a phone call. Turns out it's a conference call an... (228 words)

I don't want him to play me... I'd rather play on him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy about a month ago and we were hitting it off pretty well. We were spending every day together. He was sending me flowers, chocolate, took me on lots of dates and never failed to compliment me and tell me how special i was to him and how happy he was that he met me. ... (234 words)

My partner wants to date her admirer!!!

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - HI just want ask some advice what to do, my partner agreed that she going for a date with her admirer, but for the last few weeks she been open all about what they talk, where they been but just lately i heard her saying over the phone, you love then i heard her saying reverse ... (161 words)

Is she interested in me or just making a sale?

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16 October 2010 (M) age 41-50 - Need an opinion from the crowd: I went to see a movie today and afterwards stopped at a jewellery store because I needed to buy a watch. The girl working the counter was very attractive and I found myself chatting with her quite a bit while she filled out paperwork for the watc... (252 words)

Power struggles with mom!

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16 October 2010 (F) - I am in my mid twenties and there seems to be some power struggle with my mom.. she tends to live in the past and still thinks i am 16 even 19 at times. She doesn't spend money on worthless things at all..but i think she has a problem in terms of occassions and giving money to ... (427 words)

I am very much in love with my cousin.

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very much in love with my cousin. i really want to make her mine but she says she does not love me. i tried all the way. first i winked at her ( it was before [proposing her) she just smiled away. is it because she is interested? or she took it as a joke?? i once grabbed ... (216 words)

Have any of you guys dealt with this kind of insecurity and jealousy before?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was recently dating this woman who I felt very strongly for. Unfortunately, she was very insecure. Her ex had cheated on her numerous times. Anyways, she began accusing me of seeing another woman, which wasn't true. Nothing I said to her could convince her. She ended up ... (201 words)

Please I really need some ways to get over a hard break up...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello guys, i really need every single advice and feedback fron you guys. my LDR gf of 2 years and i finished ( we couldnt meet within this 2 years for some reasons ), coz she just disapeared for over 4 days and got bk tellin me that she doesnt need a bf anymore, even though ... (433 words)

Wife wasn't happy about my marriage proposal, what can I do about it now?

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16 October 2010 (M) age 41-50 - Hi there This is a question for men and women! I'm looking forward to get answers from both, male and female! I proposed my now-wife 1 1/2 years ago. She said yes, but was very disappointed by the way I asked. So I asked her a second time because it was her wish. It seems t... (279 words)

He hits me saying its the only way I'll shut up

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16 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi i just would like some advice from someone i have been with my partner for 4years and we have child that is 5months but he is really horrible sometimes and hits me he say it is the only way i will shut up and i feel like i deserved it i want to leave him so much but he s... (108 words)

Mom's abusive boyfriend

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16 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, this isn't a relationship question but i would really like some advice. I live at home with my mum and her boyfriend, my dad left when i was 5. Her boyfriend moved in shortly after he left. Ever since he moved in it has been hell, he is very violent to my mother and as i've ... (130 words)

I would like to know how to get the best out of using lubricant during sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I would like to know how to get the best out of using lubricant during sex. Is it a good idea to add some onto my penis and on the condom before penetration? Will this increase sexual pleasure and help me to cum? Also, I feel very stiff in the upper back. Do you ag... (69 words)

Husband embarrasses me in public!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, my husband and I have been having some trust issues, though not the kind you'd normally think of. With us, it's that if he embarrasses me in public, and I ask him nicely to stop, he won't. He just keeps doing what he's doing, saying "oh, it's okay" or "I'm not ... (155 words)

He's confessed his love for me but... he HAS a girlfriend!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - um yes there's this guy named alex i love him so much but he already has a gf the thing is he tells me he loves me all the time once i asked him why cant i have a bf but you can have a gf and he told me because i wanna be the only one to kiss you, hug you and hold your hand and ... (85 words)

Do I have a chance with Alex?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend ryan has his god brother over all the time, alex. We hang out EVERY weekend together, His god brother is a junior at my school and I am a freshman. He always says flirty comments to me and talks with me, and the class we have near each other always talks to ... (122 words)

