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Should I congratulate him on a great performance?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - OK so last night I went to go see a concert version of "Les Miserables School Addition". It was spectacular and everyone sounded AMAZING! I knew two of the people who were in it (sort of) and today at school I told one guy's little brother to tell him that he sounded great, and ... (177 words

Are there men who have got past being violent?

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25 October 2010 (M age 41-50 - I hit my gf and i lost her. i have been through men's non vilonce class's and i also see what i have lost. So my question is if you had a bad temper in the past but you are getting older and see what you have lost cause of it can you go the rest of your life and keep it in ... (117 words

He isn't here for me the way I am for him! My grandma died and he hasn't been of any help at all!

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months and our relationship is good and bad. we have taken breaks and end up missing each other too much and get back together before the break is over! but a few days ago my grandma died and he hasn't been helping me deal with ... (202 words

How do I keep myself from making bad decisions?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have problems. Problems that most teenage girls don't have. As weird as this is to tell people, I'm a frequent masturbater and I have been for years. While that might be sort of normal, I just started having sex a few weeks ago. I'm 19 and have an unofficial boyfriend of two ... (142 words

He cheated, how do I get him out of my mind?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - its been 3 weeks since i split with my boyfriend, because i found out he cheated on me. we was together for 1 year 8 months, but i couldnt be with him any longer knowing he cheated on me.. the thing is i love him,and im finding it so hard to get over him. its like he never ... (89 words

Please help, devestated over my b/f

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - i need some help :/? basicly it's been nearly 2 years now, and i'm feeling more stuck than i was at first. i was with my boyfriend/ex for nearly 3 weeks so why do i feel this way about him? i want an easy pain free way to get over him. I've tried everythi... (138 words

Shia and Sunni, how to deal with parents?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am a Shia Muslim who is completely in love with a Sunni Muslim. Since we are different types of Muslims, my parents will not allow me to be with him, even though he respects my beliefs. What should I do? My parent's have good intentions and I don't want to hurt them but then ... (67 words

I feel guilty and foolish for being open! So is it best to close up?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - My first boyfriend of almost two years is great. I can’t find many things wrong with him, in fact, next to him, I’ve been feeling almost inadequate! He is careful when he speaks. He tries to avoid conversations with emotional weight or bias. When bad things happen to him, i... (376 words

Save my relationship with my mother!

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - My mother and I have a very stressful relationship. I reside in another city but due to a job change I will be moving back in w/ her, my brother, and her fiance. My mother and I, when apart, can often talk w/ out issue. However, when we are together we argue about EVERYTHING. ... (238 words

I didn't actually feel him finish in my mouth!

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I am not really sure how to exactly ask this so as I write I hope it's clear. So today I found out that well I was giving my bf a blowjob he actually came in my mouth and I never knew until today. Witch i don't get because people say that it taste different or you can ... (101 words

My boyfriend told me that when we're both 16, he wants to lose his virginity with me!

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - at the moment i am 14, and i have the most amazing boyfriend ever, i love him so much, no matter how old i am. But a few days ago he told me that when we are both 16 he wants to lose his v. with me. I found this quite a shock because i didnt even know he was thinking about this ... (118 words

I know I can't force him to like me! But I'm so confused!

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I’m 16 and the guy I really like is also 16. Ok so I’ve liked this guy for 3 years now and theres no end in sight. He moved out where I live 3 years ago and after a month of getting to know him I liked him and hadn’t stoped since. Anyway we’re messed around a few times over ... (590 words

Do I really feel love?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - I ask my bf friends about him just to know what he's doing and stuff on fb, and one of them told me that I'm in love with him but i told him i'm not because i can't love someone i haven't had and he said well you're doing the same things as his ex-wife was doing when she got ... (82 words

Why do all women give me dirty looks or turn away from me in disgust if I happen to look at them? Is a girlfriend an impossibility for me?

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25 October 2010 (M age 51-59 - I am 41 years old and have never had a girlfriend in my life because I am completely unattractive and gave up on women in my mid-twenties. I decided to concentrate on work. I belong to a photography group and work out in a gym two or three nights a week. My first question... (192 words

My boyfriend still thinks I'm a virgin!

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I need some advice. So, I was dating this guy for about a year. Things between him and I were great, I truely loved him to death. The thing is that he asked if I was a virgin, and at the time I was. I knew that he wasn't, and he knew that I was, so he didn't pressure me ... (250 words

His family is keeping me from my love!

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - i am incredibly in love with my boyfriend, no matter how young i am, i still love him, he's asian, so his parents are a little stricter when it comes to his education. They have recently been making sure we dont see eachother as much, taking away his phone so he cant talk to ... (197 words

Should I wait to see if he'll leave his girlfriend

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I know this 30 year old guy for a few years he used to come in my shop. Had not seen him for a few months when he started coming in my shop again. after a few times coming in my shop, I told him I had divorced from my husband. The next thing he did was to apply for a job to ... (401 words

Customs and border patrols?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - i need to write my final term paper and it has to be about customs and border patrols can domeone halp me to get like the main idea i have no clue at all :$... (35 words

Boyfriend will not let me leave

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend expects me to be with him all the time, and on the weekend he had some crisps and i ate one and he just flipped and threw the plate at me and it smashed everywhere, and he went off upstairs to the bedroom, so i cleaned everything up, and went upstairs to get my ... (206 words

He says I'm the one for him, but I'm concerned about his passion for sports!

