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writes:i have been married for 25 years and about 6 months ago i found out my husband has been having phone sex with men and seeking other men and when i confronted him he said he thinks he is bi but now that the shit has hit the fan he wants everything to just go away and says he done nothing wrong because he never went to meet any of the men he had been only masterbating with them! but the day i caught him he was making plans to meet a guy in a hotel, but because he didnt go he still thinks he has done nothing wrong well if he had what then! he was willing to put me at risk as well as himself of god only knows what! also the man he was going to meet is married! he also had a relationship with a man the had just got out of a relationship and they were ready to go to the next level that man called me back and apologized to me and said he never gave him any indication he was married! When i started calling all the numbers on my phone bill he had been doing it for over a year and i paid the phone bills! i feel so stupid because i trusted him so completely! he had also been calling a man on man sex line and when i caught that he went back on and started doing it with women to make it look like it had been both, he lies and also tells me that im a bitch well what does he expect! and now i want to get counseling because it has torn me apart also us apart and all he can say is i have not done it since you caught me so whats the problem i had to tell his parents to get him to quit in the first place they caught him lying on several occasions but because he is their son of course they stay on his side even though they tell me what he has done is wrong! i don't know what to do anymore, im at an all time low! Im the one that makes the primary living and he has all the free time anyone could want i have alot of health problems because i have to work alot recently had a knee replacement need another and some more very stressful health issues and i cant even get him to get my bathroom fixed evcenthough everything is sitting there to do it with he is too busy thinking about himself and what he wants!
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reader, Ven +, writes (20 October 2010):
He is cheating, admitting it, and making excuses for it. On top of that, he continues to do it.
Your relationship is not salvageable because he is entirely unwilling to change for you.
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