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writes:my boyfriend hasnt been talking to me... i dont get why really though... a week or so ago he had surgury... he didnt talk to me for like 5 days befor that cuz he didnt want me to worry about him then he called me and told me he was doing ok... its been 4 days sensce then....hes been really confusing lately....i really dont get whats going on... is he done with me? is there something ging on? Why wont he talk to me???
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Chill doll :)...im sure he's okay. He is after all in a hospital and that breaks contact from everyone, not just you, very easily due to any number of things. He'll call when he can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): umm...he just had surgery...YOU should try calling him! Put yourself in his shoes, if you had just had surgery wouldn't you want your boyfriend to be concerned and call/visit, talk to you see that you are ok...cheer you up...
He probably hasn't called because he just had surgery...he is probably really drugged up...give him a call...let him know you are thinking about him and check to see that he is ok...
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Have you called HIM?
He's been in hospital and had surgery...would it be so hard to call him and ask how he's doing? Maybe he's waiting for you to call to check on him...maybe he thinks that you don't care?
if he's your boyfriend, why don't you just call him and ask him how he is? Make a time to go see him. If I was him and I'd been in hospital and my girlfriend wasn;t calling me to check how I was, I'd wonder if she doesn't care about me.
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
Take a deep breath and relax....Don't worry, it could be any number of things that have kept him from calling you. Depending on the type of surgery he had, he may be on meds that keep him loopy 24/7. Let him rest for a few weeks.
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reader, the young philosopher +, writes (19 October 2010):
 hmm... there are many possible reasons for why he's not talking to you. Is he one to keep to himself emotionally? I know many guys who become very reclusive when they are dealing with a mix of emotions/issues. One relationship I had ended because of this. He just was a very depressed guy hiding behind a smile but underneath that was hurting and didn't want to talk to anyone.Knowing if he's that type of guy is key to figuring out his behavior.
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