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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Getting over my ex is hard!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We've been broken up for 3 months now. We only went out for two months (he was my first boyfriend) and that might mean it isn't that big of a deal to others who've experienced longer relationships...but I still felt for him. That should account for something. And it's taking me ... (381 words)

Jealous over my ex and his new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - right guys, i'm totally confused here! I'm 17 almost 18. and i had a relationship last year november time, with this guy.. who i thought i actually loved. and i (out of my own decision) had sex with him, and lost my virginity too him, and he lost his too me. i thought it would... (389 words)

He doesn't talk to me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid my boyfriend at doesn't talk to me at school does he still love me... (16 words)

Boyfriend physical with me, it always involves alcohol

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my fiance more then anything! We plan on getting married and having babies together. We have been through so much together and I know he loves me dearly! I have never been in such a loving relationship but the other day he beat me up quite badly. Nobody knows, I skipped ... (297 words)

How do I stop these thoughts of other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Before I met him, I was promiscuous for a few reasons. I really do enjoy it though. I've been called a nympho before. The point is, I have a past and my boyfriend knows about it. When someone warned him about that, he r... (320 words)

I need my willpower back so I don't reply to him online

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, recently i've finally come to the conclusion that having a certain person in my life is not a good idea anymore. I wish i could change that, believe me but i know i just have accept that it's not going to work. A little info: this guy is pretty manipulative and is pr... (165 words)

My mom needs prayers

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been busy taking care of the house and my brother; my mom is having a hard time because she is sick and needs some prayer.People at the hospital are giving her a hard time and it's making me a little worried and upset.I will ever be grateful for your prayers.... (52 words)

B/f upset because while he was sleeping I masturbated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long-distance relationship with the love of my life in another country, and I spent the summer with him, meeting him for the very first time. I had been a virgin, and I had never had a real boyfriend before him (never kissed or touched anyone else). About half way ... (205 words)

Will you marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - That's how everything started. Before the dating phase, my boyfriend and I used to go out in a huge group and have fun. I liked him a lot, but I didn't know if he reciprocated my feelings, so all I could do is flirt with him, hoping that some day he'd become interested in me... (411 words)

Boyfriend still thinks I'm talking to men online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We met online, and didn't meet in person until 11 months prior internet meeting. During those 11 months, I wasn't faithful completely, I talked to other men online. I was a virgin, and hadn't had sex with ... (195 words)

I'm shy, and I don't know if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17...so this the story, since Grade 3 im studying in a school for only Boys....thats the reason why Im shy and unconfident around girls.....so I moved to another school(college).....and it was a big change, because there are girls everywhere!................so its been like ... (134 words)

I am desperate for some privacy and trust from my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i am seventeen years old and my parents do not trust me at all. not with money, my friends or boys. over the past year though i have been trying to rebuild that trust with them but they are so reluctant. sleepovers for example- they let me go to them on the rare ... (258 words)

I've been waiting for my husband to grow up

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for seven years have have two children with my husband. He recently told me that he's been thinking about separating. I never believe in divorce unless there was abuse or infidelity involved. We have had a hard marriage. Lot's of fighting. No family around. ... (200 words)

Sometimes I am really turned off by sex after what happened to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there,i'm just going to get straight to the point . ok so 4 years ago i was a victim of sexual assult and attempted rape,by my then boyfriend i was with at the time. I'm now with my loving boyfriend of 3 years ,jay. Are sexual side of things have been ok i guess (emotion... (196 words)

Boyfriend has more feelings than I have for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - we've been dating a week and hes said i love you and he always tells me im the most beautiful thing he could ever see. the other day he told me he wanted to kiss me. i dont wanna kiss him, and the other day i was talking to this other guy who is really nice and cool. im not ... (167 words)

Do all women scream at their husband when they are in labor?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some good advice from the women out there who are mothers. My wife and I are pregnant. In all the movies you see, when the woman is in labor she is yelling at the father, scratching him, telling him it's all his fault, etc, etc. I am just wondering if all women react ... (97 words)

I have a sinking feeling that my bf is in love with another girl!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question, my boyfriend last night told me that he was sorry about being snippy at me the last couple of weeks. He then went on to tell me that he has been snippy because he is confused. He went on to say that he didn't want to tell me about it because he didn't want it ... (194 words)

Is my friend in love with me?

