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writes:hey everyone . okay so my ldr gf and i broke up , and its killing me . i just wonder if u should really give her a space before i try to get her back . but im worried , what is she gets with some1 else during this time ?!! coz i know some guys are intrested in herm , even though i asked her when we were together to stop hangin around with them , but now that we re nt together ,im sorried if she would start hangin ard with them and they might make a move or something . i dknt know i just keep havin these thoughts . should i really give her a space in order to get her back ? or if there any other tips , then please tell methnx
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reader, cheannryl  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Love worth fighting for,every second,every minute is very important..So if you do love her then go ahead,why waste time..
GoodLuck!
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reader, futuro1234  +, writes (19 October 2010):
I know giving her space is the most painful thing in the world. I know it is the hardest thing possible to do.
But you really need to.
She simply isn't your girlfriend anymore and if you are smart, never will be again. Trust me, the pool is tainted now. You will never truly trust each other again after something like this even if you did get back together.
It is not worth it. Even if contacting her got you back together, that would be the worst move you could make, for your own sake.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 First off you need to say why did she break up with you in the first place? There must be a reason.
Also you should never have stopped her hanging around with male friends this shows some controlling behaviour within itself as she should be able to decide who she spends her time with and who she doesnt. She is still an individual.
I dont no why she broke up with you but if her mind has been made up then you have to let her be and get on with your own life now.
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