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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I said no contact but now I want to talk to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up 5 days ago. He says he can't see us as the type to get married, but we are young and I think this is unimportant. I told him not to talk to me and that we couldn't be friends. But now I think I want to try to talk and work things out, because I think ... (133 words)

I have to change my life... help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - hi ive been having an affair for 14 years with a married woman, she has got two children and her husband is a good man who treats her good, but I'm still having this affair and i love her deeply, she says she loves me but she still flirts a lot and i don't think i trust her ... (87 words)

How do you KNOW if it's love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know if its love? I have never been in love, I've had plenty of crushes, but that's not the same thing is it! Yet I have to admit to myself that I cannot get a certain man off my mind. Whenever we meet, he is always teasing me and I always tease him back. Whenev... (489 words)

My girlfriend is a mooch!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and I were in a long distance relationship and she moved in with me about 4 months ago, she has no job dose not go to school and I have to pay for evrything includeing my pot that she smokes, iv bugged her scince day one to get a job and or enroll in school but ... (172 words)

Can he still be put away for his past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am "seeing" a man who just turned 29 and I am about to be 19, I am legal now but I have a problem. My aunt and a few other relatives have a problem with me seeing him and theyre against it. I had sex with him when i was almost 16 and he was 24, they bring this up and ... (85 words)

14 year age gap but lied to my parents there was only 6 years apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old who has recently started work full time and have met someone who I really like but only problem he is 33. He knows that I haven't had sex yet and he respects that and he truely does care for me. The only problem is my family because when I first saw him I ... (116 words)

A girl confused choosing between two guys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This might be a long post, but please bear with me. I have been with my boyfriend for the 5 years. A year after we started going out I moved in with him and his parents since I was living in a little basement, and my boyfriend thought that was not healthy for me so he took me ... (1668 words)

Our hotel break...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I are having a few days together in a hotel for a nice break. Need your advice lads. Shall I suprise him by buying some sexy underwear for it? Reckon he'd like that or think it was silly?... (42 words)

Going away with my boyfriend's family who hardly speak English! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Going away with my boyfriend's family who hardly speak English help? First and foremost this is the problem. My boyfriend is from Congo and my parents are from Jamaica and Ghana My boyfriend and I, his family and his brother girl friend are going to a wedding in Belgium in ... (630 words)

I spoiled Breaking Dawn for her!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) age 26-29 - Well, In school, my friend and I were talking and I gave a small hint that gave a big part of the last book of twilight away, thinking she had read it. I feel horrible about it, and I tried covering up by saying that I haven't read the last book yet. I'm pretty sure she won't ... (131 words)

Reasonably angry or crazy sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has very special ways to just completely enrage me. Normally I am very even tempered but he has a way to just make me lose it! We have been to many sporting events together. We are usually cheering, drinking, having a great time and he then he starts... He sta... (277 words)

Does body buiding exercises stop growth in teens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Does body buiding exercises stop growth in teens?... (8 words)

Wow! Is there such a thing as love at first sight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for a year. I met his friend for the first time 3 months ago. Where we both fell straight in love with each other. Love at first sight. No joke. We've seen each other only twice since, both occasions lots of mutual friends were present. We trade glances at ... (86 words)

We will be separated for one month when I go this trip, reassurance needed!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am leaving my boyfriend of 6 months to go to the other side of the world for a month in 6 weeks time. It was booked and paid for long before I met him. I am absolutely dreading leaving him, I trust him completely but i feel terrible I'll be there on holiday and he will be ... (119 words)

Paranoid thoughts... or is he really cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 6 months but ive always had this suspicion hes still seeing his ex, I know hes still friends with her but i cant think of a way of finding out without saying something which i dont really want to do as if its completely untrue then i'd imagine it ... (91 words)

Hellllp!!!!How much porn is too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've found my boyfriends porn stash on his hard drive. We've been together a year and I know he has always watched porn but it has never bothered me before. I watch it myself and use toys, plus we are both very adventurous in bed! However, it made me really uncomfort... (196 words)

My Swiss beauty...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently I was on a business trip to America attending an exhibition. As part of my work I had to walk around and see what the companies were doing at each booth and find out some info. I walked past one booth in particular and there was an extremely beautiful girl w... (979 words)

