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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm ready for a baby but he's not! What should we do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i need your help , me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time now and for a couple of months wev been talking about having a kid, my Heart has been set on having a child for years now and im soo certain that im ready for the responsibilities and the time that is ... (76 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend about his family?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months. he is at my house all the time ive never been in his. but i dont care im afraid to meet his parents to be h=honest but he is quite close with mines. we never really talk much about his family. should i ask?... (57 words)

My boyfriend has terminal cancer, I want a baby but he doesnt. Should I leave him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has terminal cancer, i want a baby but he doesnt. Should i leave him? We met a year or two ago and we have fallen in love. He has a child by a previous marriage and is content with that but I am becoming desperate. I dont want to cause him any additional worr... (115 words)

How do I make conversation with the guy at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I'm really confused and not sure wat to do...I fancy someone at work i'm very shy...not sure if he knows or not...I get the feeling he might..we dont really talk, but there are those moments when eyes meet and he looks other way...or on lunch he is lookin over but very hard ... (58 words)

He's a transgender.so dating him would be awkward. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i hope you all can help me! Okay, so i will set the stage here. I am a sophomore in high school now, and i met this really great guy who is in a ton of my classes and is hilarious and cool. The problem? He's a transgender! He was born into a girl's body, but he dresses and ... (107 words)

I don't mind being anywhere in the world, for as long as my parents can be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a great guy online (through friends on Facebook) and we've been talking a lot. He just finished his MBA at university and will begin working soon. He traveled and lived across Canada and in different countries around the world. He's cute, intelligent, funny and sweet. I ... (320 words)

We talk every single day, non-stop, without fail.. But I'm not sure if he likes me the way I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am 18, and the guy i'm "seeing" is 20. We met through one of my friends at a birthday party and as we both have blackberries, we exchanged pins so that we could talk on blackberry messenger, as it is easier than texting and it's free. We have been talking... (448 words)

I drunkenly cheated on my fiance and now she doesn't know if she'll ever trust me again!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancée and I have been together for two years (living together for 1.5 years); we were supposed to get married March of 2011. I love her more than my own life and would stop at nothing to make damn sure that she's happy. But last month, I totally effed up. I got drunk ... (620 words)

Just the ordinary girl with the question... do you think this is love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im stuck here and i need help even thought i think ive got the answer on my own! i just want to know what others think. i postded an article like this only a few hours ago as i have only registered for a day or two, then i noticed i had stated myself as a male! lol. anyways my ... (233 words)

Dating two guys at once?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm kind of seeing two guys at once, but am not "offically" a girlfriend to either of them. We'll call the first guy T and the other guy C. I met T last years summer, and we just started talking and hanging out a few months ago again, and i'm quite confused as to if he just ... (231 words)

We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents not accepting me, what ... (55 words)

don't want to be her friend when I care about her and don't get any recognition for it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About 3 months ago the girl of my dreams told me I like you as a friend and being the nice guy I said sure lets be friends. I thought being friends could possibly mean down the road she might like me or want to hang out with me like a friend would normally do. During th... (771 words)

She won't let me kiss her properly... she says she's scared. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i really love my girlfriend. we have benn together for a bit now and were fine. now when i try to kiss her properly she tells me no and when i ask her why she says shes scared. what should i do?... (43 words)

Do you guys think he likes me? And how to make this into a steady relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, So I posted a while back and I got great responses. So there is a guy that I really like, and I think he likes me too, but my biggest concern is that he rarely is the one to call me. I don't call him too often (maybe once every other day), but I've seen a major ... (699 words)

I have an upper ear piercing anddon't know what I can or cannot do in regards to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. This isnt a relationship problem, but I desperatly need help with this problem. I am 13 years old. My mother took me to a tattoo parlor to get my upper ear pierced [ cartilage ] for my birthday. I didnt know if they would put a stud in or a ring, but they put in a ring [ ... (178 words)

Is having PMS a reason to act like a spoiled brat?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a question regarding my girlfriend and her PMS. I know that it is a stressful time for a girl as the hormones are running wild, but should it be an excuse to act like a spoiled brat? Me and my girlfriend, who are both 20 years old, went to my brothers wedding... (361 words)