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am a 27 year old female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. We live together now, and he constantly brings up marriage and children and tells me he has no question in his mind that I'm the one for him. I really believe he's the one for me ... (263 words

Still single after a year and wondering what could be wrong with me?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am at the point where I really don't understand what's wrong with me. I am too young to be so depressed and too old to be desperate over such childish things. Being gay isn't easy but this is just ridiculous. I am going crazy over the fact that I'm single, have been for a ye... (419 words

He says he doesn't want a label?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have dated for 4 going on 5 months and for the other 2 months he wanted to be "talking" to fix our problems. But we never got back together. We are still "talking". Now he doens't want that. He doesn't want a label on it any more. What does this mean?... (55 words

I want to be a London escort

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm thinking about becoming a London Escort... Do not tell me that I shouldn't do this.. I'm already an Escort, but not in London. What I would like to know is: How many customers do Escorts receive per day? Thank you for your answer.... (53 words

Worried about this persistent discharge

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Alright. It's been about, what? 3 months? going onto 4? And I feel horrible and disgusting. It started after my period in august. There was A LOT of discharge. I thought it was normal at first, because my period just ended. But for the rest of the month, it became a bit too... (470 words

Is he just messing with my head? Why is he saying this stuff?

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25 October 2010 (? age 36-40 - I'd like people's opinions on this as i'm a bit confused. My friend, who used to be a fbw/buddy a while back has been acting a bit strangley towards me. He recently was chatting online and said he thought i was amazing and he always has but he lives too far away and it wouldn't ... (115 words

Young & Virgin, are they really that weak?

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25 October 2010 (M age 36-40 - Of course, I have never had any relationship experience, but a lot of my friends were virgin and their first bf that had sex with them always a dodgebag asshole. Although, they tend to stick with those guys for a year or two before they realize it. And even after they did, they ... (112 words

FWB, then we are exclusive, then back to FWB. Now I'm pregnant.

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - My bf and i have been together for a little over a year. our relationship is quite complicated. we met and both of us had been hurt and decided we didnt want a relationship or to be in love. well. HA we broke our own rules fell in love and became exclusive. fastforward to june ... (625 words

I miss my ex, but I'm afraid of breaking my new guy's heart

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I think i'm in one of the hardest situations ever in my life. Usually people think that getting their heart broken is the worst thing to deal with but for me breaking someone else's heart seems to be a lot worse. I have my heart broken by someone i truly love..when he brok... (303 words

Husband religious but watches porn

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am a married woman for 8 years. I have 3 children. My husband is religious person but he love to watch naked women on the internet or in the movies. He knows that this is wrong and he hide it from me but I always discover it. I am overweight but i am trying to reduce as i ... (123 words

We haven't had sex in over a year!

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25 October 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi there, I have a question and concern. I have been married for 18yrs and to this day have not messed around on my wife. She is turning 50 this week and I am 43yrs old. We have 2 kids and own our home. My wife has no intrest in sex what so ever, it has now been over a year... (206 words

I miss him, but I'm worried he won't meet someone else!

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend brok up over 2 months ago an Im really having a hard time coming to terms with it! I do miss him very much but when we were together we would argue over the same things day in day out... i felt he put me second, he was always out with his friends.. he didnt ... (173 words

What a web! What do I do next?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago.(Nasty break-up) He instantly got in a relationship which ended over the weekend because a girl kissed him and he kissed her back. I was in a month-long relationship which ended two weeks ago because the guy I was dating wasn't over ... (192 words

Has anyone else had sexual experiences at a very young age?

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25 October 2010 (? age 51-59 - I have something I wanted to share and get feedback on, but it's not really a question. I've masturbated since i was a little boy....probably 6 or so. I did it just because it felt good to rub it. I even got a bit of a handjob at that age from the girl down the street who w... (204 words

She gets depressed when her period keeps her from having sex!

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25 October 2010 (? age 51-59 - My girlfriend is very sexual and we have sex almost daily. Her period can be irregular at times, although it is never very heavy. The problem is that she gets VERY upset and depressed when her period comes because she doesn't like to have sex during it. We have, but she is ... (137 words

Husband says my body isn't tidy, won't have sex

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - pls I have two children and my husband said that my body is not tidy as is use to be.pls help me and tell me what to do so that my husband will enjoy having sex with me. Pls is urget.thanks ... (42 words

Is he faking it??

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i just got together like a couple of months ago and i want to spice things up, not that their not hot now but its all the sam thing. I want to know that he's being pleasured without words. I don't want him to tell me cuz he'll just tell me what i want to hear. ... (111 words

What should I do next with this new contact?