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29 October 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Let me tell you my puzzle.I am 25 and in a strong relation ship with my friend of age 25.We work together and we spend almost all the times together.We give some gifts to each other and i can't express the beauty of the necktie he gave me last time.We hold hands and have hug ... (172 words)

Female orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it feel like when you have an orgasm--for females that is... (13 words)

He stopped talking to me after I told him I liked him and my friends didn't help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was really good friends with a guy and I started to fall for him and I told him I liked him...my so called friends made it worse by annoying us about it and now he doesn't even talk to me anymore. I really want to talk to him but I don't know how to or what to say to him. ... (65 words)

Cherry popped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??... (11 words)

What is dirty talk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do men want when they say they want dirty talk. Can anyone give me some ideas of what they are talking about. Do they want me to call them a dirty boy and start spanking them? Or is dirty talk more of "oh f*** me baby?" Just wanted to see what other people thought about ... (57 words)

Why is he still texting me, if he isn't interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a bar a few weeks ago, we got chatting and one thing led to another. Afterwards I though it would just be a one night stand, but he added me on facebook and asked for my number. We have slept together a few times since. Anyway, the last time I saw him was ... (157 words)

Signs that he's into you

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you know if your boyfriend is really into you? ... (13 words)

Like others, married wanting someone else.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 4 years to a great guy. He is 14 years older than me. We only dated for about 6 months before we got married, but I thought he was the one despite our age difference. He has older kids that do not live with us. Being a step mom to teenage girls has ... (836 words)

Should I go to this party to see her? I'm vulnerable due to severe health issues and depression right now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a really unsure position right now. Tommorow Im going to this social night out and there will be this girl there who I have a big crush on. Now I havent seen her in around 2-3 months and that time she did have a crush on me. However I was ill at this time and couldnt ... (284 words)

Online guy wants a serious relationship and we have never met

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Iam 27 years old TS woman from the Philippines. I have a premanent job working in a big American company here and I can say I am ok financially and I am presentable. I met this Aussie guy online and he said he wanted to have a serious and exclusive relationhsip with him which i ... (93 words)

Was a broken condom accidental or otherwise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Something I've always wondered. I had a friend who became a friend-with-benefits. A couple months back we got together. Beforehand we were talking. She knew I wasn't seeing anyone else and when the subject turned to sex, she asked me if I've ever gone unprotected (bareback) ... (183 words)

I really like him, but he told me to go on home after a few minutes! I was quiet and a bit drunk.. how do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy added me on facebook like a year ago now, we got talking, and nowdays we're always texting and on the phone. Ive wanted to meet him for so long! but something kept pulling me back. i finally went to see him yesterday. He took ages to come, he was late. I had 2 mates ... (352 words)

My ex hates me! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my girlfriend on my birthday almost 3 weeks ago. We haven't talked since and she feels strongly about the no contact rule. But I feel really confused about a couple of things. For a while there our relationship wasn't the best. Since returning from a... (512 words)

Married and have a crush on my son's coach

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My son is playing his first year of football and I have the biggest crush on his coach. In the beginning of the season I didn't pay too much attention to him, as a matter of fact I called him an asshole. I saw him look at me a few times but I figured he was just lookin my way. ... (536 words)

Where is this infamous G spot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - (mod note: the question has been edited to make it fit for publication) So I have this little.. mmmh not problem but predicament, I've heard, read and seen a lot of women that say that having g spot orgasms are mind blowing, that it's the best orgasm they will ever get. ... (428 words)

I lost weight and now my husband thinks I'm cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I been with my husband for almost nine years we have 2 wonderful sons. A couple of months ago i got hurt at work so i was at home doing nothing which i started gaining weight. My husband never told me oh ur fat. Evevery thing was going fine. Well i was at 167 pds. So i was like ... (398 words)