I don't do just dumb relationhips, I like it to be serious!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have this guy friend (Erik) and we always flirt and He's an awesome guy. He is kinda mean to most girls but not normally me, Sometimes when were together he grabs my hands and stuff but it's only for a couple of seconds, He is SUCH a good friend, and is ALWAYS there ... (205 words)

He thought I deserved better!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My (ex)boyfriend about 3 days ago. We were about to make 10 months. We had a great relationship until Sept. We work together and our relationship slowly faded out. He told me he needed space to want to miss me. I tried to give him space but we work together about 5-6 days a ... (518 words)

I have a crush on him but don't want it to go any further if we are just going to be friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently got back in touch with an old friend. We live 2 hrs. apart but he's supposed to me moving closer within the next year. I've only seen him twice in the past two years, but have connected on facebook. At first I thought he was just being friendly, but I'm starting ... (262 words)

I find out my boyfriend is a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyy, Well my problem is seriously confusingg so bracee yourselff guys ;] i wrote a letter on here ages ago about a boy called Noah, he wouldnt talk to me? Even though i was almost certain i was inlovee with him. Well for six months more he continued to ignore me and even wors... (630 words)

Ex is going out with a girl who looks like me and has my same name?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm just wondering is it a little weird that my ex boyfriend is going out with a girl with the same first name as me and also kinda looks like me ... (31 words)

Is it a date? Or just friends going out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok my ex and i are friends and i asked him to dinner alone and to go clubbing on friday night to me it was a date and he said yes but now i'm thinking those he think it as two frieds or a date i can't ask him because i do wish to strain whatever you call it.... (59 words)

Should I tell my ex that I feel badly about the way things ended?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really just needed some where to write this, because I just needed to get it off my chest. I dated a girl for a year and a half, it was pretty good most of the time, but I didn't fully put my effort into the relationship like I should have. I am in college and so is see, s... (372 words)

This LDR is just becoming too much for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I was introduced to a girl a few months back by a friend. We got on really well, but she was still seeing this guy, although it had really come to and end with him. I lost contact with her, then she popped up on facebook and told me she'd finished for good with the guy and... (521 words)

I'm so confused by my feelings, dreams..am I a lesbian?

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16 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm very attracted to the female figure, especially very skinny/petite girls (this could just be admiration bc I myself struggle with weight, doesn't necessarily have to be sexual.) And there's this girl I work with who I swear I have a crush on. I mean, I look at the schedule ... (259 words)

I feel like I'm stuck in the past and can't move ahead

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello all i am sorry its a bit long but please help me out my ex broke up with me 8 months ago and she was my first love, it was a 3 year LDR and we never actually felt the distance as we woud talk all the time and she loved me from all her heart and was a sensible and under... (493 words)

How do I forget and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend dumped me three months back and i find it really tough getting over this relationship. tell me what should I be doing to help myself get over her? ... (38 words)

How do I introduce my 12 year old to my new partner?

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16 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - How and when should I introduce my 12 y.o. son to my new partner after my divorce? It has not been long since the divorce, but I have been separated for quite a while, and it is no secret to my ex that I am with someone new. I suspect my son knows too, but I want to ease into ... (82 words)

Am I right to distance myself from cheating HIV+ Ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 years (3 great 2 up and down) is HIV+. I have know this from the start, and accepted it, and we have always practiced safe sex, which lead to there maybe not being as much passion in our sex lives, but I was ok with that and thought he was too. I found o... (288 words)

Has anyone had success in a new relationship with their ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend broke up with me over three months ago and is till have feelings for her and dont like that the misunderstanding that ended our relationship. While i am conflicted on whether or not i should even like her still and hold out till she breaks up with her new boy... (193 words)

The ex: I don't even know if I want her back or is my ego just bruised?

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - should i tell me ex girlfriend how i feel? we broke up 3 months ago for reasons that are honestly just misunderstandings. Ive told her before that she misread me but shes stubborn and just got mad that i didnt care about how she felt. Shes was a good girlfriend, but she had ... (830 words)

Didn't she get the message that its over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - alright long story short i was seeing this girl for a little bit it wasn't anything serious it was mainly for the sex , she enjoyed it i enjoyed it ect ect.. until a week ago i told her that we needed to stop cuz i fancied a girl and we were gonna start going out blah blah ... (124 words)

How to make my ex-girlfriend realise I'm not hooked ?

