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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm overdue to have this baby and I can't get ahold of him, sometimes! What's up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i been with my bf for 1 year but was with him 7 months b4 he went to prison and i waited for him and wrote him for 2 years so we been living together for a year he has been there 4 me through everything we gotta baby due any day now and he started working a month ago after i ... (225 words)

He's verbally attacks me but blanks out when I confront him about what he does! Any advice on why he does this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married to a strong-minded, controlling man. He will throw temper tantrums to get his way and to silence me when I try to speak up for myself. He has verbally attacked me many times with put downs,dtreating me like I am stupid. I have mentioned two incidents to him about ... (116 words)

Broke it off with him, so he can have fun and get it out of his system! But now I miss him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 years old and My boyfriend and I have recently broken up after dating for a year and seven months. I broke up with him on like "break terms" because he wasn't happy. he was always hot and cold when we were together one minute he was lovey dovey next minute hed pull ... (543 words)

Falling for my guy friend..but having sex with him will really hurt my bf! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for the past 6 years! The first 3 years of our relationship i was fitting for our relationship he treated me like crap but now things are really good, I'm young but i do love my boyfriend he is living a couple thousand miles away right now But now ... (103 words)

My lack of experience affects my dating life, badly! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ok. so here is another friday night poster. i dont know where to start and i apologise for the length of the post. im approaching 30 and still a virgin. never date, dont approach girls when im out etc. i do go out plenty but always seem to go to the same bars and end up getti... (457 words)

His gf told him to stop talking to me online, so he blocked he! I just don't understand why??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, this may not seem real important to whomever is reading my problem, but it is for me, so bear with me? This guy and i were really tight on msn and were so close with each other (as friends you understand) until there was this time where he said he couldn't talk to... (257 words)

Should I be concerned that she dreams of her exes, so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of three months keeps informing me of dreams she is having of ex's. I would say in an average week she dreams of them five or six times. They vary in content; some are sexual, some are not. First off, why is she telling me about these dreams? I have never once in my... (115 words)

I've reeled her back in but how do I talk to her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my ex recently broke up on good terms. i saw online that when u stop communicating with her u cud draw her back in...i tried and its working...but now wat? i want us to start back talking regularly but i dont know how to initiate conversation. wat should i say? and wat ... (67 words)

Does he like me? how do I find out if he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I like this lad. We talk all the time, call text msn, and even go on cam, i really like him but i don't know how to tell if he likes me or how to make him think hmmmmm yeah i like her too :/... (46 words)

My gut feeling tells me something isn't right here..is he gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Oh goodness me! I really hope someone is listening out there!! I've been seeing a man for 6 months and I'm getting concerned that he may be gay. He has a premature ejaculation problem - he can only be inside me for less than a minute before he comes. At first I thought this w... (512 words)

Why would a man stay with his girlfriend when he wants to come home to his family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What are some of the reasons a man would stay with his girlfriend he left his family for when all other signs point to him wanting to come back home? He knows hes welcome to anytime. I just really want some perspective on how a man might be feeling or what would be stopping him ... (66 words)

I think I would be better off on my own

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age - i was married for 29yrs my partner left me i then met my current partner within a few months. he is very controlling i have been with him for over ten years but it is very difficult . he is verbally abusive and very aggressive and in the past has been physically abusive i ... (104 words)

Would sending a text be overstepping the boundaries?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm friends with this girl who puts all kinds of stress on herself with work and other things. Though I could never find the right way to ask for her number. Because of the amount she deals with between work and classes she often times doesn't take care of herself well ... (278 words)

He says he is shy because I am black and he is white

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I own a small shop in a town where i live and most customers comes in not realising i own it.. except old customers, if any new one asks i usually say i work here. Anyway this guy has been asking me to come out for a walk with him in a long time that eventually i agreed. He ... (456 words)

I feel like its either her or me, but I'm afraid he is going to pick her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost four years now (married at 19) and the relationship has had a lot more downs than ups. There is one particular problem I have and that is with his female best friend. He admitted to having kissed her before and I'm pretty sure he pursued her until ... (273 words)

One day he wants to be with me and the next day not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, Im having trouble with my love life. Several boys like me in my school. Im 13. 1. there is a 16 year old boy that likes me. 2.someone who is in my class, my age and he likes me. The problem is, My bestfriend fancies the same boy i fancy, which is 2. I don't kn... (135 words)

