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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Mum thinks I'm having sex, I'm not, but I do give him handjobs.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :) But i have a few questions, not exactly problems, 1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a very sexual relationship (wer... (237 words)

Will I remind him of his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - we have been bbm the whole entire time and been sending pics. i do know what he looks like with all the new skype things and stuff like that. he was married for 10 years and separated early this yr. i really do like him (by that i mean with his pics). he is 7 yrs older than me ... (169 words)

I am scared to meet him because I might fall in love and then have my heart broken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this really great guy online. we have been dating for three months now. i am eight months older than him. i am 15 and he is 14 at the moment. i love him and we want to meet face to face when i turn 16 but we fight so much i am scared of meeting him and falling even more ... (129 words)

Sex has dried up now that I am pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my man is 22. Im 5 months pregnant. We use to have sex regularly now its every four or five days. And when we do have sex most of the time its because I asked. Its Far and in between that he initiates it. From what i hear most guys his age are sex driven. Should I be ... (62 words)

He is checking up on me online, that must mean he misses me ... right?

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24 October 2010 (F)

- My lover decided to end our relationship because we were having arguments etc,although we still love each other.I did email him to apologise for the rows and that i would leave him alone...that was a week ago.Anyway he hasn't contacted me but he has been on a website that i use ... (85 words)

My ex is being very friendly, what does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

Why did she text this, what does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm texting a girl that's a friend and I told her I was heading to 24hr fitness to go and work out but I wrote "to go and work out till I fall, not actually till I fall" and then she texted me a one word text saying oil in all caps Why did she text me the word oil in all ... (73 words)

I want more, and I'm terrified to put everything out in the open he's going to back away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a man when I was still married. We were both miserable in our marriages and we formed an intense sexual relationship very quickly. He's now separated and I'm divorced. We have become good friends and sleep together on a regular basis. I want more out of this, though,... (359 words)

Everything was going great ... then she got jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I know I love. (We'll refer to her as Girl A) I have no doubts about it, I'm absolutely certain of it. We've been best mates for a few years now, and I was recently trying to find the courage to tell her how I felt. We were at a party yesterday and ... (261 words)

Why do I talk about my ex so much?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up almost 3 weeks ago, after being together for a little over 6 month, and it was a clean break-up, besides the fact I'm best friends with his gay brother (: Anyways, I've been seeing other guys just to see what else was out there, but a couple of the guys ... (160 words)

How do I know if I should salvage this at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for ten years....sometimes he's been great, alot of times not. i recently kicked him out and started seeing an ex. (well not really, i just wanted to show him i really could find another.) stupid kinda, i know, but we agreed to be honest if we were to see a... (575 words)

Why did my 'f-ck buddy' suddenly turn off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a fuck buddy and i told him i thought as him as a friend and that i didnt know if i needed that cause friendship leads to relationship. then i relized he is not going to be here but couple more weeks and he will be out of the state and with his wife.we have been seeing ... (280 words)

We liked each other, then our moms found out and now he doesn't really reply on texts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey!!!!!!! ok i liked this guy who is my friends cousin and she said he liked me back so we kissed and texted each other but both our mums and my friends mom found out so the other day when i saw him we were both sort of embarrased so we didnt talk much but now when i text ... (77 words)

I'm gay, he's 'straight'? I'm absolutely in love with him and don't know what to do...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Wow, Ok. I'm 22 and openly gay, and so I have this friend. We met a couple months ago at a party and I immediately had an attraction towards him. He's adorable, funny, sweet, kind and "straight" supposedly. Everyone thinks he is gay or bisexual...for instance, we were at the ... (432 words)

I'm scared to death of his penis!

