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writes: So I added this guy on facebook a few weeks ago because I thought he was cute. We have one mutual friend and thats how I found him was on her list. We started talking last week for a few days. When we were emailing each other back and forth he was currently out of town for business. He was getting back this weekend and asked me out for a drink and I agreed. The day after he asked me out he told me he had to cancel because he said he was going to be super tired and that his friend's garndma died and that he would be heading to her place when he got back and that he would have to take a rain check. I replied back that I was sorry to hear and hoped he'd have a safe flight back. I saw on his facebook that he went out yesterday during the day but I have yet to hear from him...does this mean he's not interested anymore? Or does he need a few days because he just got back? ....
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): I think he is not interested...he is probably dating someone else...and that whole grandma story and how he was going to be tired, that sounds made up to me...nah, I don't think he is interested.
Oh and ps. Men love the chase. But they dont really like to be chased or pursued by girls. So if you are going to friend request random facebook guys for dating purposes, keep your expectations at a MINIMUM.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 I'd say he's not interested, or not interested enough.
Sure, he was the one to ask you out and all that but if he hasn't followed up since then and made a time to see you, I'd say he's cooled off and is not longer hot on your trail.
What do you do? Let it go and turn your attention to other men. If he does get back to you don't expect him to be a 100% into you...I'd say he's lukewarm and you don't want that. Perhaps he asked you out for a drink just because and now that he thought more about it, he's not really up for it so he's not arranging anything.
If I've learned anythign about men, it's that when they're really interested, they will come running.
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
There is not enough information to tell. I suggest you let it go and give him a few days to come around.
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