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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2010 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why would she stand me up after I flew 3,000 miles?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to a girl long distance for over a year now. We talk on the phone everyday for over an hour a day. She's mentioned she likes me but she doesn't know what it means. She also says she kind of dating someone. So I flew to go meet her and she stood me up af... (88 words)

I'm pregnant, he's unemployed, how can I make him get his priorities straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im almost 7 months pregnant and it seems like my boyfriend cant get his priorities straight. He got laid off from work and instead of looking for another job he wants to go fishing every day, or hang out with his friends instead of spending quality time with me and helping me ... (107 words)

I don't know if I'm having orgasms.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend a year now. Im not sure if i have experianced a orgasm? When his played with my clit ive had a amazing sensation that i feel i cant handle and the feeling of needing to wee? But i feel like it could go further, have i reached the point or can i enjoy ... (60 words)

I'm almost 30, he's only 21, Should I pursue him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, aunts and uncles I need some advice. I'm approaching 30 and I feel like an overgrown teen again! I have fallen for someone and it's all gone wrong. I'm at Uni gone back for a 4 month course! It's a very stressful course working full time plus essays reflection etc. The... (481 words)

Age difference is an issue; how do I tell him I love him now no matter what the future is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's 34, I'm turning 19. Our relationship is becoming...more intense I think. He calls me before work, on lunch break, and after work. We're always texting each other silly things. Been together almost 8months. We're both difficult people...he's told me twice that he cares for ... (157 words)

I want to have sex with an older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) age 30-35 - What should I do if I am 18years old and I want to have sex with an older woman?... (19 words)

What do I do about my inability to let go of my fairy-tale fantasy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, so I am an almost-sixteen-year-old girl and I have known for some months now that I like girls. I have never had an issue with gay people or anything like that and I am comfortable with the realization that I myself am gay but at the same time am having a hard time coming ... (852 words)

How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star that is: big breasts, small ... (495 words)

Helpppp!!! Should I ask him out????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that I like, and it seemed like he liked me back. We met each other last year, I have had a crush on him since then but never told him. We would flirt with each other all the time. I had told him that I like him back in Apirl and had asked him if he wanted to go ... (129 words)

Why do teenage boys go for the popular girls???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do teenage guys always go for the popular girls??? Does no one realize how bad it makes every other girls feel cause they always come in second place to the girls who make us feel unattractive. Why does this happen??? ... (43 words)

I don't want them to be together... should I voice my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, My best friend has kissed my ex-boyfriend, whom she knew I had feelings for him still. I'm still friends with my ex, only because he wanted to stay friends with me. I don't want to hurt them both by saying I don't want them to be together. I don't want to be selfish.... (84 words)

I want to enjoy a weekend away without worrying about the potential actions of an abusive ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with a guy back in January after being together for about a year. He was mentally, emotionally and verbally abusive towards me, but I loved him a great deal and it took me a long time to get over him. I can honestly say now that I am well and truly over him and my ... (494 words)

How can I get over my first love?? I'm heart broken please help me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with my ex boyfriend for like 1 year and 8 months and he recently broke my heart. He broke up with me without there really being a reason he even broke up with me over the phone cause he said we didn't have anything to talk about in person. He really left me so ... (329 words)

I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle with my friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Things have happened between me and my friend we have gotten into a to fights over a couple of months. He said he was done with me, but he's really, really special too. I've never had anyone one so special to me, I love him to death. Last year our friendship was perfect, i got ... (431 words)

I don't understand how he can say he was hurt just because I didn't meet up that night...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Recently i was talking to a male friend, who used to kind of be a FWB a while back. He has a girlfriend now. He asked if i wanted to meet up for a drink a few weeks before and i said i would if i was free. That was 2 weeks ago and i didn't hear anything so i assumed it was ... (309 words)