How should a FWB situation end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I have been in a FWB relationship for several months. A long distance one but we travel to see each other kind often. At the beginning he seemed really interested and now he is more distant and i start to feel cheap. Just not good enough. I have feelings for him... (157 words)

Could two unknown people have the exact same room?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been acting weird lately. Like he doesn't care and seems uninterested in me. So i started thinking he is seeing some other girl and decided to snoop in his email. I found pictures of naked girls i his inbox and outbox pictures of his penis sent to these ... (191 words)

I'm scared the father of my baby is going to hurt me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know wether i should stay with my boyfriend after all the lies he told me we dont even talk much anymore and he leaves me at home alone with our newborn baby all the time to be with his mum, before our baby was born we were inseparable and now we are like strangers i ... (133 words)

I have so many questions after the break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Looking for advice from females here. As you can see, I'm a bit younger than most of the people asking questions on here so if you could take that into account, I'd appreciate it a lot After a break up(6 month relationship) if a girl says things like: I'll always love you ... (628 words)

Can anybody else see the problem here

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a family friend has been with her man for 3years and all of a sudden he changes his number and she can only have his work number. he says if she has his mobile number she will keep calling him. and the biggest problem is they live in the same house. does anyone else see the ... (59 words)

I think I bore him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - He arrives at the house, give me a kiss as ussual but he is so cold, takes a shower(usual), eats supper and straight to bed making work load an excuse, am getting worried, I think I am getting to bore him. Plz help what do I hv to do. We have been together for four years nd a ... (63 words)

I had an online dating deleted rejection. What did I do wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I decided since the last question I should just give up with the last girl, and go with online dating. During this week, a girl messaged me (which with this website, is rare to ever see a girl come out of nowhere and message you). I started talking to her, vice versa,... (479 words)

What does it mean when a guys says he's "smitten"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd like some advice on interpreting a comment from a guy, please. I've been seeing a guy from work for a few weeks after chatting for a few months. He arranged some amazing dates for us, and we slept together this week :) Today he sent me a spontaneous text saying ... (82 words)

How come I last for hours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I Outlast her horribly ater 40 minutes she has had multiple orgasm and it takes hours also every one of the girls i have been with said they feel it all the way above there belly button and it hurts how come i last for hours with everyone and it makes them uncomfortable i do ... (64 words)

He cheated and got her pregnant; do I give him another chance?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months. We are very much in love and are the best things that ever happened to each other. The whole 8months of our relationship so far we've been keeping everything faithful and we trust each other. A few days ago he tells me ... (317 words)

Trying to be friends again after a fight, but he's not opening up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Over the summer I got into a fight with someone really special to me. Now since we have been back in school me and him have talked a little bit about what happened. He doesn't seem to hate me, but he won't tell me whats wrong all that he's says is that "its not you, i'm just ... (186 words)

Is it reasonable to ask her to break her friendship with the guy she slept with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me stating she wasnt happy anymore, we were apart for 2 weeks and got back together again for a night and hooked up and she told me she was still in love with me. But then again less than a week later she broke it off again, then 3 ... (217 words)

I want to find out if she likes me without letting her know that I like her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Since I've gone back to school, I've met this girl that my other friends used to hang out with in the past year. Sometimes we get phisical contact, forced by her or by me, she get excuses to grab me in the chest, stomach or arm, during classes sometimes i see that she is ... (339 words)

Doubting our relationship, but I'm afraid to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and things were great. But lately I've been doubting our relationship. It's just not fun anymore, and he's starting to just annoy me. I would break up with him but some things are holding me back: 1) We have a lot of mutual friends ... (140 words)

Help... I don't feel like I fit in because I don't drink or go out partying!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I began college a month ago (I went early, I turn 18 in a few months' time) and I'm having trouble relating properly to people because almost everyone else here is going out drinking and partying till really late and I can't. It doesn't seem like the kind of thing I would ever ... (249 words)

My fiance's best friend is a horrible influence! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend/ fiance of 2 years has changed lately her girlfriend who is single and is man crazy is always wanting my fiance to go out and drink with her just found out that she is smoking pot again and want my fiance to get high with her. When ever I speak my mind about her ... (229 words)