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24 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - i've been with my boyfriend for a little while now, and everything seems so perfect, he's rubbed me a bit down there, and so have i, but i could never rub him bare! i am scared of his penis for some reason and its so hard, he asked if i wanted to see it and i said yes, but as ... (83 words)

Is my husband "too close" to his male friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband met a Guy while he was overseas. They Guy is in his unit. now they text each other constantly. It was bothering me so I told my husband but it didn't do much good. They still text some through the week and all day on the weekends. The Guy is married as well. Should I ... (59 words)

I like her but don't want to be obvious about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was invited to a Halloween party by my friend and her friend Casey. I'm really interested in Casey but I'm shy and I haven't really gotten to know her that much. I've only hung out with her(and my friend) once before and last night they came over to my house to drop off an ... (274 words)

I'm confused. I think I want to have sex with a woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 19 years old and I think I want to have sex with a woman. I only feel like this when I watch lesbian porn, but when I don't I do NOT think of woman like that, I would rather have sex with a man which I have. But I've been with a woman before also, when I was 16 but I... (166 words)

My dad fired him after he caught us kissing! How do I make him see that he is a good person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my dad owns a construction company and in june he moved came home from work and ask my mom to let CHase ( a new guy he hired) to stay with us until he found a place of his own. Chase is 25, had just moved back to the neighbour hood and my dad wanted to help him out. Chase had ... (243 words)

When a guy stares at you...does he like you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have a class with this guy and every time I look up, I see him looking at me. I also notice he's always staring at me when I see him in the hallways and I don't look at him often or see him much. When he stares, it's not like I catch him and he smiles, it's more like, ... (89 words)

He says hi, waits and walks me to my class and last Friday asked for a hug. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a freshmen in High school, and have never really had that much experiance with relationships. My mom has never really been too happy with the idea of me having a boyfriend, so I never really had one. I think this guy in my first hour class likes me, but i'm not that sur... (99 words)

My cousin and I are crushing on each other!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - A few nights ago my first cousin and i went to play basketball and while we were playing he told me that he has a crush on me. I wanted to tell him that i have had a crush on him since i was seven! but i just couldnt. we had just finished playing when he pulled me close and ... (123 words)

Do I just accept my girlfriend's fantasy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, well I’m with my gf 1 year and 3months; we love each other etc etc… Well a couple of days ago, my gf forgot her cell phone at my place. Well I’m a guy who doesn’t read sms of my gf. But when she forgot her phone the same day she got a sms, where a friend of her ... (254 words)

I found a penis ring covered with kisses in my g/f's purse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I found a cup (the things that goes around ur penis idk i forget names) in my gf of 10 months purse covered in lipstick kisses. ive never owned a cup. Im scared shes cheating on me wat do i do?... (41 words)

I want to break up with my fiance but don't know how to do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and I have been with my fiancee for 2 and a half years. We have a beautiful year and a half old daughter together. My feelings just aren't the same for him anymore, I think the reason for this is his anger problem, his jealousy, and his controlling ways. He has tried to ... (104 words)

Think he has a girlfriend... but I also think he likes me... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I met this one guy that is friends with one of my best friends. The first time I saw him, my friend kept on telling me that we were flirting, and it was way obvious. So far three different people that know him have said that he likes me. He's been on and off with this ... (151 words)

Am I masturbating correctly? Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've never used this site before but I just wanted to know if I'm masturbating correctly. I am a virgin and when I masturbate I usually just play with my clit which gives me a really good feeling which I assume is an orgasm. The thing is when I've finished I carry on ... (124 words)

I tend to crave sex all the time... Is this wrong or is it normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm only in my teenage years. I lost my virginity when I was almost 14. I ended up really liking it. Now I tend to crave for sex. I love doing it. Is this wrong of me? Should I get help. Do I need counseling? I don't know. But im pretty sure this is normal?... (55 words)

Crush overload!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone!! alright, so i am a freshman in high school, and i'm having a bit of an issue with guys. I'm in marching band, and i have a huge crush on at least 10 upper-classman guys. The problem is that i tend to act obnoxious around them and I know that boys hate that. I've ... (99 words)

Secretly in love with him and wanting to give him space to heal after his breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - so, ive worked with and known this guy for 2.5 years. never worked directly with one another but would see him a few times a week. a couple of months ago i stopped working for the company and started as an independent contractor, so i still come into the office and run ... (218 words)

Drug overdoses in Canada... I'm looking for statistics. Can anyone help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently lost someone from a drug overdose. I'm trying to find out how many people die yearly from drug-overdoses in Canada, but I cant find anything. There are loads of articles but no statistics. If you have any information or how to find it, please let me know. It would be ... (115 words)

Since I told him I have herpes he won't contact me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone i went to the gum clinc and found i had herpes i got treated and told my partner of 3 and half years to get treated at clinc. When i told him i had it he looked at me like he hated me and was disgusted, i walked out crying and he hasnt bothered to contact me I am so ... (81 words)

How can I reel him in???

