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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Started talking to my first love again, and she's changed so much it hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll try to make this as brief as reasonably possible. I'm 23, and a little over a year ago I was dumped by girlfriend of 6 years. A couple of months before she'd start to see less and less of me, spending a lot more time at the pub, and I found out she'd spent the night with ... (388 words)

Should I still be friends with people who do drugs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, well I have a guy friend who smokes, and my other 2 friends either drink or have done drugs or smoke pot. I have never done any drugs, but do you think that it is bad that I hang around with them? I have not done anything, but my friends understand that it is my ... (80 words)

Vagina too tight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been using to have sex. We can't though she has never had sex and she is so tight it hurts her for me to just put in one finger. And I was wondering if this is common or should she in see a doctor? Or is there exercises we can or she can do to stretch her ... (73 words)

Has anyone stopped being friend with an ex when the ex met someone new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just been wondering about something..I am with my boyfriend for 1 year now, he was very good friends with an ex of his until we met and then for the first few months that we were dating but now she never gets in touch with him. My boyfriend is fine about it. They broke ... (164 words)

We have a few issues about her exes but I love her to death!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone! Me and my girlfriend have been together for a little over two years and lately we have been experiencing a few issues over whether we want to have kids or not and we also have decided that we shouldn't be together, but then we got back together with the idea tha... (282 words)

Why wasn't I invited to meet his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure whether I'm over reacting so thought i'd get someone elses opinion on this one. My bf and I have been together for a year, and lived together for 6 months. I've never doubted his commitment to me -he seemed really keen on moving in and doing the whole 'settlin... (406 words)

How much will it take me to leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for nearly 12 years. I am now 26, he is now 30. In the beginning of our marriage was bad, he cheated with one of my best friends 6 months after we were married, than a year later with another women, and I stayed. Than we moved... (436 words)

Teenage crisis, I fell in love with a guy online who tells me how much he wants me sexually, really confused, please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, so i know someone online, i met him through a friend and hes generally a nice guy, and i love him really, but i dont know if i should let this carry on? he loves me too. but the thing is, hes 22 and im 6 years younger than him. and when he talks about how much he wants me... (119 words)

Do you always need to compromise on the things you want in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I broke up with my boyfriend (of 3 years) about a month ago because he was downloading porn. He refused to meet me half way on the subject and didn't care about how i felt on the topic. To be clear, the issue is not him downloading porn, but the fact he doesn't ... (439 words)

How do I get talking to my ex again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i get talking to my ex again? I want us to talk and be friends again. We just grew apart after we split up, he has since cleaned up his act from drugs. I broke things off because of it, we are seeing other people but i still care about him and just want us to talk aga... (95 words)

Co-worker offered sex for money!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Not sure what to make of this. I was involved with a woman from work earlier this year. She ended things and went back to her ex and has been hot and cold with me ever since (she's generally nice to me when she wants something). She's been involved with several men, but... (188 words)

How do I know if I rushed into sex with boyfriend or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with my boyfriend.. kinda went ready but.. when we kiss and touch he turns m,e on too much.. he asked me 5times if i were sure.. i said yes.. it was great it felt right.. but i dont know maybe i rushed it..cos he keeps saying i wasn't ready..i dont know..it w... (135 words)

I can't sit home bored all the time! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, firstly i will try to make this short ! and the question is, What do i do ? Basicly, I met my Girlfriend, ex should i say when i was 17. We had good communication between each other, were madley in Love, she even helped me get over a cannabis addiction i had in t... (624 words)

Virgin problem!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm a girl, I'm 17 and 4 months and I'm still a virgin (worryingly). Is this really old? In the past when it's come to the stage of ''we're drunk, lets have sex'' i've always ran away from the scene. But now i don't know if i should have seized the chance? ... (63 words)

Is he interested anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy I met is in the band with my cousin at a university where the band is really popular and busy. Said guy and I were introduced by my very overprotective cousin at an event and guy asked my cousin for my number. Have seen guy a few times since and he's come on strong but ... (102 words)