I'm embarassed by my wife's flirting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age - My wife and I separated for sexual reasons but recently got back together. I am satisfied and am happy about it because I love her. She loves me, too, even if sometimes she thinks she doesn't (calls me a "stick-in-the-mud." My wife is very nice-looking and gets lots of ... (217 words)

Does he need a good bye letter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I thought I met the love of my life when I went on vacation in the summer of 08. I was going through so much at the time and I took a trip to clear my head, and there he was, the same person I loved as a little girl growing up. We spoke for hours, about what we wanted out of ... (581 words)

My cousin likes me in a way that makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have got a cousin who is madly in love with me. i am currently single. he is my 4th cousin. he is always doing things in my favor. i know he is really in love with me. but i don't know exactly what i should do since i don't love him but i like him. whenever am at his place he ... (234 words)

Why do they all say "lets just be friends?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I personally have problems getting past the friend zone in terms of relationships with girls. I don't know what it is or I am just too nice or so unoriginal that I come off unattractive. I am slightly over weight which is usual in this society but I'm tanned and do look ... (86 words)

I am not a jealous type person but now I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend and I am becoming a jealous person.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 5 month and I are very in love. We both are continually amazed at how well we work together. I truly feel his is the only man for me. However, about a month ago I snooped through his phone on a whim. We had been eating dinner at a restaurant and when I came back ... (732 words)

I don't know what to say to this boy I want to get to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a new boy in my sixth form and he is really nice and i would like to get to know him better. but when i try and talk to him i have no idea what to say as i don't want to say anything that he will think is stupid and i don't want to embarrass myself. he is really a... (113 words)

How does one go about asking out a teacher?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - First of all, I'm not a self obssessed idiot, and i know when people are flirting. I want to be with someone who is intelligent, funny and pretty, there is only person who is like that that i want to be with like that. I think she likes me too, she's flirted with me (hands o... (99 words)

How do I know if he's gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a boy of 17 and I'm in my last year of high school and I think I love a boy in my class.. It's my first time I love a boy.. and how do I know if he's gay or not? It's not like we're real friends or something, he is just in the same class and sometimes we say somet... (85 words)

Boyfriend hasn't called me... I miss him... Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so ive been with my bf for 3 years and im 18 hes 20 on sunday my boyfriend called me but his tone of voice seemed weird like if he was upset but when i asked if he anything was wrong he said he was fine....then the next 2 days after that his phone had been disconnected to ... (232 words)

I'm feeling guilty about my soon-to-be exwife being dumped by her new guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - hi i wonder if anyone can give me much needed advise please? i am currently seperated form my wife of 18 yrs,we had a good marriage,but the last 5 years just grew totaaly appart from each other ,different lives,hobbies,friends,lost feelings and respect,no sexy etc etc i even... (225 words)

How do I get over his texting and our breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out that my boyfriend of two years was texting another woman he said she doesnt mean anything, yet he texted her everyday monday to friday when he was on a two week holiday with me. We broke up as I felt although the texts were vague and not lovey dovey, he called her ... (89 words)

Ladies, do you like it if a guy is able to or wants to orgasm more than once during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ladies, do you like it if a guy is able to or wants to orgasm more than once during sex? I mean like more than one time in a session...or course thre is that "recharge" time sometimes. How many times is the most you've been with a guy in one session and he came? I suppose it ... (122 words)

What was your most embarrassing moment while on a date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What was the your most embarassing moment wile on a date? :)... (12 words)

He's everything I want in a man, except for his size!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age - Recently, I have litterly fell in love with the man of my dreams, he's everything I've ever wanted in a man...except the size of his penis! We have only slept together once, and I do mean sleep! The size of his penis hard is maybe an inch and a half long and a half inch wid... (163 words)

My boyfriend has a bestfriend that is a female. Need help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, I am not the jealous type at all and honestly i didn't even care up until last month when me and this guy im seeing for about 6 months went on vacation together for my birthday. It was supposed to be a group thing but everyone backed out last minute so it wound up... (302 words)

What could have caused this reaction from a colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age - I have gotten to know a male colleague over the last weeks and we just had a business trip together. Clearly there was some physical attraction over the weeks but we are both married. Anyhow, we chatted on the plane and he talked about his wife, and I mentioned my husband. At ... (247 words)