Does anyone know how I could catch him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Um i'm not sure how to tell my story so i'm going to try my best. I have been working at my current job for 4 years and in my 3rd year we employed a chemical engineer ever since the first day I saw him I fall head over hills for him. I was in a relationship at the ... (166 words)

He can go 2 days without contacting me! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf will last up to 2 days without texting me, n if he does, he doesnt say much, n sometimes he doesnt even respond. still like tat, he says he loves me. what should i dooo???? hes not going to change. ... (47 words)

Very self-conscious about scars! Will men react differently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody. I'm a 13 year old girl and about two years ago I was in a horrible car accident that left my arms, legs, and almost everything in between covered in scars. I'm not very self conscious about them usually, however I was wondering if men react different to women who ... (58 words)

FWB--he's gorgeous but why so insecure about his looks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well i'm just really wanting to clarify what this guy is maybe thinking, I am casually meeting up with this guy for mutually agreed sex. We are the same age. He first messaged me on a dating site i was attracted so i started chatting, and he asked me what i was looking for i ... (317 words)

Her husband found out about our secret love and now she has to stay away from me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently told my best, married, friend that I was in love with her. And that I have been for several years, and that I've been waiting for her marriage to dissolve. That sounds vulturous, but it isn't. I'm just way too nice, believe it or not, and didn't want to hurt her or ... (448 words)

Dad said he'd ground me and never let me hang out with a friend if that friend smoked anything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my best guy friend. my best guy friend smokes cigaretts and weed. my dad said he would ground me for months, and never let me hang out with that person again, if he found out any of my friends smoked anything. my dad has only ever met my best guy friend and says that... (126 words)

Why does my friend behave this way around the guy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay.. i really like this guy that i met around a month ago through a mutual friend. i like him alot more than any guy ive liked before. my friend thinks he likes me back,whenever she asks if he does, he doesnt admit to it or deny it which really confuses me. i am starting to ... (183 words)

How do I stop feeling so down?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - for the last few months i have been feeling very down and feeling like im not worth anything i think it started just after me and my ex split up but in the last few weeks its got alot worse ive been feeling like people dont care and dont want me around ive been tryin to avoid ... (86 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that my friend hit on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my current boyfriend. He is kind and patient. We are doing well overall. We have been together for over a year. I asked my boyfriend for permission to hang out with my guyfriend for his birthday. I missed it. So I hung out with him the next weekend. I told him... (240 words)

I'm devastated! She offered me friendship, and said that was all!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay guys so here is MY problem, I am an extremely good looking handsome young man (mainly very cute), everyone in my life has always told me that. I also am very stylish when it comes to clothes and always maintain a good look, I am the type of guy that will make a girl in the ... (940 words)

She's not happy because I have more sexual history than her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a relationship of 5 moths and it's been going good if i would allow it too, and accept her love and accept/believe the things she says. Short background information: my best friend and i went out one night, met up with some girls we already knew and had qui... (643 words)

She's leaving me because I have too many health problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I eventually told my gf about the previous operations I had as a child because she would have seen the scars anyway. The problem is that she cannot seem to properly accept the act that I had the operations (adeniods removed, 1/2 left kidney taken out, appendix removed... (198 words)

I want to get back with my ex, but he got a girl pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so today i found out that my ex boyfriend has a baby on the way. He is going out with the babys mother and i know that sounds soo easy to understand, but its far more complicated. Me and him have always kinda been bf and gf. i started going out with him about 5 yrs ... (231 words)

Married but I fell in love with another man but all he did was take money and cheat on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age - hi everyone i am 45 years asian lady having 2 children and nice husband and i didn't know how did i fall in love to asian man and he is married too with 3 children. one year we talked on the phone all the time when possible and we met few times and we kissed and other stuff bu... (205 words)

His friend turned out to be more than a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going through a lot right now. I'm going to make this short as possible. My Ex and I, were doing good. Til his so called "friend" was always around. When my ex went back to college, i looked at his call records, because he only would text me? (we also have a 18month d... (468 words)