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy a month ago on a night out and we swapped phone nos. We don't stay near each other so didn't arrange to meet, then recently he texted me a couple of times, but now he's not replied to my last text which had asked a question so I know it wasn't like he thought I ... (88 words

How do we tell our parents we want to be adult porn stars?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and I sexually active athletic , and a model , I have been dating my girlfriend Alex for 3 years she is a model too , as well we plan to be together forever as well we have a desire to be adult film stars how do we go about telling our parents about field of ... (72 words

Husband still in contact with "friend" he cheated with against my wishes!

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25 October 2010 (F age 51-59 - he cheated with a new "friend" who he kept hidden from me. now that all has been found out he lies to me still about talking to her and uses excuses to keep in contact with her now its her parent is ill and he feels bad for her so they email each other against my wishes i know ... (170 words

Confused about my feelings for this older guy vs. the guy my age

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I left school in June this year. I suffer with depression. I loved school an awful lot and missed it unbelievably. I was delighted in September when I heard from a teacher, asking if I'd like to assist in teaching a year 7 class every Friday afternoon. It meant I could go to ... (527 words

Needing more reassurance than she seems prepared to give

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - I want to ask some relationship advice, because I've only been with one girl, met her last year, she dumped me after two months, some time after we broke up I told her that I have an autism spectrum disorder, she said: if I had known things would've been different, we grew ... (298 words

Love VS Like

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25 October 2010 (F - I think I really got in over my head this time everyone. So I feel in love with this girl that I have known for a few months but she was going through a lot of thngs with her ex boyfriend. I felt as tho she was not ready to pursue a relationship and so I told her that I did ... (221 words

I don't want to lose her but girlfriend is playing games with me

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25 October 2010 (M age - hello i have a problem with my girlfriend that i have been with a year and a half we had a good realtionship but every couple of months she would leave her excuess was i was controlling she would get in trouble and and call me to bail her out anyway its been two months since... (247 words

My daughter told me she is bisexual and I don't know how to handle this?

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25 October 2010 (F age 51-59 - My 17 year old daughter has been trying to tell me she is bisexual for the last six months.I have responded with kids today are bicurious and that is what she is doing. Each time she mentioned it I would cut off the conversation, and say I can't talk about this. In the last ... (827 words

Did I send the wrong message? Text message, that is!

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have a good guy friend I've recently reconnected with. We found each other online and after months of getting to know each other I felt we were going somewhere. We recently started talking and texting. I NEVER end texts with ttl, or bye or anything when it looks like the ... (180 words

I know my girlfriend is the best option for me, but I am having some feelings for a friend!

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am 17 and my girlfriend is in the year below me and is 16. I have been with my girlfriend kim for just over 20 months just now and it has always been briulliant. Everything has always been perfect. At the start I was the lovestruck clingy one however over the last year or so ... (413 words

What does he want? I've stopped my internship because of him.

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi I'm a 22 year old girl. I didn't engage in any relationship with a guy (going out together, phone calls,...)because I didn't find the kind of guy that I like. This is the first. Last year I had an internship that lasted three months. During that period I met a man betwee... (365 words

I can't love ... I think.

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25 October 2010 (M age 26-29 - A while ago i fell in love with a girl who dumped me to go on a 3 week orgy effectivly, she was my first love. I think i am now over her, expecially after i slept with the girl across my road as soon as i could, just to take my gaze off her, and so i still have this strong ... (168 words

In love with a platonic friend...

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25 October 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been friends with a woman for close to ten years. She was going out with my buddy for 8/9 years and they seperated amicably about 10 months ago. I began to spend a lot of time with her and we have bcome very close and confide in each other a lot. About a month ago we ... (256 words

Is there gay play going on with my man?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - ok, I am with a man of 8-9 years and we have 2 kids. He is really friendly and approachable. he has a million guy friends he knows, I mean everywhere we go some dude pops up and knows him. he even was friends with homosexuals in the past, which i havnt seen or heard from since ... (265 words

Should I ask him why he can't stay hard?

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - Here I am again ... Have been dating this guy for 2 weeks, both times that HE tried to have sex he couldnt get an erection. He dated one of his friends for 2 years and they broke up 4 months ago and she was an alcoholic.He starts to make out very heavily, tells me we shou... (136 words

Iv been cheated upon in previous relationships and its making me insecure about my present one!

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for a year and he's my bestfriend but im very inscure because previouse boyfriends have cheated on me i keep thinking everytime he's not with me hes with other girls and it makes us argue alot, i don't know what to do anymore can you help me??... (56 words

How do I get rid of this crush? I hate it so much.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - Sometimes I feel I am in love. Sometimes it is not important at all. But I like him so much and the thought of his voice and words make me feel secure. The last few times we talked about some thing he lowered his voice so much that I could not even hear him. And it sounded r... (360 words

Who do I believe? My girlfriend or my boyfriend? Do I dump him?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - i got invited to my boyfriend best mates party but fell really ill on the dy so was unable to go. later that night a my boyfriend kept ringing me but i was asleep so did not answert the phone. when i did wake up i had several missed calls. i rang back my friend who had also ... (307 words

The triangle With An Unwanted Corner

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi All, So I have this friend whom I'm not friends anymore but I invited her into my home and helped her out because she was kicked out of her home and my boyfriend was in Virginia living with family. After four months my boyfriend moved in while the female was still there ... (232 words

Why do I feel guilty about this kiss? Was this cheating or am I beating myself up for nothing?