How do I help my virgin friend get laid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, I'm posting for a friend, basically my friend is 21 years old and still a virgin, he really wants to lose it, he's just not a very sociable person. He's not BAD looking or anything and I've tried myself to get him laid with some of my friends, but to no avail. I just want ... (89 words)

How/where do I tell her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've recently started uni and met a girl who I know have a big liking for. We'd spoken online quite a bit before starting and swapped numbers and texted. Now that we're at uni we spek online for hours and in recent times she's invited me out when she's planned to go to the ... (147 words)

How do I bring back the spark in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age - Im a woman who has lots of children and my husband wont make love to me anymore he always saids he to tired and wont even touch me in anyway or even give me a cuddle and hold my hand when ever we go anywhere then today at the supermarket i got guys just all looking at me and i ... (108 words)

What shall I do to be friendly, talkative, smart and loving with others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a shy and introvert type of person since my childhood . i feel uneasy with strangers and always live in fear that what will other say if i do this or if i do that. i am an untalkative person. But i always wish i could talk freely with any one and if i donot hegitate to do ... (132 words)

Wife taking 24 condoms on holiday when she is going with 3 other women.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age - hi my wife and i have funny kind of marrage (i think we have been married a lot of years) yes i know how many 30. each year she and 3 old (well same age girlfriends go away on holiday for a week. this year they are going on a crusie and i was looking in her bag just before ... (141 words)

I became too dependent on my ex, and now we have broken up I am really lonely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After a really bad breakup 3 months ago, I'm now really really lonely. I made a huge mistake because I relied too much on my ex. I became friends with his friends and now I've got only a couple of friends. Most of my friends from school all went their separate ways and don't ... (68 words)

He just wants to be friends but I'm pregnant with his baby.....how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i want my boyfriend back but he wants to be just friends but i'm having his child. he broke up with me before summer. how do i get him back...... (30 words)

Is this marriage a waste of time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age - hello hope everyone is doing well.heres my problem,problems I should say.I have repeatly told my husband that It upsets me when the first thing in the morning he turns on the computer,as if it's the most imporant thing in his life,yet every morning he gets up and touches the ... (247 words)

Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Wanted to ask a question toward the women, because i think it happens to them more than guys. Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?... (31 words)

What can I do to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need a bit of help. My girlfriend broke up with me a few days back because we had been a bit iffy and hand't seen each other for a while, I got drunk and upset her, saying if shes not going to be in my life then she should leave now instead of later when it will hurt me more, ... (541 words)

My friend is homesick now we are at Uni and she is making me miss out on the things I want to do....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'd like some advice regarding my friend. Last Saturday, I started uni. One of my best friends has also come to the same uni as me, same accommodation but different course. I didn't think going to the same uni would be a problem as we didn't plan it and we're on differe... (251 words)

I'm having second thoughts about marriage.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to have some second thoughts while planning a wedding? I am smitten with my girl, and have been in love for almost a year now. We have talked about marriage openly and longingly, but now that we are actually planning it, I find myself looking at some of the ... (114 words)

Can we love two individuals at one time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Its been almost three years for my arranged marriage. I was just 25 when I tied a knot with the girl who is three years younger to me……I was very happily working and was enjoying every single moment of my marriage life….Before my marriage I was in love with two girls but we c... (256 words)

An old flame is still in my life, and now I have re-married I hate that I still have feelings for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age - Creep or love connection?? 17 years ago I was raising 3 great kids, but married to an alcoholic.. Not in a happy place. I worked at a resturaunt/store, and a local buisness owner who alway's treated me very nicely began really notcing me. Fast forward 5 years and he's in the ... (333 words)

He thought my friend was me testing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been like together with this guy for almost 2 months. Today while I was driving my best friend started a conversation with him. After a little bit she gave me back the phone and didn't say anything. I know how she can be so I texted him asking if she was mean. He said no ... (166 words)

Things are not the same and I feel he may have another girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi cupid.. ilove this guy so much..but whenever he talks on the phone..i feel he has another girl..lately things are not the same.. he does show me love at times he seems less interested and doesnt even call me every now and then like he used to..whats the meaaning of all ... (52 words)

He is inconsistent and I just want to forget about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know how much I am stupid... In this summer my ex-boyfriend sent me broke up mail which is totally mixed message without any sign. He blamed my fault like race, age and past behavior finally even past trauma. The last sentence was "I still want to be together with y... (706 words)