Should I just drop it since it really doesn't impact me that much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age - I was widowed a little over two years ago (he was great and so was my 21 year marriage). For over a year now I've been in a relationship with a legally separated man. He left the marriage 3+ years ago. I'm a 100% certain that he has no romantic affections for his estranged ... (492 words)

Should I take Plan B or do you think my birth control is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i have a question, i have been on birth control for 2 months now and i have been taking it every day however not the exact same time, probably an hour or 30 mins. difference, last night me and my boyfriend slept together and he didn't pull out and it went on almost all ... (96 words)

Does my mate really care about our friendship or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel out with a mate a while back and have only just got the courage to talk to him again after wieghing up the pros n cons of the options. We basically fell out because he treated me different from the rest and hardly spoke to me and then i recently found out after ... (522 words)

Why does an ex blow hot and cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, I have a question. Why is it that my ex is very close and loving with me one minuite, and the next will not answer my messages? Then I call him like a week later and he is over like a shot? Is he confused about wanting to get back together? Is he being cautious? ... (93 words)

Please tell me he's not wanting to break up with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I split form my long term partner 12 months ago and immediatley met someone else. i am living on my own with my son. my new partner as been with me 24/7 and always telling me how much he loves me. he is a proper gentleman. our sex life is amazing, the only problem is im a ... (124 words)

I think I'm done with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I think I'm over my ex. She blocked my phone number and wont call me back, she gave me a text the other night she did that only to say she wont be able to talk to me for a day. I thought that was crap and told her to quit playing me. And some other words maybe I should ... (199 words)

Don't know wht to do about this boy, I can't get him off my mind!

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... so about a year ago I was seeing this guy. He's 21 and im 17 at the moment. Anyway it was all good and we kept it up for about 6 months untill or seperate commitments meant we couldnt see each other as much, so we drifted apart and that was that. Anyway it took me a while ... (405 words)

How do I stop this crazy crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help!! I've been married for 8 yrs, he has a younger brother that doesn't really get along w/his own family so when I do get to see him he never speaks to anyone. He usually comes home, showers and leaves, I usually love when I get attention so when he just passes by me ... (148 words)

How can I get things to go back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing this guy, we've been talking for about four weeks after I met him through a friend. We have met up twice in those four weeks, but I havent seen him for the last two weeks, however, we talk every single day without fail. And we talk throughout the day as we both have ... (191 words)

Should I meet him one last time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...please answer this question without judging me. I had earlier posted a Q as to whether i should get back with my boy friend... as i had cheated on him. Well, things between us have been sorted out somehow... its not perfect but its better than before. He knows i c... (322 words)

My boyfriend is possessive and controlling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we got engaged when we were together 7 months. Everything was fine at first, we had fun and we did lots of things together. We also got on well with each others families. About 2 months after we started going out my job ... (447 words)

I think I might be gay... do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - You probably get questions like this all the time, but I really need to get this off my chest. I want to apologize for how long this question is and I want to say thanks for reading it. I need some advice here and I appreciate any responses I get. The bottom line is that in ... (932 words)

Help! Curiousity killed the cat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Almost 9 months ago I touched my sister because we were looking at porn. I asked her what a vagina felt like an asked if I could feel hers it was a light touch. I'm 16 how do I get through this she was 13.... (45 words)

This girl is so confusing! Should I ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old, and have always liked girls before, but after recently meeting someone at a new school, I attracted to her in a way that I have never been before. I'll refer to her as Sarah. I'll admit, I went in too soon and asked Sarah out, and she agreed we don't ... (260 words)

How can we have this discussion without fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've been with this girl for 2 years and I feel I am at a point where some hard decisions need to be made in regards to the relationship. At the moment I live with my girlfriend and have done for a year, the relationship has developed into quite a friendship which... (174 words)

Why didn't she tell me that in the first place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering why a girl would tell you that there is something wrong with her. Say she was having a rough day and she didn't get what she wanted. I did send her a silly text saying, I hope that you are okay. Then less then an hour latter, she told me what was wrong with ... (93 words)