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25 October 2010 (M age 41-50 - I met my now girlfriend on a Friday night 3 months ago, went out, partied, had a great time. We went back to a friends, ended up talking, kissing goodnight, and had some mutal interest. The next day we exachanged numbers and like all times i've met someone, had a wonder if ... (204 words

He said he loves me and is missing me and suddenly wants nothing to do with me!

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 8 months previously we had been best friends for a few years. We have been having a difficult month due to moving home and him being made redundant. Then one day out of the blue he text me to say he wasnt happy, we agreed later that night that we ... (225 words

Hes scared but says I'm the best thing he could ever hope for....why is he running away?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - im gonna start off saying its Oct 23 i got out of a 5 year relationship in june he got out of a 3 year in july....he been coming my work constantly finally asked me out first of sep . Things were the best. We couldnt of hit it off more we hung out almost every other day he ... (257 words

Getting over my ex 11 years later?

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married to my current husband for almost nine years. We are a very happy couple, always together. We both have a child from a previous marriage. The problem is, that I still to this day cannot fully get over my ex. Is it because we are still in each other's ... (129 words

I had sex for the first time but did not enjoy it! What could be the reason?

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25 October 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi guys, i used to masturbate like everyday and yesterday i had sex for the first time and to be honest i did not enjoy it. what could be the reason i need to know. i didnt come because the girl in question gets tired easily even when we're just kissing. so she kept com... (142 words

My wife is a good mother and a good friend to me, but the sexual side to our marriage is dead!

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25 October 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi Cupid I have been married for 15 years and have a wonderfull family. I love my wife and my kids. the problem however is that there is no sexual attraction in my heart towards my wife. It is not that I dont want to but the problem is that I dont feel wanted. I cannot... (366 words

I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday but I want him back, how long should I wait to call him?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I just broke up with my bf yesterday. he's 32. im 20. We've known each other for 8 months. I broke up with him because I couldn't trust him anymore. after breaking up he called me but I didn't answer so he sent this to me: "I am very sorry that I talked to you the way th... (180 words

I acted like an idiot whilst drunk, what should I do when I go back to school to minimise the damage?

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25 October 2010 (M age 26-29 - Last night i was at a party and was completely drunk and I started acting like a chav and all my peers were giving me dirty looks and stuff and taking the piss, and i gotta go back to school in 2 weeks... what do i do so i dont look like a complete tool... (55 words

Careers advice needed!

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - I need some careers advice. I have been offered an interview for one of the top hotels in London . They have positions for Food and Beverage Attendants and Cloak Room Attendants. I havent done any of that kind of work before though. Do you know what a Cloak Room Attendant does ... (342 words

Does she sound interested? Should I try to sit next to her?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - She introduced herself to me. Ignored what the other guy said when speaking to me. Stood close to me while entering classroom. Waited until I finished a conversation to say hi. Asked me to sit next to her so she wouldn't be alone. Her arm and foot kept rubbing against me and ... (237 words

Some days its like World War II

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my partner got together shortly after he broke up with his ex I was the main Reason I suppose and the fact he was sick of her leaving every 5 seconds and her using there child to get at him I try my best to put my feelings aside when it comes to seeing his ex so he can ... (240 words

I am having an affair with my first love ...

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've being married for 8ys but so much in love with my first love who's with someone. We meet and ended up in bed. I just went him bac. Please help... (31 words

Its got so bad I really do want to end it, but he is all I have. What should I do?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half and things have gotten to the point where I don't know what to do with our relationship so I thought I'd reach out here. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23 when we first started dating everything was great and ... (763 words

We've not spoken for 2 weeks following our fight, what shall I do?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had a fight. and the last thing my boyfriend said was ' my mind is upset n i dont want to speak anything just now or ill say something bad by mistake then it'll create more problem.. the next day i called he did not pick up and now its been two weeks we... (101 words

Is it decietful to not confess to cheating in the past?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - MOD NOTE Two questions from same asker combined. Q: 1 Can someone say that they have grown and matured after they have cheated on someone, if they plan to never tell their partner they cheated on them? Can someone actually feel that they will never "do it again" and have gro... (353 words

I met Helen, who was seeing my friend John, while she took a break from Tim

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25 October 2010 (M - In March 2010, I met a lady(Helen,29) who worked as a waitress at a bar I frequent. During the following months we would talk and it seemed as if there was a strong connection and chemistry between us. Unfortunately, Helen was not available as she seeing a person(John, 31) I am... (554 words

I invited her out but she wants to bring a friend ...

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25 October 2010 (M age 41-50 - I know a girl for sometime and we do share some chemistry between us. Now I have invited her to come out for a coffee which she agreed to. Unfortunately her friend from overseas is also over to c her (didn't c that coming) and so she wants to bring him/her as well. How do I ... (82 words

As soon as we were married everything changed!