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do, my friend shakiel has this friend, lets call him J. He is so cute! But we have the same personalities and they clash, not fighting wise. For example if i tell him to shut up say he says it back. That never happens with a guy I dated, i wou... (106 words)

I cannot orgasm through sex alone... Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I cannot orgasm through sex, I have never done it. Is there something wrong with me or have I not met the right person yet?... (26 words)

How can I make friends again after being betrayed by my so called best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I told a friend, well i thought she was a friend about 2 years ago that am into girls and guys i thought i could trust her with my secret because i was too scared to tell my parents. i was afraid they wouldn't accept me. well the next day i walked into class and some of the ... (299 words)

Controlling relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been this my guy on and off for over 6 years, and seeing as im only 20 we have grown up together. When we meet i was seeing his best friend in 10th grade, and his friend was my first real boyfriend... i didnt know what i was doing just having a boyfriend was the cool thi... (957 words)

He wants to "catch" me with another woman, but I don't want any part of it! will I lose him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a bit of a problem at the moment. Me and my partner have been together for thirteen years or so now and we have a really good relationship. I mean sex is not always regular due to having three children and both or us working, but he has a fantasy about me being with ... (130 words)

Why did he ask me "why are you with me???"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just had this disagrement with my dad.. I ask him if he could pay for my cap and gown... I didnt think it was a big deal.. Then I ask him if he could pay half of my senior pics.. He had agreed on everything... Than later right when I was telling him I had to go home... (I ... (421 words)

Does the PE teacher like me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a young male PE teacher in my school and to be quite honest we have ALWAYS gotten along well. He became quite a confidante to me and i found myself telling him about my epilepsy which i feel i cant talk to many people about. I never made any advances towards him because ... (231 words)

I wish I could forget him even though I liked him...

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24 October 2010 (F)

age - I feel depressed as having come back from a lovely cruise once again there was a young man who works on there far younger than me although on two cruises we have had a lot of eye flirting and looking in certain ways. I bought him a small gift so he could remember me by a... (218 words)

Do guys have their dark/cold moments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. It was all fine until up to two weeks ago, where his grandma went to the hospital, and he received his marks back for one of his college courses (which he got like 60s when he was aiming for 90s). And then everything kind of ... (612 words)

I feel he is only with me because he cannot be with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf has a gf about seven years ago (relationship lasted two years) it was his first serious relationship and it ended badly. I have been with him for three years and things are great. However, I am convinced without a doubt in my mind that she is the 'one' for him. He s... (290 words)

I think my teacher flirts with me

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys. I'm a little confused right now because I think my teacher flirts with me. he always stares at me when he is teaching the class, but when I look at him he doesn't look away he just gives me a cheeky grin or just looks into my eyes with no facial expression. My ... (492 words)

She says I'm not boyfriend material!

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 13 years old.I love my girlfriend very much I think about her always.She wants to break up. She told Im not a boyfriend meteriale i dont know what that meen.i wnat to get her back.Help me ... (40 words)

He doesn't trust anyone!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The man I am currently getting to know is very introspective. Yesterday the topic of trusting people came up and he said that he doesn't trust anyone. I am wondering what I can do to help him see that trusting people can be a wonderful thing?... (46 words)

Shy guy didn't ask for my number! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okand today my very good guy friend shane and i were supposed to go for dinner at the last minute he said that he would be inviting this other guy too(mark)..i knew mark existed but i had never really spoken to him,and we met up for lunch and i really liked this guy.he seems ... (168 words)

Weird situation? I like her but there's a problem!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl in summer. She really enjoyed messing with me, to the point I'd get a bit angry, like taking my stuff and pushing me. Time passed. I never thought much of her. Towards the end of the summer, we started talking on fb for long times. She gave me her number on fb on ... (221 words)

Where do I stand? Did he ever love me or was I just "something to do?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last month me and my now ex boyfriend broke up i ended it. I dont know why i did because i really love him but he was selfish and i always came last, i think i ended it for a cry for help for him to come up and show me he loves me and he cant live without me (we had a long ... (286 words)

What to do about the ex???

