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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He has changed, could he be cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is acting very different and i keep getting this feeling that he's cheating on me, how do i know for sure? And then what do i do if he is ?... (33 words)

I know how to talk to women, I have a car, a job, how come I can't get a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. Never even been in a relationship. Is there something wrong with me? I don't really think there is a reason for this to happen to me. I am a nice and decent looking guy who has a car, steady job. Is there one feature that would put a ... (110 words)

I have feelings for one of my teachers. Does he, too?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, my "liking" feelings have been growing for one of my teachers. At the beginning of the school year, I didn't really take that much interest in him, but now (and I don't know why) I am, and he seems to be acting a little different, too. For example, when I recently ... (205 words)

Making girlfriend my top priority

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - how can i make my girlfriend feel like she is my top priority?... (13 words)

Am I doing something wrong or has he gone off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my self and my boyfriend used to have a fantastic love life now he dont seem to be inerested and just lies there for me to get him arosed he dont touch me anymore and instead of kissing me i get the odd peck when we have sex its 2 pumps an a squirt but if i give him a hand ... (104 words)

I have an urge to tell him how I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, so. I honestly think that I am in love with my teacher. He is so perfect to me in everyway. I am a freshman student as of now, and he is my Spanish teacher. I am 15 years old and he is 30. It is a 15 year difference, but I can care less about age. The bottom line is ... (163 words)

Married ex asking questions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what does it mean when an ex you had a child with,asks you personal questions but is now married?does that mean he still cares... (24 words)

We broke up because my boyfriend's brother moved in with us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 6 years, with a man I love and respect. It has been bliss, with very few real "fights". We've always had excellent communication, and have always able to reach compromises on issues we disagreed on. We were so comfortable in our relationship ... (149 words)

What should I wear to go and see my bf ???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf always looks soooo amazing but I never know what to wear when I got and see him coz I don't know what boys like to see girls in can u help ???... (34 words)

We fight almost every day and I'm always crying

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm 20 and my Boyfriend is 30. We have been together for a year and a half and he is totally my best friend and we love each other to death and are great! But....we seem to fight almost everyday and I seem to CRY EVERYTIME... I tell him when things bother me but he ... (153 words)

Getting married soon but still unable to enjoy sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and are all geared up to tie the knot in a couple of months.We are completely in love,and have not been with anyone else ever.Yet everytime we have sex I am unable to enjoy it.The first time was understandable due to the ... (66 words)

I think one night stands are disgusting! Am I normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3392 days ago

22 October 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Even when I was a teenager I never beleived in 1 night stands and never had sex with a woman I didn't at least care about. I hear about so many cases of cheating, group sex and just fucking someone just for the hell of it. I find it a bit discusting. All my mates have told me ... (99 words)

I got banned on a website, will they come looking for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I Think I have been banned from a certain website (being a young male you can imagine what type) for not paying for the service. I made several accounts on it and one of their rules was no identity fraud. Well in my eyes I created the names of the top of my head so they could ... (172 words)

My mom is a cougar! How do I get over it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the story. Im 16 and my name is Candace. I'm inique, pretty and fun to be around and hilarious, and I get that from my mom. I haven't seen or talked to my real dad in years. (i dont miss him at all). My mom remarried and had a son with my stepdad, but then they got ... (202 words)

She is running me around in circles ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so, there is this girl who I've recently become extremely attracted to - she's gorgeous, has a great personality, is both extremely cute and horribly sexy and it seems like we're very compatible. But, she's been running me in circles lately and I'm pretty much lost as I've ... (399 words)

How do girls climax? And is it dangerous to be erect every day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - during sex,a boy is satisfied the time he ejaculates.what about the girl?another question is-what are the negative effects if ur penis do not last a day without erection.eg u watch porn everyday.... (32 words)

How do I get this guys attention......again!!!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i liked this guy last year and we seemed to have a really close connection but we fought a lot. i really wanted to date him but i was to scared to tell him how i really felt,although i think he secretly knew. then i got fed up with the arguing and deleted him as a friend on ... (116 words)

If you last 4 minutes while masturbating, how long do you last during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - between sex and masturbation,what stays longer?if somebody is masturbating 4 min.how longer do you expect him 2 stay during sex?... (20 words)

