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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I be worried about guys who work on these cruises? Are they playing lots of girls all of the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on cruise that I was on. He worked on the cruise itself. If anyone knew that he was even speaking to me that much he would get fired immediately. Every night we would meet in secret and just talk / hang out. He was never disrespectful to me nor did he ever try to ... (894 words)

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating. Do I leave him or stay because of the baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,I am 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating with one of he's co-worker and she is married too I dont know who's the jerk, but this problem is driving me crazy I just don't know what to do. I must leave him or stay cuz of the baby?...thanks ... (50 words)

Does he care at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hello hope you all can help... ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years... he says im unaffectionate (i am such a loving person but gave up trying because he is non affectionate) ...if fact my question is this .. Ive always tried in the relationship, done what i can to help ... (293 words)

Hopelessly single! Should I call my long distance interest instead of texting him as I'm in his town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in a small town where dating is a bit of a challenge. The population of decent single men is pretty limited. So I decided to take a risk and try a popular online dating website. I began emailing a guy who is pretty great. We then exchanged phone numbers and began texting ... (282 words)

We can have sex three times a day and he will still beat off to porn or role play with women on the net!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my bf for almost three years. we have one kid that is 2 and another one on the way. when we first got together he always beat off to porn or was role playing with other women on the net. he promised that he was done but i kept finding out that he was doing it ... (147 words)

Its hard enough being a single mother to one, I don't know if I can do it with two!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im 20 years old and i already have an 1yr old daughter... i just found out today that i am pregnant again ..n the guy that i was with already has a little girl with a another woman n doesnt see her at all he drinks alot n likes to go to the bars every saturday hardly ... (158 words)

My trust in him has died

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just broke up because he says I don't trust him..the reason I don't trust him is because he lies to me about the smallest things..we have a child together and my family lives cross country so I can't just move out quick..but then I don't want to because I ... (153 words)

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My wife and are busy with our careers and ... (436 words)

I upset him now he wont talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf is currently not talking to me, I upset him last week and since then hes not been talking to me. I have tried to get a face to face meeting to apologise but he wont hear of it, so as a last attempt to save our relationship im going to write him a letter to apologise. Ive ... (137 words)

What do people recommend as a first toy to introduce into the bedroom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Been going out with my girl 10 months now and I'm pleased to say we have an amazing sex life! As time's gone by we've become increasingly adventurous and I'm keen to do something exciting for her to take it up another notch and keep things fresh. She's... (104 words)

My parents are going to kick out my pregnant baby sister

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 17 and my sisters 15 and pregnant and she wants too keep it and does not want to put her baby up for adoption but my parents and her have a rocky relationship so they dont want anything too do with her , i really want to help her because i love my sister but i dont know how ... (83 words)

Yikes, do I rekindle the old flame or cultivate the new one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have an old love (over 20 years) that I reacquainted with this summer after finally ending a messy divorce last year. My old boyfriend lives far far away and works in remote jobsites so he is rarely available. In the months since I last seen him, I started dating a local ... (124 words)

I treated her bad so her famly came and took her away from me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my problem is as follows, me and my gf have been dating for almost 10 months, she just turned 20 and im 22, i was a jerk in our relationship, did some terrible things which iam truly sorry for. Her family was concerned about her and just over a month ago took her from me. I ... (376 words)

I like this girl but her friend likes me! What do I do here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl, so much I think I'm starting to fall for her, she likes me too, but the problem is that her friend likes me too. The girl I do like has said she feels bad and stuff cos of her friend and I dont know what to do, should I try and completley cut myself off ... (77 words)

How do I become a stronger person?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to be a strong person, not letting negative things stand in my way and be able to take risk not being afraid of the outcome. What should I do?... (31 words)

Why do friends say "we'll get together but it never happens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Maybe you guys can help me figure this one out. I'm always trying to figure people out. Our daughter played on a volleyball team last year. We made friends with one couple and their daughter. We had a great time getting together at volleyball games. We talked about get... (338 words)