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex had a long distance relationship, she didnt like it even though it was just an hour train trip, so she had doubts whenever i went home so she ended it next day after i seen her. she turned nasty 2 days later saying she didnt love me and i meant nothing to her, ... (300 words)

Is this love or just an illusion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Earlier this year I split with my husband after 10 years, 8 of which were not very good, he was shut down. I tried everything and then decided it best I leave him to himself. So, I left town and went back to my hometown. Within two months saw a guy I had a crush on nearly 2... (326 words)

He took rough sex too far and now I'm afraid to trust him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend like to be rough during sex. So when he started slapping my face about 6 months ago I told him that he was taking it too far and they only thing I don't want him to do is slap me because I feel like he is abusing me. He still likes to be rough but doesn't slap me. ... (211 words)

He's in to me and four other girls too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - He says he loves me and like 4 other girls. I really like him. After awhile of not seeing him i lose the feelings then when i see him again they come rushing back. I'm 15 he is 17. .Is he just confused?. .If i date him will the stuff with the other girls stop?. .D... (87 words)

Losing the love of my life because of my stressful life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for 5 years. I had to move out of our city to NYC for grad school. We've been apart for the last 2 but it seemed to be working out bc we would see each other about every 6 week. Recently I just started school and it's been the most intense and stressful ... (588 words)

In love with my boyfriend's best mate

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my boyfriends best mate. I really don't know why but I am and I really don't know what to do. The thing is I can't tell this guy (my bfs best mate) how I feel because it was him in the first place who asked my current boyfriend out for me. I don't know why I ... (142 words)

Are awkward first kisses normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so last night i got my first kiss. he walked me to the door went on and on about how he liked me and how i was such a nice girl. he hugged me then he kissed me. but i wasnt expecting the kiss so he only got half of my mouth. it was so awkward and i didnt like it. are ... (81 words)

Why is he playfully teasing me despite not knowing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm new and even though there are other new girls as well, there's this really good-looking and popular guy slightly younger than I am who "picks on" me and playfully teases me. I've already got plenty of friends and I'm not a nerd or anything but he only picks on me... he also ... (308 words)

Should I believe her when she says they just made out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well my luck always seems to get worse when I don't think it could. The girl I love or loved most likely had sex with one of my best friends. She says they only made out but at this point I don't believe her cause she has lied before and I have heard other stories of how ... (388 words)

Males, what signs no longer show your interested in a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was kind of seeing a guy before my holiday, which was 2 months long. We were having fun and it was all great. I'm back now and things have changed. I messaged him asking how he was and he said that he was now running his company because the boss was away for a month. He ... (164 words)

I want both families on side before we marry and it's bugging him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I love this guy and he wants to marry me and I do want to marry him as well. But I want both families to say yes before I agree. This bugs him a lot and he has not spoken to me for few days. he says i pressurise him when i call him. i cant get him out of my head please advice ... (68 words)

I really hope to get my ex girlfriend back... But now she got new boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am Arthur from Malaysia, i am a Chinese currently 20 and studying/working part-time, well i just broke up with my ex girlfriend(now 18 and just went in to college), we having our relationship for 2 and half year, well normally we will have some arguing, and partly i don't ... (450 words)

How can I find my father when I only know his name?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im 35 was born in 1975 and am looking for my father i havent seen him since i was 3months old what can i do i only know his name ... (30 words)

Little experience with dating after being married, not sure what to do!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been chit chatting with an old friend online and through text messages for a few months now. I'm really beginning to develop feelings for him. Thing is he's been divorced for about a year and I'm freshly out of a miserable 10 yr. marriage. I have 2 kids which he's ... (204 words)

why I am so unattractive to women!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age - I want to know why I am so unattractive to women! After getting divorced 3 years ago, I have never had any interest from decent women. I have tried several dating sites and ended up being scammed twice, losing a lot of money from fake women. As for the rest of them, I never get ... (339 words)