I love my neighbor who's twice my age and never been married...what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved into my house about 9 months ago and have been single since then. However, I have a neighbor (literally 2X my age) who's never been married but has had a "girlfriend" for 12 years. She only comes over on Sunday and they are completely opposite of each other. They ... (477 words)

Should I explain to him or call it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, every boy i met it doesnt go any further then dating and once it begins to get serious they get out as fast as they can. so i have decided to try a online dating site and met this boy i do like. i have gave him my number and we have been texting and talking for about 3 ... (131 words)

I don't understand men at all!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, basically I don't understand men at all, whatsoever at the minute, so I have come here in desperate need for some advice. I met a boy not long ago, he took my number, but never passed on his. Today, he text me saying... "I miss you shorty" as I was on vacation this wee... (415 words)

Help! Is my penis small?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm barely 6" long and about 5 1/2" in girth. I feel small based on reactions I get from women. What is considered a small penis? Am I really small? Women seem pleased, and I make them orgasm most of the time, so I dont know why I get that "oh, ok" look when the pants come ... (73 words)

I feel invisible and lonely...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel invisible and lonely? I have friends on Facebook but I really feel like I don't have anything in common with and don't know them that much; I just want to be their friends becuse they seem interesting. Some of the do play games with me but I feel like I am feeling ... (90 words)

How can I overcome being shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a very shy person when I'm around people. I would like to know how I can overcome being shy? I am not go at socialize and starting a conversation. I feel like sometimes I don't fit in the crowd sometimes; I feel like I am boring.... (48 words)

Is getting a makeover a good thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to know if it's okay to get a makeover? I have been thinking about a makeover to improve my appearance and confidence. I don't wear makeup a lot and don't know how to apply it that good and also can't afford to go to a hair salon. I would like to have my hair styled ... (87 words)

Why do I always have to smooth things over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello All, I hate to ask others opinions on things because usually I can take care of things on my own....but lately it seems nobody is taking my side on things and I'm just curious as to what others think. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 years now, I lov... (339 words)

I need help with things in the bedroom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help with things in the bedroom. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months now and we make love nearly every day without fail, we took each others viginity. But now im woried that im not as good as him because whenever im taking lead role he manages to take ... (69 words)

Is it insecure to feel that your boyfriend only wants sex and your body even though he say he loves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months. We get into things pretty quickly. He's not a virgin and pretty forward about what's in his mind. He wanted sex but all that we do up till now was foreplay. No intercourse. I'm sure that he is going to be my first but I just ... (435 words)

My boyfriend is a cheater? Or am I wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - BOYFRIEND CHEATER? My boyfriend had a past of online dating sites and porn sites because he was addicted to sex and didnt get any affection or attention from females in real life. When he met me, he said his world changed and he is in love for the first time ever and wants k... (215 words)

He's angry and not into sex, but I can't end it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I first met my boyfriend of two years, he was really sweet and caring, affectionate and loving. But now we’ve been together a while, his horrible temper has emerged, he swears and punches walls etc when things don’t go his way. When we argue he’ll say sorry just to shut me ... (263 words)

Going on my first-ever date -- at 20! Tips appreciated.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help! tomorrow i am going on my first date ever and i have no clue what to do! i am in some serious need of dating tips. for example, what are some topics i can bring up if things start to get awkward? What food should i eat? What should i expect on a first date in terms ... (96 words)

I'm completely insecure in my marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife and I have been together for 3 years now but I keep thinking she is going to find someone better than me so I am constantly thinking about it I have gotten to the point were I am now questioning her constantly and asking a lot of questions about What she is doing and ... (85 words)

If he's with this other girl then why does he keep looking at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, um to cut a long story short at the start of college i really liked this guy and i think he liked me too we had just started speaking and things he got my number and everything was going quite well, then we were talking via the internet and he tells me he's just started ... (260 words)