Yikes!!! Is he possessed?????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i am very confused about someone right now who goes to my church. i am probably just paranoid but i think he is possessed; maybe. im in a program for teens at church, and i see him there. he stands at the far corner and glares at me every time. he skips the masses and when ... (106 words)

I'm a bit of a novice where sex is concerned... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old girl and have a girlfriend of the same age, I'm soon to be 16 and I think she will want to have sex. Now I don't mind it, it's just, she has had past experience, and I haven't, so I wont really know what I'm doing and I would have to be kind of the 'leader'. ... (98 words)

Is there a relationship between self-worth and the way you are treated in relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there a relationship between self-worth and the way you are treated in relationships? Is it really too much to ask for someone to just be good to you, to not play games, just be honest with you and love you for you? ... (45 words)

Why is he telling people that we aren’t together anymore if he said he wants to make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Me and my ex were together for 5 years and have two wonderful children. Recently we were going through some financial problems that required me to move back home with my parents for the time being, i have moved back with our kids and he stayed back working to ... (489 words)

Masturbatory problem...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have had a problem with masturbation for 20 years and my penis is so small now. i am planning to take some tablets to increase my penis size. is there any way i can stop myself enjaculating before my girlfriend takes off my boxers? i cannot then manage it again as im too ... (75 words)

Do I continue talking to him or what...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years but suddenly we broke up. we were fighting a lot and he told me that we couldn't be together and the best thing for us is to be friends. I didn't want to accept it but i had to. its been about 2 months now since he doesn't ... (120 words)

Which Path to Take?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married 18 years. I have 2 great children ages 13 and 16. I have been an abused spouse. Verbaly, emotionally and physically. We really never got along. My wife left me for another man 10 years ago. We reconciled after a year separation. I came back for the ... (577 words)

1st time sex and bleeding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is it normal for girls to bleed there first time havin sex? should i be worried if its ben happenin longer than an hour?... (24 words)

Does she just want to be friends or is she hinting that her and this dude have an open relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I got this girl's phone number while she was working at a clothing store. Well, we were joking back and forth texting and after a few messages she told me that she has a boyfriend. I made a joke about him beating me up if I tried to get her autograph because she said she was ... (134 words)

We've been together for 3 years but we've never had sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for three years now. As a partner he is wonderful, he respects me, he is loyal and we love to spend time together. I am 25 and he is almost 40. He is my first serious relationship and I have not had sex with anyone. However one thing has cloude... (403 words)

Is my spouse hiding something???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Your spouse says they need their privacy and has a password on their computer account that they won't give you. Does this mean they are hiding something or is it harmless?... (32 words)

Shouldn't I be a little more over her by now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help. My ex and I of 3 years broke up in dec. She started dating a highschool friend immediately after. We continued talking, hooked up a few times 3 months later, talked about getting back together and "hung out" multiple times between then and may. She even said she ... (250 words)

Why does my boyfriend act so differently in front of his friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok my boyfriend always seems to act different when hes with his friends. it really annoys me but i dont have the guts to say anything becuz i think he might get mad. should i keep quiet or speak up? ... (40 words)

He just cut me off...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was going out with a guy a year, he was my best friend and we were so in love. In the Summer we had a few fights, he moved away and starting acting different (saying he cant take me out for meals etc and started to making things "his way" and I didnt like it) i stood up for ... (281 words)

My husband wants me to dress up sexy for a halloween party...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My husband wants me to dress up very sexy for a Halloween party this year. He wants me to be a german beer girl. He has the costume all picked out, even down to the lace panties he wants me to wear. The costume is very provocative: it shows a lot of cleavage and then some due ... (145 words)

This other man gives me life again...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I married my best friend 15 years ago (we were both 18) and we've since had three kids. Our two oldest are 12 (fraternal twins) and our youngest is 9. Recently, I've been having feelings of doubt for our marriage; these feelings came about when I met up with an old friend of ... (277 words)

Too soon to rush into marriage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in a relationship with a girl. We're both 23 (in 2010). The problem is that her family will try and get her married not after 25 or 26 years of age but i will still be pursuing my higher studies at that age and so wont be able to talk about our relationship at home ... (106 words)