I'm starting to get worried about the drugs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i'm seeing is getting pretty silly with his drink and drug taking. I'm not gonna lie, i do take drugs myself from time to time, but he's getting ridiculous, that whenever i see him, he seems to be on it, or crave it. Last time i saw him he was so off his face i could... (114 words)

Where do we go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Having some trouble...I'll try to make it brief! Liked this guy for a few month, weve been seeing eachother, and weve really hit it off, i can honestly say ive never felt like this before, i even ended up losing my V to him! Anyway, that's not what this is ... (310 words)

How do you tongue kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im from northern ireland and over here we kiss anybody with tongues and the thing is i dont know how! all my friends already know how to! so my question is what do you do with your tongue? i would ask my friends but im a little embarressed, any advice? ... (50 words)

If I could just get him to talk to me we could get the relationship back on track

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so me and my ex have been on/off for 4 years.. I love him dearly and when we together he does too. The reason why we are such an on/off couple is because of arguments. When we fight I prefer to talk about it where he prefers to have days to calm down so that's only where we ... (334 words)

I need guy's advice on why this guy just dropped me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I really need some male advice because I am in an awful situtation. I feel like I am in living hell, I am trying so hard to get through each day but I need an answer..:( Basically, guy a year, he was my best friend and we were so in love. In the Summer we had a few figh... (327 words)

Goosebumps while having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I have a ?.... I wuz with my bf this weekend and we r in not to good terms ik he luvs me as I do him.. but I would like to know is it a bad thing when a guy gets goose bumps while makn luv.. cuz my bf got them???........ (53 words)

I get freaked out from past sexual experience that I can't talk or interact with women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to describe myself as a 29yr old male who seems to be in pretty good health and generally overall happy in life, apart from 1 thing, i will try and explain as best i can and hopefully recieve some feedback to the issues!! Here goes... well from what i can remem... (557 words)

Kissing but not dating -- should I go with the flow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well, hello Uhmm, so this guy and me dated awhile ago, only for about a month or so. We broke up because he started talking to his ex girlfriend again and I knew he loved her still, I just couldn't handle competing with her... So, we decided it'd be best to break up. We still... (261 words)

Should I lose my virginity with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm Nessie, I'm 16 years old and I have a big problem. I met my best friend [Bobby]3 years ago and we dated for about 6 months and then we broke up... Lately, we've been really "touchy" if you know what I mean and he admited he is feeling very atracted to me adn that he w... (115 words)

Do you have to ask to buy laxatives?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you have to buy laxatives over the counter? I want some for my bowel trouble but its quite an embarressing thing to ask for. Do they ask you any questions and do you just ask for sumply 'laxatives' coz i know theres lots of different types. Thanks!... (48 words)

Public intimacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Ladies what are your thoughts on public intimacy… How do you define public intimacy? What things/actions do you consider to be public intimacy? What things/actions do you consider to be appropriate/inappropriate expressions of public intimacy? Do you like to give/ ... (80 words)

Confused about what career to chose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like confused because I don't know what career will suit me. I love looking at fashion magazines, when I was young I wanted to be a model but since I'm 5 1/2 in height and they want girls that are 5'9; I am a little down but I still love fashion and know that there are ... (116 words)

Could I have maybe wierded her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - it appears that my best friend(girl) is someone who i have fallen for. i have written a couple somgs for her on facebook and told her, but that was just when it was a crush. last thursday, she slept over at my house and gave me quite a few chances to kiss her. i was nervous but ... (110 words)

My wife is extremely jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is extremely jealous. I need help. I can't look anywhere without her accusing me of checking women out. I'm not allowed to go out without her anywhere. When we watch TV, she expects me turn around every time a female comes on screen. I have suggested counseling for ... (301 words)

Is there any hope for winning him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend cheated. We have been together for 3 and a half years an I have just moved away for college. I was gone a week and he went out got drunk and cheated on me with another girl. I broke up with him and after I calmed down a few days later I offered him a 2nd chance but ... (243 words)