It feels as if he is forcing himself to move on because we broke up over something so small and silly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for 2 years, after a year we had a break because i was being overly argumentative, and we never fought, it was only 2 weeks and ever since then we were better than ever. we wet on several holidays together and spent a lot of time together. Then after a ... (211 words)

Fed up with my marriage, his words are cheap and I am burnt out.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 5 years (we dont have kids) married for one, and i am at my wits' end. We were both having a bad time when we got together (partying too hard, irresponsible etc) and i supposed we recognised that in each other. We were friends for a while ... (787 words)

How can I help my stressed out boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend takes a very important exam next week and he's so stressed and worried and looks awful. How can I be of some assistance to him? I say comforting things but they just don't work! I feel so powerless watching him like that!... (44 words)

Do I really smell ok down there, or is he just saying that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf gives me oral quite a lot. And I always apologise if it's not fresh down there. But he always always "It's fine, don't worry" and continues about his business. Does he really think that or does he just do it not to offend me?... (46 words)

How can I forget about my ex and accept my marriage for what it is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - its been 2 yrs to my marriage.in my college time i had a boyfrind.he leave me without any valid reason ,but i know he was really in love with me. after 2 yrs of my breakup i married to one guy suggested by my parents.he is not handsome . he dont love me he only loves himself ... (117 words)

She seems to put her friend before me, am I right to be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has a best friend who she is really close to. She's female. But my girlfriend goes to her whenever she is sad or whenever she is worried and talks it through with her. She speaks to her always before or sometimes instead of me. Should this be something to worry ... (59 words)

11 weeks pregnant and my husband has left me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im 11 weeks pregnant and husband has left. he doesnt want to come to appts. scared!help!!... (17 words)

Boyfriend is cheating on-line, but I still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am really at a loss as what to do. My boyfriend has been very distant to me these last 3 months. We broke up for a couple of weeks about 5 months ago (my instigation because he was being unsympathetic to me while I was miscarring our baby!). The thing is that I really... (198 words)

I cheated on him, but now I am the one that is paranoid all the time....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend now for 6 months and around 4 months ago i cheated on him which is the biggest mistake have ever made. we worked through it and he moved in, but i have become very paranoid and feel like i am suffocating him, i dont know what to do and im driving ... (68 words)

My family want me to forgive my dad for sexually abusing me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was sexually abused by my father when I was little and I kept it to myself until few months ago. I told my mother and my father's sister. My mother refused to believe me which hurt me so much. My aunt sort of believed me and spoke to my mother about it. I've never liked my ... (168 words)

I am disappointed...should I give our relationship another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf just finished his PhD degree and he is working now. Besides work, he is living a lazy and slightly depressed lifestyle which he carried on from PhD. I hate it because I feel my relationship with him has low passion and I don't know what to do with it. We have been dat... (1074 words)

I must send out vibes that say "I'm not interested"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a sophomore in college, and I just dont get why guys arent into me in "that" way. Well, I sort of do. Im fairly certain its not my looks as guys have liked me/I do get hit on randomly. I have a really low image of myself (probably because of my insecure mother) and have a ... (295 words)

DO I really want to have sex because I threatened to leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for three years. The relationship is pretty great but one thing makes it stressful. Sex. He has never really shown an interest in having sex with me. I have NEVER had sex and would very much like to (been waiting for the right guy), whilst he has had ... (207 words)

Tattered love from 13 months ago

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello DearCupid.org, Over a year ago, my senior year in High School, I made a friend. Her name was Kristine. A few weeks after talking ot her, I started tutoring her in math, she wasn't that smart and didn't show that much interest in school. But, she had this amazingly b... (286 words)

He won't make a move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want him..he wants me but he wont make a move !! Help this man is driving me to distraction :)... (21 words)

Past affair, how to deal with it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 6yrs but with my husband for 15yrs, in the 3rd year of our relationship he slept with a someone else, got her pregnant, she told him, he told her he didn't want to have a child to her and that she was too young (16), she agreed and said she would be a ... (168 words)