I think we'd be good for each other but I fear risking the friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (?) age 41-50 - i have recently made contact with an old close friend. we've known each other for about 12 years. we once became very close to the point when we were lovers but it only lasted a few weeks when we decided to break it off. after that we didn't know what to say to each other and ... (200 words)

Is it ok to be jealous or envious of others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it okay to be a envy/jealous of someone? I have been feeling very envy /jealous of celebrites and models and other people. I feel like the are so beautiful and that they got everything. I know that being jealous isn't good for the health. I do know that there are always g... (139 words)

Could she have feelings she's not ready to admit to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old female, and I'm bi. At the moment I am really confused about how I feel. There is this girl who I developed very strong feelings for, and she knows. I think I may be falling for her, but I don't think she likes me. She is a really touchy person with everyone. ... (359 words)

I still love my ex and claims he loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been out this relationship for some yrs. He cheated but apologized i he was with his new girl but continued to tell me how much he missed me But we still talk but in the mean time he leaves her and goes with someone else. but still continues to tell me he loves me and ... (132 words)

Embarrassed because I've never had a relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 nearly 17 and i never had a relationship and its getting to the point where i cant tell know one because i feel imbarassed to tell my friends and family except my mum who understands.I do want a relationship but know one has ever taken an iterest in me because i'm a size ... (154 words)

Friend's a tart, how do I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I have a new friend who I met through my child's school... I think we will end up being really good friends, she's really on my wave length... The trouble is she's single and has signed up to loads of dating sites, she keeps meeting loads of blokes at the weekend when her ... (133 words)

Two guys want to go out with me, which to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really confused. I've just been asked out by two people. One of them I've been crushing on for a while and now i've even started dreaming about him! The other one is really nice and I've actually started to sort of fancy him. The thing is the one I've been crushing on is a ... (118 words)

He lied about his age and about being previously married. Is this salvagable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. About a month ago, I found out that he lied to me about his age. He initially told me he was 35, and when we first began dating he made a really big deal about the age difference ("Are you sure my age isn't an issue?" to which ... (575 words)

I've blown it now he wont speak to me, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - As the title says ive blown it with my boyfriend. I said something to him on Sunday night which was very accusing and since then he wont talk to me. Ive text, sent an email and for the first time tried to call him earlier but he wont answer. I do regret what i said as i got ... (134 words)

Are guys OK with inverted nipples?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I have somewhat invertd nipples. They look normal when i simply sqeeze my boobs but whn they are just being thmself, they tend to go in. Im a little self consious so ive been surfin the net for guys opinions on them. Most guys dont care, but a lot of guys say they have nevr ... (151 words)

Question for guys: have you ever cut off ties with an ex abruptly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Question mainly directed at guys but of course females can give their input too :) I just wanted to know, have any of you ever cut your ex out of your life without any "warning"? As in, you never said that you didn't want any more contact, you just stopped replying to messages... (94 words)

I need advice on how to make sure he leaves and stays gone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have always had problems... He has been saying " just tell me to leave" constantly for months and I have never told him to. but i told myself if i hear it again I will agree and tell him to leave. yesterday he told me " i dont want you anymore just tell me to ... (222 words)

My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

- My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is completely messed up and skewed. ... (664 words)

I really like him but don't want to loose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so basically I really like this boy. We have known each other for ages and we went out a few years ago. But, I ended it because it wasn't going anywhere and I have regretted that decision ever since. A few months ago he broke up with his girlfriend and we got very friendly. ... (170 words)

I like him but he doesn't show any signs of liking me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well every since like 2nd grade i had a crush on this guy we will call him john. Well i moved away in 4th grade and now i came back in the middle of 7th and now 8th. I still like him. Thing is he doesn't like me. I have gym with him and sometimes i see him out of the corner ... (110 words)

How can I move on and get her out of my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - after a divorce,i quickly found myself in another relationship with a woman i met in the pub,she was really nice,had a good job,teacher,things started going really well and i thought id landed on my feet again,things went really well for a bit,id even go so far as to say i fell ... (346 words)

I am crazy about him but he has anger issues.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been on and off for the last 4 years. Everytime we get into a serious arguement he desides he doesnt want the rship and breaks it of. I have never broke up with him. I just guessed it was commintment issuses. Hes a very stubborn guy, and when hes angry... (523 words)