He wants a two month break, but we've only been dating for 2 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to start this. But my boyfriend and I had decided to go on a two months break because of an incident that happened. Long story short, it is that we got caught. He doesn't want me to be in trouble so he suggested a month break from each other so everything could ... (1000 words)

My ex's girlfriends come to me and ask about the relationship we had. WHY?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I have a question about something and am concerned about my ex bf's current relationship. 4 yrs ago I broke up with him before he got deported to Korea because I had gotten hurt by him so bad. However, when he arrived at Korea, we somehow got back in contact ... (451 words)

He broke up with me, went for my friend 3 days later, but I still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well basically.. I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend. It sounds like a typical problem, but I'll just tell you the whole story.. I started dating him in February, we broke up once along the way, but ended for good in early July. And 3 days after we ended things, he... (417 words)

How can I gain respect after being FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - After being FWB, I want there to be something more. How do I gain his respect back, so that he can see me as more relationship material?... (27 words)

Is it true that guys prefer non-virgins?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so as me and my friend were walking she told me the reason why I don't get guys is cause I'm a virgin. She said if I lost my virginity then that would be better. Since she said a good percent of guys prefer non-virgins rather than virgins. I'm not sure, I've known... (161 words)

Why do I miss him when I didnt want to be with him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it, that when you are with someone you cant stand them and dont want to be with them but when you arent with them you miss them and want them back? when i was with my boyfriend we would argue all the time and i would think about being with other people and didnt want t... (106 words)

Everyone keeps calling me ugly, but I don't feel like I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I havn't had a boyfriend in ages and ages and everyone keeps calling me ugly but im actually not. I don't know what to do please help me???... (28 words)

I'm ready for sex! Now where's the boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem, in a nutshell, is that I feel ready to have sex but I do not have a boyfriend. I feel like I have reached a point of emotional maturity where I know myself and my body very well and I am also very knowledgeable when it comes to protection and sex in general.... (220 words)

Flatmate has Hepatitis C and I'm concerned

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I am in need of some insight here. It is not a relationship question per se but I hope you won't mind answering.. So I have recently found my dream apartment. It is big and perfect in every sense and I signed a sub lease contract already. There is five of us living ... (174 words)

Torn Between two lovers, feeliing like....I need HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, one thing I know for sure is that I'm very mature for my age, so I don't need anyone telling me I'm not in love when I know in my heart that I am. I have this boyfriend that I have been with for 1 year and 11 months and I love him to death! 3... but I also have this guy... (379 words)

How can I change our sex only relationship into something more?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago, I got talking to a guy at a bar (foolish place to meet someone I know). One thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together. Since then he has added me on facebook and texted me a few times. We have seen each other on nights out and have slept together a ... (93 words)

Why won't my partner use my name?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

10 October 2010 (?) age - Hi there, I have a very unusual problem with my partner of 7 years. He will never use my name, not my first name of even a pet name. If he wants me and I'm not in the room, he will shout 'are you there'. I mentioned this to him early on in our relationship (7 years ago) and ... (192 words)

My boyfriend wanted a break because he says he takes me for granted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants a break, it has been exactly a week. he told me that he wants some time to appreciate his company, and that he is really taking me for granted right now. he also has other issues, saving money for a holiday and moving into a new house, working everyday etc. i ... (120 words)

How do you broach the "What is this relationship" question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'd love some advice from girls and guys about how to broach the "what is this relationship" question. I've been with my new guy for 2 months...he contacts me every day, we hang out whenever we can, go on dates, and have been sleeping together 2 weeks. He tells me he ... (320 words)

He always stops before he ejaculates

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm not sure what to make of my new bf's sexual technique, and I'd love some comments about why he doesn't ejaculate from any female and esp. male readers, please. We've been together 2 months, sleeping together for a couple of weeks. He's an amazing guy, kind, inter... (341 words)

How do I make a move on a shy guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy. I think he likes me. He is quite shy and so am I but when we talk to each other we get on really well. I talk to him at school, when our group of friends meet up outside of school and i can sometimes spend hours talking to him online. I would like to start te... (109 words)

