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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When I'm around him I'm shy and awkward and don't know what to say!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem very juvenile and immature...But I just really need some advice! So school just started a month or two ago and I started having a crush of my of my class mates. I never really had talked or communicated with him before. We have a lot of classes together, so I see ... (283 words)

How would you make it up to your friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - if you called your best friend something really bad coz you got angry with her but now you have realize that you have made one of the most biggest mistakes of your life, what would you do?? as in how would you say sorry to her?? and thanks... (48 words)

How have you used the power of suggestion to get a man going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - The power of suggestion is awesome. What is some of the things you gals have done or said to your partner to get him going before you ever see him? ... (31 words)

FWB turning into a dating situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past two months are so I've been engaging in a friends with benefits. He and I started seeing eachother after we met for the first time through mutual friends. Neither of us were really looking for relationships, we ended up enjoying eachothers company, and a friends ... (377 words)

I have insanely strong feelings for my history teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have insanely strong feelings for my history teacher. He's 28, im 16. Ever since the first day I saw him I've had this massive desire to be around him. I think a lot of it might be lust, but I dont know..some of the things I feel are deeper than that. I sincerely like his ... (311 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to spend more time with me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend but he does not spend much time with me and he won't invite me to his house. But the time we spend together is really nice and really romantic and I know he cares about me so how can I get him to spend more time with me ??? xxx ... (54 words)

Oral sex question for the ladies... workin' on technique!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I have a short goatee... not 5 o clock shadow just a tad bit longer that can create a nice maybe sandpaper feel lol.... do ladies like this if im goin' down on one? Like if I rub my trimmed beard against their clitorus? I'm workin on technique and would like a little ... (57 words)

Divorced, but can't sell house or move on with my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I have a dilemma that is not truly a relationship issue, but kinda. I am recently divorced, and am with a new partner who is great and we intend to marry late next year. The only remaining issue with my former marriage is my marital house is on the market now for 6 months ... (338 words)

How can 2 guys cause so much confusion???

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. have posted on here before, and this is a follow on from my last question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-stay-single-and-try-getting-over.html Long story short, 2 guys, Adam and Dave, Dave being most recent ex and Adam being an old old ex fro... (333 words)

Seriously???

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older than her. He was married, and ... (369 words)

Should I move on and forget these past 6 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up this Tuesday. I'm empty inside and I don't know what to do. He was my first boyfriend, he gave me so much in life, infact...he gave me a point to live. But since we got back to school things had decayed, he never let me round his house, ... (416 words)

Did she cheat when we were first starting out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My girlfriend has had a series of FWB relationships before me. Most of them overlapped considerably. When I started out with her, we were FWB, but it quickly evolved into a serious, committed relationship after a few months. I found out later on she had planned a hookup or 2 ... (169 words)

I feel I can't escape this miserable lonely marriage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for 14 yrs the mortgage and house is in my husband's name, i have brought up our sons age 15 17 yrs and also worked building up my own business from home, i am also company secretary for my husbands building business, i want to leave the marriage as he ... (196 words)

Fallen out with my friend... what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, i've fell out with a friend of mine, i dont really feel like he cares but then again he isnt someone he like to talk about stuff. I've took peoples advice and said leave him etc and so i;ve done that but they aslo said after a while just see if he'll speak ... (189 words)

"Enjoy the moment!"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy says to "enjoy the moment." we've been in a monogamous relationship about 6 months and have talked about how seriously committed we are to the relationship. But every time he says that line, I feel like he's saying he doesn't want to be with me or ... (83 words)

I need help making the right choices to be healthy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been feeling so sad about how I look and feel about myself. I really want to change my lifestyle by eating right and exercising. I want to get better physically and emotionally. They say that when you eat right and exercise that it makes you better; but I am having a ... (93 words)

How can I convince my husband to stay? Any advice would be great!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband has made a nasty habit out of disappearing for no reason on occasion. He will sometimes call and say: "im on my way home from work" or not call at all, and just not come home. Most of the time he will stay out til very late, but there has been a few times that he has ... (578 words)

Is there any point in holding on to him hoping he will change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf of 2 years has walked out on me and our 1yr old son, he says not to take it personally he just doesnt want to be in a relationship with me or anyone else, 10 days later we ended up having sex and are still having sex every week, he says that hes unsure if hes done the ... (101 words)