He wants me to go and see him... should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I had argument with my boyfriend and stopped talking to him for couple of days. I went to a party at that time and a guy was very interested on me. I gave my number then told my friend who told him this story. After days she told him and he was obsessed then started telling ... (137 words)

This is normal right...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i had sex with my boyfriend and when we were done i went to the bathroom and i was bleeding. this is normal right? how long does the bleeding go on for? ... (33 words)

Stay at home mom who feels down and lonely...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 5 years, i got married at a really young age - 18, now i am 23. i love my husband and i really trust him but i have seen stuff that i can't stop thinking about, i have talked to him over and over about it but it seems i cant get over the fact he lied ... (404 words)

Would I just be annoying her if I continued to pursue her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am starting to find that I have no luck at all. There's a girl I have a thing for and as it would happen she had a thing for me (yes this sounds like luck but wait for it) however the day we hung out and she liked me was also the same day I found out I had a serious medical ... (374 words)

Why can I not get him out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i have known a guy i work with for about 6 years, we all use to go out a lot in a crowd etc now he has always cheated on his girlfriend for years but still stays with her, i have always just been mates he works with me and last year we got very flirty and he always asked how ... (375 words)

Sex was so fun, I don't regret it but now I"m 14 & pregnant!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im under 16 and pregnant. Let me fill you in, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now since I was 12,i'm 14 now. Anyway, we were celebrating our 2 year anniversary by going for dinner then a movie at his. When we finished our dinner we walked home hand in hand. ... (106 words)

Pregnant and the father says there is no way we can have it!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20, and i have just found out im pregnant, the father wants a abortion and we arent together. I have a full time apprenticeship job, which is a really good career. But the thought of killing my baby makes me sick, the father says theres no way we can have it. I dont know ... (58 words)

My little 7 year old daughter has turned nasty. What can be done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,can anyone help.My 7 yr old daughter who is usually a happy little child,has turned into an moody arguementative and basically nasty.She has just started junior school and i have a feeling it could be this.She has been split up from all her friends.She seems to have little ... (138 words)

Do you always have a thing for your first love...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi DC, Just a general post from something that I saw on TV the other nite about a couple who reunited after 40yrs apart (leaving thier respective partners/families) Do you always have a thing for your 1st love? Is the expression "1st Love never dies true?" Has anyone ... (101 words)

B/f says he's over his ex but I don't believe him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating for almost a month now. He says he is over his ex, but I doubt it. He's a really nice, sweet, caring guy but sometimes I feel like he lies to me. He still talks to his ex ( she has a boyfriend). They broke up about 2 weeks before we started dating ... (119 words)

Torn between love for husband and older 1st love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was 13 I fell in love with a 26 year old man we had sex and my parents threw him in jail even though we were madly in love so life went on and I got married had 4 children and 20 years passed I found the much older first love on my space recently we still feel a strong ... (89 words)

He stares at me alll the time,and doesn't admit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's a boy in my School that stares at me allot,i've already asmed him why and he told me he stares at girls he likes and think they're pretty. We decided to meet on Sunday i should pick him up at his house, his sis said he wasn't there. Next day i called him and asked ... (226 words)

Do men like imperfect breasts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I just got done reading on of the questions on here about if men are surprised by the look of a womans breasts when they take there bra off so now I have a question of my own I'm 33 have had 4 kids and I have 36 D breasts so they are heavy and sag in my opinion they are ... (88 words)

Sex with my wife is just going through the motions for her..why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age - I have been married to my wife for 25 years and over the last 5 years or so sex has become at best sporadic. My wife, as opposed to me, has never had a particularly high sex drive, but it is getting to the stage now that sex is so infrequent that my frustrations are just ... (313 words)

Husband has photos of his ex on computer for his "spank bank"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married to my husband for 5 yrs.. We have two sons who are 5 and 1. Shortly after our first son was born, my sister in law told me that an ex girlfriend of my husbands had spread a rumor around (months before) that they had slept together. While the ex was saying ... (393 words)

Why is my ex going to such lengths to make my life difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused as to why my ex would be ringing and sending explicit pics to someone i was seeing for less than 2 weeks,this person now believes it is me who is doing these crazy weird things as everything he receives has my name attached,my ex has also tried to ruin my ... (176 words)

