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writes: ive lost all of my friends... or can i even call them friends because i would discribe them as bad influence( they like to be skip class every day and do stupid shit its like they dont care about them selfs)this schoool year for me has been heal i guess i can say... im an out going girl that u would see with a smile everyday and a laughing felling... know i just cant... i do have friends to talk to during class because i feel comfortable with everyone in my classes but during luch or after schoool i have none and this just gets me down ... i mean idk what to do... sometimes i just want to transfer schools but idk if its a good choice..?..is it.?i mean my school has a lot of good benefits that other schools dont but i just dont know what would be the right thing to do.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Don't transfer schools, especially if your current one has benefits, cause if you moved to another school you would be back at square one with the no friends factor, until it do take time to settle into a new school, and it would take time to figure out whos good to befriend or not...If they cut class so much and don't care about themselves and you feel that it is starting to influence you, or you're scared it will influence you, then i suggest you stop hanging out with them as they would only get you more down,but you sound like a very easy person to befriend.Have you tried hanging out with some of the people from your lessons during lunch, just to see how you get along with them outside of the class room or join some clubs of sorts, you can find a good friend just about any were, just gotta know when you find them.
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