Going down on a girl and tasting urine!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Going down on a girl and tasting urine! I'm 22 and every time i go down on my girlfriend i either taste or smell urine, i'm guessing this is pretty normal? But the taste is putting me off deeply, i am struggling to eat her out even though i desperatly want to. She doesn... (297 words)

If I "do it" with a girl will I know whether or not I'm bi or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i recently found out for sure i was bi. (i sorta thought i was when i was younger but i would always deny it) I know i would never want a relationship with a girl but i get turned on just thinking of doing sexual stuff with a girl. I also have a bf who i love very much and ... (225 words)

First time my boyfriend has ever been violent, should I give him a chance if he goes to anger management?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Two days ago, I tried to talk to my boyfriend about his behavior dealing with other girls, not the first time out of 4 years we'd talked about this. I had prepared myself to finally let him go (or at least I thought I had). I did it all in a very calm and mature way, never ... (429 words)

Should I get pregnant out of revenge?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello my name is Haibine, i've dating my bf two years, but he had a girl while he was with me but i didn't know that. when find out he told me he leave the i didnt trust him, i was cleaning his room and i find a letter the girl sent him, she told him why you never pick up my ... (130 words)

Still going to lunch with an ex boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend wants to go to lunch with her ex boy friend I told her I did not want her seeing him yet she said they were only friends and she wanted to remain friends and I had no right telling her who she could see or not see. She claimed I do not trust her. It is not that, ... (109 words)

Is he trying to butter me up???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, long story short. Me and a male friend (who has a girlfriend) ended up sleeping together, very wrong i know. We used to be FWB before he was with her. The thing is i think he wants to do it again but i am not going to. I know that me staying in touch while he is with her is ... (169 words)

He's giving off mixed signals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all , very complicated post here ... ok , I started seeing a guy and hooking up with him just under a year ago and felt like we really connected. He has a really busy career and we didnt really see anything of each other since february. He wanted to make plans , b... (507 words)

I can't take this any more... I'm SO confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys and girls i am 16 years old and like every other guy my age, i am a lil.... how do u say?... freakin out!!! ok here's the deal i am so confused about my sexual orientation.... it started when i started wanting guys when i was 13 then when i finally accepted it in the ... (253 words)

Hmmm... Does my ex still have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex and me broke up i left him and he moved out so i went back home with the kids he i never spoke to him in a month and now hes doing things i dont understand like he still might like me? or dont? i cant tell pls help... For starters my questions... 1)my ex had his first vi... (125 words)

I find it so difficult to achieve an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :). I'll just get right to the point. It's difficult for me to have orgasms. I've only ever achieved orgasms through masturbation (with a vibrator), or oral. I've never been able to orgasm while having sex. I've only ever been with two people in this respect. It's... (386 words)

Want to move on but I can't! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend, of a year and 8 months, last week. Througout our relationship he has cheated 4 times, mistreated me, lied to pe, played games, and disrespected me. Everytime he cheated i took him back and regardless of how he was doing me i still love him. ... (287 words)

I'm ready to give up all together!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) age 36-40 - How can I get over sex and men? I hate my body it's so disgusting. I'm a bit fat but working on it, although I'm not overweight, but almost. The problem is I have a disproportioned body, I have big hips, big butt with cellulite and thighs with cellulite and almost NO boobs. Men ... (433 words)

How do you get confidence up around girls and respond to certain things they say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you get more confident around girls for dating? I am 17 and pretty much never had a girlfriend, i get along well with a lot of girls, i can talk to them about anything, but i can never ask them out as i just dont have the confidence to. I am athletic i do lots of sports ... (302 words)

My girlfriend is still living with her ex! I don't know if I can take it anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dont know wot to do? My partner still lives with her ex as she has 2 boys with him, we've been together for a year i love every minute i spend her, she cnt move out at the moment as the father of the kids has just been diagnosed with cancer and she says he has no 1 else an... (134 words)

Tired of feeling worthless... Is this porn addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. i've known him for 8. we get along great, have alot of fun together, we live together at his mothers house. i've known for a long time that he looks at porn, and masturbates to it. i don't like it, but i pretty much just don... (352 words)