I felt used! Did I do the right thing in breaking off contact?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - This week I told a female friend (I am male) I thought we should stop talking for at least a while. Now I feel a deep hollowness as well as guilt for breaking off contact with someone who has relied upon me. Let me give you a little backstory, and then I would greatly ... (766 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to realize this guy isn't backing off?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, My girlfriend (18 y.o.) and I (19 y.o.) have been dating for 4 years. It is a long distance relationship (about 3.5 hours distance), but I drive down to see her every weekend. I grew up with her (I've known her for 7 years), so I should start by saying that she ... (586 words)

Why won't he look at me anymore during sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So heres another question about me and the bf... So we have rarely been having sex (my choice because he is being STUPID)... anyways... I noticed the last 2 times... he wont look at me (position willing) anymore. he used to make me look at him and he'd watch me at all tim... (155 words)

My husband is rubbing his affairs in my face!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age - I have been reading your colume for awhile and i felt it was time to reach out to someone. iv been married for 24 years my husband 2 years ago took out a young girl out for valintines night.for the past 2 years their has been 2 different women call my home looking for my ... (148 words)

My girlfriend started dancing at a strip club!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this is a long post but I don't have anyone I feel like I can talk too about this situation and I really hope some people here can read through this and tell me what they think. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months now. Our relationship is ... (889 words)

I asked him to be my boyfriend, but no affirmative answer. Should I just smile and wait?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy online. He contacted me last November and I have seen him 5 times since then. He makes me laugh, we have very complementary personalities, and he inspires me to be a better and stronger person. Sex with him was the best I ever had in my life and he respects me ... (359 words)

What does it mean when a guy "popped your cherry?"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??... (11 words)

I think I've finally had it! Should I break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused, pissed and frustrated. I can't stop feeling angry over boyfriend not helping me co-sign for an apartment. We have been together 10 years. Lived together for 5 years, 3 years lived in my own apartment(we do better with a little space between us) but still would see ... (524 words)

Unresolved questions from my break up, please help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My live-in boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago and while I am better, it's still painful when you trust someone so much and believe in everything they have told you. All I want to know is, why after you have been so close to someone, woken up next to that person every sin... (669 words)

It was my first time without a condom and I'm very nervous!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. WE've had sex before but today I let him cum inside me for the first time. I'm on birth control and I've been on it for a while. I'm just a little nervous because my whole family is very "fertile" when my birth mother got ... (77 words)

Why is my husband watching so much porn?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels having sex even if im ... (151 words)

Will he be more likely to contact me if I stop trying to contact him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have broken up with my boyfriend,2 weeks ago.He hasn't contacted me although i did email him and text him but no response.Does the "No Contact" rule actually works? I read on a website that if you want your lover back then he has to miss you 1st and thats by not contacting ... (59 words)

Should I go back to the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - the love of my life has come back after a few years,not sure what to do because during this time i got back with a previous ex i was with before the love of my life.i dont want to go behind anyones back,but why do these things happened?someone told me because sometimes the ... (69 words)

How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose? Without giving him any kind of specific time limit, or making it too obvious that I'm waiting? It would be preferable if he did it on his own. But how long is too long to wait?... (46 words)

I told my boyfriend I'm not a virgin and he is ignoring me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Plz help me! i told my bf that i m not a virgin, he is ignoring me and even not talking to me. i m very depressed. my honest kill me, my all happiness is at stake. i m very serious i don't wanna lose this guy. i love him lot. ... (51 words)

Does being on birth control make me a slut?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and i am on birth control without a bf does that make me a slut or a whore or anything on thoes means ???? ... (31 words)

Do guys check out other girls to make their girlfriend mad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im have a question that id love peoples input on. Do guys check out other girls in front of their girlfriends knowing that it makes the girlfriend mad and do they do it for that reason? Or do they really not notice. Every guy ive been serious with was like that, and they always ... (96 words)

How can I tell if my online friend is the right guy for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - he is my online frnd from past 6months...v both love each other.i had bad past relationship experince...so dis time i want to be cautious .suggest me some ways to check dat dis is d rgt man of my life..n loves me...v both r working...talk online more than on phone.. ... (49 words)