LDR boyfriend coming to see me and wants me to sleep with him but I don't want to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in Australia and my boyfriend lives in India. Now he is coming to visit me in Australia and wants me to stay with him in a hotel. I don't want this coz i dn't want to hurt my parents since we are not married. How do i tell him this? I tried to tell him indirectly but he ... (86 words)

I want to believe cheating boyfriend will change...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, after the first 6 months i found out he had profiles on a bunch of dating sites online and he had been communicating with one women and saying things like he wanted to start a relationship with her. i know the smart thing to ... (135 words)

My girlfriend has me confused and down lately, what do I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 months now and it has been going great until just a week ago. After the first month of dating she was the first one to say she loved me but it wasnt strong love yet, and that it would get stronger over time. since then we have said "i ... (523 words)

I didn't go into specifics with her but I didn't lie either... is this enough for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am getting pretty serious with my girlfriend. We've talked about things of our past. Things we regret and wish we could have back, such as people we've slept with that are still involved in some capacity of our lives. A few weeks ago, she told me a story about her getting ... (695 words)

I need help. I don't want to give up on us, I just don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I promise to make this as short as possible. Me and my (ex) boyfriend were together not that long but 6 months. We were not together 3 months out of the 6 and basically lived together a month and a half out of the other 3. THe months we were apart there were no problems in fact ... (422 words)

She wants me to cum in her face but I respect her too much to do that...

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok guys dont give me hell or call me a pansy. My gf asked me to cum in her face while she was giving me a blow job last week, and I totally froze up and couldnt do anything. I have watched it in porn and I dont see it as a turn on at all. Honestly I find it actually disrespe... (172 words)

How to ask a boy out without being awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really would like to know some techniques on asking a boy out with out being awkward. Normally I am a really confident person but when I get around him, I tend to get a bit weak in the knees. HELP!... (41 words)

Retracting foreskin of penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17; I can't retract the foreskin of my penis for my head to show up.. Well I sometimes can, but i'm afraid to pull the skin below the head because it is so tight i'm afraid it won't go back over the head :s And it's quite hard to get it pull down; sometimes it works so... (87 words)

Are the vibes I'm getting from him correct and he really DOES like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Im 18 years old, casually dating a guy that's 20. Now one thing im unsure about is whether he is actually interested in me. I met him at a friend's birthday and we got on well as friends so we swapped Blackberry pins so that we could talk on blackberry messeng... (453 words)

I need to learn more about the Spanish language...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - For this one I'll need the help of some native Spanish speakers (preferably Mexican Spanish). There's this girl that I have been out with a few times. She's from Mexico and even though her English is fluent there are times when she doesn't catch details of what is being sa... (242 words)

I don't like it when people call my girl sweet names

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this girl and she's really wonderful in every way. Just an issue is that I am NOT sure but I wonder if she's cheating I really doubt it because she's never like that. It makes me jealous when people go all over her and call her "my mistress" and "oh baby" and "come ... (163 words)

I don't know the kinds of questions to ask when dating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Please i need you people's help, i need a person to help me out i don't no how to date i don't know the kind of question to ask a girl when dating,i don't know the type of disccution to bring up i don't even know when to as a girl for a friendship,i need someone to bill me out ... (61 words)

I've been cheated on so many times and now I've done it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi i'm 15 and i've been in a relationship with my bf for 3 months exactly. I love him very much. We were friends for almost a year before we started dating. About a week into our relationship he almost cheated on me and when I found out I almost died! Every guy I date cheats on ... (220 words)

Boyfriend doesn't kiss, want to hug or have kids..what is up with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Throughout the time we've been together, I've learned several things about him. 1. He won't kiss me until the day we get married, if we do. 2. He hates hugs. He'll hug me when we're together, but I know it ... (148 words)

How can one improve a relationship using the Law of Attraction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone had any exp. with improving a current relationship using the Law of Attraction? I have read many success stories...many have been able to revive they're relationship after cheating, lying, lost of chemistry and etc using this principle. Is it true that one can create ... (76 words)