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25 October 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am a 39yr white female. I married a 46yr black male. This is the first time that I have ever stepped out of my race. Governor and I got together on 09/20/09 We got married 05/24/10. Prior to marriage, he and I had a wonderful relationship. After we got married EVERYTHING ... (137 words

This feud with my friend has ruined everything! How can I get over it?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - I had a friend of 2 years and at the time we became friends, I had a boyfriend. Me and my friend were so close, we were like sisters and I cared about her a lot. I hope the feeling was mutual. There was a lot of competition and jealousy in our friendship however. Mainly to... (665 words

I have been called a "wasp" - what does that mean?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - if someones calls you a wasp what does that mean?... (10 words

Am I being too harsh on her?

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25 October 2010 (M age 36-40 - hi dearcupids, me again lol :( i just want a bit of re-assurance that im doing the right thing. - me and my ex are trying to be friends, she initiated the breakup with a modified LBJF talk...so i tried to convince her that inst what i want, but in the end i caved and tried... (813 words

Should I tell my girlfriend that I was attacked? I don't want to upset her while she is away, so can it wait until she returns?

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25 October 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend is away on a business trip and i recently got attacked when i was in the city and sustained 27 stiches on my head, she will be back in a weeks time, i am feeling much better, should i keep this incident unknown to her until she returns, i feel this will upset ... (83 words

Is there a way out of this mess? I feel like I cannot cope anymore....

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25 October 2010 (M age - I am an Orphan brought up by one of my Uncles who is no more.At the age of 27 one of Aunties(Uncle's side)took pity on my bachelor life and proposed to get me married to some one whose parents my Autny had known for years.As it turned out later on my Aunty wanted to repay ... (338 words

Is it normal to want to experiment with each other?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my bestfriend are both 14 (and both girls), lately, we've been talking to each other on Msn over webcam, and talking about experimenting with each other, and we've shown each other our boobs over webcam already. she's sleeping round mine this week, and we've been thi... (95 words

Why does he behave this way?

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25 October 2010 (F age 51-59 - Iam a married woman and developed a friendship with a married guy in one of our projects.This guy is very religious, which actually made me his friend as i too have an inclination to spirituality. But every now and then he stops calling or seems to be giving excuses. We talk ... (140 words

My best friend? or the guy she likes?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi to all who read this...well I need some help there this guy I like I found him at my friends party he was sweet,nice, funny and so on but he is a good friend of my friend which is a she and now I want to get to know him better but I found out she care about him I want to be ... (168 words

How long should I wait and should I send flowers?

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25 October 2010 (M age 41-50 - I broke up with my girlfriend three weeks ago. I did not contact her for a few weeks, but then decided to contact her and ask her to meet up to discuss us. We had a lovely dinner and I asked her if she wanted to try again. When we broke up I asked her the same question and she ... (257 words

Did he get what he wanted and now I'm not important?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for 9 and a half months, a couple of days ago I performed oral sex on him for the first time (we has previously done other stuff) at the time it was like he was encouraging it (I started by kissing him stomach and got lower, he started moving his trousers ... (123 words

I need help, I just want him out of my life!

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - There's this guy who has a creepy obsession with a close friend of mine. He's head over heels for her, but she simply isn't interested. Well a little while ago I was at her house, we were just chilling. She got a call from the guy that likes her and his friend. After we all ... (241 words

Boyfriend doesn't call

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend doesn’t won’t to give me care such as call, text and loving word after 1 year our relationship happened. Before he was good guy but know I feel I loose him and I still love him so much. ... (40 words

I am really shy and don't know how to approach this girl in my class! Help!

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - i like a girl of my age who was my classmate when i was in the tenth class so i am really shy and do not know how to propose her. Can anyone help?... (34 words

Should I listen to my heart or my head?

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25 October 2010 (F age - I have been with my partner for nearly 20 years,we split up for 2 years, but have been back together for 2 years,during the time we was apart we both had relationships with different people,it didnt workout for me because the guy i was with had always been on his own and didnt ... (236 words

Should I have gay sex with my best friend he is asking help me!!!!!!!

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25 October 2010 (M age 26-29 - i'm 15 and i know i'm bi but i've told a few people at my school and they told everyone now i'm getting teased but now that everyone knows a lot more gay and bi people ane coming out but now i keep getting asked by a mate of mine who is gay foe gay sex and i want to but i don't ... (74 words

Why am I crazy about this average looking guy who I have nothing in common with?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - So theres this boy at school, and i have been "In love" with him for about a year now, he's says he's straight, although he does give off some gay vibes ( to most people), anyways, I have NO idea why i am so crazy about him, i mean, we honestly have nothing in common, other ... (170 words

Husband is cheating but I feel he's pushing me to leave so I look bad

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - For various different reasons me and my Hubby have been having problems for the past 3 months, we've been to counselling b4 and it didn't help our situation, so he won't try again Basically the problem is whilst I don't believe he's cheated on me, he secrectly emails/t... (259 words

My boyfriend of 2 years has changed so much, could he be cheating?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 15 and i've been dating my 15 year old bf for almost 2 years and i know him better than he knows himself sadly. we use to hang out every single day for as long as possible. we go to different high schools. we used to cuddle kiss hug all the time and tell each other i love ... (192 words

When you're in love don't you want to see someone as much as possible?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:(? ?My boyfriend claims he loves me so much but yet we only see each other ones a week. We don't live far from each other. I asked him I would like to see him more, he said ones a week is enough cos it makes it special every time ... (132 words

If I get turned on by men and women, what am I?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok, My story is kinda confusing so please bare with me... I've known i was gay since about 4th grade when i had a crush on a boy. then from 6th to 8th grade i had a strong crush on a different boy, also during this time period i started to notice a stronger sexual attract... (376 words

Should I get married , will I ever be happy ?