Should I tell him I once had an abortion?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi fellas.i need your advice once again.i had an abortion 4yrs ago (6weeks).even my then boyfriend didnt know i was pregnant(i missed my period,took pregnancy test then ran straight for abortion).i found an excuse for leaving my then bf.i gave myself time to heal,now i have my ... (100 words)

Should I just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend this January during exchange study. Then the following seven months, we spent almost all of our time together. Then during our final month, I went back to his country and met his family and friends. We are each other first serious love, so it was really a ... (558 words)

Me n my girlfriend caught kissing by her parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i have a problem n i hope i really get a positive solution, i was walking my girlfriend home n for some unlucky reason her mom saw us kissing n holding hands. Now iam afraid i might lose her n i don't want that n neither does she. I know her parents are going to be mad at ... (110 words)

Confusing and conflicting emotions during our breakup

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just wondering what are normal emotions to go through when breaking up? My husband and I have been together for 12 years, with 2 children. Now we are seperating and I want it but I also want him to stay. Is this normal? Im very confused and scared.... (56 words)

My friends want to take me to a stripper or pro, but I want to wait for a true lover

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My birthday had just pass and i turned 18 i am a virgin and never had a girlfriend friends had asked me when im i going to lose my virginity and because iturned 18 they wanna take me to lose my virginity to a prostitude or stripper but i dont know if i should do it or just ... (68 words)

Should a committed girl talk to every wrong caller ?

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to know about one thing, about one trait of the girl I loved. I took her number from a guy who used to talk to her at night(he took her number from his friend who was also talking to her parallely). When I got into commitment with her she never quit her nature of ta... (312 words)

My girlfriend says she needs to take a break...

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, i've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months. We hang out a couple days a week and really enjoy spending time with each other. However, a few days ago she invites me over to her house and tells me that she wants to take a break. She says she's at a point in her ... (202 words)

My girlfriend is being miserable to me! But I love her like nothing else

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1 October 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I loved my girl, but i cheated on her and now shes making me work so hard n give back nothin, i dont mind when i do it, but when i look back i feel like she shouldnt keep me around and telling me things are gonna get better, when they might never. Its expensive and taxing ... (142 words)

Since I married other women seem more attractive than my wife

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife and I just got married less than a month ago. I love her very much and we knew each other for a year before getting hitched-which happened very very suddenly. Her and I both are off to a college now and I've been noticing that I find many girls here more attractive ... (185 words)

MY LDR met her new guy while she was still with me

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me ex girlfriend and I have recently broken up we were in a LDR and I was happy throughout that whole time. However one day she decided to end things and about 2 weeks later I found out that she started to date this guy only a few days after she had ended things with me. She ... (116 words)

Does it automatically make someone selfish if they don't want kids?

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My parents are devastated that I had a vasectomy years ago and that I don't want to have kids. But my question is...why do people accuse me of being selfish because of this? How is it selfish if someone doesn't want kids? My mum said this generation is selfish because ... (120 words)

Does he still like me? How can I move on. Please help

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, Please can you advise!! I have recently split with a short term BF. I really really loved him, and am finding it very hard to get over him. He had to change his number, and when I asked he gave me the new one, also, I have been very foolish, as I still contact him now ... (342 words)

I am worried he is still in love with her

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone.. I know this is going to be on the lengthy side but I would appreciate your thoughts as this is really important to me. I started dating a man in the Navy a few months ago. We had been friends all throughout high school and I sent him packages and letters whil... (496 words)

I don't know if I should or shouldn't tell

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just read a guy's recent post about losing trust and respect for his girlfriend after finding out she's been in contact with her ex a lot. It got me wondering if I should tell my boyfriend that before I met him, I was briefly dating a guy who's now my best friend in this ... (352 words)

What causes a man to have a dry orgasm??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What is the main cause when a man has dry orgasms in his fifties? My partner was having sex with me, and shortly after, he told me he had a dry orgasm. I have never experience that with a man before. What can cause a man to ejaculate with a orgasm?... (51 words)

Can I change the picture in my permit?