I lover her but I hate everything related to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i m 21 year old guy my gf have an awful past she had lied me about it now its almost settle now i love her very much but but hate evrthg related to her like her job,parents,songs she likes,her old school almost evethg what shud i do???????????... (48 words)

Single mum and single dad struggling to get time together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been seeing someone for 2 months - we are both grown ups each with a young child only mine lives with me full time and his lives with him half the week. If his son gets his mum to call him up to stay or if he is being taken home from a teatime visit and the boy... (606 words)

Why does he have to hang out with girls that want to be with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Jealousy question... You are dating a guy, and he hangs out with women who he knows have feelings for him. But he's ok with it since he has no interest in them but as friends. Is this ok or am I overreacting? I don't like the fact that he's with them... I don't trust ... (175 words)

We had sex, he came in me, and I tried to wash it out. Will that work?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need help well my boyfriend cum in me and i dnt know what to do, im really scard . it happen today and i when in bath and whased it out, well i tryed, so wat i do. xx... (41 words)

He has a crush on me but won't do anything about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - dear aunt, i am a teenager ..just entered...i knew that one boy have a crush on me by my friends...and after that even i started liking him.his friends ask him to propose me but he never does..i dont know what is the reason behind it??...but i want to be with him..ple... (60 words)

What is with her emails?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend broke up with me one month ago. She did this all the time for one entire year, so is a usual behaviour she has eveytime I point her mistakes. She never says "I'm sorry". Instead she says "I don't want this relationship anymore". But because she didn't did any effo... (619 words)

I'm an extrovert, he's an introvert!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a relationship with a guy and we have been together for a little over a couple months. Before this I was single for a year and out of a really long-term relationship (close to six years). I'm a very extroverted person and like to tell it how it is, if I'm an... (346 words)

Cousin Love Problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

13 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I was wondering what I should do because I kinda have feelings for my cousin ,a girl, (we're only cousins by my parents marriage), she's about my age, and she secretly told me that she really likes me to. I would like to know if I can solve this. Thanks. ... (51 words)

I really care for this guy but he is not what I need

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Thank you in advance for taking time out of your day for a stranger. Also, short disclaimer. I KNOW you should never try to CHANGE A MAN. But he has asked me to help him change, over and over I tell him I feel bad that I want him to change some things in his life and that he... (1171 words)

I love her, she loves me, but she won't leave her boyfriend!

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13 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this girl 3 years ago while at the same time i dated her best friend. she was deeply in love with me, however I wasn't. Two years when by, we emailed once a week, and when i returned home from an assignment oversees, i saw her once again. She had a boyfriend at the ... (327 words)

Mom being stalked by her ex and doesn't seem to be taking it seriously

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my mom is being stalked by her ex boyfriend and I'm worried she's taking it too lightly, she doesn't find this as a dangerous situation, but I think it is or at least could escalate to something more serious. He and her dated last year off and on. She was going throug... (303 words)

He wants to live with me, put a front on that we're together in front of family, friends ets, still do business together but be 'separated.

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years. He cheated a few yrs ago when we were on again/off again and we both moved on together...or so I thought. In the meantime I started my own business, my mother became terminally ill and my fiance and I have a business and many ... (161 words)

I can't believe that my ex fell out of love with me so easily!

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in my last relationship for almost 8 years. I had a child with him within the 7th year we were together, of and on. When my child was 3 month, I moved out because I was stressed with all the problems we were having. I moved out with the intentions we can both make better ... (174 words)

I miss him but I really don't know what I miss about him?

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13 October 2010 (F)

- After nearly 17months of my BF living with me, broke up many time over same issues then got back after few days, this time I told him in front of my adult kids that its really over, hes gone back to his mum and we have no contact for 9days, I miss him but dont know what i ... (851 words)

Am I destined to die alone?