Is it normal to want to lose your virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, im a 16 year old girl. im really pretty and im a nice person. i have a great additude and im really funny. i have alot of friends, and maybe a handfull of guy friends(that i couldnt see myself being in a relationship with) and i just want to lose my virginity!!! i cant ... (118 words)

Will there be a sharp pain when there is penetration during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Will there be a sharp pain when there is penetration during sex?... (12 words)

My boyfriend might be interested in another girl. Do I keep this going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 10months. We've made plans in the next 5 years to live together and eventually get married. But I can't help but feel that time won't come. One time when we broke up it was for another girl he started to like. They didnt last a week ... (191 words)

My boyfriend is turning into my charity work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Gang - I recently agreed that my boyfriend could move into my houseshare whilst he relocated to the west country for work. unfortunately the job he was offered fell through, so now he is living in my room, unemployed and cant afford to move on anywhere. he is driving me ... (258 words)

He's still on a dating site. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy on a dating site nearly a month ago and we met two nights after our first chat and it went well. The second night he cooked for me and that was superb. The third night I saw him, we both said it was lovely and going well and we're both glad we met. Second week we ... (278 words)

I left a bad relationship with a now deceased ex and I'm troubled by my feelings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I left my fiance in 2006 for a guy who I thought was great. At first everything was great, then came the excessive drinking and drug use. I wasn't one to do drugs, but I did end up doing them with this guy. After 3 mos together I caught him cheating and we broke up, but like ... (379 words)

I don't know if he likes me, should I stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with this guy he tells me that he love me to but he is the kind of guy that goes with girls but he tell me he love me so much but i stop and think if he loves me.Also i am a Virgin i am in high school and i am scair of what happened if i have sex what is there to ... (93 words)

Thinking the marriage may have been a mistake and that I should leave before I hurt her more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am abusing my wife for the last five months.we registry married on february this year.our parents do not know about our marriage,though they are prepared to allow us marry when she completes her college.my wife asked me not to disclose this to anyone.still a few of my friends ... (837 words)

A problem with his baby mother... what's the best way to deal with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I need a little help and understanding from the baby mothers. I’ve been with the same guy for the last 6 ½ years. He has three children before he met me. One 18,11 and almost 7. The mother of the youngest apparently hasn’t gotten it through to her head that over and there is no ... (254 words)

A question about manners!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Its not a love question, but about manners. i went out with my friend yesterday, and later her coworker joined us with 2 friends, all guys. They were approximately our age, early, mid forties. We were introduced, exchanged 'nice to meet you'frases. After that my girlfrie... (443 words)

I don't know if my husband loves me anymore. Could he just be staying with me because I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have two situations,the first one is I do not know if my husband loves me anymore. First of all we gt married at a young age about a year ago. Sience then we been have issues and I spent like 3 wks away from him becuz he kept wanted to keep in touch with his ex. So after 3 ... (121 words)

I'm just getting a little concerned that he's not that into me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this really great guy online. Initially I contacted him because he had a very thoughtful profile and it seemed like he had great values. Then we met for our first date, and I found him to be super hot! We've been on three dates so far. The conversation has been amazing... (179 words)

How can I know if she wants me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My neighbour lady is 35 years old. She is always showing her cleavage by bending down in front of me. I don't know it is accidently or not. We are also friends. I likes her very much and wants her. But i don't know if she wants me or not. How can i know that she wants me? I ... (94 words)

Why are some guys so close to their sisters?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

22 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Why is it that some guys seem incredibly close to their sisters? Ive been dating this guy for 5months now. It feels like they flirt more then me and him. And hes always praising her more then me. I know i sound delusional but i know im not! And shes so fake around him. Its ... (75 words)

Has he really moved on? Do I still stand a chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I will try to keep this as short as I can. I would really appreciate any advice. My ex and I were together for about 5 years and we were engaged for about 2. He is in the military so for some time we were in a long distance relationship. About a year ago I moved close to where ... (398 words)

Husband is a big time drinker! Do I stay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My question to you is that I been with my husband for 16 years we have 3 beautiful girls together, my husband is a big time drinker and Iam not talking just about beer its hard liquor Its where my oldest daughter he hits her,and verbally abusive me or my children, I dont think ... (129 words)

We had sex while b/f's dad was home, does that make me a slut?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating for a few months, he lives at home with his dad. We spend a lot of time at his house and his dad is really nice. The other night we were there we wnet to in his room just to hang out and we started kissing this kept going and we ended uo having sex ... (143 words)

What should I expect from this visit? We are about to embark on a long-distance relationship, I hope!