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1 October 2010 (F) - I hate my permit picture..i am actually in my twenties and just learning to drive now..my non drivers id before this--i looked very cute..this one the pose is just all wrong and i look heavier and suprised because i wasn't ready is there a way to replace the photo with a dif... (91 words)

I've been through the emotional wringer

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone: My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last Friday night. Prior to that, it was a long month whereby she first wanted a break, proceeded by us breaking up for a a couple days, then getting back to "try" (she wanted to try), me not giving her space (i panicked) and... (639 words)

Is she just keeping me around because I help with her child so much?

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I had been dating someone for about 6 months, she had a 2 year old from a previous relationship. things were going great then out of the blue she decided that she was feeling too much pressure being in this serious of a relationship. A few weeks went by and we both agreed ... (450 words)

What to do with my life?

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so its not really a question about relationships or anything but here's the deal. I've been really depressed lately thinking about my future. I'm 17 years old, have a good paying job that I work 9 hours every day at, I'm graduated from high school but not going to ... (123 words)

Anytime my boyfriend seems withdrawn, I start worrying and feeling insecure!

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always believed an unconditional, stable kind of love was the real basis of a good relationship. But my ex was different; I could say something silly which he disapproved of and then I'd have to work for weeks to win back his "love". Now I've been out of that toxic re... (277 words)

Very close to my female best friend, is this more than a friendship??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl, and I have a super best friend who I talk to about everything and anything. We're totally tight and we like to joke about sex all the time. But just a week ago or so, we were outside and started feeling each other's boobs and nipples and stuff, and we were tota... (124 words)

Are all men as obsessed as my husband is over genital size, mine and his??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has been messing with my head for eight years telling me I'm big down there and him is small. However he's 5.5 to 6 inches, and today at the gyno I finally had the courage to ask and she said, I'm not big, just average, down there width wise ("I can fit two fingers ... (352 words)

Have not been introduced to his family after 2 years, should I be concerned?

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, all I need your advice. I have been more than 2 years together with him. My boyfriend seems no intention to introduce me to his family or friends. I have no idea how to deal with this situation. He is living far from his hometown at the monent and comes back once ... (258 words)

Men only question, would you be interested in a woman like me??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For men only! I have 34c breasts. I weigh 165 am 5' 10" dirty blonde hair. I am shy. My eyes are brownish green. By what I told u would u be interested in me?... (35 words)

Remarried, happy, 11 years later, spark of some kind still exists when see this guy, why??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age - Okay guys here's a ? For you! Bear with me .... I was married for 20 years to an alcoholic, have three Great kids. 10 turbulant years a customer. Had alway's admired At my store starts being more than just nice. He comes into the More frequently, lingers to chat, tel... (291 words)

Confusing on again, off again relationship, any ideas where his head is??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I've found myself in a muddle with a guy and would like some advice. I've known him for eight months, and in that time I've seen him on and off for three times, each time ending with a fight because he 'wasn't sure what he wanted'. We started seeing each other for ... (225 words)

Known him for a long time, like him a lot, should I ask him out??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have known this guy for a while now and i have anways loved him sooooooooooo much..but he seems to avoid me sorta..we talk somtimes but not alot...he is usally a jerk to people but not to me...should i take my chance and ask him out?... (46 words)

How do I explain to my mom that I am grown and can be trusted??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old college student living at home with my parents due to financial reasons. My parents have always been protective but now that I have gotten older it seems like they have gotten worse, mainly my mother. I do work go to classes and the rare chances I do go out I ... (224 words)

I cheated on my gf who cared deeply, I hurt her, I have such remorse, now what??

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - *Sighs*...Here it goes. I am 20 years old and my girlfriend is 30 and we have been together for 2 years. She is from another country and I moved there to be with her. I became confused and just obsessively negative about the relationship upon moving, maybe cos I knew no pe... (605 words)

I don't love him as he seems to love me, but should I stay for my kid's sake??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I stay with Mr. Wonderful or should I go? Summary: I have loved this great guy mildly for years. He moved from another state to be with me six years ago and we have been through much together. We are not married because we are both skittish about the union, having be... (272 words)

How can I stop getting so angry all the time??

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi veeryone. I'm 13 and want to know why I am so angry. I haven't had a good life at all and my mom said she fears I will run away or something. But the littlest things get me angry and it is very sudden. I don't want to Hurt myself, but I want to say some pretty bad stuff to ... (115 words)

Crush signs?