Searching for tranny porn..is he gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with porn. I just recently learned he watches tranny porn...actually searches for it!!! What does this mean?? He's never showed any signs of being gay.Is this some sick sex addiction?... (36 words)

Relationships vs. one night stands

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Why will a woman hook up with some random guy she meets at a club or a bar, but when that woman gets into a relationship, wait and take it slow with the boyfriend?... (34 words)

One night stands pretty common now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question. Are one night stands pretty standard these days? I saw where the stats said that 45% have had one, and I'm wondering if the percentage would be a lot higher amongst 20 somethings.... (39 words)

Boyfriend used to use Escorts, should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Just looking for a little advice and input from others, especially other women. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend(33) for 6 months now although we've been seein each other for 9 and basically live together at his place although I have my own apartment. after the first 4 ... (846 words)

What should I do? How should I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - this man i been dealing with for about 2 months make me fel so good and happy i wanna spend all my time with him and i want him to spend all his time with me, we like being with each other and it may sound wrong but he been staying the night for about a week in a half. i havent ... (193 words)

Does she like me, despite only having broken up with her ex 5 days ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently a girl who i know from work (She left that job some months ago but we stayed in touch) broke up with her boyfriend of 2years. Then less than 5 days later she starts texting me and speaking to me on facebook a hell of a lot more than she used to, and before long we had ... (220 words)

Am I looking way too much into her text? Or is she giving me an opportunity to call her and talk?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey: My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago because I was studying for my medical boards (the 6 months prior) and she grew apart due to the time away (saw her once a month during that time and very stressful for me). The last time we spoke (two weeks ago) I ... (449 words)

I want to be with him, but I don't want to be obvious about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with a guy for 3 years, and we broke up in February. In the beginning we loved each other, but there was a lot of arguing throughout. That is why within those 3 years, I broke up with him three times because I was not happy and I thought I could find better. He tried ... (265 words)

Why is his friend causing problems for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My man and I have been together for over 5 years and everything is perfect between us; apart from his friend who is causing friction for us! Will call him Mr. X My man met Mr. X who is 40 yrs old nearly 2½ years ago when they started working together (and still do to this... (717 words)

Is it over because I didn't visit him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Guys, The reason why Iam writing maybe I wanna feel myself relieved.. Here is what happens, we had some problems with my bf of 1 year.. then he had surgery and stayed there 3 days.. I just got a new job and had school I was so busy that I couldnt make it. thats why I se... (323 words)

His ex is getting in the way of our relationship.

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had problems with my boyfriend calling other women, is it right or am i being possesive?lately his ex called him and though at some point he even gave me the phone to talk to her, i still feel bad maybe she might go on calling and this will revive their love... ... (97 words)

How can you do everything right and still get shafted???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I really don't know what to say right now except that my heart is breaking. I'm a very passionate person and much like a Wolf if given the opportunity I will love you forever. After taking a break, which was in her words not supposed to be permanent, my ex finally told me that ... (556 words)

How can I make my marriage better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i have been together for 2 years and a half, since 1 year ago we have been having some problems, we are coming from diferents cultures and have different ways to see life, i know he loves me and i love him with all my life but there is something that is breaking ... (82 words)

Do I end my marriage or keep letting him destroy my self esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 41 years old, my husband and I have been married for 6 years, I knew when we got married he was into porn but thought he had gotten better, but here recently he got a new cell phone, and every time I look, when he's not expecting me to, its always some kind porn site, funny ... (122 words)

My boyfriend wants a ''threesome''!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He's lovely and I love him so much. I lost my virginity to him and want him to be the only one in my life. Few months ago, he said something that hurt me. He said ''what do you think about the idea of a threesome?!'' Y... (275 words)

He expected me to leave my husband for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is the situation: I took some distance from a friendship that was turning into somewhat of an emotional affair some months ago after asking your advice. I wrote the friend explaining how I felt and that the best thing would be to not have frequent contact. I also added ... (445 words)