He's in an LDR but I think he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey agony aunts, Well I knw most of you would ask me not to give so much thought in this matter but please hear me out first. There is this guy who I have been talkin to for the past few months and we have become really good friends,he finds me attractive and so do I,and he h... (134 words)

I need help to know if I'm ready for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey me and my Boyfriend have been together for about 7months and I don't know if we are ready for 'it'. We have been discussing sex for the past few days and I'm scared. I think I am ready but he really wants to do it because he loves me so much and I love him. He is asking me ... (187 words)

I have fallen for my ex's sister!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is my story/question. About a year ago i broke up with my girlfriend whom I have 2 kids with. When she left I started hanging out with her sister. Just over ayear has passed since the breakup and her sister and I have become super good friends. The catch is that I've com... (227 words)

Can I get HIV from kissing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so I very lightly french kissed a girl that didn't give anyone oral sex before, but she kissed someone before me that did give oral to someone, this has been over a year ago, my doctor told me not to worry about having any curable std, but right now I'm just really ... (89 words)

Never got over my first kiss, should I leave my boyfriend to give it another try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in high school i dated this boy for 1 1/2 months. i know its nothing, but he was my first kiss. It's been 3 years since then, but i cant get him out of my mind. We've hung out a few times since the breakup, but we always end up pissing each other off and not talking again ... (273 words)

I stole money from my date and now I'm scared!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help! I meet this guy at a bar we exchanged numbers went on 2nd date. He has a bit of an ego but I kinda liked it. But he turned me off because he kept talking about all the money he had that he had everything he wanted. We went to a hotel the 2nd night slept together in ... (417 words)

My boyfriend is too busy for me, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys My boyfriend and have been together for 5months,but we've known each other for 3years. last year I moved but we kept in touch. we would email and text a lot and at some point we realized we had feelings for each other then we started dating at first he would te... (393 words)

He took it nonchalantly when I said "I love you"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age - I am 60 and have been dating a 63 yr. old widower for about a month and a half. He has been telling me for a couple of weeks now that he loves me.. I was hesitant to reply in kind because I didn't think I knew him well enough to respond the same. This past week I did tell ... (109 words)

Stress induced fighting is ruining my relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend of nearly a year got into a fight last week, which ended with me blowing up at her because we had made plans earlier in the week but she suddenly canceled them without talking to me about it. She said that she felt scared after my reaction. I have no excuse ... (224 words)

He's 16 and emo, I'm 14 and normal!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so there's this boy, he's not in my school or year, he's 16 and I am only 14. And he's kinda emo, I've been on holiday with him. And he's one of the best lads that I know. I allways talk about him to friends. But I don't know whether I should just forget about him? Or ... (87 words)

Why does he want to stay when it is apparent that he is not happy with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been married for 17 years and together for 23 years, I am a devoted wife and mother of 2 adult children m y youngest who is a full time student still resides at home. My husband is lying to me, In 2008 he and I went on our first trip without our children... (339 words)

Am I imagining something that isn't really there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - During the Summer vacation I've been talking to this boy from my school on Facebook. Although I've seen him around I've never actually spoke much to him... We've both started college now, and we're in all the same classes. Sometimes he will ditch his friends and sit by me.... (145 words)

He said he hasn't cheated but I feel cheated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half now and I am due to have our baby day now, last year we had problems and he left me but we sorted things out and in january i found out I was pregnant, since then he has been amazing kind and caring always very thoughfull about ... (363 words)

Boy drama, help me out... wanna make him miss me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my ex have been on/off for the last 4 years. We go throught different stages, nice and bad. The bad where we just seem to argue and he breaks up with me. He goes sour and never wants to talk to me. He is super stubborn. He says a few hurtful stuff and after acting ... (297 words)

Has anyone had a threesome just to keep their partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone had a threesome just to keep their partner? How did this work out?... (16 words)

He's an Atheist, I'm not. I love him but we have a few issues...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was raised a Catholic but during my early teen years, I started researching everything I could about religion because life made little sense to me. At 18, I don't go to church, don't practice anything but the belief that there is something more powerful, mysterious and ... (181 words)

Didn't even say goodbye...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I work as a teacher and there is a substitute teacher who works regularly at my school. I've always thought he was quite nice. We chat occasionally in the staff room and have quite a bit in common-music, movies, love of travel etc. He has even started calling me the occasional ... (541 words)