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend thinks I'm hooked. So she plays emotional games with me even if I don't reply (by email and common friends). She doesn't stop. Makes me insane to know that she may try unexpected things on me all the time. Taking into account that I'm in a different city ... (90 words)

I can't keep being his sexual sidekick when he's got a girlfriend!

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16 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, i need advice pretty badly i guess. For over a year i've liked a male friend and he knows it. He has a girlfriend of nearly a year but had sex with me a few months back. I know what happened was wrong but my only excuse is that i did it because there were feeling there, on ... (154 words)

He wants to be 'just friends' but it's not enough for me

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16 October 2010 (F)

- After 2 years my lover just wants to be friends and im heartbroken.We did have a few fall outs and we always made up but he has had alot on his plate for the last couple of weeks and being stressed out.He said he still loved me but i cant see why he just wants us to be friends ... (75 words)

She doesn't want a relationship now but maybe in the future she will?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've liked this girl for a few months. My friends told me she liked before the summer so I told her i liked her..but she said she didn't feel the same way. We became best friends and got on with things. Then summer started and my friend had a party. I ended up kissing the ... (386 words)

Questions for women who aren't virgins

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - when and why did you decide to lose your virginity? was there a particular event which set you off or was it a logical decision? did you regret losing it the way you did or still have fond memories of it? what went really well/really bad? and if you're reading this and... (90 words)

Doesn't want a relationship, doesn't want to commit, but wants you around all the time?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you call someone who doesn't want a relationship, and doesn't want to commit, but wants to be with you ALL THE TIME? If you're in this situation where you're stuck with this person, and you love her dearly, what do you do? She doesn't want a relationship but you do. ... (53 words)

My married teacher simply by surely flirts on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18, and now a college student. and i was really intersted to know if my former 33 year old teacher when i was in highschool likes me even though he is married with 2 children already. and here's how the story happened.. im 4th year highschool when i got a little bit confused... (497 words)

2 years later and still "Ending things" with his ex-should I be cool with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of nearly 2 and a half years has recently gotten in contact with his ex girlfriend-the most recent ex. Apparently it ended badly and hurt him greatly-she called to apologize and "catch up" the other night, and then he sends her a text the next day saying thanks for ... (147 words)

I'm devastated..ex no longer loves me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 October 2010 (M)

age - my ex told me she no longer loves 4 days ago, iam deverstated,iv not eaten or gone to work iv not been out of the house, and last night i was toil she has been seeing someone befor we split,all i ever done is love her i just can not stop crying, please help me ... (57 words)

How do I ask the shy guy out?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age - question dear cupid i meet this very shy man at my sister's party i was wondering how to ask him out. a friend told me he has not had many girlfriends and very inexperienced with women i was wondering how to ask him out for coffee or tea. he looked very nervous when talking to ... (61 words)

I can't help but want him more that I want to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a junior in high school, and I've known my crush for about a year and a half. We're casual friends--we talk some in school and SOMETIMES, RARELY get together on weekends to study, or VERY RARELY to hang out at a birthday party or something. Sometimes I get the feeling ... (576 words)

I am sick of running into guys that wants sex first and a relatonship later.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 23 years old, College graduate, Full time job, own place.... and a virgin. Pround to be one. But at my age, a virgin is hard to come by. Throughout my life so far I had put finding a boyfriend on the back burner. I wanted to have my own before settling down... (235 words)

My Ex Fiance died and now I'm in love with his brother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my ex fiance for a year and a half. I ended our relationship because he cheated on me. I tried to make it work but my trust and love were gone so I decided in the long run it would be better that we went our separate ways. Neither one of us contacted each other for ... (354 words)

Boyfriend went for drinks with best friend

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid I am dating this guy, we have been going out for a bout 2 months,and he gets along really well with my best friend. But at this time we are having a few problems and we haven't been speaking. But he decided one night to go out for drinks with my best friend,but ... (69 words)

Men like girls who are bald?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always shaved down there. I can't always get the hair completely bald off of the lip area though, so there is always hair though. I recently got in a relationship, and I am kind of worried that the guy might be turned off by a bit of the hair. It's my first relationship ... (73 words)