This is not how a loving relationship is meant to be... is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm not happy about our relationship, she always seems mad or angry when I come home. Seems like all we do is live together. She said its not me, but it cant always be the kids either. We kiss like we kiss our mothers, just a quick peck. She always seems to pull away from me! ... (382 words)

Yay or nay to a threesome???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I been together for over 5 years. The sex is great but now I find myself wanting a female, not sure but big breasts are a realy hot turn on for me now? How can I get my boyfriend to agree????... (46 words)

Can I safely assume this is just friendly banter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - My son has just started a new school and being taken by taxi to it. The taxi driver seems very friendly and over the last few weeks he seems to be more interested in poking fun at me, winding me up. He told my son that he was going to tease me and jokes that all women are ma... (359 words)

B/f wants to have sex, I want to wait till marriage but am afraid of losing him!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I disagree and he seems disappointed about it. He has been pushing for it during our last make out. I am afraid that one day our relationship will be spoil because of my rejection to have sex with him. I told him I wanted to save it ... (93 words)

Asking out a friend? Worried about it ruining the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear DC readers, I am in a difficult situation at the moment. I know a friend for roughly a year now and I really enjoy her company. In my eyes she is really beautiful and a wonderful being. I really like her and love her so much as a person, and there are hints that she a... (143 words)

I don't want to be second best

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Folks, I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I love him completely- we are very happy. Despite this- I find I am becoming increasingly obsessed with his ex wife, the fact that he has been married before me and nothing is 'new' for him. He says things ... (161 words)

My appearance has changed since I last seen this friend and now I'm afraid for him to see me!

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5 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Hello all, So here goes, I just wanted to ask your opinion on this. Recently I was contacted by a long lost friend, I haven't seen this guy for over seven years. We were very young when we used to hang out. Anyways he wants to catch up face to face, but this is causing ... (166 words)

I blocked my b/f on facebook, will he be upset about it?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants me to give him space, we have been through quite a lot together emotionally and the last time we had a break i found it incredibly difficult to not talk to him. my friends told me i should block him on fb just to give me a peace of mind since i cant stop ... (139 words)

Why doesn't my family realize I'm growing up and not a child?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents are asking too much of me, they took away my internet upstairs after many long years of having my own laptop in my own room, they take away my ATM card (I earn enough money to buy stuff they normally wouldn't.) They take away everything I have. And make me sit ... (277 words)

Is it wrong to date someone younger?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i just wanna know is it wrong to date a guy younger then me cause he is turning 21 in 3 weeks time and im 28 but we love each other very much....... (34 words)

Bad financial situation and she wants me to leave because I won't give her a "fairy tale" wedding!

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5 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 21 years old my fiance is 22 years old. We have been together for 4 years engaged 2 years. Recently we moved from salt lake to phoenix. kind of a spur of the moment thing no job yada yada yada. But It has put alot of stress on our relationship. We also have a 9 mo... (447 words)

Did he like me? Or just like staring at me?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 21 year old girl,i met a guy (he is 26) at my work place ( its a very small company with 15+ employees , he is the owner of the company),our cabin is very small one ... from the dayone i joined the company, i found this guy starring at me. He used to stand close to me ... (481 words)

There's something about me that attracts bullies!

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been the victim of bullying so often in my life, especially in my working life, that I've lost count. There's something about me that attracts bullies like flies to shit! I am an extremely honest and hard working person. I'm not a religious person, but I live my life ... (1162 words)

Will first time sex be so painful that I won't want to do it again?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone,im a 15 yr old girl and my boyfriend and i who have been together for 3 yrs (hes 16) want to take our relationship to a more sexual level.not exactly now but sometime in the near future.we're ready now but we're trying to wait till we are a little older. i just have ... (120 words)

Ideas on how to approach a stranger to start a friendhship?