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - i am 32 years old unmarried girl from india, wanted someone with true love but i dont know how i got stuck with a married man,since 7 years i kepton loving him, we did foreplay also, but never let him do the penetration, as i just wanted my husband to do it with me and it could ... (214 words

In love and now we're "kissing cousins"

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old and i'm in love with my 15 year old cousin. I have told her how I feel about her and she told me she feels the same way. I was shocked when she told me she's in love with me too. We are now kissing cousins. I know my feelings for her are wrong but they feel ... (182 words

Does fighting make a relationship stronger?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a problem. My gf and I have been fighting quite a lot recently, and we always say were sorry, but the fights get worse and warse, is it true that fighting makes relationships stronger? Because she is giving hints that she wants to give up on me...... (49 words

If I live in his place then I guess we can't date???

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25 October 2010 (? age 41-50 - I met a new man a month or two ago and have met up with him about 3 or 4 times. I really like him and have been really excited about seeing him each time. We spent Sunday together, had a lovely day outdoors and then to the pub and then to have something to eat at his place. ... (239 words

She said her feelings for me are "in the grey zone"

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, During the summer I met this woman through a mutual friend. I quickly became friends with her and over time ~3 months I started to develop stronger feelings for her. She's smart, original clear headed, has strong values and is beautiful. Now I was hesistant to ask her... (275 words

If a partner is fooling around, can a baby get sick?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - helo ppl.has anyone ever had sex with their partner while they have a small baby?and what happend?did the baby get sick?i heard a myth that if a partner is fooling around maybe then the baby gets sick..... (37 words

Our sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been arguing alot lately. He doesnt seem as happy. He never wants to go out on the weekends anymore. Or sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together. how do i know thats not the only thing he wants? he still tells me that he love me and wants ... (86 words

We broke up, should we talk about it, or should I wait till I am over him/

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - I had a best friend. He told me he liked me, and as a matter of fact, I liked him as well. We kept talking everyday, everyday getting to know each other even better. Talked about everything. And 2 and a half weeks later he asked me to be his girlfriend. Me, having been eager ... (458 words

I'm scared I may be pushing him

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy i have known for a really long time. Recently i gave him my number and he has been txt me every day and i have hung out with him alot. We can set there and hold a conversation for hours. He seems like he really likes me but he has had a bad past with ... (197 words

I'm afraid playing guitar hero at his house will lead to sex

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I am dating this guy and I want to take it slow with him but we are both very hot for each other, but I still want to take it slow and not have sex, we've been dating for only a week. He invited me to his house to play guitar hero, but I'm afraid that if things get very ... (105 words

Absolutely nothing going on between me and my buddy's sister... do I need to worry about convincing him?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm a senior, and my friend's a junior, and we talk to each other about our problems, in math, science, or girls haha. Pretty good mates. He's got a little sister, a freshman, and we're casual friends, high five-ing in the halls (it's our thing), and whatnot. I'd agree she's ... (270 words

Did he leave me because he gave me an std?

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25 October 2010 (F age 51-59 - i met my byfriend in 06 he walk away from me april 26,10..every year he has left me 1 time,i nver new why?he gave me an s.t.d.maybe that's why he left me,the reason i know he gave it to me is because i suffer from uterus fibriod and i go to gyn.every 6 month i told my dr. ... (346 words

I don't know how to talk to girls

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - Im 16 going on 17 and i haven't had a girlfriend since i was 7 or 8. im started to have the crushes on certain girls and i want to talk them but don't know how. people say be yourself but how can you be yourself when your nervous and all those other things i mean i don't know ... (166 words

Why is he ignoring someone he wanted to date?

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boss told me he was interested in me and i told him i feel the same but didnt want to rush into anything but i do want to get to know him. Well we have been having great conversations, we have fun around eachother but havent had time to go on a date. Im going through a ... (204 words

Help me figure this girl out, and then proceed accordingly

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - oh my, ok so i joined a new school in kickboxing, co-ed, anyway i love it and am very focused when i go, but at the same time, there's this girl who i don't see every class (regina) and since the first time i saw her i noticed she keeps licking her lips at me, like slow, tip of ... (567 words

Why is she exploding at me?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - ok im 16 years old and ive never been so confused in my life. my girlfriend's mom took her fone and when she got it back i asked her what was wrong and she said forget it and when i told her i wanted to help but i couldnt unless she told me what was wrong she exploded on me and ... (249 words

He's been hurt, how do I get him to give me a chance?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok there is this guy i have known for two years we are like best friends and he's always going to me for advise but there's this one problem we both have feelings for each other but he's not ready to give anything a chance because he's still hurt from past relationships. how do ... (72 words

Why is my tongue swelling up after giving oral sex?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - The last three times I've given head, the lump of nerves at the center of the bottom my tongue has swelled up...big time, to the size of a blueberry. Within a few hours the swelling has subsided and I've encountered no other issues. nevertheless, I can't help but wonder ... (57 words

I missed my chance to date her!