Why do I never give guys a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I'm REALLY scared to have a boyfriend. I've liked guys in the past and they've made moves on me but my fear of relationships has stopped me from taking things further and just genuinely enjoying myself. Its really bothering because I'm starting to question... (259 words)

What does "on the take" mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a a guy is "on the take?" When he is consumed with being taken advantage of by a woman? Or when it says that it will take a very "special" person in order for him to open up even when he knows without a shadow of a doubt that you are that special person ... (64 words)

Why does sex die out when people move in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So why is it that sex dies out when couples start spending more time with each other or when they move in together.My boyfriend and i will be moving in together pretty soon because not only do we love each other and feel like we're gonna be together forever but we're expecting ... (329 words)

How can I use my personality being reserved to my advantage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a college student who has come from the UK to America, and I just don't know what to do romantically. I am rather shy and anhedonic, so I have difficulty just relaxing and having fun with women. There is one girl I really like who's really fun-loving and excitable; but I ... (234 words)

Can I not give my heart completely because of all the hurt I've suffered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend of two years and I broke up two years ago for MANY reasons I will not discuss. He was my first love (as I was his) and I had given my all to him (well, everything but my anal virginity). There were a few times throughout this relationship that I really thought ... (662 words)

I'm doubting my husband's honesty. Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I’ve been married to Mike for 4 years. The past year or so, I caught him contradicting himself constantly. Example 1: He took home a football team lanyard several months ago. He told me that the guard at work gave it to him. Yesterday he blurted out that he found the lanyard ... (232 words)

Are we doomed to keep repeating the same pattern?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So here's my situation. I have been seperated from my ex of over 8yrs for about 2months ish. In the first month we still used to see each other quite alot and usually end up in bed but then all of a sudden she cut contact with me. I started to think about her all the time again ... (379 words)

He says he's not a bad guy, can I believe him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a guy and we used to kiss and snog but it didn't really mean anything i think it is something like friends with benefits? and we are really good friends. then he liked this girl and now they are going out. but me and him are really really good friends and we talk qui... (284 words)

Is my vagina too small?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My vagina looks small. Not able to insert the penis. What to do, for the penis to get inserted?... (19 words)

He won't stay and he won't let me move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im currently 26 weeks pregnant and my bd walked out on me so he could concentrate on being a good dad to his 2 children from a previous relationship and our soon to be born son but the problem is his ex is stating that he isnt to have anything to do with our son if he wants ... (235 words)

Should I go for him or leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So I have a crush on this guy, it may not be that. I want to tell him I think he looks good :D why? I don't know. But if he were to ask me out I would go. But the problem is my cousin said he flirts with her and her coworkers @ work. She said its nothing but I don't know. I ... (252 words)

I am ready to say "I love you", and okay with being the first to say it, but should I? Should I just wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been dating 9 months, 7 of the months have been pretty serious. We are both divorced and he has a four year old little girl who i get along with great and he has equal joint custody of..... I spend the night often but i make the decision to leave before she awakens whe ... (243 words)

I'm getting sick and tired apart from frustrated by the fact that my boyfriend doesn't want to give me oral!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting sick and tired apart from frustrated by the fact that my boyfriend doesn't want to give me oral... this might turn out really long, in a way I just want to vent, but also some words of advise or opinions that can make me feel better with myself and my situation... (1288 words)

Shock horror: ex boyfriend reappears, disappears.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question which, unfortunately, has quite a long backstory--thanks in advance for reading! I have just recently returned to the UK after being in the US for a year (I am an American citizen and moved home to be with my parents). A bit of (probably uninteresting) b... (532 words)

I found naughty texts do I confront her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over 3 months. My friends don't think she is trustworthy. The other day I was going through her phone and I noticed a text from a guy named John. I clicked on it and it said thing like I want you so bad and I wish your hard dic... (194 words)