I'm sad that he feels the need to compete with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, Here is my situation. I have been in a loving relationship for just over a year. My partner is 30, I am 26. He in previous relationships was always referred to as the pretty one, the sexy one, the funny one and the popular one, and his ex's hardly got on well ... (634 words)

Advice needed quickly! How do you know if a guy is sincere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know if a guy is being sincere (as opposed to the extreme of just wanting to sleep with you and then leaving)? Just for context: I was in a more serious relationship with this one guy, but the relationship didn't work out ultimately becuase we weren't as compa... (251 words)

What do you do when your boyfriend has feelings for someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years. We have had one of the best and strongest relationships that I have ever been in before. We get along great and have really developed a strong bond with each other. A year ago we started talking about marriage and ... (680 words)

Why can he even think of hanging out with another girl so soon???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OK me and my ex split up 2 weeks ago this sat. He knew if i ever seen him with this one girl it was gonna kill me. So smacked right in my face are pics of him and her in a bar together. They have been hangin out a lot more now. I had to go get a item from him yesterday cause i ... (223 words)

He used me, than says he wants to be single!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months. Today he told me that he couldn't do this anymore and isn't ready for a relationship. Why didn't he just say so, in the first place? Why did he lead me on for 2 months? He promised me that we'd go out this week, but he never answered... (131 words)

The more feelings I show her, the bitchier she seems to get with me... why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, my question is for females since i need a woman's opinion, let me first tell u whats my situation, im in a LDR for 2 years now, for some reason my gf and i couldnt meet during this 2 years , anyway , i just wanna know if the girls like it when sometimes their ... (256 words)

One night stands to get over my ex??? Opinions please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi guys, An oppertunity has presented itself to have sex with someone im not completely familiar with, but i may be mis-reading the signs...shes friends with a friend and they have know eachother for quite a while (he introduced us over msn). however this probably would ju... (164 words)

How can love ever be quantifiable??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question that is bugging me.... why do people say stuff like "I will never love anyone as much as my ex" when they're with someone new? Surely you either love someone or you don't - simple. I can honestly say that I know I loved my ex boyfriend with all my heart, bu... (111 words)

My husband's been having an affair for all the 6 years we've known each other!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age - I met my now husband 6 years ago and he kept asking me to marry him, eventually we got married 3 years ago. about 12 months ago i received a couple of letter at work telling me to ask my husband about his affair, as he did not go out at night or weekends without me i just tho... (296 words)

My husband's friends upset me soooo much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age - Hello. I need some advice. Desperately! My middle aged husband of 30 years has friends that upset me so much. Several of them are divorced, all of them drink too much and love to hang out at bars. On top of that, they never ask their wives to join in (those who are still ma... (231 words)

Heartbroken but still in love... please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, ive been with my girlfriend for a year and 2 months. but the last few days have become chaotic. i found out she was cheating on me for 6 months while we've been dating. since i found out yesterday ive been throwing up and crying until i cant anymore. i found... (169 words)

Her losing all this weight is making me feel insecure... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girl have been together 5 months now. She is 26 im 23 she was married for 5 years to a guy that cheated on her quite a few times. She says she only married him because he got her pregnant. She has lived a pretty bad life childhood was spent in and out of foster homes ... (384 words)

How to convince her to try new things in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How to convince her to try new things in bed? I have one question regarding to my sex life with my wife. I love my wife and try my best to please her in everything but we are living apart at the moment. When it comes to sex, we both enjoy it, and like to do everything from ... (210 words)

I almost raped my girlfiend. HELP!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my girl have talked about sex. i'm ready she's not. i'm happy with that. she's happy with that. right? so then, we're happily making out when i feel i'm starting to lose control. i'm starting to go further automatically. so we stop and she says everythig's ok. we ... (104 words)

Performance anxiety... what is it and how do I fix it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a time of my life where I am so happy. I met a wonderful man back in early July at a time when I just ended a relationship with emotionally unavailable man. My boyfriend is a wonderful man. He makes me feel loved, adored, safe, respected and trusted. He is so kind, ... (403 words)