Is the date of filing for divorce also the date that one or both spouses are free to have new sexual relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (M)

age - I filed for divorce and soon thereafter discovered that my wife is having a sexual relationship with another man. She says that since I have filed for divorce, she is free to have sex with other men and her behavior therefore is not adultery nor infidelity. We were not ... (80 words)

How do I know if I smell normal "down there"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, you must get this question all the time... sorry... Ok here goes... how do I know if I smell normal down below?! After a day not showering it smells like... scampi fries... sorry... also a bit tangy. Now is this normal? It's not hugely overpowering, it's just there. A... (92 words)

Is he only interested in me for the sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone at dear cupid Im very lost and confused at the moment i really really like this guy have done for many months even when he got a gf i liked him,(which he has since split with) Anyway yes i have slept with him a few times but nothing seems to come of it, ... (359 words)

I've lost my libido and don't know where to find it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 and female and ever since I discovered sex I've been obsessed with it. Until recently. I've realised that although I still enjoy attention from men and love to flirt and dress up, when it comes to sex I have lost interest. I've been with my current boyfriend for 18 ... (149 words)

I think weed is coming between us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay hey guys im alittle sad and i loveeeee my boyfriend weve been together for a year but i love how we are when were not fighting but when we fight he says somethings.. Like insults me alittle not appearce wise but that im pathic.. Yesterday we were at a party and it was a ... (128 words)

I see lying as a lack of respect and self control

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone say that they have grown and matured after they have cheated on someone, if they plan to never tell their partner they cheated on them? Can someone actually feel that they will never "do it again" and have grown from the experience and the guilt, if they are capable ... (93 words)

He sends me songs and tells me what they mean to him!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean if a guy sends you songs all of the time? I think he that he likes but never really says. He spends a lot of time picking these songs out and tells me what they remind him of. He even sends songs for me. The songs he sends me a vague and could be love songs or ... (113 words)

She is single again and I would like to pick up where we left off!

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl I shared very strong chemistry with. However before I could ask her out, she was approached by her old friend she knew from a longtime ago and she decided to go out with him. It did not last longer though and she is now single again. I was at her birthday party ... (103 words)

After 7 years with my current partner, I realised I still love my ex!

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - iv'e been with a girl for seven years and about two weeks a go my ex girlfriend came back into my life iv'e known her for about 15 years and we have a 9 year old daughter to gether and i realize that i still love her. what do i do ... (52 words)

What you guys would do if your girlfriend tried to set you up?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 3 years we have a wonderful relationship and only had one bad patch and now its all back on track- he loves me and tells me so and I love him very much too. I recently made friends with a girl and I think she is great... as a friend for me and ... (183 words)

Can someone truly love someone they are capable of cheating on and lying to?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone who has cheated on me (serious flirting and texting, and slept with the woman 1x), and who intended to never tell me about it, actually love me? If I hadn't found out the way I did, he would've never told me. And he initially lied about it. Does he not love me? ... (176 words)

Attention deficit disorder or just plain abuse?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age - I really need some help here. My fiance (or ex fiance - we ended it last night) is ADD and a month ago we moved in together although he is still in the same house with me and my 3 kids. Everything I say gets shot down in flames. I am always the person in the wrong. He demand... (481 words)

How to leave your soulmate - also an incorregible cheater?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you leave someone who you love very much, someone you love more than you've loved anyone?? Someone who's made you do happy and made you feel loved and worshipped? I've been with my hb for 10 years now... We've 4 children together, I love him dearly bit he's a constant... (113 words)

Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We really enjoy eatcother's comp... (128 words)

Too close to my kids? Partner jealous? Me unreasonable?