I see no point in a LDR for 3 years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is going overseas for work for 3 years. Should I initiate a break up? I see no point in a 3 years long distance relationship... (28 words)

Angry at parents even though they do everything they can for me, want to stop feeling this way, help please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to stop feeling angry and my parents and sister, please help advise me how to... My parents are good people. They worked very hard, saved every penny and had a hard life. They've given me a good life as well, roof over my head, an education, luxuries in terms of stan... (643 words)

Very depressed about bad sexual experience and small penis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am 21 years old and I have a small penis and have a very general questions. Should I look into some type of enlargement methods? I admit i have very low confidence about myself and most likely this is the more of an issue than my size. However, when I wa... (536 words)

Having trouble reaching orgasm with this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl recently and we have only had sex twice Both times I think we both had fun and I think that we connect really well emotionally. The reason I worry is that each time I have had trouble reaching orgasm. The first time I didn't climax, but I marked it down t... (203 words)

Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a repeat performance were... (299 words)

How to handle trust issueswith pornography, boyfriend & lying

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. My previous boyfriend was addicted to porn and lied about it. I'm one of those girls who hate it--it's demoralizing in my eyes, sick, and perverted. So when I asked him about watching it or having a collection, he looked me ... (294 words)

We are on a week break of our 7 year relationship. What do you think will happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are Juniors in College, both 21, and have been dating for 7 years. We love each other dearly, but feel we have no time for each other. we never fight, and frankly I feel like we have a very good relationship.. when its going good ( most of the time) . He ... (353 words)

Her smile says one thing, her words another.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Christ, where to start... With the cliche, I suppose. There's a girl. She's not like anyone I've ever met... beautiful like a marble statue, fresh as the morning dew, funny and clever, a free thinker with more than enough brains to keep up and a wide variety of cultural inte... (912 words)

After 5 years am I bored with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been 5years, me and my boyfriend. We had argued several times about the idea of he being the giver without me sharing anything in return. I do admit my mistakes but at the same time I felt I don't deserve him. He been such a good boyfriend but I wonder why it is hard for ... (163 words)

What should I do with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 years old and I met my girlfriend 5 months ago. The question is what should I do with her? Situation is as follows: She has 2 sons (5 and 7 years old) and she separated from her husband about a year ago. They grow their children "together" (they are 1 week with her an... (746 words)

Oral sex just for the fun of it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with this guy for a little over six months. We have great fun together, and we have at some point admitted we like each other, but he is not sure about getting in to a relationship with me. ( He says he's broken up with his ex, but they still keep in to... (122 words)

Will or relationship survive now that I've found out I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together just under a year (10 months), and I've just found out I'm pregnant. It wasn't planned, we're using contraception. We both have decent jobs and live together... But I'm worried as to whether we're going to survive this... We have a very ... (89 words)

Will our relationship last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! am 23 years old, dating a 45 year old. he is married having three kids, his relationship with his wife is complicated. the wife left him with kids and went back to her home. the man is struggling so hard to raise the kids. will our relationship last?... (53 words)

He's obsessed with making everything about "us"! How can we get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i am his first serious relationship and sexual partner, however i have had a handful of serious relationships before him. we have a great relationship except for his problem dealing with my past. it is not always an issue, we ... (322 words)

I don't feel comfortable at my boyfriend spending the night with her ALONE!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a female friend, who he was in love with before he met me. Nothing ever happened between them, except that eventually he told her how he felt and they talked it over. Now his feelings for her are platonic and he's been with me for two years. He is still friends ... (389 words)

Did I do something so horrific that is not forgivable, and should I feel this guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I dated on and off for 2 years, never had a very positive relationship. It was started as her cheating on her boyfriend with me, and she started dating me. I was happy, and thought that she changed. She broke up with me (although I'll never know the truth, but ... (486 words)

His addiction to video games is destroying our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What would you do? I am with a man who is lovely, upbeat, faithful and generous, but over that last 2 years, it seems his demeaner to me has changed in a negative way. The way he talks to me, and about me, seems to be not to put me down, but to say, I'm just a woman. For ... (790 words)