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - There's a girl that I think really liked me. She'd wait for me after class, text me, asked to hang out. On the other hand, she also has a bunch of good guy friends, and I didn't (and still don't) know if that was her normal level of interaction or if I was special. I never ... (286 words

Women and songs?

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25 October 2010 (M age 41-50 - Do women like it when you write them songs? I play guitar and record my own music, but don't sing. ... (20 words

LDR-I don't think he even enjoys talking to me anymore

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I've written about my guy before. But pretty much we are in a long distance relationship, we began dating in college. I'm in grad school about to finish and he is working for a law firm 1000 miles away. First he was nervous about passing the bar exam then he was nervous a... (398 words

I think marrying my husband was a bad idea

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - I want to seek advice. I just got married for about 5 months now, but our baby is now 2 years old. Personally, I married my husband because I want my son to have a family when he grows up. To be legit in the eyes of everyone. Also because of family pressure and other stuff. But ... (393 words

Sexy night in a hotel?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - please please help me... im taking my boyfriend to a hotel for the night can someone help me how to make it sexy for us both to enjoy thanks :D... (31 words

Should I tell my partner at school I'm gay?

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25 October 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 15 years old and have a crush on a guy, and I'm gay, but no one knows. (except you of course) I just recently switched classes, and I'm in the same class as him(the guy I have a crush on) ... and for better or for worse, we're partners. We get along pretty well and all, ... (125 words

Why would he kiss me more than once if he didn't have feelings for me

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - I was at a party the other night, Everyone was drinking except me, the adult and my ex. it was a fun night. we played truth or dare, i got dared to kiss my ex, and my best friend molly. so i kissed him. when everyone was passed ouut we decided we'd go to bed, it was cold s... (225 words

Signs of cheating

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating?... (9 words

I didn't treat my friend well, now she won't have anything to do with me!

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - if anybody will help, do you think all problems have a solution?? i have a problem that is just making me so depresed i had a friend who i didnt treat well sometimes shes mad at me or feels she needs a time apart.But it has been months already and nothing happens. I have no ... (149 words

He asked if I was going to talk to him, but he is the one who stopped talking to me!

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - September 15th was the 3 year anniversary of my bf and I. On Monday, September 19th, he had got home from work and called me and told me his parents were arguing and his mom was packing up and "going to a tradeshow" for a week and left him $1000. My bf said he was really tired ... (458 words

For the girls: What do you notice when you look at a guy?

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25 October 2010 (? age 30-35 - Girls what stands out when you look at guy?... (9 words

I took his money as a joke and he called me a thief and dumped me!

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - My problem is this: My bf and I were fighting lately and that night we were also arguing for silly stuffs. I regret for all my actions while I was drunk and I did things that I shouldnt do for example, that night, my bf and his brothers were playing WII and I was bored (drunk a... (373 words

I like a 40 y/o man and I am 17...what are the chances?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a man in a chat room on July of this year. We didn't talk much in pm but when we did, I was mostly seeking his advice on something. I always showed a certain interest in the cat room because I liked his personality. Not once had I seen his photo or seen him on cam - as I ... (280 words

15 and pregnant...parents don't know..

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing someone else about a month and a ... (156 words

Why does he only express interest during our class?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I am really frustrated right now. I am a college sophomore and there is a guy that I met during my freshman year who I really began to like. He was in my chemistry lecture first semester, so I decided to randomly introduce myself to him and we hit it off. He started visiting ... (558 words

I was having sex with a married man, now he wont talk to me!

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25 October 2010 (F age 51-59 - i am single and the man i started seeing is married but is here working in my state.he says his wife wont come down and see him and she dont really have much to do with him when he is home.before we started having sex, he was my customer at a dealership service dept, we hit it ... (202 words

Need help! How do I start a conversation with this guy?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello. Im 13. In 5th grade, there was this guy named "A". We talked some. In 6th grade we werent in the same class. But in the hallway, he would always say my name in a weird way and give me this intense stare [he was trying to be funny, im sure,], so I laughed back. He did ... (303 words

I need sex asap! Sleep with a prostitute?

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25 October 2010 (M age 36-40 - Sorry for the long question, I need to set the background. And I really need help (I thought about going to a shrink, but I can't afford it). I'm a foreign PhD in the US. My English language is good but not great. I go along pretty well. I enjoy my study. I enjoy my life he... (397 words

His friends don't like me and want us broken up! Advice?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and everything is perfect.....except his friends. His friends don't like me because they think he's different when he's with me. But my boyfriend is the one who always wants to be with me and we really really like each other. ... (95 words

I want my wife to move out...What else can happen?