EX FWB partner says he doesn't see you enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Why would an EX FWB who has a gf and has been with her a while just suddenly say "i don't see you enough :(" i have stayed in contact with this person as friends. Are they hinting at something?... (40 words)

Spicing up our foreplay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 23 an my wife is 21 we have been together for three yrs an married a lil over one. now at first sex life was great we both liked new things an she even set up three different times for threesums an i didnt even ask her. but know she says she dont wana do that anymore couse ... (124 words)

Is he pulling away, does he like me? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, the days are a little mixed, cuz this was written a while ago to my cousin, lol. I've known this guy for a year and 5 months, well, a year ago he stopped hanging out with his group of friends so I haven't heard from him, well one sat he showed up out of the blue and whe... (913 words)

Is he over me? My friend says he's not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw my ex (let's call him X)over the weekend. We've been broken up since July and he has a gf. I was in a relationship but ended it this weekend b.c the guy I was seeing basically 'cheated' on me with his ex. When I saw X he hugged me and something felt so right. I came to my ... (181 words)

Should I stay with the husband who has fallen out of love or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age - I loved my life in the US, had a fantastic job... met the love of my life and moved to England to be with him. We were able to see each other only for a couple of weeks every 3 months, and got married whilst I was still in the US. We joked about the insanity of what we we... (196 words)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's 33. after the most 2 perfe... (1609 words)

In love with my single 25 year old teacher!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. I know you're going to say "Forget him" and "that's just stupid" but im still going to write it. I am 14 (nearly 15)years old, and i am crushing on my teacher who is 25 and is single. I am now in year 10 (14, nearly 15 years old). in year 8, (13 years old at the time)... (536 words)

Was this a sign of ED, or just due to alcohol?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, this is a health related question something that I am pretty shy about and I will try not be too graphic. I am a 26 year old male, I do not smoke. I am a social drinker on weekends, but I drink in moderation. I "try" to eat healthy, I don't really indulge in very f... (395 words)

Obsessed with our school resource officer

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im seventeen years old and im in love with my school resource officer. i know he cares about me because he tells me all thee time but i cant helpp my feelings for him. i always want to be around him and i do anything i can to have an excuse to see him. i even called him just so ... (169 words)

We used to have sex all the time, now he can hardly be bothered

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Like most couples at the start of my relationship with my boyfriend we had plenty of sex, all the time and everywhere. I understand that it's normal for this to calm down a bit after a few months or so but recently my boyfriend is just tired all of the time, I would say we only ... (185 words)

Got back together after a break up, but wondering if my depression is getting in the way of things being perfect again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half and I love him with all my heart. In the summer we were supposed to be going away on holiday together and he split up with me a week before we were due to fly, I was totally heartbroken and he just told me he was confused ... (462 words)

In the middle between two guys with an issue

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two best friends, Jacob and Sam, they know each other and are very close. Sam developed feelings for me and we are seeing each other. i went over to a friends house a few days ago and Jacob was there. He started doing things like laying on top of me and caressed my arms ... (152 words)

We've been out twice, we talk everyday non-stop, but does he like me the way I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am 18, and the guy i'm "seeing" is 20. We met through one of my friends at a birthday party and as we both have blackberries, we exchanged pins so that we could talk on blackberry messenger, as it is easier than texting and it's free. We have been talking... (492 words)

Finding some new and exciting to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling so bored lately. I don't know what to do or where to go I am not good at socializing plus I don't have a lot of girlfriends to hang out with. I have this same old routine 1. Get up in the morning 2. Get on the internet spend half of the day on the internet bro... (113 words)

Why doesn't his ex just move on? She' s married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My man and his wife have been separated for 10 years and divorced for almost 3 (legal issues delayed the divorce). She still wants to be in contact with him even though he has repeatedly changed his phone number, she always gets the number somehow. I am sure he is not giving ... (150 words)