My ex-gf birthday in 3 days - ignore or not ignore ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Short Summary (who didn't read my threads before) - my x-gf (for 4 months) went to vacation to her country, after 6 week I came to airport to meet her, and discovered that she came back with her X (they were together 3 years and separated 8 months ago)....pregnant from him... (861 words)

She likes porn now... so what's the problem???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - 9m relationship - fantastic - my girl shes hotttt, crazy about me (brings a long stem rose to the airport), very very hot (did i say that lol - 50kg, great ass, cute waiste, etc) loves to dance, (when im with her), just a bubbly vivacious girl (and in the bedroom.. very ... (769 words)

I'm unable to cope with my sister's new relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age - My younger sister and I have always been very close, as teenagers I always looked out for her, particularly when it came to her relationships. While I never once interfered I always pride myself as being a good judge of character and it seemed like each serious boyfriend she ... (557 words)

What do I tell my wife???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

7 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Quick summary: I Met my wife 16 years ago. As you can probably imagine we have our share of problems. Three years ago I met my once-in-a-lifetime crush (I am in mid thirties and I have had my share of crushes, but this was way beyond anything I have experienced before). First ... (638 words)

Did my boyfriend do something with a prostitute whilst on holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well recently my boyfriend went on a trip to France with a group of his friends. They were all couples and he was the only guy without his girlfriend there, I couldn’t go because I was in college. Because he wasn’t there as a couple, he told me he went for walks by himself ... (473 words)

Bullied out of my job by a colleague! Is there anything I can do?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have to get this out or I'll lose the plot! I've just been bullied out of my job. I am an extremely hard worker i.e. at work early every morning, believe in teamwork, frequently help others with things that aren't part of my job etc.. you know the type - the bott... (836 words)

Should I tell him I love him?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Two years ago I found myself suddenly and involuntarily attracted to my then acquaintance, now friend. My feelings appeared to come from nowhere because I'd known him for a while previous and nothing had clicked except that he was a nice guy. At the time, I downplayed the ... (315 words)

Should I be bothered by this? Or am I just being irrational?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend 2 years and we are looking at moving in together. Around 6 months ago I saw a few adult dating websites on his internet history. This unravelled, and i found out he was signed up to quite a few. He had never messaged anyone, or met anyone, or anyth... (212 words)

Fed up with my mum's behaviour towards me, what can I do?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - At the moment, I'm taking a gap year and looking for a job. My mum's not happy with me taking a gap year as I only made this decision recently. Anyway, here I am at home bored and trying to find me a job and thinking about what I would like to study at university next year. The ... (410 words)

Should I ask this teacher out on a date?

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - PLEASE HELP! I KNOW ITS A LONG STORY BUT I NEED SOME ANSWERS! Ok so im a senior in highschool and i never thought this would happen to me. but it did. this year i met a woman at the gym i go to that made me fall in love at first sight. From what I see, she is the most bea... (504 words)

How do I repair this?

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok this is going to be long but please read cuz I really need help and advice. The past couple of months I have been getting closer to a friend. I have a lot of feelings for her. She knows this and I believe she has the same or at least had. Basically, one night when I was out ... (224 words)

He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, so why has he not finalised his divorce?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age - Ive been dating a man 2yrs who is married happly married so he he said in the begining.A year into the relationship she had found out he had been telling me he loved me this infromation came from text messages on his phone . They have been separrated for over a year and in no ... (155 words)

I love her, and I want to be with her, but I can't resist this pressure anymore.

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this girl, for some 5 months. In the beginning everything was great, we were both very happy. In fact I never felt so happy in my life. We went in a few trips together and everything was just fine.We talked about getting married and even arranged our wedding ... (410 words)

Am I too heavy?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been told i'm skinny/thin but i feel like i need to lose weight. I am 5'7 and weigh 126 pounds or 9 stone. Is this too heavy? Some days i feel ok with my weight but most of the time i feel a bit fat.... (46 words)

I lust after I every girl I meet!

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I fall in lust with any girl I meet!! I hate these feelings. It's wrong. I admit I'm desperate. How can I stop these feelings. A typical scenario would be that I say hello to a girl that I find attractive say, at uni, and I talk to her. The only thing on my mind is to get her ... (104 words)

I hate what he was up to but I can't help but feel was a little bit my fault!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's a bit of a long story, bear with me. I have no friends nearby to ask advice from :( I'm 28 and have just given up my job and moved 200 miles to stay with my boyfriend.We have been together a year and a half. At the beginning of the relationship it was long distance an... (997 words)

How can I make her love me again even though she has gone back to her ex?