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24 October 2010 (M)

age - Hi. I divorced about five years ago, and have three daughters, aged 21, 17, and 13. My two oldest daughters are very much closer to me than their mother, and my relationship with my youngest daughter is improving. My kids are my world...the youngest two live with their mother ... (401 words)

I love him but sometimes I hate him too!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - need advice i have been married for 6 years my husband works i also work my husband complains about money and thinks i should work more hours i do every thing at home washing cleaning etc all the shopping on my own he does nothing he dont kiss cudddle or have sex he goes out ... (156 words)

I would like to work overseas but my family are worried about me!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'd like some advice on this. Last year, i worked as an Au Pair in Spain, but unfortunately, it didn't work out, and i was sent home after only being there for two weeks. I dont want this to stop me from looking for another Au Pair position though. The problem is is i still ... (736 words)

He said he liked me and then started ignoring me, why?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya i'm having some trouble with this guy. i have probably only known him for 3 weeks now. he first contacted me on facebook. he acted like he wanted to get to know me. he goes to another school but some of my friends know him so i was just being friendly (: there's no h... (495 words)

Bored and depressed after being dumped!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After being dumped cruelly by my ex, I'm trying to focus on other things. I've been really unhappy with my job. Its a dead end job and it bores me to death. The company doesn't promote anyone and there's no other areas that I can switch too. I really wan to get out. I dread ... (130 words)

I am bugged by never sleeping with a virgin!

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24 October 2010 (M)

age - Why dose virginity matter so much.... My wife and I have been married over twenty years... My wife was not a a virgin when I met her... Well, she say's she was when we first met, but during a short split she went on to have sex with another guy! I just can't get this out of my ... (104 words)

My boyfriend sulks and refuses to talk to me!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - After any sort of argument we have my boyfriend will sulk and not talk to me. One example back in May was when we had a minor disagreement over something he blanked me and then i suggested we met up to talk things over, that pushed him further into a hole and i couldnt pin him ... (205 words)

I understand boundaries but I still want to be friends!

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Having a major dilemma, Im 21. One of my closest friends was going out with this girl about 2 years ago. They went out for a year and a half and then broke up mutually. Over the duration of the relationship I became close with her and we became friends in our own right. W... (220 words)

Our LDR seems to be self destructing!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some sound advice... I have been a relationship for almost 1.5 years now. My boyfriend loves me a lot;and i love him a LOT too. But our relationship seems to be self - destructive...its a long distance rel'ship for one. And two, we keep on fighting all the time ov... (188 words)

He deletes his emails and texts which makes me worry

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I'm very confused about my fiancé's behavior lately. He works in a liquor company where they travel every now and then, he is on the phone all day and working on computer as well (home office). It seems that lately all he cares is the stock market, work and the new house ... (397 words)

What happens when a girl masturbates?

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - its like,there iz one thing that stil confuses me.when a boy iz masturbatin,he reaches a maximum where he feels it so very gud and he ejaculates.but when a girl is masturbatin i dont know w@ shows she can masturbate no mo.how does she feel?do anything comes out?one mo ... (72 words)

Boyfriend deletes all his texts! Should I be concerned?

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24 October 2010 (F)

His best friend says he likes me, what do you think?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone Ive been friends with this guy for a while now lets call him Ben hes awesome really funny smart nice and decent bloke and i really like him.Everyone says he fancies me but i honestly cant see it like when were talking hell be really funny and wed pretend argue just ... (99 words)

Is it wrong I don't want him to go on a sleepover with other girls

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - he has been asked to go on a sleep over with this boy matt, who is 2 years older than him, and his girl mate who is the same age. I don't really want him to go, but I cant explain why, its not because I don't trust him because I do. but he thinks its because I don't trust him. ... (145 words)

I want to ask him if we are a couple or FWB

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing my big brothers friend. At first my brother didnt know, but now its out in the open everyone knows. But now Im confused. We spend alot of time together. I see him almost everyday, he calls everyday, we text throughout the day. And I spend the weekends at his ... (114 words)

He always has excuses why he can't come see me!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been dating this American guy for about 6 months now and he promised me he would come to see me on halloween but he said he can't come anymore because he just had a car accident and needs to go to a court and if he doesn't he will have to go to a jail for 6 months. ... (221 words)

I felt like an object again!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts. I am in some urgent need for advice here.Hope you can help me. Sadly I carry a very traumatic past on my shoulders. A few years back I was kidnapped and raped by an acquaintance and for a long time I was nothing but a walking zombie. I don't really trust people ... (844 words)

I Feel Like I'm Going To Lose The Love Of My Life.