I like two boys, they both like me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13, but I am still having difficulties. I have a boyfriend, but I really like this other guy, who happens to be my best friend. They both like me, but I like them both for different reasons. What should I do?... (43 words)

My fiance is very controlling!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance is a very dominating person.. he tries to control me.. he has a problem with all of my male friends.. he manipulates me..i tend to compare this relationship with my past relationships and i am afraid to say that the past relationship was better than this one! If i ask ... (101 words)

My boyfriend wants to make peace with someone who tried to break us up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i really love my boyfriend. and we've been together for a long time-around a year. his best friend is really horrible. well ex best friend. but suddenly my boyfriend has decided he wants to make peace with him and i don't know whether i can support him. he has said horrible ... (99 words)

One girl won't stop causing drama. Can we take legal action?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Right now there is a girl at my high school who is bullying me and another girl. She is saying mean things about us to other people and making it seem like we are bad people when really we don't want anything to do with her or the situation and just want her to stop. Ba... (248 words)

My fetishes are getting me into trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have slight fetishes for stubble, really tan skin, and um...big hands. The trouble is that if I see a guy with one or all, I can't stop gawking! It's so embarassing! My friends make fun of me sometimes because they say I like old cavemen. I can't help it, I like facial hair. ... (193 words)

Complicated hot and cold relationship with an ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is my first time on this site and needed some advice on my ex girlfriend. Me and her dated for 1.5 years and well it was great for the longest time, and well it was not until I went into a funk and was not my self for the longest time. Basically in her eye's I had stopped ... (601 words)

How do I connect with her son when he doesn't talk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now but I've always found it difficult connecting with her son. He doesn't talk yet so I struggle with knowing what to say to him. I just need some tips and advice on what to say, and how to say them etc, I really want to be the ... (72 words)

His ex spent the night, what should I make of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, basically I don't understand men at all, whatsoever at the minute, so I have come here in desperate need for some advice. I met a boy not long ago, he took my number, but never passed on his. Today, he text me saying... "I miss you shorty" as I was on vacation this we... (400 words)

She doesn't love me anymore, I don't know how to get her back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello lately i lost my girlfriend it was a serious relation for two year and we plan to get marry we have an disagreement and i say something to her witch its say i cant continue with u its the third time and its en-aught i wounder if she left me because she like an... (461 words)

I'm a near perfect husband! Why has she left me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife of 2 years (together for 7) moved out about 2 months ago because she needed time to find herself and learn to love herself. After that, things spiraled downward drastically. A man she met on a trip earlier this summer visited her the very next weekend after she moved ... (179 words)

How can I go about blanking out the flirting so that it does not get to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend flirts a lot with girls. But it is clear he loves me an will never cheat. How can I go about blanking out the flirting so that it does not get to me? Need ways of doing this.... (40 words)

I have severe dating anxiety what can I do to control my symptoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem is that i have severe dating anxiety. this is the reason i run out on most guys after the second date. a few days ago i met this really nice guy and he wants to take me out this thursday. i said yes but now the anxiety has kicked in. im experiencing vomitting, ... (143 words)

Why is my Ex's behavior affecting me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im [Mod Note* removed name for protection of your privacy] and im looking for some advice. I have spent the past 7 yeard in a relationship with a guy. I have 2 little boys with him. Over the past few years he started to change became very selfish and started buying thins ... (238 words)

I like my friend's ex but she says it will get awkward if we try to date

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I started to like my friend's ex. The story is, before this I toltally blocked out any feelings for this girl because she was my friends ex. After giving in some thought and rethinking it, I actually saw a bright relationship with this person. Like seriously where on ... (322 words)

Boyfriend ejaculates but doesn't orgasm. Any suggestions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the past 6 months and we are having problems in the bedroom. He has never had an orgasm, he still ejaculates but he doesn't orgasm. I didn't even know that they were two different things until I met him. He says that he's used to it ... (126 words)