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5 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles/And everyone else, I am painfully shy, and I am already 21. I have only been in one relationship and that was with a girl, the problem with that is that I am gay. And so in that relationship back in the day there was no conventional relation... (473 words)

Should I go back to my husband or divorce him?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am age 39 married for 11yrs with a men who was fine till we had monetary problem. Due to this problem we decided to work in different countries and earn , leaving behind our daughter under my mothers care. Since past 2 and half years he has become less and less ... (259 words)

Am I wrong for feeling this way? Am I over reacting?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is divorced with a 2 year old. He asked me to go to his mom by the coast for a holiday 2 months ago, and while we were there, and when we got back, he asked if I was keen to go down again in December and spend christmas with his family. I said I would and was so ... (288 words)

What are the important things to feel in a long term relationship?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think are important things to feel in a long term relationship for it to stay strong and work well for a long time? I feel content with my boyfriend. As well as happy, stable, comfortable, loved, fulfilled and open. There's a lot of trust and understanding be... (96 words)

Is it ok to be in love with a married man 13 years my senior?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i opened this account to just ask...that is it ok if iam in love with a married man who is aroung 13...14 yrs older thn me. i love him so much...we talk on phone..he says he loves me and he loves his wife also...its driving me nuts...plz help!!!!11... (49 words)

My friend told a guy she likes him but he doesn't reciprocate, despite acting like a couple sometimes! What do I tell her?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been talking to my friend about her relationship problems, and usually I know what to tell her, but for her case, I really don't know what to do. Basically, she told him that she liked him, but he doesn't like her that way, but they're still friends.... (111 words)

Did I do the right thing?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help i have a guy situation. Well ill start off saying im a young girl and i like older guys because i assume they would treat me better and have more values. Well i was dateing this guy back in december to febuary and after we broke up i started hanging out with his ... (215 words)

Torn between my husband and my ex......

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My first true love and I recently reconnected. 10 years ago I had a burning desire to move to California. It was a dream I always had and nothing was going to stop me. My ex and I were on and off and when I decided to move we were not together so I had nothing holding me ... (376 words)

How can she expect me to tell her what I feel and how I feel if she's all aggressive about it?

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5 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - To the point: Sometimes, when I feel horny, I might send her tips about it, like a suggestive text message. But she always takes it the wrong way! Like, she thinks I'm always thinking about it, but I don't, I really don't. Especially when I must have my mind set on my stud... (570 words)

Should I tell him I like him? Or find out if he likes me first?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I reaaally, reeallly, REALLY like this guy in my homeroom. He is like wicked cute and funny and he says hi to me sometimes! I was sitting in homeroom today right before the bell rang for school to start and I happened to look over at him. I gave him a kinda smile and then he ... (179 words)

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... Well first off I need help and want to know if a Certain teacher likes me. Let's call him Mr.B. Anyways I'm 16 junior and there's a teacher who I've known for quite a while I've had him for 2 years and ive known him since I was in 6th grade. He was also my track co... (378 words)

My female friend calls me late at night and talks for hours, does this mean she is gay?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age - ok, am a female and i have a ladyfriend that was married,now she's not. and she calls me late at night and we talk for hours about everything.do this mean she is gay or what..i been thinking!!... (37 words)

Should I divorce him?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - from start need your suggestion, should i take a 2nd divorce, listed below things I had got in my marriage of 1 year He never wanted to get married to me, kept on finding lame excuses He was thrown from his job because of sexual harassment He did not want to get married... (583 words)

Should I really just let go?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Bear with me, this is the short version... The last two months I have been "dating" this girl. She recently got out of a year marriage, and when they finally split, we instantly hooked up. During her birthday part this past summer that was at my house, we ended up sleep... (530 words)

Can my boyfriend force me to give up our child?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and I might be pregnant. I've only ever been with one guy (my bf of a year and a half) and I've always told him that if I got pregnant by accident, the only option for me would be to keep it. I've scheduled a doctor's appt to find out for sure, but my bf has ... (271 words)

How can I get my mum to back off? She is so over-protective!

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother is obsessive and calls me literally 20 times in a 5 hour period if I go out to meet friends, even if I do answer. I don't get it, I don't do anything I shouldn't and rarely even drink, and I've repeatedly proven I can be trusted. In spite of that, she bitches at me ... (277 words)

He is angry with me for being fascinated by this girl! What do I do?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I told the man I was seeing about a girl who "captured my curiosity." He listened to me describe her for a while without saying anything. But, when I was done, his voice sounded sarcastic and over-polite. It can't be jealousy, I don't think he cares for me enough to feel that ... (147 words)

Brown discharge for 2 weeks and still continuing

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So Ive been having this brown discharge for 2, almost 3 weeks and Im not really sure why. It started right after my period. After about 5 or 6 days, I realized I wasn't really bleeding anymore, I was having brown discharge. I am sexually active and I dont know if it's maybe ... (79 words)

Advice on boyfriend's porn.....