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have broken up for 3 weeks now and I found out that she went back to a guy she dated before me. And they started dating again about a week after our breakup. This entire ordeal has been heartbreaking. She never told me about this guy before and we told each ... (106 words)

Family and depression are making me worried about moving in with my boyfriend

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Help me! I've been writing posts here and you've been helpful, so I'm asking again for help again. So, I'm 21 years old and I need a few answers and advices... I'm going through some hard time for over 5 months, I have money issues, I work part-time so... (873 words)

I'm not sure if I want to stay with my husband, but then again I'm not sure if I want to go through a divorce....

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7 October 2010 (F)

age - Am I being unreasonable or is he? Husband called me a spy and says he doesnt want to be anywhere near me. He wants to divorce me! Why? because I 'smelt a rat' (again),I checked his mobile phone bill to discover he has been texting smutty jokes to a female.Between 6 and 12 per ... (267 words)

Is he just being a friend or does he want more than friendship?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a male friend that I fell in love with, but my problem is that I cannot read him. I told him about my feelings and the only reply I got was "how shocked he was". He isn't direct when it comes to his feelings, so I find myself having to decipher what he says. ... (200 words)

I feel like my life is cursed!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi!! I am a Pakistani muslim girl. My problem is that my life is in turmoils right now. Nothing seems to go right even with my family members. Everyone has their own problems. It started when i got divorced a year back. It was the first marriage in my family and we r still in... (244 words)

How can I get over the hurt of my girlfriend cheating on me with two of her ex's?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello me and my girlfriend have ben dating for a year now. i love her very much and i know that she loves me too and were in love, but my thing that she cheated on me with two of her exs and yes it hurt me really badly but i just dont know what to say or do. she says that shes ... (96 words)

Does he think I am going to screw him over like his last girlfriend?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are pretty serious :DDD we love each other so much... he is the only one i love... but i tell a lot of my other friends i love them even though i dont i have ever since i was little..he is really bothered by that because his last girlfriend did that to him ... (93 words)

Why am I still thinking about my ex when I have a wonderful boyfriend?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a serious problem figuring out my feelings and any insight would be appreciated more than you know. I dated this guy for a little less than two years. We were in high school at the time but we swore we were soul mates. We talked about our future life and the pos... (1038 words)

Why do I feel so unloved when my girlfriend says she won't have sex with me?

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel so unloved, unappreciated, and dirty when my girlfriend says she won't have sex with me? Why do I feel as if she doesn't desire me anymore? Why do I feel so...... Down......?... (36 words)

How do I deal with this work situation? My FWB blabbed!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had a few sexual experiences with a Dr at our hospital, I am a nurse. We don't talk a lot, although he is pretty flirty when I see him he is still hard to read outside of work, also I told him in the beginning I only wanted "friends with benefits" so that may have ... (352 words)

Why do I feel dirty and ashamed?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been hanging out with this guy that I've known for several years. We've always just been friends but lately its seemed like more for both of us. We started kissing, then one thing led to the next. I'm still a virgin so I told him I wasn't ready for sex. He was fine with ... (113 words)

Have I read too much into his body language?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Was this guy into me as well? A little about myself first. I love Aussie Rules Football, I am an executive on a local football club committee and help run the games of a Saturday for our local club. I also love to talk footy. I joined a footy forum which consisted of all ... (627 words)

Should I feel insecure if I'm dating a woman who can beat me up?