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13 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old architect who has reached utter despair in the quest of finding that special lady to grow old together... This sentence sums up my life quite well however; the reason I am writing is due to the fact that I have not been with another ever and that as time ... (389 words)

He's 40, I'm going to be 18..could it work?

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about to be eighteen in November and I'm attracted to a man who's forty. I have to admit, I lied about my age. I said I was nineteen and he bought it because I look the part and use a rich vocabulary. Today, I took the liberty to tell him I had lied and he was of course... (241 words)

He insults me in front of his friends but I think he likes me

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy, we are both in different classes...somtimes he will try to insult me infront of his friends but other then that he is pretty nice to me and i really like him...i love him so much that i would die if i didnt see him tomarrow...so do you guyz think he ... (61 words)

I have lost my fiancé because I got distracted. I don't want to loose him. Please help!!!!

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am living in with my boy friend since last 4 years. Last year we got engaged. When we met each other 4 years ago, we just couldn't keep our hands off each other. We were into each other. At that time we were international students. Money was bit tight, hence we would be happy ... (553 words)

I have the boy of my dreams and everyone else wants him!

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13 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hello!Hey so...Yeah hi.Im in an LDR and now that i have him as my boyfriend girls want to be with him now and it makes me jealous.He has girls who like him,tried to kiss him, n wana screw his brains out.At leas he says no.But it makes me upset and i do like it. I mean before ... (109 words)

How can I rebuild and expand on my relationship with this girl?

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13 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, guys. There is this girl that I really,really, really like at my school and I kinda thought that she might like me. You see, we had gotten to know each other pretty well and we went places outside of school, texted A LOT, said hi to each other at school, etc. The last time ... (310 words)

She is involved with a drug taking, alcoholic sex addict

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13 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - There is a girl at school that I have been friends with for a long time, atleast 7 years. I am really worried about her because She has recently started going out with a guy who is a huge druggy, alcholic and sex addict. I really don't wanr her to follow his example. How do i ... (73 words)

Teacher I'm crushing on might get fired because students don't like him!

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been crushing on my teacher for like 2 years now. Before you make a comment about this, let me just say my feelings are under control. I have never shown hints about my feelings towards him and I don't plan to. I'm perfectly happy secretly crushing on him from a ... (148 words)

I don't want to leave my boyfriend, but I can't help but wonder of what could have been

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've began dating my first boyfriend around 3 weeks ago. He's a great guy and treats me better than I thought any guy ever would. I've got unbelievable guilt now because I feel something in me telling me that this isn't right. It's almost like there's something missing. Befo... (261 words)

My pet peeves don't bother me when it's coming from him. Is that normal?

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now, and things are fantastic. We're very close, and open with each other. Recently, it came to my attention though, that nothing he does ever really bugs me. You know, the pet peeves? I do believe there is some th... (112 words)

My mother is emotionally numb, how can I help her?

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Both my parents were teens when they had me (mom was a month from 18, dad had just turned 19 five days before). My dad was the one who wanted to keep me and my mom was very reluctant. She had big plans for college and a career and she had to give all of that up because my dad ... (592 words)

He leads me on and cuts me down

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy. like always. And he's my best guy friend and I'd tell him anything and i love him...and i will never let myself "like like" him because i know he's kinda 2 faced. He told my friend he likes her while he's goin out with some one else. He leads me on though and... (181 words)

Am I not doing something right?

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13 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - the last time i have masturbated was in fact today but lately it has been weird. when i cum my penis stays hard. does that mean im not good at pleasuring myself or is there something wrong wit me? i have been using this site ever since i was 13. I am 15 now so i just wanted... (77 words)

I am trying to be friends with an ex, but I still sit at home and think about her

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13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been one year since the break up occurred, we dated for 1.5 years (High School/College Lover's) and during this time I have tired focusing on myself. I feel great after my runs and lifting weight's. I am in the best shape in my life, and I have gained more friends then I ... (348 words)

My boyfriend is addicted to his newest compute game

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been together with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we still both care for each other very much. However, I feel like we are drifting away from each other. He is addicted to his newest computer game. He spends all of his time on it. I like playing it, too, but ... (311 words)

Has she totally moved on and doesn't love me anymore?