Do we make enough money to have a baby?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I feel we are ready to try to start a family in the next few months. We have just paid off some debt from my uni days and are looking now to rent a place (we currently live with his family). Our combined salaries are £40,000 a year, and we've worked out a ... (182 words)

Am I a lesbian? I'm in love with my bestfriend, but no other girls.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just turned 17. Me and this girl have been best friends for about 5 years. No exaggeration, she's absolutley gorgeous, she's a model, she's so funny and really genuinely nice. She used to say "Oh, I love you" (as a friend I persumed) which always made me strangly happy, a... (381 words)

We slept together, he's now ignoring me. What did I do wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Two months ago, I lost my virginity to someone I'd met online. I was completely head over heels in love with him. The day after, he stopped texting or calling me. We were still in communication; it's just that I did all the work to maintain it. Now, we don't talk anymore. ... (419 words)

Should I tell her about my past with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex gf cheated on her then fiance, now husband with me. It happened after a night of drinks, a conversation that we wanted to be friends, and that she wasn't as happy as she was when she got engaged. I in a way started to think there was a chance for us to get back together, ... (381 words)

Is it fair on the kids to try again with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi need some advice. My Husband and I have had separate houses for the past six months.He although lives at mine most of the time. The reason we ended up in separate houses was he was unable to bother with my two children from a previous marriage who are only six and eight. He ... (328 words)

I have been unemployed for ages, what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been out of work for a long time and i want to do something, even if its only a temporary job. I have thought about signing up with recruitment agencies, but the only recruitment agencies i can find have office and retail jobs. i have had experience in both of those, but i ... (191 words)

We have a 2 year age gap, is this a big deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 years old and I am dating a 17 year old guy. I was just wondering about people's opinions on the age gap? Both of our birthdays are in August, so he is young for his age, as am I. Since we live in the UK the legal age for sex is 16. I am pondering the idea of waiting ... (249 words)

I'm worried my partner is interested in my friend!

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are having troubles. I have a fear that he is more interested in my friend ( who is married..by the way) as they have quite similar personalities and enjoy the same hobbies and have been bought up a siminlar way. My friend has married someone who has quite a ... (200 words)

My fiancee wants to leave with my baby girl, how can I make her see all three of us should stay as a family?

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All, Just need some advice as to what to do! A month ago me and my fiance started to have some issues with our relationship. Basically i've gone further and further down on her list to a point where i was getting absolutely no attention. We had a few discussions over the... (258 words)

Guys! What can a girl do/wear to make your head turn?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What really impresses a guy? What will grab his attention (in a good way) and make him return that attention to you? I'm asking this to use on my boyfriend for a spark, and for future reference should I ever need it. Thanks =]... (50 words)

Why hasn't he asked me out yet?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I sarted liking this guy i hang out with about a month ago....then i noticed he started showing the signs that he liked me back like staring at me, standing by me, being extremely shy, always walking beside me in a group of people, flirting with me, and being nicer to me than ... (85 words)

What can I do to forgive and forget?

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I found out about a month ago that my significant other cheated on me about six months ago. We are not married, but we have been living together for 5 years and have two little boys. About a year ago she decided to go back to school. I told her to quit her job so that she could ... (233 words)

Why does he hide so much from me? He knows I wouldnt get mad, I just hate the lies!

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi id really apprecitate some advice on this please guys. i have been trying to save my marriage after finding out certain things about my husband he was hiding things from me that have turned out to be not a big deal but he hides things from me that if he kept me in the frame ... (279 words)

Should I change my hair?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have long beautiful silky straight brown dyed hair. But I have been keeping that for really long and wanted to have a change in haircut soon. Do guys like short, mid-length, long straight hair or long curly hair? Some advice please? My boyfriend wants me to go mid ... (62 words)

Should I give him an ultimatum?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been living with Mr. Lebanese(nickname) for 2 years now. However, he is engaged as requested by his parents to someone she barely know (they just see each other if he's going for vacation which is 10 days a year). He's been engagged before we met.fiancee's family is ... (103 words)

Does my friend have any feelings for me? Or is she just fooling around?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone. I'm 15. And I think I'm in love with my best friend(who's also female). About five months ago, we were at orchestra practice when I suddenly went like 'OMG is it just my imagination or is she just too good-looking.'Well, it took me some time to cope with this as ... (360 words)

Am I lovesick for her? What can I do to stop it?