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25 October 2010 (M age - Dear people I have asked for your help before and I found your advice (Very very helpful ) so please try and help me again. Three years ago my wife had an affair with a married man. This affair has destroyed our family and because I could not forgive her our marrage ended. ... (466 words

Boyfriend gives me trouble but I just live with it...Help!

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25 October 2010 (F age - I have been in a twenty year relationship with a man from Mexico, I am from Europe and it has been a very strange relationship, one where it's as if we are together becuase we are lonely. We both got together when i had recently got left behind by my ex-husband, (also ... (614 words

My bf cheated on me..Should I stay?

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I Have Been With My Boyfriend For Almost 11 Months And He Just Recently Told Me He Made Out With Someone When We Were About 3 Or 4 Months Into Our Relationship I Really Love Him And I Feel Really Betrayed Should I Just Move On Or Break Up With Him? Im Really Hurt Id Never ... (68 words

He did something that disgusted me! Should I call this all off?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for about seven months. He doesn't want to call it a 'relationship', saying he likes 'the way we are'. So I'm already a little put off... The other night though, we'd been having a lot of fun in bed (we have GREAT sex), after a good night out... a... (159 words

How to deal with my co-worker who is also my baby daddy?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - About two years ago I met a man at work. He was charming, sweet, made me laugh, and above all seemed to respect me. We went out on several dates during our first year together, we drank, laughed and just had a great time. Then the unthinkable happened, I got pregnant. I did not ... (261 words

Does he really like me or what?

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear readers I'm now having a problem with my mind. My classmate is acting weird to me. Let me explain, in the eyes of friends I more like a younger sister so less chance to attract to someone. My emotion wasn't so steady and again not many people would understand. But I can be ... (303 words

My mom is lying about her new man staying at our house!

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25 October 2010 (F age 51-59 - Ok basically my mam cheated on my dad and my dad moved out and now my mam is trying to let the guy she cheated with into the house behind my back! She is such a liar and what should I do in this situation? ... (46 words

How will I overcome my trust issue of my boyfriend finally saying he's going to marry me?

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my BF for just over a year now. A long time ago we had the marriage talk and he said that he wasn't sure if that's what he wanted. I told him that I want marriage one day. Lately he's been talking of us living together and being together for life. While he's been ... (419 words

Was he feeling guilty?Or..?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - My bf and I arranged our first weekend together in ages. He later told me he'd have to spend the first evening at his friend's birthday cos he felt bad for not going. I was a bit sad but understood and told him to go etc. He came home early though to see me. And I said that he ... (99 words

He is pressuring me to have sex with him...help!

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone i need help bad! I'm 13 almost 14 and i'm dating a almost 17 year old. I really like him but he keeps pressuring me about sex. We already kiss, and I've given oral, but im not comfertable when i do it. He says i dont love him if i dont do this stuff,and i do love ... (128 words

Should I trust the guy I met on a cruise?

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25 October 2010 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy on cruise that I was on. He worked on the cruise itself. If anyone knew that he was even speaking to me that much he would get fired immediately. Every night we would meet in secret and just talk / hang out. He was never disrespectful to me nor did he ever try to ... (684 words

I have this bad bad problem with my best friend and boyfriend! Help!

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25 October 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem my best friend is in love with me, but i have a boyfriend. We've been best friends since 1st grade, and i dont think of him that way only as a brother, we call and text and hang out a-lot, but he always makes me uncomfortable, he says he loves and wants to ... (154 words

Does it sound like he's interested?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok so theres this guy, he has a girlfriend, but my guy friends have all said guys can have a girlfriend but like someone else at the same time. well ill just list the things he does that makes me wonder if hes interested or not. -whenever i enter the classroom (i sit next to ... (308 words

My parents won't like it, but should I keep dating him or not?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok, my parents dont allow me to date but i just got my very first boyfriend and im so excited bout it. when he asked me out i never thought bout it i just said yes cuz i liked him a lot and he liked me too. when i got home for the weekend i realize i just did something very ... (179 words

He only texted me 4 times...Did I do something wrong?

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25 October 2010 (F age 26-29 - So I MIGHT like this guy that goes to my schoool. He said he doesn't like hoes and I know I am not one of those. But today he only texted me like four times and im not gonna lie. it bothered me a little, But made me wanna have him that much more, is that a guy trick or do you ... (91 words

Does this girl really love me?

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25 October 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am 15 years, there is this girl (pastor's daughter) she alway come to my place in the class, when she is living for her home after school closes she she alway like walking with me home, she even have a special name she calls me "sweet heart" but many guys have asked her out ... (97 words

How do I get my Mom to trust me again?

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25 October 2010 (? age 30-35 - Well Me and My Boyfriend Have been together for 11months.. And are very open with each other. Yesterday my mom was out partying with a friend and i had the house to myself. I asked my boyfriend to come over and hang out. i had noooo intention of doing anything with him in a ... (416 words

Tell me..how does a person wake up one day and decide to fall out of love? Confused!

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25 October 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with someone since June, we spent all summer together and fell madly in love. She was the first to say I love you and reminded me everyday how perfect I was and how much she wanted a life with me and of course I feel the same way. She has 3 kids which are great and ... (249 words

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