Did you like someone who was in a relationship? How did it end?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone.. Has there been anyone out here who liked someone and that someone was been in committed relationship!if yes please share your story and tell me how it ended? Ps:there is this guy I like let's call him x and his gf Y,so I really like x and he likes me too,he t... (84 words)

Anyone know about the US Coast Guard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm thinking of joining the US Coast Guard. But, I know the recruiters leave out a LOT when they take you on. I don't want to sign up for something with hidden "surprises." Please, can someone give me some honest feedback about this? Also, I'm worried about leaving my boyfriend ... (56 words)

I saw her undressing to take a shower, but she doesn't like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - There is this girl named Hannah we have been best freinds for 9 years. Well 2 weeks ago i skiped one of my classes so i could go to the weight room and saw her in the locker rooms undressing to take a shower. When she saw me she didnt think anything of it since were close ... (106 words)

How do I start a conversation with boyfriend about unplanned pregnancy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have started to have sex. Yes we use protection, but there is always a chance of pregnancy, and I believe it is the right thing if we talk about what we would do in that situation now then if it might happen. I want to know his views on it. How would I even ... (95 words)

We are more like friends than lovers

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have dated for almost 2 years. Well, I feel that we are more like friends than lovers. He won't even kiss me, as in french kiss me. We have kissed before but since months ago he has shown no interest in kissing me passionately. I actually questioned him and ... (142 words)

My girlfriend doesn't know if she wants to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Readers, I have been dating the same girl for slightly over a year now. We are a great couple fell in love, moved in together. I am also her first real boyfriend. We also had our problems with communication this summer, more or less it broke down, and we didnt know how t... (261 words)

My ex told me to never contact her again because I said I was falling for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Told my ex I regretted falling in love with her because it wasn't worth the heartbreak, she took it badly and told me never to contact her again. I know she still has feelings for me and I really upset her. How long should I wait before talking to her again, I'm not trying t... (98 words)

I have a boyfriend but it doesn't feel like I do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a boyfriend but it doesn't feel like i do because he doesn't hold my hand or call me . what is wrong with me ?... (27 words)

I don't want him to use me for sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just recently broke up with my boyfriend less then a week ago and I won't go into details but I know for sure its over and I feel as if I am pretty much over him. But during our relationship I was talking to a good friend of his who was helping me through the last, rough ... (311 words)

Very worried because my LDR girlfriend suddenly disappeared!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - guys im really freaking out !! my LDR gf just disapeared!! its been 4 days now , we used to talk like every single day , but now she is not online anymore , i tried to call her but her fone is jst ringin !! no one is pickin it up , i called her earlier again but it felt like ... (197 words)

After breaking up he doesn't want to be friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, ive just split with my boyfriend which sadly only lasted 1 week and 4 days. I still have feelings for him. Before we got together he told me that he didnt wanna treat me badly like the other guys did, and how i deserved to be happy and he could give me what i wanted, i ... (246 words)

I'm afraid to talk to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I am so confused about a guy in my marching band. I'm a freshman and he is a senior, but I think he may like me. I've definitely shown him i'm interested by looking at him and trying to hold his gaze; that happens a lot. The thing is, I'm not sure of the signs. He smiles at ... (122 words)

Is this the greater truth about why we lie to our partners?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is this the greater truth about why we lie to our partners? It’s interesting that when people are messing up, and failing their partner in a relationship by betraying them (i.e., cheating) few think about how they are hurting their loved one with their actions. But then whe... (221 words)

E-cards sent to wrong person?? How could this happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hellol, I sent my friend some E cards about 8, when I got the message that the cards have been viewed and opened it. it had the sender as a man I never heard of and a female the receiver I did not know. know one uses my computer. so I am wondering how this could have happened. ... (167 words)

I want us to be intimate but she won't get tested and its very important to me that she does

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im scared i wight walk down the same road again. please help. i lost my virginity at 17.8 years, thereafter i engaged in a more riskier than usuall lifestyle. one of my biggest problems was that i would not ejaculate with a condom on, so most times i removed half way into th... (536 words)