Do guys like red heads for anything more than sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I have naturally long, dark red hair and have never really liked it. Guys seem to like it, and i've been told it's "hot". I'm thinking about dying it dark brown, but i'm not sure whether to or not. Sometimes i think guys are just interested or attracted to me to live out some ... (214 words)

Broke up with my gf over stupid issues, I want to sort things out but she says its over!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help, I am confused. I recently split with my girlfriend, we were living together for 3 and half years and have a younge child together. We were argueing a lot and small things that could have changed on both parts didn't. since the split i have realised a lot of things ... (633 words)

Devastated after my mother's death. Help me..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My muother has just passed away and i feel i cant cope any more i just dont know what to do my life has been ripped apart i was so so close to her i dont know what to do any advise please!... (43 words)

Can this relationship grow?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I don't have anything in common. He has things that he like to do and the same for me. He stated to me that he don't think our relationship will grow because we don't have anything in common. He wanted me to listen to this song of the rapper Eminem, I listened ... (177 words)

Is it possible for a married man to get his mistress pregnant on purpose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age - I want to know how married men perceive on this matter. Is it possible for a married man to make their mistress or other woman get pregnant intentionally? Like he wants her to get pregnant?... (38 words)

Should I try harder to make my girlfriend love me or start flirting with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am confused about my relationships. i am a girl in a secret relationship with this girl that i absolutely adore. but the problem is that she moved to a different country a couple weeks ago and now its an open relationship (meaning that we can meet other people and its not ... (205 words)

I either love him or I'm used to being treated badly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Iam currently in a relationship wherein things made a sudden changes, All the while that he is unemployed at his attitude and behavior I was there for him to support finacially, emotionally with all the complications in his life, suddenly came a rainbow of having a good paying ... (197 words)

Is it his fault or my fault that I don't trust him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im having a boy friend.loving him from past 3 years.he shouts at me of course i even do,but wen i shout he cant tolerate..he stares at girls talk wid tem in the nights but he gets angry even if i talk to a boy casually.he used to go near one girls house just to acccompany her ... (112 words)

Husband of 27 years regrets that he didn't have sex with other women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 27 years and a while ago my husband told me that the biggest regret of his life was that he hadn't had sex with more women. He had always lead me to believe that he had only been with me, but during this odd conversation I found out that there had been 1 ... (94 words)

I am not thrilled about the wild boy's night out before out wedding!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy guys I have a big problem on my hands that i really need some advice on. Me and my other half who have been together for quite a while have decided to get married, the wedding isnt until 2012 but its already being planned however all of his mates really want him to have... (181 words)

Airports new "feel you up" measure is crossing the lines!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok. who was watching cnn this morning? airports are bringing in some new security measures and its getting personal. i watched (on cnn) an employee run her hand between and right under a female passengers breasts. they touch your butt and quickly run their hand up your inner ... (191 words)

He says he needs "me time". I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last month (9/28/10) the guy I was with and had a child together decided while I was in class to pack up his belongings and move out. When I got home from a great day he told me he was leaving, not just to the store, but us (me, our child and my children that he has been with ... (484 words)

Boyfriend just grabbed me and "did it". He didn't see anything wrong with that!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All - I need some insight on this. So yesterday I went to see my bf and we both knew we were hooking for sex before he leaves for the weekend to see his mother. Anyway, when i got there he was just uninterested. I touched him, he didnt touch me back or even move or mak... (300 words)

How do I get this woman to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 26-year-old female in a relationship with a woman for the past two and a half years, and it's not working out. She is an alcoholic, sometimes physically violent, very often abusive, insanely jealous. She moved into my flat about a year and a half ago and in all that time ... (282 words)

How do I know if I am "the one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello people, I came here because I need a few answers. I'm confused and I really don't know what to do/think... So we've been a couple for 14 months now and so far we have a great relationship. We're both virgins, but recently we started to explore each other, taking it... (706 words)

