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writes:me and my ex boyfriend got back together but now its seems like its all the same things from the first reason we broke was i wrong for getting back into this relationship, should i just have moved on? how can you move on from someone youve been w/ for 4 yrs nd was da first for everythgng ?
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
Getting out of a relationship is like a guy getting hit in the crotch: there is no way to go through it gracefully, and all you can do is wait out the pain afterward.I am impressed that someone of your age could stay committed to another person for 4 years. You need to give yourself time away from him. Look at it this way:He is both a good and bad influence on you. When you were together, you became more like an adult in ways that you wouldn't have if you weren't dating. At the same time, there was some things you would have learned and matured with if you were single. What you need to do for now is take a break and live without his influence on you for a while. You don't have to decide if you want to break up or not. Try and go 1 month without seeing him, talking to him, or talking about him to anybody. Focus on trying to make yourself more mature. Be honest with yourself and try to find all the ways in which you still act like a child. At the end of a month, sit down with your man and talk about what being separated made you both decide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): well i mean i been through this and it is a hard thing to accomplish ... i think its better to move on because he is ur ex for a reason and things well never be the same ... or they can be depending on what your guises reason of the break up wAs. the way u can move on would be spending more time with yourself and ur friends and trying to keep him of your mind...
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