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13 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi so this is my story... My Ex girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years..And one day we had this huge argument about her not giving me time and etc.. With this heated argument, she suddenly blurted out that she needed some space.. So I gave her a week, but along with t... (343 words)

H said he would come to mine but he went to hers instead

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is it ok to be mad at your boy friend if he said he'd stay at your house then go to this other girls house,by the way he had sex with her this is befor he met me...kinda pissed off... (40 words)

My boyfriend has just signed on for another six years of army

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in the army but he wants to stay another six years in the army? Should i stay with him? I really love him but it is really hard to be an army girlfriend please help..... (39 words)

Am I being spun a line online?

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently met a man via a dating site (something I am not proud of and feel rather ashamed by). We have exchanged phone numbers and emails and seem to get on pretty well. However, recently his words have got more flirtatious and sexual. He told me tonight that he ... (168 words)

Why would he send a picture of himself to another girl?

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I am 13 yrs old. In 6th grade I started talking to this guy in my class, we went skating and texted and thats about it. He was pretty much my 1st friend that was a dude. I guess I said some pretty weird things. He switched schools due to grades, and we lost contact. He ... (203 words)

I feel haunted and confused!

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please, someone help me this. Months ago, I met an older man who almost forced me to have sex with him. I forgave him two weeks later...Three months later, he took my virginity. Four months after that, he calls me as often as he can, tells me he misses me all the time, and ... (131 words)

Should I just let go and be happy?

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im having a hard time wtih my situation right now. For starters, he has ruined trust in the past by flirting with women on his phone and being caught in a few lies. September 24 2010 made two years of us being together. October 1st was the official day of us co-existing and ... (419 words)

I am married to a man who lies about everything!

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13 October 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I don't even know where to start, but here it goes; I am married to a man that constantly lies about EVERYTHING- and he breaks every promise that he makes. Each passing day I can feel my sense of self-worth and self-esteem grow weaker and weaker, and with each passing day my ... (988 words)

Why did he want to hide the fact he bought the cake for me?

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy is sending me mixed signals. One day he's completely ignoring, then the next, he talks with me on cam all night. This week, on my birthday, I had a small get together with my friends. We have fun, then some of them leave to get food, including him. When they come b... (109 words)

I love my boyfriend but keep thinking about my school crush

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess I should start off from the beginning. When I was in high school there was this guy in my grade that I had a huge crush on. I had always kind of liked him ever since he had moved to my school in the 5th grade but obviously back then it was kind of just a little school ... (965 words)

Is she just being overly friendly?

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13 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my wifes best mate always flirts with me. This happens when ever we go out and im drinking. Is she being over friendly or does she fancy me? When she is flirting shes touching me and always jumping on me ect. Im not finding fault as i do have to admit that i have fantasied ... (66 words)

Me and the guy I got a crush for ended up talking as strangers

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys. this question is about a guy I met online 8-9 months ago. We live in different countries,and it all started off as someone i'd enjoy talking to. We would flirt ocassionaly,and he would some nice things that were special (considering we were just exchanging messages) ... (321 words)

I am a mother of three young children and being threatened

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13 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my long term partner split up and 6 weeks later i met a guy who was pretty decent but i soon ended it with him as i was still deeply inlove with my ex,since this i have slept with my ex but he now no longer wants to speak or see me and im again battling with rejection,i ... (186 words)

Outfit suggestions for a date?

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13 October 2010 (F) age 41-50 - A younger man (9 years younger) and I are going out on our first “date”. We will most likely go to a park and dinner and maybe something else… Any advice for picking an outfit to wear on a date with a younger man? Any advice for picking an outfit to highlight an older ... (97 words)