After 11 years my partner has still not divorced his wife!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 11 years, we have 2 children together. When i first meet my partner he had not long left his wife. Within a year i was pregant and he left me, we later go back together and have since had another planed child and lived togther for 8.5 years. I ... (134 words)

My fiance told me he is bi!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there... i'm engaged and recently my fiance told me he is bi!!! before we met he got drunk one evening at a friends place and one thin lead to another and they had sex! he always had a desire for a man and has suppressed this for 35 years! he promised on his daughter... (133 words)

Horny while on period?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it ok if i feel horny though i got my period?What to do?haha... (14 words)

Guy is mad at me giving me the silent treatment, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy who I like and likes me is mad at me because we were talking Saturday night online about things going on with me. I was telling him how I can't trust these people who I only know from online who play a lot of games with me. I was telling him the one girl who I talk to ... (239 words)

I want to know what women think about this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what do women think of their male friends who sign up to sex dating and relationship sites? ... (19 words)

Normal for a guy to watch porn once a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok, just want to know is it normal for a guy to watch porn alot? i mean like almost once a day? and why? when you have the real thing that does anything you want and enjoys it just as much....and why don't he ever initiate if he just wants oral or anything really, i mean is ... (59 words)

Is it ok for me to have a crush on another female?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am in my 2nd year of uni and I have this crush on a female lec and im female too? She's about 33 ish. Is this ok? lol I daydream about her and me together :s thanks... (42 words)

My girlfriend misbehaved with my younger brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i am 27 years old and my girlfriend is 21 years old ,once my younger brother who is 22 misbehaved with her ,she told this incidence to me...and when i asked whom did u told except me ,she told her sister,but after some days she told she only informed me about this????i asked ... (140 words)

My older lover dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 and i lost my 40 year old girlfriend. She dumped me for several solid reasons after a year and 2 months. She said she loves me i couldn't say it back. I wasn't sure if i loved her if i was afraid to be alone. She wanted me to move in with her, but i couldn't. i was ... (257 words)

Do women remember everything about their past relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi DC, I have a Q regarding what women remember. Over the years, I have had a few relationships. I remember practically everthing (good/bad/happy/sad) about them and reasons for the break up. Maybe its because I have a good memory. During arguements my past partners have... (100 words)

Breast cancer and my man has always looked at other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf has a wondering eye, which he has tried to curb and does his best, but I still catch him doing it. I've just been diagnosed with breast cancer and I know after I start my chemotherapy, I will lose my hair and eventually if the chemo is successfull, I will have a full ... (240 words)

First Time Oral Sex And Worried About A Smell

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im Ellz im 17 Hey Agony aunts and Uncles i need some advice! Ok so my bf and i have had sex before and ive given him oral before but hes never done it too me, And im worried, i keep 100% shaven down there anyway but im worried about maybe a smell...i mean i keep cl... (84 words)

How offten does a normal couple have sex?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, Please help have been married for 24 years have 3 children 23,19,and 11 not currently working off on disability due to back problems have had back problems since 1990 and now most recently Fibromyalgia im pain all the time some times some days are better then oth... (178 words)

Am I the only one who thinks her erratic behavior is indicative of a deeper problem?

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11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex has a lot of serious issues, alcoholism, severe depression, her dad died a few months ago, and she used to be a cutter. After our breakup she confessed to me and only me that it made her want to cut herself again. she also ONLY told me she would be seeking professional ... (237 words)

I love him, but I would never let him know that because I don't want him to feel bad that he doesn't love me.