Do I owe this person anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey!!...I have a tough question. There's this friend I know (just a friend) who I haven't spoken to for more than a month. And she has done a lot to help me over the years, but she is using guilt as a means to get her own way. She seriously thinks it's her business whether or ... (227 words)

We're getting close but he's got a girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi m 16yre old gal.i have been chatting this boy for 2 years.we have got many chances to see each other..but due to some problems everytime we havent met each other, until i met him lastnight(09-10-10).i wasn't suppose to get close to him..but something in him attracted me ... (127 words)

Do I have to choose between him and them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (?) age - Hi everyone. Five years ago I sold my house and moved in with my partner at his request. He had previously lived here on his own for 15 years and has never been married or had children of his own. My children are in their 30's and this is where the problem is. I want them ... (306 words)

Damn boys!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - damn boys! i love this guy. he doest love me back but he flirts, now he saying we should have sex. what should i do? im in love with him and i realy want to. ... (35 words)

Why do men disappear giving you no closure and think it's OK?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do men disappear or dump you and give you no closure and think its ok? This is what my ex did.... (22 words)

Friend starting to get a little more friendly with my backside

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy at school who I am crazy about and me and him have always acted more than friends around eachother. We always flirt, hug and text eachother etc. We've been like this for a little while now but recently we've become so much closer. He is constantly hugging me and ... (137 words)

I've told him the trust is gone but he wants to try again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

10 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - 41yrs of age with husband almost 8yrs and married for almost 1 yr. This is my second marriage and my first one broke up as he was violent and should nothing for me but I stayed in it for 14yrs. Then I met my new husband and he was just everything I had wanted. He was kind ... (283 words)

My heart and my mind are at war

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

10 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my (ex?) girlfriend slept with someone else. i didnt realize that were officaly broken up sisnce we were still doing everything that couples do like go to a show,dinner, sex, etc.... we have had out differences that could have easly been worked out with simple conversation but ... (237 words)

I am caught between 4 guys, and don't know what to do

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I sent a question recently, but it's been lying around and no answers yet. That's good, my situation has changed since then. I am caught between 4 guys, and don't know what to do... what would all of you do in my situation? I don't know how I get myself into these... this could ... (618 words)

He seems to stare at my house a lot and then he seems to avoid me

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i moved into this house in december 2009 i realised that the lad that lives across the road, i know him as he knew my brother before he was killed 7yrs ago. this lad didn't remember who i was my friend told this lad i fancied him and then he started avoiding me so i wrote ... (233 words)

We exchanged numbers, how soon before I can call?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at a party last night, we seemed to hit it off and we exchanged phone numbers. I'll be honest and say I'm a bit of a novice in this regard, but if he's interested when would he call? Or should I? If I am to contact him, should I text or call?... (56 words)

After 18 months my boyfriend says sex isnt stimulating

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 18 months and he tells me he cant get stimulated through sex, and he has always been like that.Is this true, some please answer as this is ruining our relationship Thanks.... (39 words)

Pubic hair... does it turn you off or on?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys get turned off by hair... not only pubic hair... but hair on the chest and stomach part as well?? What is the best and easiest method to get rid of pubic hair? Please help!... (37 words)

He wants to take my virginity... and I'm scared I'll lose him if I say no.

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Am a 14 year old girl with a 17 year old boyfriend who wants 2 have 6 kids with me in the future. the thing is now he wants 2 break my virginity. I am still a virgin and am not ready. I dont wanna loose it. He's the best boyfriend ive ever had in my life , any advice? ... (64 words)

Is there a right way or wrong way to handle this situation?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I'm in a bit of a situation. I know what I want to do, but I don't know how to go about doing it. Advice and opinions would be much appreciated. I was in a relationship for six months with a guy, call him X. Nothing remotely sexual happened in this relationship, bu... (628 words)

Should my girlfriend have told me that her ex was going with her?