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in desperate need of help. i was in a long distance relationship with the love of my life. it was difficult and still would be if we were together. she living in canada and me living as an illigal here in the u.s. because of my parents bringing me here when i was young to ... (1221 words)

I just broke up with my girlfriend but did I blow things out of proportion?

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my GF for a little over a year now, During that year we had broken up for about a month and a half. She started seeing this guy. I started dating around too. eventually we ended up getting back together. This guy that she was dating she had met a couple months a... (247 words)

In love with a married woman for years.

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in love with a friend for years, we are both married to other people and have kids. I know I shouldn't do anything but I know she is unhappy with her partner. She is my sole mate and i cant stop thinking about her. What should I do?... (54 words)

I feel very insecure about my large clit!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I'm not sure how to explain this, but here it goes. I have a large clit. I'm very unhappy with it, and i always feel very insecure. I have a great sex life and what not. But i don't let anyone see my body because if it. I'm guess I'm wondering if it's normal ... (65 words)

She has a boyfriend but does she like me?

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24 October 2010 (M)

Could something so great really be real? Do I take the risk and maybe regret it or take the safe route and possibly regret it? Title

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice... I'm married...have been for a few years. My husband is a good guy in that he takes good care of me, I don't have to work or worry about money and our lives are pretty easy and simple, our families get along and my parents love him and him me, etc. We ... (1440 words)

Love on facebook

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a girl on facebook, I have never meet her. She is away from me. I tried to tell her that I love her but she always say "Please don't kid at me" How can I tell her that I love her very much... (53 words)

Boyfriend going through a divorce, how do I help him?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age - my boyfriend of 5 months is going thru a divorce. Lately he he has been distant compared to the way he was the first several months. i know he is going thru a lot right now. no matter whether you wanted the big D or not , it is difficult. he says he needs time to sort things o... (130 words)

What did I do? Is he jealous?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I been together for almost three years. We were so happy together but suddenly something happend. We were arguing sometimes. He told me that we can't be together because we always fight and he told me to be friends.After the breakup he would always talk to me ... (176 words)

I'm 13 and like my friends 19 year old sister!

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok well I just started having feelings for my best friends sister who is 19 years old but the problem is I'm 13 yr old boy... His sister and i talk alot and are kinda close but I don't know what to do... Help plz... (45 words)

My boyfriend forgets to call me!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been so happy go lucky. yeah we had our probems but today i had it up to here! he goes to the movies with his friends and knowing i dont do nothing all day he dosent call mei told him why didnt call me and he said he forgot and i was so hurt...so ... (120 words)

I think my b/f likes me older sister

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 4~5 yrs youngr thn my bf and i had a feeling that he likes my older sister my sis is 2yrs youngr than him and they are both in d sme grade.. it is my 1st time hving a bf ,i dnt really know hw rlationships work and i realize i get jealous easily.. especialy with my oldr ... (112 words)

Should I meet online guy in Cabo?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I meet my online bf in august 1st we've emailed, called, you now the thing is that right now i'm in mexico finishing college (senior yr) and he lives in cali. he was in cabo and i wanted to meet him the day he left in mexico city just you know get the chance to see him in ... (144 words)

Confused! He threw me away but now wants me back!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I guess if I’m posting then I’m finally desperate enough that I need a answer, Here is the deal guys. Boy #, I have been with him for 3 years, and almost a year ago he broke up with me, we lived together and was very serious, then all sudden he said he no longer loved me... (175 words)

My birthday and he put friends ahead of me!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Tomorrow is my birthday, which is a sunday. I had previously hinted to him that I'd rather go out on saturday night instead of my actual birthday. At the time he encouraged me to go out with my other friends, and was vague about whether he wanted to come as well. Today ... (140 words)

Is it normal to have a large clit?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Umm...i really don't know how to say this but. i have a very large clit. Is this normal? does other women have this? im not sure. so please answer my question it would really help me out?... (37 words)

We had sex, all was good, then he dumped me via text!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month. Everything was going Super Great! Then one day, The morning was really good.. we woke up together.. we were cuddling.. he told me he loved me and didn't want to lose me ever.. so when we were ... (193 words)

I don't want my sadness to be selfish!