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11 October 2010 (F)

age - Guys, I need some help. I was with a wonderful man for two years. We lived together for about a year and a half. He was my best friend. He started acting different over a period of time. He gained alot of weight, was smoking alot of marijuana, didn't go anywhere but wor... (447 words)

After 10 months LD, do I meet this guy?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this guy for off and on for about 10 months whom I've never met in person before. We met on a chat line and we hit it off from the very beginning. Throughout the ten months we have had our differences and seen the worst come out of each other! I really feel ... (266 words)

Do men regret leaving their pregnant partners?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i dated my ex for 2 years, when i found out i was pregnant and told him on valentines day, he dumped me. he treated me like crap my whole pregnancy, he never called or emailed me and whenever i contacted him (i sent ultrasounds and updates, i was friendly) he would insult me ... (401 words)

My friend is such an attention seeker now she has lost weight, help what can I do??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Would be very appreciative of some advice regarding my ""attention seeking"? friend, please dont be nasty! need genuine advice please. I usually see a particular friend (we are adults) once a week or so, when she is in the city where i live (and work) for her work, this... (588 words)

Why does it always feel like something is missing in the relationship?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been feeling lots of heterosexual urges lately and I am currently in a relationship with a woman I'm in love with. She turns me on and our sex life is stellar. However, I can't help but crave full penetrative sex. We own a strap on and we've used it on ... (235 words)

How to get back into ex's life when she has a boyfriend?

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11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what is the best way to get back into an ex girlfriends life if she has a boyfriend. Its hard to decide in this day and age. Email, txt, phone call, or even writing a letter. Maybe even as simple as sending a gift. Help me out?... (49 words)

Feelings for my boyfriend run hot and cold! What do I do?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've reposted because I had no answers and I really need to know what to do before I see my bf again tonight, please help!! Ok I'm at my wits end about what to do with my bf. We've been together for 4 years and lately I've been feeling hot and cold when it comes to him.. O... (366 words)

My partner stares at beautiful women!

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11 October 2010 (F)

age - Hi there women of the world. What do you do when your man keeps staring at beautiful and attractive women when he does not think I can see him. He just stares intently at them. The other day whilst in Melbourne he was walking ahead of me and he had his eyes glued to the sexy ... (164 words)

Three year relationship ruined?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ohk so ive pretty much ruined not only a friendship i have had for nearly three years with this guy (lets call him Thom)and his bestfriend (Daniel). Thom was explaining to me the other week that he liked me and that he thinks me and him would work and what not, i told him that ... (417 words)

Where are the good men hiding?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right now I'm very discouraged. Where are all the good men hiding? In the past years my dating experiences have been bad. I've tried dating friends, acquaintances, co workers, random people.. nothing seems to work. I think I'm a fairly normal person, intelligent, fai... (545 words)

My best friend lied to me. Should I forgive her.

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11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this girl who has been a really close friend for the the past 3 years. We tell each other everything and try to help each other with our problems. Things have been great until recently when she lied about attending a party that she invited me to. She made an excuses ... (320 words)

My boyfriend never has any money and always has to borrow from me!

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in over my head. my bf and i have been together for 3yrs now. we love each other so much.there are so many issue in our relationship. basically i have to help him out financially everytime. he has no money whatsoever to carry him from month to month. he took a loan to buy ... (625 words)

In a 8 years relationship - isolated.insecure.falling apart.

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have fallen in love a hundred times with only 1 guy, he deeply love me. he respects me, he always try to understand me even sometimes I know I’m being so dumb. I am 25 and he’s 26, and we are living together for 2years now, far from our home country and we’ve set our wedding ... (318 words)

Why is it so easy for girls and so hard for guys?

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11 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my GF have been on a break since july 22, but on Monday oct 4th it finally became official. She went from going to the movies with a dude we'll call him "Douche" to now being in a relationship with this guy whom we'll call "Jackass". Why is it that its so easy for women ... (119 words)

I'm not fully satisfied, should I just tell my boyfriend?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25. for a long time I've been very horny. When I saw a man, all I can think about is to do stuff. I have a boyfriend, but we don't have much time together and I'm not fully satisfied. so, should I just tell him what I want?... (52 words)

I keep asking her out but she just wants to be friends?