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My GF of a year, has been divorced for almost 3 years and has 3 children. Today her and her kids were going to a apple festival. Well last night her daughter told me that her dad was going with them. Just a little background, he is not from this country and doesn't have any ... (196 words)

I need help with this... What do you class as cheating?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya all... Well im a 20 year old girl and i think i am bi-sexual, i have never done anything with a female but really want to. The only thing is i have a boyfriend. I have explained to him about everything and he says he doesnt class me being with a woman as cheating a... (190 words)

Does regular shaving down there causes darkening?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does regular shaving down there causes darkening?... (7 words)

Devastated... Is my husband gay???

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10 October 2010 (F)

age - Today was the worst day of my life. My husband thought he had cleared the history on our computer, but this time he wasn't thorough enough. When I clicked on what websites he was visiting, they included teenage girls, boys, she-males (this was the greatest sites visited) and ... (161 words)

Mum and dad say he's "just another crush". Are they right?

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - right im not on here to bore the world, im on here to get help with things i need to and figure out if there are other people like me. im a 13 year old girl and i think im in love for real. my mum and dad and friends say he is just another crush but im sure its not like that. i ... (222 words)

He said he's seen the light!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for almost twenty years. We have three children - two girls, 19 and 17 and one boy, 14. When our oldest daughter was 15 I found out that my husband had started talking to an old grilfriend from high school (who had contacted him to tell him ... (513 words)

I feel his mother always comes first!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I had an arranged marriage and 3 kids. He is well educated and family man; however I do not feel that he is in love with me. Last summer, while in our native country, we had a nasty fight because of his mother intervention in our lives. He supported his mother. ... (154 words)

I feel he is just taking me for granted!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. We kinda live together. I stay at his house every night. Most of my clothes is at my parents house. Some stuff is at his house and I would like for me to have all of my belongings at my bf. I have brought most of my clothes once ... (148 words)

I want more action from my FWB

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how in the world do you make a fwb want more sex? its frustrating because we do it every few months. thats not fun. any pointers?... (26 words)

How do I get more time with my LDR without actually asking for it?

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10 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I've answered a few questions and I've stated how much of a sweetheart my long distance love is. He's sweet, kind, always makes me happy and full of laughter. He's cute, smarter then people give him credit for, makes sure im happy. He knows when something is wrong like im an ... (392 words)

Calling Christians - Can a spouse do so much wrong that you just can't come back despite what the bible says?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a very spiritual person. I love people and always look for the good in them. I am someone who can be involved with someone who has 2 tons of bad and 5 pounds of good, and I shift the scale to the good. But I am in a marriage where I have lost that. He has done absolutley ... (598 words)

I am daily being stalked online

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I met online and talked for 6 months. The whole time he gave mixed signals. He finally admitted that he was having an affair with a married woman and said he couldn't pull away from her. He always found fault in everthing I did. He even begged me for sex. The the ... (112 words)

We argued and now she isnt talking to me.

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i would apreciate if you guys help me.. my bestfriend and i had some arguments and she stoped talking to me i tried to talk to her to be friends again but i guess she doestnt feel comfortable or something she said she ill talk to me wheneve she feel good and ready to do ... (105 words)

Since breaking up with my GF I've been so lonely I don't know what to do!

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Since breaking up with my girlfriend I have been so lonely. I met her three months after moving to this city and she became my best friend. Now she's gone, seeing other dudes, and I'm left alone sitting in my room thinking about all the time we spent together. It used to be ... (161 words)

Invading partners privacy....how wrong is it

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 3 weeks ago I broke up with my bf (whom I had been with for 4 months) after I read his emails and found out he's been meeting another woman. He apologised and tried to get me back (he didn't know that I read his emails , I just told him I don't trust him anymore) but I stayed ... (530 words)

I'm really pretty but can be rude unnitentionally!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay I'm 16 and i have never had a problem with a guy liking me or noticing me because im really pretty my problem is that im really rude and most of the time its not on purpose and idk what to do plus im scared to do anything like even make out ! i feel like a loser and i just ... (87 words)

While separated, wife had sex with 5 other guys and I can't deal with it!

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 15 years and last year me and my wife were separated all of last year....We have since gotten back together however while we were separated she has had sex with 5 guys...I know because she keeps everything in her calendar...Since I now know how many and ... (250 words)

DId she just want a one night stand?