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Finally, I met a wonderful girl. We were both in the same place doing an internship this past summer. She quickly became one of the best friends I've ever had, and we did everything together over the summer. The problem was, she was in a (long-distance) relationship with ... (502 words)

Beautiful letters from a former colleague and lover, would it be unethical to publish them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age - Several years ago when clearing out a filing cabinet at work, my colleague found several very thick folders of love letters. They were between a married former colleague and a man with whom she was conducting an affair. My friend wanted to throw them into the bin, because she ... (162 words)

Why would he act this way after an accident like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Every October our whole family gets together for a week long vacation with my parents anniversary, my brothers and sister and all their families attend. This year my 21 yr old niece Lyndsay brought her new boyfriend, Jace (he is 24). He seemed like a nice guy, very shy and a ... (201 words)

Younger lover wants his space, should I help him? Or leave it alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age - I have been living with my partner for 6 years but he just announced that he wants to move out because he needs his own space.I was very upset as I took this to mean our relationship was over, but he said he wanted to live somewhere else, but spend most nights with me.I have 3 ... (239 words)

Why feeling hurt, despair and sad when really felt something for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I grew up as a guy who has a strong personality, and a perfect gentleman. Knew how to talk to girls and have always tried to be a good human being. Unfortunately, my relationships never worked out due to various reasons. When in school I was close to one of the most beautif... (1373 words)

He wants his ex and me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am seeing and older man, almost 30 years my senior. Everything we do is amazing, it is the best relationship i've had. The age gap is a problem, and we both know it is never going to be a longterm thing. But the problem is this started over a month ago when he'd just broken ... (124 words)

Men: Is dirty texting to your mates normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - id really like a males veiw on this question is dirty texting to your mates normal cause i just wonder if its playfull banter and nothing to worry about or if its normal no matter how old u r... (39 words)

How will I know when there is penetration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20yrs old girl, still a virgin, my hymen wasn't there, so my BF knows and promised not to penetrate deeper during sex ie for me not to lose my virginity until i'm ready,but i'm confused, am i still a virgin? Can i get pregnant like that and how wil i know when there is ... (58 words)

How do I catch the attention of a guy I hardly even see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay basically, there's a guy at work that I like. The thing is, I work at a sports stadium so if I ever want to see him then it's on match days. But the stadium is so big that I hardly do get to see him. I know what bar he works in (a lil bit of stalking investigation) but I ... (226 words)

Winking before making love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when a man winks at you when he is just about to make love to you?... (20 words)

My co-worker's dirty little secret is really starting to get to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've worked with this guy for 2 years, been friends for 18 months. We work in an office in a close environment and recently he has been telling everyone how he is going to propose to his girlfriend on their one year anniversary. Everyone keeps going on about how he is the pe... (224 words)

I really like her but we haven't met up yet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This has been bothering me alot recently, there is this girl and i really like her she is a year older than me. We both really like each other yet we have not met up yet. she lives only round the corner and i cant stop thinking about her. We always text each other, and its ... (84 words)

Is he actually just busy with work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So before I left for my 2 month adventure in the US, I hooked up with an old acquaintance. Needless to say he's incredible in bed. The night before I left we spent the night together, dinner, chamapagne and all the rest and he said he would miss me but to have an amazing ... (228 words)

Am I throwing away 13 years of marriage for no good reason/

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - this is probably a strange thing to be dealing with but i dont know what to do it all started about 2 years ago me and my husband was in bed going to sleep when he recieved a text message from his friends girlfriend (whom he doesnt know and has never met )it was very explicit ... (387 words)

At 30, how do I address my virginity problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a male virgin who turns 30 this summer. This bothers me a lot, only because it makes me feel “nervous” around my friends.I don`t have any past experiences i can narrate to anybody. I didn`t think much about it when I was younger as I was an “emotional” guy, but now I just ... (124 words)

Is this just a temporary glitch again or is it the end now? If so how can I forget and be happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have been upset about a break up. I was with my ex for over 2 years, we had split up for half a year before but got back together. We were alot happier, but there were still some ups and downs and trust issues towards the end that wasn't necessary. We a... (647 words)