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11 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - There is this girl named Hannah we have been best friends for 9 years. Well 2 weeks ago i skipped one of my classes so i could go to the weight room and saw her in the locker rooms undressing to take a shower. When she saw me she didn't think anything of it since were close ... (106 words)

No more hand jobs!

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11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months now. I have encountered a problem though. He won't hardly talk to me anymore, and when we are in the bedroom he won't give me hand jobs anymore. Please help me!!!!!!!!!... (43 words)

Husband has avoided problems till its too late and now won't give me space!

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my husband of 2 years for indefinite time off but he won't give it to me... I feel like I need it because I don't know if I love him anymore, I said to him that despite what he thinks I'll take it and he asked me to sign the divorce papers... Is time off so bad? He says ... (123 words)

Did I get played?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been sleeping with this guy for 2 months now. He calls me very day - wants to see me. When we hang out , he tells me how much he likes me, etc. Makes me feel very special. Now the negatives: 1) he drinks a lot. He is 37 and parties until 4 am at least 4 nights a w... (174 words)

I don't know how to comfort my friend about her cheating boyfriend

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys, please help! My friend's boyfriend hasn't called her in a week+ and she's freaking. A girl answered his phone and said she was his girlfriend....my friend calls me, hysterical. Her boyfriend's jealous and a little possessive, she's thinking he's mad at her because she has ... (117 words)

Does anyone else like really rough sex?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm wondering. does anybody else love really really rough sex? i mean, i feel weird asking, but i dont want to be the only one. like, i love being slaped, called dirt names, and thrown around, choked (not hard but yeah). i love it, but i feel like kind of a whore :(... (54 words)

Is everyone in LDR has long term plan together? I don't have any plan with my bf, worth continue?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months before I moved back home 2 months ago.. and my home is thousands miles away from his.. We both still have one more year of study back home. We are each other first serious partner (I'm 22 and he's 24), though we're unsure if we are... (276 words)

Is it wrong for a stepfather to fall in love with his stepdaughter??

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11 October 2010 (M)

age - I am 48 and my stepdaughter is 44 is it wrong for us to fall in love with each other ... (20 words)

He said he loves me.. what now?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in love with a man that i have worked with for a few years. we hang out, go to events together, and i guess have been seeing each other for awhile now, and he has told me that he loves me. he has told our mutual friends this as well. i want to be in a relationship but i ... (85 words)

He promised me a poem and 2 weeks later she hasn't written one

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend 6 month anniversary 2 weeks ago. I wrote him a note of how i felt being with him this whole time. I also drew him a picture that had our initials. He smiled and said he really liked it. He said he felt bad about not getting me anything and i told him how ... (113 words)

Getting over my first love

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm only sixteen years old. This is a long story but if you have time please listen. It all started around three years ago when I fell in love. Although this a long story I'm going to cut it short! Well I fell in love with a guy that lives 1000 miles away from me and we'd ... (364 words)

She is jealous but wants to keep her ex in the picture but not mine, what to do here??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age - My partner and I have only been together for about 5 months. I have had a total of 2 partners before her. She has had myrriads. She ask me the other day to quit communicating with my last ex because she was afraid I would end up having an emotional affair with the woman. So I ... (172 words)

He gets very emotional and affectionate when drinking, is it real or not??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm curious about what you'd make of people's behavior when they've had a few drinks? Are the things they say insights into their hidden thoughts and desires or just drunken ramblings? I'm wondering because, although my boyfriend is always very physically affectionate - h... (215 words)

Should I confess or just keep quiet??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ladies...I need to get an honest opinion of how you would deal with this situation: Let's say you started a friendship with a guy who dazzled you like no other man, but he had a serious girlfriend. You found out later their relationship had major problems and he wanted to... (323 words)

They will not let me carpool with them, which of the following should I do or otherwise??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a neighbor who I am on friendly terms with and another person who I would consider a friend as I have done lots of favors for her. We have also carpooled to some of our kids' activities in the past. I recently joined their Ladies Club. I have asked them about carpo... (323 words)