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl only a few days ago at a my school's homecoming parade. When I met her I was trying to get some candy for my little cousin since the people on the parade floats were throwing it. When I bumped into her we immediately started talking and having a fun time. After ... (138 words)

Rift with partner due to her coworker

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I've been with my partner for ten years now. We don't have any children, and we have had our differences. However, by and large everything is good. Trouble is that she work with a male coworker who has always had a crush on her. I've never minded before, a... (253 words)

Does she like me the same way as I like her?

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl that I really really like and we are friends. But I'm not sure if she likes me the same way as I like her. We talk to each other all of the time. She smiles and laughs a little only some of the time. We went to the fair when it came into town an we both had a ... (117 words)

I miss her so much and she blocked me from calling her and she wont call me again?

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I miss my ex so much I cant stop thanking about her I don't know what to do any more. She was my first in bed In I know she still loves me she calls me up still some times saying that she is missing me but why is she blocking me from calling her is she just playing with me? ... (188 words)

Could my boyfriend be gay and not know it?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Just broke up with my boyfriend who had been living with me for three years and I'm just trying to make sense of it all. I've met his parents, but in 3 years never met one single one of his friends. He always talked about me when he was on the phone with them, so they al... (760 words)

Stuck in the middle between friends and boyfriend!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at a point of no return with my friends. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over ten months, and we are very in love. I am 17, and he is 19. Before me, my boyfriend dropped out of high-school, and wasn't planning on going back, but I influenced him to go back and he ... (551 words)

I dont' want to waste my time on something that will lead to a dead end later in life!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now. We used to argue alot (on and off). But everytime we learn from our mistakes and just learn how to manage our relationship better. But lately ive been having trouble with my mom. She was fine with him back then but i used to cry ... (193 words)

Boyfriend moving away and I'm addicted to sex! what do I do?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what do i do if my boyfriend is moving away and i cant see him that much anymore and my hormones always raging and i dont know how to stay faithful and loyal to him because i keep thinking about sex i need some advise on wat to do bcuz i dont want to do something that i will ... (106 words)

He doesn't want me to fake it but its killing his self esteem that he can't make me have an orgasm!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have slept with 7 men in my life and I have only been able to achieve orgasm without any manual stimulation with one of them. I have actually been sexually active for almost a decade and my first orgasm (even when I was masturbating) wasnt until 5 years ago. I had been ... (174 words)

I want to have children and my partner doesn't!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I want to know what do you think i should do if i have been in a relationship for four years and i want to have a child but my partner does not want to have one? he wanted to marry me then he took it back then he wanted to try to have a child then he took that bac... (169 words)

I am unsure that she loves me even though she says that she does!

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10 October 2010 (M)

age - I'm wondering if I am going to loose my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I dated a few times many years ago while we were in high school. She ended up marrying someone else though and I went into the army and also married someone else. I was married around 10 years and the... (731 words)

Why did my b/f say "If we ever break up I want you to get with my friend, he's a good guy"

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do u guys think about this strange situation?? ok well my bf n i have been dating for a little over a month now. yesterday, he told, me tat his bestfriend liked me, i had met, him, with my bf, once. he told me tat if we ever broke, up, he would like me to get with his ... (106 words)

Should I try smoking?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - smoking should i try it or not? cause i want to. hi, this question isnt about relationship, i already posted one aobut that, anyway, i want to try somking but im only 14 some its not like i can go out and buy them or say to my parents " i want to a smoking can u buy me one... (190 words)

My boyfriend is secret and his best friend, who is my best friend, also likes me, and I like him!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a big problem and nobody to talk to about it, i really need help...This may get confusing but... Well,I'm 14 years old and i'm going out with this guy i've been madly in love with for over a year. In that year we've been 4 times which has ended with him finishi... (436 words)

We broke up but I am thinking about breaking the no contact rule!

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to get my girlfriend back and I've hit a crossroads... I've been doing the no contact thing for 2 weeks now and I was certain it would work because we do both love each other like crazy and the circumstances surrounding our break up were kinda trivial. I know it's ... (414 words)

He has webcam chats with men, but won't have sex with me.