How do I get past my insecurities about my appearance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Pretty much all my life i've been insecure about my appearance. I'm 5'7 126 pounds with auburn hair and hazel eyes. People have told me i'm attractive sometimes even "stunning". I just can't see it myself, i hate having my photo taken or looking at pictures of myself. This has ... (169 words)

Sex is not like it normally is, what could be wrong with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner has not been having sex like a normal, random guys on the street he does complains of emptiness in him, tiredness. What kind of drug can be prescribe for us, or solutions.... (34 words)

Why does he ignore me and stare at other girls? I cant take much more of this but he keeps begging for a second chance....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:(? my boyfriend claims he loves me very much but i dont feel his love..he doesn't make me feel special, he doesn't give me the attention i need.. me on the other hand gives him all the love and attention. when i go out i se so... (226 words)

I've lost all the men in my life, but I have realised I really care about boyfriend number 2. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello dear cupid, well this is my story. when i left high school i met a guy during the holiday, i usually hear about him but i rarely saw him before. he is my friend's nephew. one night at their family's wedding he asked his aunt about me, and told her that he likes me and ... (498 words)

Is texting your girlfriend's friend behind her back classed as cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to know if you have been with your partner for a few years,and you find out that hes been texting one of your friends both doing this behind your back but no sexual contact is this classed as cheating?... (41 words)

Do breaks ever help a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Do breaks ever help a relationship? My fiancee and I have been together for about 3.5 years, a little over a week ago she suggested we take a break, but still remain monogamous.. since then she has been to a party with several people and got really drunk, she stopped texting ... (198 words)

Why won't he ask me out? help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had boyfriend but we had to break up because he had to leave e for the summer and our feelings for each other kinda went away. He hadn't had a gf in 5 years till he got with me. When we broke up we decided to be friends and we kept a good friendship, but once he came back ... (186 words)

If only she knew how much I care about her......

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29 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - There's this girl who comes in my tutions... We are only two people sitting on the same bed We studied for 1 and a half year... We were in the same school, My parents and her family are good friends I used to dislike her before as I was simple and even she is simple but I ... (336 words)

Isnt being a porn star harmful to their normal lives?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - All porn stars perform in porn movies to make money but isn't harmful to they real life? how they'll live in real life what are they daily schedule do that's also get married make they own kids if they do that how they can work in porn after getting kids if they kids or ... (69 words)

Should I keep it as a pipe dream, or should I ask her out?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - At the gas station. She is so beautiful and seems so otherworldly and cool. I'm a 27 yr old geeky, balding, shy guy. How do I go about this? Is it wrong to ask her out? She doesn't do much small talk. I imagine she probably gets other guys hit on her all the time... (139 words)

How can you tell if someone is trying to manipulate you?

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29 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - How can you tell if a guy is trying to manipulate you? I ask because i feel like a guy "friend" who is already taken is trying to manipulate me to get what he wants. E.g trying to make me feel guilty, over complimenting me etc... How can i be sure?... (60 words)

How can I stop myself wishing the worst on my ex and his new wife?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me about a year ago,we had been together two years.I had no idea he was planning to leave me.We had a child together she was around 15 mounths.So me and my daughter had to find somewhere else to live.It was really confusing,and hard there was a lot of pain 4 ... (166 words)

My mother is still killing herself with food

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I asked a similar question a few months ago and although most of the responses were very helpful, things haven't improved. I'm still very concerned about my mother's health and eating habits, she's very overweight and binges on things like rice pudding and ice ... (379 words)

A friend I like is moving away. Should I tell her I like her?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a good friend I like who I enjoy hanging out with. I've always wanted to her how I feel and ask her out, but I just never got courage to do so. Well, I am currently at a tough situation where I will be graduating college soon, and I don't know where I will end up afte... (106 words)

We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have been friends for 15 years and ... (155 words)

Just need some advice or encouragement!

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a beautiful wife and a 2 1/2 year old son. But last year I notice my wife was becoming distant and not very loving(which was very unusual for her). So I confronted he and she proceeded to tell me that she loves me but doesn't feel she's in love with me. Those words ... (639 words)

Stuck between telling her how I really feel or just playing it safe and just be her close friend.