Know what he likes but what should I get him for a gift??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 months! I am 16, and he is 17. I find it rather difficult to get him a gift. I know what is favorite things are, but I just can't seem to find anything I think he would enjoy! ... (51 words)

Should I keep snooping or just trust him??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. This whole year of the relationship has mostly been long distance though he and I have visited each other on and off throughout it. Considering the long distance, I suppose trust became questionable, at least for me. ... (448 words)

What happened here with my boyfriend, do you understand it??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so im a little confused with my boyfriend or ex or whatever he is. We broke up not to long ago cuz i made a mistake. But everyone makes mistakes and i think it can always get sorted. So anyway we live together and been dating for 5 years. We kinda been avoiding eachother (i no ... (219 words)

Boyfriend is16, is sportsman, what kind of inexpensive bd gift can I get him??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey so heres my story my boyfriend is 16 and i'm 15 and i have no CLUE what to get him. he likes to hunt fish climb shoot you name it.im kinda broke so low budget gifts are greatly appriecated....... (40 words)

My gf is "hot", cannot have an erection when we want to have sex, what is the problem??

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11 October 2010 (M) age 30-35 - well when me an mygirlfriend wants to have sex it wont gwt hard an shes very very hot but it just wont get up ... (26 words)

How do I tell a guy that I don't want to talk to him anymore nicely??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help. I was on My Yearbook.com, (bad site i know) but my friend made me put my number in one guy's message box and now he won't stop calling me. I realized that i really don't want to deal with anyone I meet online and really actually want to delete my account, but he ... (115 words)

My bf will not "own" me around his friends or say I love her, should this be a problem??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf has this dual personality. To me, he speaks and act perfectly. Seriously, could not get a more perfect boyfriend. But when he is with his friends he doesn't ever speak of me like he loves me. He will chat about how hot some girls are, joke sorta at my expense, and to them ... (105 words)

What do you do when your partner wants sex during your cycle??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What do you do if your partner really wants sex and you promised it to thtem but then you get on your cycle around that time.... (26 words)

What is wrong with having sex with a thick person??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Whats wrong with having sex with a really thick person? I dont see the big deal?... (16 words)

Why do people dislike people who are large??

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How come people dont like others just becuase there fat ?... (11 words)

Two months ago she was going to love me forever; now she doesn't see it working out

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11 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and I've been dating my 27 y/o girlfriend for just over a year now. I met her in Australia after she came for a year from Germany, where she has now recently returned home. We travelled all over Australia together and i took her home to meet my parents, brother and ... (516 words)

How do you know if he's the one?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 1 year plus now. We went through a lot together in the past, a lot of arguments, and there was no peace in the relationship. But we still stayed on to it, and slowly now things are pretty good actually. I feel closer to ... (260 words)

We have different ideas on what a relationship is.. loving or just fun?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm at my wits end about what to do with my bf. We've been together for 4 years and lately I've been feeling hot and cold when it comes to him.. One minute I see myself growing old with him having kids getting married, and a day later I'm wondering whether we're right for ... (338 words)

We had sex and he orgasmed inside me..but didn't tell me!! What should I do?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was with my boyfriend in the car the other night and we were making out and it got to the point to where he wanted to have sex. i was resisting and he knew it and i even said no once but finally i gave in because he wasn't giving up. Then after i found out he cummed in me and ... (85 words)

My boyfriend hate my best friend. Is it right that I pick him over her?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and his friends hate my bestfriend! she annoys me quite alot too. but she is still my friend and there is no way im going to just ignore her presence. i call her names and slag her off to my boyfriend and his friends but im still bestfriends with her i suppose even ... (84 words)

He says he's loves me a lot..but he flirts with other girls! How can I trust him more?

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11 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Help me! My bf is in love with me. My friends said they can just tell by the way he is with me, that he does love me so much. And sometimes he sits and stares at me etc and when I ask what he says "I just...love you". Seems all very perfect. BUT. He's quite a flirt and popula... (115 words)