Is this a bad sign? Lack of eye contact

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I am worried about something but it sounds trivial. My boyfriend hardly ever makes prolonged eye contact with me. I think he does love me because he tells me he does, and he puts me first. Plus we love to be in each others company, but in the past I have had boyf... (265 words)

Is my husband with me just because I had his baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my husband is 33 we have only been together in a sexual relationship for about 13 months but have known each other for over 5 years. When we first got together everything thing was perfect, He was the perfect gentleman, Took me out for meals, Listened to everything ... (528 words)

Must I spend the rest of my life alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been single for some years now after the break up of a very serious relationship (eight years). Since that time I have had one short-term relationship that ended when I discovered I was being used. Prior to that I had two other serious relationships - my first ... (595 words)

Fallen in love with her again, admiration or is it love? Need advice asap please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a tricky question, I've been trying to workout since I was 14 I'm now 19 so it's been a good 5 years!!! I just hope someone can shed some light on the situation and give me some advice Okay so I'll start from the first encounter I guess =| I was a year older than e... (1617 words)

I found out my best friend is a stripper! I want her to be my favourite stripper!

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so before I go all clichéd on you guys, I want to explain something to you. Something that thoroughly shocked me at first but then after thinking about it, I really started to like it. Last Saturday night, I went to a strip club with two of my best guy friends (they're... (572 words)

Is he really interested?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is he interested? I have know a guy a long time through work and when I left I gave him a note just saying "I would like to keep in touch and if you ever want to meet for a coffee or a chat give me a call" I thought this would have no pressure attached and sound casual/inf... (395 words)

How do I know my boyfriend is over his ex?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i know my boyfriend is completely over his ex? he left her cause she crazy, jealous as hell ect and he could'nt live with that anymore but he did really love her very much, they broke up over a year and a half ago. we have been together 8 months and since day one this ... (202 words)

Snooping through his phone I found a text message to his ex saying I mean nothing to him!

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - While sneaking through my boyfriend of 3 months phone, I found a email to his ex-wife stating that I am nothing to him, should I confront him??... (27 words)

Help! I am fed up with my father and am not sure my boyfriend loves me!

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. I basically have 2 queries.. 1. I am fed up of my father who just doesnt understand me ever and whenever i try to do so, he takes everything in a wrong manner and verbally abuses me each time in front of others. Then i feel like going out of this hell but th... (271 words)

Slept with my husbands best friend

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i am a 19 year old mother of 3. I have a wonderful husband been married almost a year. well a couple of months ago i found out that my husband really good friend was a guy i used to hook up with and eventually fell madly head over heels in love with him and he bounced ... (135 words)

I dream and then a week later the dream comes true?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Most nights i dream some pretty weird dreams.. then like a week or so later my dreams come real. i dont know what it means?? is there any meaning?... (31 words)

Obsessed with my best friend?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm obsessed with my best friend! I loved him before I became obsessed with him so unlike most people that are obsessed with people I can't physically harm him in anyway. But anyway we've been friends for years and one day we both decided to come out and admit that we ... (223 words)

Attracted to someone who looks like your ex means????

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm just curious about something.... if youre attracted to someone that reminds you of or is similar to your ex, does it mean you still have feelings for that person or does it just mean thats your "type""? i recently met a guy that i find really attractive and he seems to have ... (265 words)

What justifies pursuing a girl in High School?

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, Though this site seems to mainly serve a slightly older community, I've a question on high school relationships. What justifies pursuing a girl? As a mere sophomore, I've no real experience with dating. I would like very much to find myself in a relationship, but ther... (177 words)

Did the condoms get too hot to be safe to use?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunt, I have purchased a box of condom as a gift for my man. I recently read that heat could destroy condoms. Out of my ignorance on the day of my purchase, I kept it in my wooden desk drawer for 24 hours. I use my laptop (which heats up quite well) on the des... (137 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to view her sexuality positively instead of negatively?

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 1 year. Since the start of our relationship, we haven't had sex. I don't see it as a problem but it has crossed my mind why we haven't took the next step. So recently I sat down with her and as subtly possible brought up the subject. I ... (212 words)

G/f says I've done nothing wrnog but she wants a break

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 5.5 years just told me she wanted a break, but insisted it was nothing ive done, and she still loves me, she just needs space to take a step back and figure things out....what do i do? i have had no contact with her since "The Talk" what should i do in order to ... (60 words)

Husband will not defend me against his mom!