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve been with this guy for almost ten years in a serious relationship and he is wonderful on many levels. However, long story short, I discovered porn on my boyfriend’s internet history by accident earlier this year and I confronted him about it. "What's this?" "Meh, I w... (380 words)

Is it sexual harrassment if family members or relatives falsely accuse you of being gay?

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5 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't come from a good family but I do have some values. And I take offence when family members or relatives repeatedly ask me if I'm gay when I have already told them I'm not. Is this sexual harrassment? Sometimes, they say it as a joke, but I think it's starting to get ... (124 words)

My girlfriend wants to live with her ex!

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So....I'm a lesbian in a long distance relationship. We've met online and we've planned to see each other. But then one day, she and her ex boyfriend who i didn't really worry about, made a plan. To move to California, Which is just a state over from where i live...but with ... (350 words)

He still tries to sleep with me even though I found out about his girlfriend!

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that a friend of mine, or guy I've been talking to, whatever you wanna call it, has a girlfriend.I found out a month ago. I told him I didnt want to be his friend anymore,well after roses and a ton of phone calls were still friends, but i told him I cant be ... (93 words)

Pregnant with twins but getting no help from my ex! What do I do now?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, its me Veronica again. for those of you who answered my last question here's a follow up and another question. For those who didn't here's a recap. I'm 22, have a eight year old son,and pregnant with twin girls. My ex boyfriend is a cheating no good. Well me and him have... (489 words)

I don't understand.... why would my friend do this?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and a male friend of mine were walking to class ,(we go to college together) and a guy that wants to take me on a date was calling my cell phone. I didnt answer, Im not interested in this guy, so my friend said he was gonna call him back and say I was his girlfriend. He did ... (129 words)

Has he Lost Interest?! What to do when the calls stop

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so about three weeks ago I've met this guy in my math class who seems to really really like me. We started talking when we were seated next to each other and he told me that he had a crush on me by the third day! The thing is, is that he is a junior and I'm a ... (272 words)

Paranoid and unreasonable or not?

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5 October 2010 (F)

Does it hurt really bad the first time you do it?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does it hurt really bad the first time you do it? How do you know you've chosen the right person to do it with? Im kinda unsure so i need help!... (31 words)

I would love to know what exactly can get me a boyfriend?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, here it is. i'm english, and i'm seventeen- eighteen in december. i'm not the most beautiful girl in the world, but i know that i'm not ugly. both male and female friends have commented that i have a good body (small waist, curvy hips, hourglass shape, about 5 foot 4, ... (231 words)

He said no when I asked him out, Now he's coming around me a lot..Why??

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We were spending a lot of time together and I was starting to like him so I went ahead and asked him out. He said I was cool but he didn't want to be in a relationship. I said that was fine and didn't bring it up again until he started avoiding me and I told him it was not a ... (125 words)

He never tells me where he's going when I am with him? Is this normal or what?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend been together for a lil over a month an was wondering if your boyfriend is supposed to tell you where he goes, like instead of I'll be right back?? Like sometimes he will tell me and sometimes he just says I'll be right back an leaves... What's that mea... (59 words)

Marriage trouble! I just want to be happy again...help!.

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im 23 and have been with my husband since i was 18. we have one child and im getting to the point where i feel our marriage is no longer as it should. im not happy, we fight everyday. he drinks everynight. spends our last few dollars on alcohol. when we go visit our family ... (167 words)

He is showing a lot more interest...has his feelings changed?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it typical for people, mainly guys, to assume a girl is their girlfriend if they never formally asked her to be? I'm asking because a year ago I met this guy. We became friends right off the bat and good friends at that. I considered him one of my best friends about 3 ... (951 words)

I am sensitive to noise...anyone else experience this?