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is a bit long. Alright...first off I'm in college now. But back in high school, I met this girl who always gave me a feeling that she like(d) me. During my second year of high school my family came across some wealth and I transferred to a private school. ... (249 words)

Should I leave him because he has slept with 9 girls? And when is the right time in a relationship to have sex?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been dating this guy for a month now.we havnt had sex yet because i told him i want to take things slowly.and just a few days ago i found out that he had sex with 9 girls and his only 21.that dosnt seem right to me.and confused if i should stay with him or not.he is nice and ... (87 words)

Mom asked if she made me "vocal"? What does this mean?

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29 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I tried asking this question before but i guess i needed more info. I was in a drive thru with my mom and i was yelling through the window that the resturant across the street was faster.lol. I loudly said the our nieghbor needed to quit putting his trash in other peoples ga... (88 words)

Scared of sex because of his big penis!

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29 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi, So i ended up dating my best friend of almost half my life. LDR so you know but we're really close, and we know EVERYTHING to the core...But when i knew how 'big' he was i got suddenly scared to have sex. I know im almost 16 and it wont happen anytime soon, but im jus... (143 words)

Is my step dad on drugs?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I need to know this I suspect it but I gotta know Now here are signs I've seen in my step-dad if you work up for 16hrs then get home around 10p then stay up until 1am and wakes up at 6am every day, so 4-5 hours of sleep a day. doesn't drink any coffee or caffeina... (113 words)

Can you have an orgasm just by doing this?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I were fooling around in my basement the other night and I was on top of him and we were basically rubbing against each other, by thrusting our 'parts'. I was wondering if it was possible to get an orgasm that way or do you need to be doing something sexual??... (54 words)

I have started the gym for the first time so need some tips for dieting!

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys just 1 week back I started gym, its first time I joined gym so I want to get some tips from those who making workouts. what food I gotta have for dieting food that should helps me to reduce fat am 83kg's damn I have to mention that. pls prefer me for dieting what ... (64 words)

The only woman I have ever loved doesn't want me to contact her anymore

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29 October 2010 (F)

age - I AM A FN EMOTIONAL DISASTER! I am still in love with The Only Woman I Have Ever Loved, and while she informed me that she did not feel the same for me I accepted it and have tried with all my strength and know-how to respect and honor her demand that I no longer contact her. I ... (231 words)

Why do men think of women as slaves?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why do men think of women as slaves?... (8 words)

Why should I sit and watch another woman run his life when I can't?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. We love one another and we are unseparable. I am 19 and he is 24. He has a 4 year old daughter who I have learned to love very much. I hate his ex girlfriend because sometimes I feel like she only had his daughter with him to ... (287 words)

I'm in love with a married woman but won't leave my wife

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in love with a married woman .How can I stop thinking about her so much. She is driving me crazy..I love her but will never leave my wife. Please help me!!!... (33 words)

Why won't he perform oral on me?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend simply won't go down on me. We have been sexually active for over 3 months and I've received it maybe 6 times. I give him head all the time, hoping to get some in return, but he claims he just has to be in the mood for it. I can't stand it...every single sex ... (75 words)

I want more sex!

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been living together and been having sex for over 3 months now. At first, we had sex everyday. About 3 to 4 weeks later though, he started to seem less and less interested in sex. At this point, we have sex like once every 7- 11 or so days. Its weird ... (129 words)

I've made a list of questions I'd like to ask him! But should I ask?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I made a short little list of things that i want to ask this guy that ive been sorta going out with for maybe almost a month now but we only meet on weekends because he is busy (home improvement) which im first hand witness of by the way. it started as a casual thing but deep ... (317 words)

Should I tell my best friend I'm in love with her, even though she has a boyfriend?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem I need help with. I'm in love with my best friend. We've been stuck to each other for four years. She has never hurt me. She has always been there for me when I needed a shoulder to cry on. When she has a problem or just needs a friend i'm there always. There ... (136 words)

Should I wait 2 years to be with him? And how will I cope for those 2 years when I don't trust him?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and the guy I fancy is 27. He's the best person ive ever met and I love him so much. We have both agreed that until I'm 18 we won't take the relationship and further. I have really big trust problems as so many relationships have gone bad. I do trust him though but at ... (130 words)

Pregnant to my abusive partner and cant walk away....