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't understand what it's going to take for my husband to defend me when it comes to his mom. I had taken anti depressants because of her. And because I took anti depressants I had a miscarriage not knowing I was pregnant. I cry all the time. He has not put a stop to her ... (80 words)

I don't think that this marriage is worth salvaging!

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 3 years, and we dated beforehand for 6. It hasn't been an easy road and it's been filled with emotional abuse and at times it borders on physical abuse. We have also had our good times and I do love him, but I am at a loss at what to do. ... (357 words)

My boyfriend's 6 yr old son has recently started disrespecting me..what should I do?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a 6 yr old son that recently has started disrespecting me for the past month or two. Whenever he doesn't get his way he pinches or hits me. Sometimes he pinches me for no reason. Every time I tell my boyfriend he brushes it off. We have been together for 1 yr ... (97 words)

My boyfriends family won't let go of his soon to be ex wife

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a fairly new relationship with a man going through divorce. His family absolutely adores his soon to be ex and is making it clear that they want them to get back together. While they are friendly and cordial to me, the ex continues to be invited out to lunch by various ... (182 words)

He backs away when I try to kiss him!

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy that i really like and he likes me back, we both know about it and we've cuddled, held hands...really basic stuff. the problem is he always backs away when i try to kiss him and he is always hesitant to hang out with me. never minding that he always says he ... (62 words)

Help me! I don't know what to say to my boyfriend!

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend Has had sex once before and we have talked about having sex we are both 15 and he wanted me to be legal but I don't think it's fair because he wasn't and I'm ready! he says he doesn't want to pressure me and I have told him he's not he keeps asking if I'm really ... (129 words)

He has a girlfriend, I asked him out for a drink but he said "'I would love to another time." What does he mean?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im sorry that it is long but there is a lot to say. please give your advice :) there is this guy who my friend says like me. he stares at me everytime i go into the shop he works in, and it is sort of constant staring. he always smiles at me and comes over to talk to me... (1065 words)

Why do women want to stay friends with their ex?

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This one is for the females. Please enlighten me or tell me if this is true. What is with the obsession in remaining friends with the ex boyfriends? Do all women do this? For those that say yes, why?! I have never remained "friends" with an ex girlfriend. If I see one on ... (395 words)

If he misses me why can't he just say he's sorry?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please bare with me, and please help! When I was 14 I met this boy online. He was the same age as me we had the same interests and generally got on very well. We spoke online nearly everyday, as well as texting each other and phoning each other. It blossomed into a... (988 words)

My girlfriend demands I return her things to her before she's willing to talk about getting back together.

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22 October 2010 (M)

age - i just read a post that is similar to mine i have a girlfriend that broke up with me there is a age difference im 48 and she is 25 we met and have feelings for each other we have been together for a year and half anyway she had a problem with drugs and tired to help her stay... (249 words)

I have never confessed to my fiance that I slept with his brother

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I dated when we were 14 and 16.We met again when we were 2years ago.By then,we both came out of complicated relationhip and were sleeping together without expecting anything.During that time I slept with his brother. It only happened once. Now that we are ... (87 words)

How big is too big?

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22 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Girls only: What penis size is too big for you?... (11 words)

He cheated on me and I think about it every day

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating this guy for three years and i dont know if i should stay with him. I know it sounds bad but he cheated on me once when he went to a party and he got drunk and had sex with one of my enenmies. i had to find out from his ex girlfriend and he didnt admit it to me ... (154 words)

Chatting a year online, does he love me

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im women from philliphines, 23 years old,im chatting a guy from georgia, we know each other for a year in chat, and i fall inlove with him...he always teling me that he love me..what is the posible sign that he really love me? how can i know that he is serious with me?... (53 words)

Long term girlfriend still closed off sexually

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, so my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 years now. we started dating in high school, and now we're both 21 and seniors in college. went through the usual high school story of us friends first and then it grew blah blah blah.. after a little less than a year... (347 words)

I don't trust him and he's tired of saying "I love you" with me not believing him

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been going out for 2 years. After one year he met up with his ex [who he knew I was insecure about] behind my back and pretende dhe hadn't. He then had a rather inapprorpriately flirt text convo with yet another girl. We worked it out and I forgave him. Thing ... (108 words)

Younger guys just don't have what I want!