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5 October 2010 (F) - i think i am sensitive to noise..maybe it is due to growing up with my parents arguing here and there..it was nervewracking to listen to it. I enjoy quiet time and being alone and relaxing. I just feel like working in an office builds on that type of anxiety..where i... (505 words)

He doesn't like blowjobs

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesn't like blowjobs. He says he finds them relaxing not sexual and whenever I give him head he loses his erection. He says it's not me and he's always been like this. Do you think this is true? If it is, what else could I do for him because I feel selfish if he ... (64 words)

I'm 15 in a month and I masturbate 5-9 times a week. Do you think I should try and cut down? ...

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How much do you think a 14 year old girl should masterbate? Is about 5-8 times a week too much?... (20 words)

At my limit with my parents.

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be VERY long- please bear with me here: I feel like I'm losing my mind. I'm being torn apart. I had a very hard family life growing up, where my dad began working all the time and my mom became lonely and depressed due to just leaving work to be a full t... (1293 words)

Being asked for support for a child whose mother I don't remember

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5 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - guys i need help, i dont know what to do :( you see i have this relationship with this girl.we were on for a month..i was just 18 that time..when our "relationship" ended she left. she went back to her province..the thing is,we had sex before she left. i got her pregnant and i ... (275 words)

I don't know if I should ask this girl out cause I can't tell if I'm being to clingy or if she's interested?

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5 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So this girl from my class invited me to her house party and later that week i danced with her at the bar and she was grindin all over me and had her arms around my neck. Then once everyone left the bars she texted me and we were flirting a bit, after a bit she said we r ... (463 words)

How did others get over this?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this gets straight to the point. How do you get over a guy you've liked for the last 5 years? I just want to get over him now and move on, but it's hard and I think it would help to hear other peoples ways and it may just help me get over this guy! ^^ ... (57 words)

Blood, but not period, from a virgin

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. Ok so on Friday when i was done using the restroom i wiped myself. As i wiped myself i saw blood and i figured damm i got my period. So i put on a pad and expected to see it very bloody the next morning when i didnt see NO BLOOD AT ALL!!! Then i used the restroom ... (125 words)

Tired of being called boring!

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I fall for guys who call me boring? At first I dont like these guys and everything is cool just good friends while they are attracted to me.... but I'm still in the friends zone with them, then after getting to know each other better I start to develop feelings. Dont do ... (125 words)

I want to make the marriage work, but the spark is gone

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5 October 2010 (F) - I'm writing as I have nowhere else to turn, and this is probably a really stupid question. The spark went out with my husband, and yes, I ended up cheating. After a month, I realised my husband deserves better and ended the affair. However, despite loving him ve... (125 words)

One Year Anniversary Present?

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5 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are going to make a year in a month.. what is a great present for our aniversary? ... (21 words)

Husband after marriage asked about my past and then served me with divorce papers!

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are married for 10 months. Right after we got married he strictly asked me if there was anything about my past I wanted to share. So I believe in you marry your best friend and I told him somethings that I had done that I'm not so proud about. He freaked out ... (562 words)

He's way out of my league so how would I talk to him?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm a freshman in high school and I have taken a liking to this really cute and sweet football player/singer. He's so goofy and always is showing off his muscles at rallies. But the problem is the only things I know about him as a person is what I have heard from other ... (156 words)

Fantasies turn into nightmares?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyones sexual fantasies turned into nightmares? Are some fantasies better left as that.....a fantasy?... (16 words)

He thinks I'm cute but, wont talk to me!!

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so there is this guy and we both know of eachother we have one class together. he works as a bouncer at this bar i often go to. we have never realy talked much just rare casual convos. so one night i was just talking to while he was working kinda real brief. he smiled a lot ... (315 words)

I want to masturbate with my friend

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know my friend masturbates and I want to masterbate with her but I don't know how to ask.... (19 words)

Nearly 30 and single, how can I get my love life back?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles I'm fearing I'm going to be alone forever. I'm almost 30, quite pretty, intelligent and training to be primary school teacher. But it seems everyone but 'me is in a serious relationship and happy. I had a boyf on and off for many years but he was ... (542 words)

Flirty friend? or boyfriend?

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5 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my best friend. And he has become more flirty around me but I don't know if I should tell him how i feel.. It could ruin our friendship for ever. But on the other hand I just want to know if he feels the same?? what should I do??... (53 words)