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not much of a fighter, and I have a question. Should I feel insecure if I happen to meet a gorgeous woman who could beat me in a fight? Is this a strange question, or is it a legitimate concern? Let's say she's a karate expert or something and we get into a phys... (85 words)

I was curious as to where my boyfriend lived, so I drove by his house but I think he saw me!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age - I was curious as to where my boyfriend lived. So when I thought he was going to be gone, I drove by his house. I think he saw me, cause just as I was going by, he was backing out of his drive. He hasn't said anything, but I think he saw me. I feel really bad, but am scared ... (96 words)

I just don't know when enough is enough. So can you tell me? When do you stop? When do you give up?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 10 months now. The first four months were great, after that we had more and more arguements, and between 6-7 months were the worst, it seemed like we were constantly butting heads over everything, but I didn't want to give up on the ... (331 words)

I am confused about what beauty is!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i was feeling blue so i googled that i don't like myself and i saw someone talking about being depressed so when i saw this website i felt like this could be my escape to express myself; so i decided to sign up so here i am. i have be feeling depress and sad about my ... (169 words)

Do I get bored of guys' attention and how do I stop this?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I get bored ? i think i really don't know what or why i do this .... Well first of i am a 20 year old who has never had a boyfriend ,but always have a few guys who was interested. My problem is that i feel like i lead guys on and once i get there attention i move on.?? why i ha... (120 words)

How do you men folk define love, and do you believe it typically varies from a woman's viewpoint?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've heard that when you ask if a man loves you, and he says "yes", nine times out of ten this is the truth. BUT I've also heard that men define love differently. Should I be concerned if my guy has never told me how he defines love? I know it's not typical of guys to do this, ... (89 words)

My mother acts very rude to me and my sister!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a lot of problems so I came back to this site. I won't tell you who I used to be but I will tell u my problem. My mother acts very rude to me and my sister, who is 11. She yells and cusses at us when we do even the slightest thing wrong. Every time she yells, I get ... (153 words)

Do you think a constructive relationship can be built around such a mess?

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure whether I like this girl. If you haven't read my last "question" I will give you a quick overview. She is an actress, very succefull in the UK when she was 18, most 16-25 year olds will know who she is. I recently met up with her and we got incredibly drunk... (384 words)

New kid in school is bi, and I don't approve, what can I do?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Just a few days ago, a new kid came to school. His half sister is one of my friends. He is really funny and not like total goth. Just yesterday, I learned that he was bi. I am Christian and don't believe in it. All my friend think its awesome and even wish he was all the way ... (142 words)

My grandfather is dying and my husband is not supportive!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice!!! My grandfather is dying and my husband is not been supportive. Although I have a big family, I feel lonely. My husband has been going out with his friends and acting as if everything is okay. I dont know how to deal with it. I have express many times how I feel ... (64 words)

Thinking about proposing to gf, Not sure what to do.

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I have been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years this month and I am wondering If/How/When to propose to her. We have been really happy together, and I am wondering if proposing will scare her off. I just want to be with her. AS for when, I was thinking about over the... (173 words)

How to get the best out of a BF with a small tool?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and recently started having sex, sadly he has a small penis, and its hard to get pleasure from him, and im tired of faking it.. Any suggestions on how that little thing can create some pleasure? Im desperate :/ haha. Please ... (58 words)

She says we're going too fast

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and ive just recently got a girlfriend shes a year older then me,, shes not the first girl ive messed around with if u know what i mean,, but ive known her for about 5 days and shes been wanting to go out with me since she met me,, so i finally asked her out ... (80 words)

I want to, but I don't know how to masturbate

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd like to start masturbating but I'm not sure how to go about it. The thought also makes me feel a bit off, I'm conflicted. Any advice?... (27 words)

BF was a jerk, now he's better but I'm still worried!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf messed me around big time for the first year of our relationship. Heavily flirting with other girls, meeting up with his ex behind my back...that kinda thing. We had a big row and since then everything has been perfect and has been for a year now. Trouble with this is my ... (114 words)

He dumped her, but apologized. Now she wants him back. How?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age - My dear friend has endured a terrible break up. After 6 years of friendship which blossomed into love, he suddenly told her he can't love her the way he used to, and that he didn't want to talk to her about it. She begged him not to break up with her, but he insisted, and ... (149 words)

Friend's appearance problem is bugging me!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I talk to my friend whom is really gorgeous and cute.. she always gets the topic of appearances up. She tells me that I'm so pretty and that she herself is so ugly and lower than dirt. It was fine at first, telling her over and over that she is pretty but now its just ... (125 words)

I want to be smart!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is such a boring question.. but... It seems that whenever I study really hard for a test, I never get the scores I want. Am I just a really bad test taker? Or am I not studying hard enough? How would I be a better test taker and have better studying skills? ... (53 words)