Am I right to feel insulted by work guy's friendship snub with me to new woman at work?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. There's this guy i work with that i'm really good friends with (or so i thought). We often catch up at lunch or grab a quick coffee during the week a couple of times. This new woman started last month, and she often confides in me. She tells me that this guy talks to her ... (337 words)

Why do we go through periods where we don't talk?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I've had a situation with this guy who is 10 years older than myself. He has had many female friends before and after me. when we met we became really good friends and he told me multiple times that he thought I needed a good guy and that he had temptation problems. It ... (212 words)

I'm dating the wrong gender?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Just recentally got into a amzing relation with lets just say fluffy. He is amzing guy and cool to be around and we always have a blast but i still cant help to think im with the wrong gender....what to do ...........what to do........ (44 words)

I worry my girl might be sexually frustrated

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey. i cant get the thought out of my head that my girlfriend is sexually frustrated. i ask her all the time and assure her that it is better for her to tell me and to not worry about my feelings but she says everythings fine. how can you tell if a girl is sexually frustrat... (78 words)

I feel I should help my family without a price tag attached!

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day my aunt, who is more like my mom, asked my husband and I to help her move with his truck. My husband is telling me to ask "Donna" for gas money because shes using his truck to move. he feels its common courtesy; however, I feel that I should help my own family out ... (67 words)

How can I turn my straight friend bi?

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16 October 2010 (M) age 41-50 - Im bi and I have a friend who is straight but gives me sum gayish hints of bi-curiousness and i want to turn him bi...or just want to have sex/play around with him im a new friend of his ive known him for about a month and a half now and we hang out jogg and watch straight ... (89 words)

I want to get away from my parents

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm feeling a bit odd asking about personal stuff online (which I've never really done before) but it seems like in this situation, a stranger could probably give me better advice than my friends or family. So anyways, here's my problem. Right now, I don't really hav... (675 words)

I feel he doesn't want to be exclusive

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What if ive been dating a guy for 3 months now, tho it doesnt feel like he wants to get exclusive...About 2 weeks ago he said he loved me for the first time...He says it all the time now. I feel like he really means it...So, I took it that we were in a relationship. Right? ... (236 words)

I hope there is still a chance!

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend for 2 years just broke up with me 2 months ago. We are both 23 years old and I can say that we were happy and so much in-love in the first 1 year and 5 months of our relationship.We rarely argue and we care so much for each other. She sleeps in our house at least ... (611 words)

How do I move on so we can start over????

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex- boyfriend and i have been through alot in the 2 years we've been together on and off. i have really bad trust issues, and i think its a big part of us not working out. i've had a lot of people hurt me, and disappoint me, and turn out to do the worst things to me when ... (292 words)

So he tells me he loves me but he has a girlfriend

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i now this boy his name is Alex he says he loves me but only by texting me and telling me but not face to face.so anyway i am in love with him ill do whatever to go out with him.so he tells me he loves me but he already has a girl friend one time i told him y cant i have a bf ... (124 words)

I ruined it with my girlfriend's father!

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now, I know we are sort of young...im 18 shes 17. The point is that I had a great relationship with her father, which was very important to me and very important in keeping the LDR alive. Last summer I had visited her for three ... (313 words)

My girl lost her virginity two weeks ago and its the third time and she still bleeds

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time 3 weeks ago. We didn't use protection and my girlfriend bled pretty heavily. The second time we had sex (about a week after that) she had some bleeding but it was very little. Today we had sex again and this time af... (86 words)

Its been 15 days since ex said he would call me back. What does that mean?

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16 October 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been talking on and off for a year..i recently asked if he wanted to talk more often and he said ok and that he had no problem with that and i mentioned about meeting soon and he said ok to that as well. I even joked saying are you going to disappear now? and ... (575 words)

I was married and dating a younger guy of 20

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I dated a guy who is 15 years younger then me. I was his very first true love (as he said). We started dating when he was 20. The relationship was wonderful as i feel myself young again and wanted him so much. I had a strong sexual attraction to him which regrew int... (859 words)

Why didn't my younger lover come to see me?