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my wife when i was 30, she was 39. We have spent the past 15 years in what our closest friends call the perfect love. I am, however, feeling very depressed about the timing of our love. We did not get to have children together because she had uterine cancer 2 years into ... (123 words)

Why doesn't she want our relationship to be 'official'

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I lost our virginities to each other back in the beginning of June right after we graduated from high school. Yes, she is a girl and yes, I am a guy. Anyway, she asked me if I'd be okay with taking her virginity considering she never lost in high school and ... (368 words)

After arguements my best friend refuses to talk to me!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if any body can give a good advice..i havent talk to the girl who has been my bestfriend for years..she said said she doenst know when she will talk me.. we had arguments but i dont think they were that strong to send our friendship to the trash,,shes taking her time.. im ... (129 words)

You've got a friend in me

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im a guy from the UK and theres this guy i want like to be friends with *this may sound wierd* but where like two completely people im like long hair and hes like a trouble maker. ive beeen in his class for over a year i sit next to him in maths and ICT but the thing is... (121 words)

Boyfriend left me because I miscarried

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, where do i start. i guess it all started 4 years ago. I was with my first boyfriend for ten months. he broke up with me and 2 weeks later he was with my best friend. i lost the 2 of them. my other best friend left too. i was so alone. then came another girl R, she was my ... (478 words)

Why would a woman do this to me?

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24 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a question for you ? I am married man who dated a divorced women on and off for 4 years. On many occasion we talked about moving in together. Until the day she told me she was pregnant and she gave me a choice of moving in with her or loosing her forever? I told her I ... (383 words)

I've just discovered my boyfriend has female friends he texts

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi people as i live with my boyfriend for over a year, i just thought to use his fone to txt one of my friends then i relaised that he has girls as friends that he never told me abut and they been texting for awhile and im not sure whether to tell him what ive seen or not plz ... (62 words)

I just don't get it about porn!

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - just asking a general question most women wonder when there boyfriends look at porn do they wanna f... the porn girl or are they thinking of fucking there girlfriends? also naked pic like maxim or playboy or just naked mags. what turns them on its not moving pic its just a pic ... (76 words)

What does it mean when a guys says "I like you"?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Does a man say "I like you" to a woman without a romantic mean ? We are always told that guys are simple and they usually mean what they say. As a woman, I would not say "I like you" to a friend, not even after a fight or something. So, I would assume that if a man uses thi... (88 words)

I don't think he feels the same about me any more

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys i been with my bf for 1 year and half and we both sharing a flat. lately i relaised that we argue over everything e.g wat to eat, going out, wen i come back home late from uni etc. even the other day it was our anniversary and i dressed up all for him and he we didnt ... (92 words)

Don't want to let him go and don't want to see him with anyone else.

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got back in a relationship with my boyfriend whom i was with for a year and 8 months a couple of days ago. I broke up with him because i just got fed up with his games, lies, and how he treated me. We've been through so much and everytime he cheated on me, which was 4 ... (242 words)

Help!!! I know I need to move on, but I'm finding unbelievably hard...

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Soon after my 18th birthday, i was slightly annoyed at my boyfriend for not taking me out, but then the argument progressed. and then ended up with him finishing with me. However my now ex, has issues with trying to be himself, instead he wants to be like his mates, and i ... (265 words)

How can I make things better in our marriage?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age - i married a man that is seven years older than me and we've been married for four year. at first everything was fine, now things are going downhill. he lost his jobs making 17 dollars an hour, we've been having money problems, he took a job making 8 dollars. i keep telling him ... (84 words)

We always fight! How can I tell him I love and care for him?

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24 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and myboyfriend have fight every day or after one or two days. i know he loves me and i also love him but there is something... like if we get to talk about any thing we end up fighting and i dont know what to do... plz help me and tell me what i should do..... to let him ... (70 words)