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with this man for about 3 years and when I met him I was pregnant but wasn't with the dad because he was kind of immature younger than me and went off to college...but another story....so I moved with him when she was a year old and he treated her like his never ... (618 words)

I'm worried that he will go off with another girl for Halloween!

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids!!! Pls help me.. im getting afraid if my LDR bf will go for dating on holloween day. Hes in australia and im in singapore.. we love each other so much and he never cheat on me before through our relationship for a year.. he came to me in last Jan and i visited to ... (363 words)

After 2 years I feel like we don't get along anymore, what should I do?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 21 years old, my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. Everything was great, but lately we just don't seem to get along anymore! I do love him, and he says he loves me, but he just won't change a thing about him. In the beginning we used to talk and reso... (402 words)

Do I tell my friend I like her boyfriend?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so heres the deal. I'm pretty sure I am falling for one of my speech and debate team mates. I am a jr. in high school hes a senior. My car is broken down so after practices hes giving me a ride home (twice a week). There is only one problem, he has a girl friend and we are ... (183 words)

I want to have sex but I'm afraid protection won't work!

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid im 17 yearsold and im thinking of having sex . . . because i think i am ready ,but im scared incase the protection i use will not work when i have sex with my boyfriend. . .i dont know what to do and i hope you can give me advice. ... (138 words)

Encouraging words for when your boyfriend has a "girl friend"?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I’m sure this topic come up a lot here. Well, I’ve been with my guy almost 2 years, we have a good relationship, and we enjoy sex / exploring our desires. I see him on weekends only. I love him dearly. I try not to think he would ever stray, but he has a lot of girl ... (446 words)

I cant shake this feeling that he is still in love with his ex!

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my b/f and i hav been dating for 6 months and its been hard because we both have sons with our exs. my problem is that i cant get over the fact he says he doesnt have feelings for his ex but i still think he still does.his ex g/f and him went on a trip overseas last yr when she ... (197 words)

My girlfriend's mom doesn't like me at all!

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29 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I have another question I want to ask its about my parents and my girlfriend's mom. Her mom doesn't like me at all and my parents think her mom will do anything to get rid of me now her mom already lighten up about me and my girlfriend only just a little but I want to convince ... (81 words)

She's annoyed with my kisses

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29 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone its me back with another question I've been wondering about my girl she says she gets annoyed of my kisses is that a bad sign? ... (27 words)

Should I let it go, even though I need closure?

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29 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - when i was on a school trip i completely and utterly fell for a boy. Halfway through the week we got together and we moved fast (boys and girls weren't allowed in the same room for a reason - we didn't have sx but a few more days and we would have probably) when we got ho... (208 words)

I want to feel all "MMM" from sex!

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend and I both had sex for the first time a week and a half ago. The first time hurt just a bit. We've done it four times so far and yeah soon enough I will no longer be keeping count. Of the the 4 times, I've been on top. The... (184 words)

Am I annoying him?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so ive had a really close guy friend since kindergarten (im a freshman in highschool now) and we have always been really close... also he is my neighbor... this year was we both had our first homecoming and nither of us had dates.. and so he asked me... all of our friends ... (122 words)

I'm feeling lonely in my relationship

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me as much as he used to. He's getting less and less affectionate too. We've only been together for 7 or 8 months, so we don't know each other that well yet. I'd like to start some deeper conversations but I'm not sure how to. I know us not ... (80 words)

Was it right to invite him to the party?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So tomorrow I'm meeting this guy I've been talking to for a month, we text daily, talk on the phone daily, usually before bed, and we seem to get along well. I haven't met him in person yet, (tomorrow we are meeting) but so far we get along great! Here's the issue... Satu... (229 words)

I want my teacher to know I love him!

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay im almost 19 and i have been in love with my tutor/teacher for the entire year. he is 30. i do a casual course, we go out partying with our teachers and stuff, its great fun. i cannot stop thinking about him it is driving me insane. i even feel awkward talking to him and ... (207 words)

I'm 26 and have never been in a relationship!