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old.I'm only attracted to older guys,I'd say guys i find attractive are always between the ages of 25-40 is this normal? Because i feel like this isn't normal and im weird. I never have and never will be attracted to guys younger or my age they just lack somethin... (72 words)

My married cousin is so friendly to me, what does it mean?

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My cousin is a married woman and also we are so friendly. She is always wearing sexy dresses as her boobs are partially shown to me.I don't know it is accidently or not. She is middle aged. I want to show that i am interested in her. Also she is always looking at my hairy ... (108 words)

I'd like to be with her, should I try to contact her again or forget it?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So in July I met this great girl online. She lives in the next town. She randomly messaged me one day and we clicked. We got to know each other, She kept pushing to see me, so we did, I had a really great time we went somewhere where it was just us and talked for hours and ... (506 words)

Abusive cheating boyfriend says he cheats to get money to support me!

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a relationship with a great guy. now he has become abusive. we have been together almost 3 years. i found out he was cheating on me has been with more than 7 other women besides me. i forgave him the first time because he apologised. he claims that these women give him ... (477 words)

My friend set us up, but he came on too strong

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont know how to handle this. i have met up with this guy a couple of times. one of my friends has tried to set us up. he has never had a girlfriend, even though he is in his 30's, but i have dated a few men. i dont feel attracted to him, but he said he thinks i'm beautiful ... (200 words)

How can I forgive him for moving away?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I move past the pain? My boyfriend was with me for a year and then left me to go to university 250 miles away. I'm at university but i stayed at home and i can only see him every three-six weeks. We used to spend every single day together. when he is there i feel so ... (302 words)

Second thoughts about the break with my ex -- should I push to get back together?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex bf for 8 years we had a child and 8 months later I was tired of feeling like he did not want to commit. 6 months later I reconnected with someone an got married I left him 6 months after because I realized I was still in love with my ex. I tried talki... (389 words)

My sister is dating my abusive ex!

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22 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My twin sister is dating my ex boyfriend. I am not really happy about it, not because he is my ex but because he was abusive and everything to me. I don't really know how to tell her this. Any advise would be great.... (45 words)

How do I prove I didn't have sex when I woke up naked next to her?

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I prove I didn't have sex with this girl when I woke up naked next to her. I can't remember anything from the night before or the morning. the only thing I do remember is mid afternoon.... (39 words)

Beaten, vunerable and utterly lost, can anyone help me?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About six years ago I wondered from house to house, bridge to bridge... one day i found the father of my 2 wonderful boys... lost myself i helped him find himself but i have remianed lost.. He was so into getting stoned, he would hardly pay attention to our children. Allowing ... (346 words)

What is it your partner does to keep you with her?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just hoping to hear from a few long-time, happily married/committed men on what it is about their relationship with their wives/girlfriends that makes it work? Also, to any men who have/had stable relationships, what are some of the factors involved that keeps you committed ... (174 words)

Sweden verses UK

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is Swedish and I'm English. He thinks England is backward and old. He liked some parts of it but generally I got the feeling that he was disappointed. It annoys me because he keeps yapping on and on about Sweden and how amazing everything is in Sweden ... (173 words)

Using a fleshlight and a still a virgin.

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, im still a virgin and im a 19 year old male and i masturbate with a fleshlight because i havent found the right girl yet and im bored using my hand. i dont masturbate a lot but i just have 2 questions. 1. Should i ever tell my next girlfriend that i have used a fleshlig... (158 words)

Could it possibly have been discharge???

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Could it possibly have been discharge?????? I had sex yesterday with my mate and he *** in me, usually it would leak out afterwards but this time it didn't. After the sex he had some type of white gooey stuff on his p****... it came from me. ... (48 words)

Does anyone have any advice for better communication?

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22 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, for the first time in my life, I feel I have found what I am looking for. I had been single for about a year and spent so much time focusing on myself. I had finally learned that before I could have a good relationship with anyone else, I had to have an even better ... (462 words)

Bedtime capers!

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22 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have an issue. My girlfriend get very upset with me when we try to sleep in the same bed. I toss and turn when I sleep. She says that I knee and elbow her. She yells at me for this even though I tell her that I am not doing it intentionality and apologize for it. The only ... (271 words)