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16 October 2010 (F)

I can make an excuse for anything my ex does!

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need to be done with my ex boyfriend, but i just can't be done. i can make an excuse for anything he does. like when my friend committed suicide, he told me it was pry my fault. i kinda figured he said that b/c i told him i was going with another guy2 the funeral. a month... (270 words)

My family blackmailed me!

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister and my brother were blackmailing me because they found out that I was having a romantic relationship with my cousin and they treated me really bad, calling me names and everything. They blackmailed me for revennge with exposing my secret to my mother and it was done ... (201 words)

Sex 2-3X a day? I can't keep up!

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, my girlfriend is a very sexual person, but honestly i cant keep up sometimes, i am not lying when i say we have sex 2-3 times a day and see each other 5-6 times a week and sometimes she wants them 5 minute periods in between and there are times when its too much she clim... (77 words)

Is he not that into me?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy i have been talking to have been friends for 4 years. im now a senior and he just graduated marine corps basic training. he came home last weekend and is leaving next tue. When he came home from basic training i decieded to tell him how i felt and i found out ... (294 words)

I am really confused about liking a girl who has hurt me so much!

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the situation: My girlfriend broke up with me around 3 months ago and im having trouble getting over her. Now, she wasnt perfect. she was insecure, somewhat hypocritical and judgmental at times. but so was I (insecure that is), so i couldnt hold it against her, and whil... (1555 words)

Girlfriend Troubles!

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Q: 1 i need help. i love my girlfriend so damn much, and yes i will admit i have fucked up a few times for example during the beginning of the relationship i had looked at a few girls and made some comments, it has now been 6 months since Ive done anything like that but my girl... (243 words)

Can I trust his wife around my child

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Moderator's Note: Two questions combined. Q: 1I need help and understanding of what I should do. I was in a relationship/affair whatever u wanna call it with a married man. I am now pregnant by him and due next month, and he is also back with his wife. Now his wife knows th... (649 words)

He has to get married soon but I'm not sure that I want to!

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , I met a guy after i went through divorce and was very alone and insecure(2 year back). He had been in similar condition too. i feel in love with him. My conditions improved with time. He proposed me for marriage but since he proposed i am feeling nervous and anxi... (113 words)

How do you use a tampon?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am going to have P.E. soon and i was wondering, how do you use a tampon? also is there a specific age you need to be to wear one because i'm 14.i've looked on some web sites and they don't give a good explanation. so the main thing i'm asking is, how do you put the tampon ... (66 words)

Is it a good thing if he stares at me?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I take the bus to school and my good guy friend rides with me and I fell asleep across from him and then I woke up like 10 secs later and I caught him staring at me. Then the other day my best friend caught him staring at me. I don't know what to make of this. We have been ... (117 words)

He has sex but doesn't make love to me

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16 October 2010 (F)

age - Hi, I'm not sure what i should do here my male friend tells me he likes me very much and we have an intermate relationship and we are not seeing anyone else, but after all these yrs he say as much as he likes me and has feelings for me he cannot make love to me oh we have sex ... (202 words)

I'm insecure and my boyfriend makes it worse!

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I suffer from insecurity but my boyfriend makes it worse. He is always texting other girls or messaging them. And he saw his ex behind my back for coffee. It'd be so easy to move on from him if everything else wasn't so perfect. Him and girls are the only problem in this ... (56 words)

Wife isn't comfortable to do sexual things

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 5 years ,I cum on my wife face a few times only , she never said yes or no even she didn't talk about it ,I would love to cum on her face and make her swallow my load every time we have sex ,I feel it I can't help it i don't know how to do it without ... (144 words)

How do I control my body around girls?

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16 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Too easily aroused because of a specific girl? I've asked questions here a couple of times and i wanted to say that the help you give here is very aprecciated, its not easy to have direct answers face to face in the topics we discuss here, and serious , helpfull ones. ... (193 words)

What do men consider to be a controlling girlfriend?

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16 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for someone's boyfriend to go to the gym with his coworkers who are female (like 1 guy and 3 females?) I don't feel very happy about it, mostly because he is physically attracted (in his words, if he was single, he would like to date one of the girls but I don't ... (125 words)