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been dating this guy for 2 years, living together for 6 months. His bisexual. We have never had the honeymoon stage, he has never seemed to chase me for sex. I thought this was odd and found out he web cams to men and mastubates to porn everyday. When i moved in i tho... (228 words)

Can I keep seeing my professor, or is it a lost cause?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About a week ago, under fairly casual and normal circumstances I accepted a ride home from my college professor. The classes I take are evening classes part time, and he is not employed by the college directly, but began teaching this past September. Previous to this ride, we... (350 words)

Could the quiz have been a test or should I go for the other girl?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, last year I met this really great girl, pretty much perfect really. I spent most of year 12 fancying her and getting to know her. I remember the first time I saw her, I've never liked anyone so instantly. She sat apart from everyone else, so the next time I sat by her, It ... (1439 words)

(User's title) Am I a phantom?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm new to this site and I seen that it gives advice, so I figured why not to join, right? I always wanted to know why... Can't I get a guy that will treat me like a princess, maybe I'm misfortunate enough to go for the pricks.. I'm not sure, I just need answers please. Than ... (506 words)

My boyfriend tried to slip me the tongue, and it was a HUGE surprise

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my bf tried to slip me the toungue and i didnt know he was ready so it was a HUGE surpirse and i didnt see it coming so i ended up kissing his tounge i got so scared and didnt know wat to do after that so he said srry and i said one day buddy. i know i was so bad i feel bad.he ... (125 words)

Girlfriend is jealous of my kids!

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hope someone can give me some advice.. my new girlfriend is, i feel, a little jealous of my kids. We've been together 9 months and i really think a lot of her. She says she loves me. Recently the idea of moving in together has been discussed but i have reservation... (298 words)

Sex is so painful for me that boyfriend would rather masturbate

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend 4 years now im so very happy with him but unfortunately he studies abroad and i don't see him for up to 6 months at a time then when i do its only for a month. But every-time i have sex with him it always hurts even if we have lots of foreplay.we d... (331 words)

(User's title) Should I tell my best friend I love him?

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this might be a little long so i apologies. I have had feelings for my best guy friend for about 3 years. I found out that he was bi one year ago. I told him that i was bi about 6 months ago but I have been hinting at it since he told me. Now the problem is I am incre... (191 words)

I thought my friend was flirting with me, but then I tried to kiss her!!

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well I dropped one of my friends home the other night, she always seems to flirt with me, but tonight she was a little bit tipsy. I went to kiss her and she rejected me. What do I do? I feel really bad because we get on really well and i feel that could have been ruined. ... (62 words)

My husband's adult children take precendence over my needs

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10 October 2010 (F)

age - I have been with my spouse for 15 years. We both have two boys from other marriages, his are 39 and 36 and mine are 28 and 26. The problem I have is his grown children, and his need to change everything we have together, in order to be with them. My spouse will cancel com... (173 words)

How do I get her to fall in love with me?

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10 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I get the girl I love the most to fall deaply in love with me???? Maximum answer please...... (20 words)

Alcoholic at fifteen!

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this is nothing to do with relationships ,, but i am nearly 15 now and i am a alcholic ,, and i need to focas on my school work ,, how do i cope with not being able to drink and no stress ,, because whenever i dont drink i am stressed ,, hense why i drink so much ,, but its ... (86 words)

(User's title) To stay or not to stay

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help very confused. I married a man that I got along very well with 2 years ago. He married me with a child ( boy) who was 6 when we first started dating. As the few years went by I noticed the relationship between my son and husband started to deteriorate I left my ... (222 words)

I love him but he walks all over me.

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i break up with my boyfriend of 6 years? I love him so much but he never listens to me, and he walks all over me! He thinks just cause his friends are single and worthless lol he can act the same! When hes with me hes loving and committed and when hes with his friends he ... (94 words)

How can I ask out a boy who gets all the girls?

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10 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay , there is this boy i love so much i have loved him since year 5 ,, i am now 14 and now sadly go to a private school and i am finding it really hard to ask him out please help me he is a really nice boy and he gets all the girls ,, i have only been out with 1 outher ... (85 words)