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - The title basically says it all. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm 26 and never been in a relationship. The closest I have ever been to being in a relationship was a two year thing I had with someone over the internet. I found her on a depression message board when she ... (341 words)

Why do I have to beg for sex?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 7 years.. my husband and I have been together for 9 years. We have never had a strong sexual chemistry- at least not as far as I am concerned. I thought early in our relationship that we had what was important- alot in common. I underestimated ... (246 words)

She wants a break, but I am so scared of losing her!

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, now, first of all I am a 15 year old boy. I have been in a 6 month relationship with my girlfriend who is 13 years old. Now, everything has been great, since the start, my love for her has been constantly growing. Suddenly, a couple of days ago she suddenly told me... (368 words)

What should I do about my Ex LDR?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I think Im still in love with my Ex ldr. And she wrote me back on msn last night and saying that she was sry about some thing I wrote her on there. And she wrote me back on msn but she still wont call me still but she called me 3 weeks ago unblocking me from her phone to. so I ... (183 words)

I'm afraid I don't know him!

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Friends, My boyfriend is in the Marines. We've been dating for four months now but have been best friends for going on 6 years. I thought I had always been in love with him so you can imagine my extreme happiness when we finally started dating. I also thought I knew e... (435 words)

What does this reaction mean?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when somebody who sees you stiffens and walks of quickly?... (14 words)

Pregnant and no one knows but me

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm pregnant and the guy doesn't know It and neither do my parents. Help me please?!!... (18 words)

I have fallen for my supervisor and I don't know what to do...

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have fallen for my supervisor and I don't know what to do... This summer I did an internship at my university and I fell for my supervisor (he isn't a professor or anything and he is just working there temporally) - I'm 23 and he is 30. He is a really nice guy and duri... (340 words)

He said he has the benefit of knowing where I am every morning. What does that mean?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a question, I was talking to my friend that I really LIKE(he knows) and I was telling him that he had been ignoring me in the mornings when i text him unless he didn't have anyone to talk to, he said that he is probably asleep and that doesn't have anyone to talk ... (100 words)

So I go and fall for the one that's going away...

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll keep this short and sweet, because that's what it is. The woman I love is moving to Australia soon. I have long since come to the conclusion that I'm happy for her, as it's a fantastic opportunity for her and her future, and she should exploit it. Unfortunately, my fe... (156 words)

Do I stay and wait?

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29 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, i know this may not seem the most important question but it would do a lot of help if i could have a answer of some one :) So basically, its about me and this girl, ( i will call her K) ive known her for about 2 years and have been friends for about the same time. A... (395 words)

I thought things went well the other night but he hasn't texted me back

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I just wanted to get some advice on something. Well I've been into this guy for a good while now, met him at my cousin's house one day and something really attracted me to him. He's good friends with my cousins so I dunno if this is the problem. He gives the usual ... (259 words)

Is it OK for a 17 year old girl to have a 14 year old boyfriend?

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old girl and I have a huge crush on an absolutely super cutie living next door to me that I've been friends with for years. The only problem is he's going to be 14 in two weeks. I'm not going to have sex with him, but I would love to have him as my boyfriend and ... (106 words)

Torn between my ex and new dude

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend for four yrs and we have a 4 yr old son. unfortunately he moved abroad (not by choice)and we were separated for two yrs. In that two yrs, he found a new girlfriend abroad and messed everything up. My heart was broken and I kept asking him to come back ... (165 words)

I don't want this misunderstanding to cause bad feelings

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm a fresher at uni and have settled in well. Unfortunately, I'm getting a bit stressed at the minute. Basically, there's this girl along the hall from who is nice at heart but really annoying the rest of the time (she basically is obsessed with herself)and she'... (157 words)

How to get your bf back and to settle down with him

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29 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and he Thinks he knows what I want and I told him I want to settle down He is always telling me I like to party but I don't how do I get him To believe me that I really want to settle down and I truly love Him ... (68 words)