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid are these signs HI cupid their is this boy i like star quarter back of the football team way older than me. Any way i feel like a stalker Ive just met him. He really doesn't know me but when i first walked into a lunch i looked over at him and there he... (183 words)

I'm terrified my parents will find out I am dating

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend at the current time, my parents believe that I shouldn't be dating until I'm 16, now I'm not gonna say that "he's the one" or "you guys just don't understand" because honestly I have no clue whatsoever on what love is or who "the one" will be. Currentl... (99 words)

For the guys, do you prefer skinny or thick?

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question for guys only:) does weight matter when your in a relashion? do you guys prefer a skiny gf or thick... (24 words)

Why would you say this too a taken man? I feel sick

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found a text on my bfs phone [I realise I shouldn't have been looking] and it was from a girl that said "I am imaging us in the shower together". I feel sick. It didn't happen, she was just flirting. But all the same. Why would you say that to a taken guy?... (54 words)

Were both bi , does she like me?

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm bisexual and have recently fell in love with my best friend she knows I'm bi and she is too. she hugs me,holds hands,and caresses me all the time I don't know if she likes me or not and I want to tell her help please!!!!!... (46 words)

Dating or not?

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and this girl are getting really close. By that i mean, we flirt alot and go do stuff together and stuff like that, but she hasnt officially said we're dating. Im not sure whether to ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend or if i should just wait and see what she ... (91 words)

Boyfriend met up with his ex and I'm still not over it!

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend met up with his ex without telling me and the only reason I found out is because I had a gut feeling and asked him a month later and he can't lie. It's been almost a year since and we're still together. And I still kinda don't feel I have closure on it. I still ... (76 words)

I had a lumpectomy, what do guys think of that?

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a lumpectomy 1-1/2 years ago and now one breast is about a cup size smaller and somewhat distorted. Partly I'm okay with it because I think of it as a symbol of life. Another part of me is feeling nervous that a guy would be turned off when it comes to intimacy. What is ... (78 words)

Thinking of getting back in contact with my bestfriend

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok....so basically my Best friend(female) screwed me over and accused me of things that i could and would never image doing too her behinde her back and actually believing i would EVER do or think these things. We've been there for each other though equally hard times and i... (317 words)

Is my boyfriends boss coming onto him, or just friendly?

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating a year now and my boyfriend got another job after being laid off a month ago. This is a small ice cream parlor job, so everyone working there is a three to five years younger than him. During the slow times at the store his female manager and ... (243 words)

I'm obsessed with my teacher!

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused and lost. I had a huge crush on my teacher last year! Like borderline obsessive. He was so sweet and kind to me, and we were around eachother in a close environment. These feelings just kept growing and growing. They got out of control after I graduated in May. ... (205 words)

My bestfriend started dating my crush

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok my best friend forever just told me this morning that my CRUSH and HER just started DATING that morning and she knows I like him pluse this is like her 5th bf sence school started so i dont them to get hurt cause were all are really close friends but everytime she brought it ... (80 words)

Parents say he doesn't deserve me

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - in this period of time in my life, i have a really big problem!! im 19 years old, and my boyfriend is 25 years old, we have started this relationship before 3 years ago, and we are still madly in love with each other!!the problem is that my parents doesn't approve my ... (168 words)

He says lets take it slow but I don't see much effort

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i moved outfrom my husband last year,because someone told me he was messing with their sister. during that time i started daing someone from my past. my husband tried to come back and i wouldn't let.then the girl told me 3 mths ago that she lied an that she was sorry. i tld him ... (124 words)

Am I big enough to break my girlfriend's virginity?

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1 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm planning on having sex with my virging g.f next week... we hve both agreed on that... the problem is that my penis measure 15-16cm long, will it be able to break my g.f virginity??? I don't want to end up the looser at the end... ... (46 words)

He was dating a friend of mine before, she was his first love, her body is still perfect and mine isn't

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I am making myself crazy with this, and I can't really find anyone to talk to about it or help me with it. Here is the story: I have been with this guy for almost 2 years, and I love him dearly, we live together etc. Before me he was dating a friend of mine, and he... (365 words)

Having issues with his past affair.

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1 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, my boyfriend's "ex girlfriend" (he calls her "friends with benefits but with emotional attachment" aka girlfriend but he refuses to call her that) of three years is just really an unattractive person physically and personality wise (I know her relatively well ... (152 words)