I want to keep my values *and* get asked out

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 13 years of age. A few days ago I realized that I really like one of my good friends. He is funny,and pretty good looking. A lot of my friends have said we would look good together, but I know he will never ask me out. The reasons why are because I'm 1) a total nerd, ... (127 words)

54 year old boyfriend uninterested in sex!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age - my boyfriend who is 54 yrs old doesn't show much interest in having sex, why is this I am a 47yr old woman and needs some expert advice?... (28 words)

Do men think women who don't like blowjobs are boring?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men think that women who don't give oral sex are boring or no fun??... (15 words)

I'm still in love with my first crush!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm still in love with my childhood crush! I've never told him how i feel about him should i? I've been in love with this guy since we were in the 1st grade! From the moment our eyes met eachother i've been in love with him! We are now 22 years old and i still have feelings ... (68 words)

Is this what FWB is all about?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused!There's this guy that wanted to get hooked up with me through a mutual friend of ours.We've been talking for 5 months now,BUT!! I found out that this girl that i thought was his girlfriend really is.He lied to me.So when I found out about it I told him I couldnt ... (197 words)

Can you give a guy a blowjob even if you have a sore throat?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you give a guy a blowjob even if you have a sore throat?... (14 words)

We feel like roommates and he's very critical of me.

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am unsure what to do in regards to my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for almost 2 years, yet it's more like we are roommates now instead of lovers. We haven't had sex in months, partially because I have been off the pill for the past month due to ... (198 words)

Could this be muscle damage or something more serious?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How would you know if a lower abdominal muscle was damaged? basically I have tenderness and sometimes get sharp pains in left lower part of my stomach. Some days it will be worse than others and I can feel a swelling. I went to the doctor and got sent for an ultrasound scan to ... (101 words)

I hate my girlfriend's best friend

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me start off by saying shes not even her best friend...even my girlfriend isn't to fond of her but they've been friends for 6 years so I guess she's sticking around. but she purposely tries to annoy me and shes so embarrassing and aggravating. And if I leave my girlfriend ... (59 words)

Trust, how can you fix it when it's broken?

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Trust how can you fix it when it's broken? I have been with my partner now for just under a year when we first started out we were both in long relationships we got caught and got out she left him and went with me after a while she went back to him this went on for about 2 ... (488 words)

Unmarried, 38, no children... is something wrong with me?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey everyone.. would appreciate a little help..Im 38 and just realised Im more than likely never going to meet Mr Right or have children..and I dont know if I like that. Ive probably never actually sat down and thought about it before now, but after a spate of relation... (272 words)

I'm not confused anymore, but have I done too much damage?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys, iv got a problem....i caused it though, but want help getting my ex bf back! I broke up with my ex 3 weeks ago, just before my birthday, he gave me presents and spoilt me rotten..then i dumped him...i offered to give his presents back, but i have to keep the bra and... (430 words)

A bunch of questions about threesomes and sex!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Can you really have a MFF threesome with your wife and the man never touch the other woman involved? Is a threesome or more, orgasim any better or different than an orgasim with a single partner? How is anal sex different than vaginal sex in how it feels to a man? Who regret... (84 words)

Started acting sexual and just stopped for fear of letting people down.....

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So last weekend me and my girlfriend of over 2 1/2 years finally decided to get a little sexual (fingering, handjob.) I know we are kind of old for these acts, but they were still exciting and pleasurable. The problem is my girlfriend is a super conservative girl and although ... (230 words)

I'd like to talk to him and get to know him better!

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. So im 13. In 6th grade, there was this guy. He was really funny and cute. We went skating sometimes and we texted each other, but I think I kind of annoyed him most of the time. I had never really had any friends [especially ones that were guys], so I didnt really know what ... (270 words)

How can I become closer to one of my friends?

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7 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have this guy friend that I want to get closer to. But I don't want to seem obsessive or annoying. I just want to make him one of my really good friends. Any advice on how I can get closer to him without being annoying and obsessive!!!... (49 words)

Is this actress interested in me?

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7 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl when I was 18, she is a bit famous, an actress. We used to hang out quite a lot, we flirted a lot, but I never made a move- I was young and playing the field and she was a bit too eccentric and high maintenances. Then just a month ago (I'm 21 now), I sent a s... (293 words)