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello to everyone, I have a few for me relevant questions that I can't get answered by myself... About relationship. I'm together for almost 3 months with the person for whom my feelings have gone wild, REALLY wild. The same thing happens to her. We are incredibly in love w... (449 words)

What does it mean when your boyfriend calls you sexy?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says that i am sexy and he love my eyes....i want him to call me beautiful,cute why doesn't he? my friends say that when a boyfriend calls you sexy its because he just want you to get in your pants and he don't love you?..is it true? what does it mean when your ... (59 words)

A dream about him cheating on me made me feel more insecure than I ever was

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I shouldn't read into dreams, but last night I had a dream about my bf cheating on me. I saw him kissing another girl and we started to fight over it. I slapped him twice and yelled at him, asking if he left me for "something better". He said he would. And then I woke u... (140 words)

I feel like I've traded one dad for another!

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently turned 18. Like most teenagers, i have been long awaiting this time period in my life. Well the time came and all i want to do is have fun. but its like i cant. iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years. hes always been kinda controlling and iv just dealt with it. but ... (443 words)

He's looking for excitement!

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel he is looking for excitement. how can i spice up our relationship or/and sex lives?... (17 words)

Should I just let things happen as they may with my best friend?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a sophmore in college (19 years old). I met this boy (23 years old) exactly one year ago and since then we have grown into best friends. He tells me everything and in turn I do the same. He just recently broke up with his girl friend that he has been with on and off since ... (237 words)

I know he's a cheater but I'm always going to love him

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i've been sleeping with the father of my child on and off after knowing that he has been sleeping with someone else. Sometimes i have to drag the truth out of him because i feel as if i need to know if he's sleeping with someone else. So recently the girl that he's been ... (207 words)

Should I risk losing our friendship, or hold my feelings in?

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26 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, im 24 years old and I'm in a relationship with a guy for 4 years now. I love him and can't see my life without him, but I've fallen for my best friend who is a girl. She is my life, I love her so much, and we cant go a day without talking to each other. We had sex one night ... (392 words)

All he does is lie lie lie

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So right now been on a break wit my ex and we still see each other and all but I m tired of the lies and all and he just lies lies and lies and I keep coming back like a dummy I love him a lot but now I know It must end even though it will hurt me more than him. He's my first ... (78 words)

I have never felt the massive butterflies in a relationship

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2years (with a 1 year break between) He is my first boyfriend and i do love him. However I sometimes get doubts about our relationship. Its nothing he has done as he is wonderful to me and always puts 100% effort. I have never had ... (208 words)

How can I show her I'm telling the truth?

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and three months. I am very much in love with her, but I have done things in the past which made me lose her trust. I never cheated on her, nor have I ever checked out any girl. I talked to this one girl only as a friend, and ... (173 words)

I really want a boyfriend! Everyone else has one!

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this boy at school but i dont know how to get him to like me i really want a boyfriend soon because all of my other friends have one please help asap! thanks... (36 words)

How to find the value of an item?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - this is not a relationship or love q. i found a 1983 limited edition ziggy collectors plate. i was just wondering if anyone on here might know where or which website i could look to find out the value of it. ... (41 words)

Text message gone wrong

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hii.. i really need advice..please help me...i was in a relationship with a guy for past 1 and a half years...we both were serious about each other...in august i had a fight with him and in anger i wrote a message to him in which i put my entire anger out....though everythi... (186 words)

Signs a guy likes you...or not?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some signs that a guy likes you? And what are some signs a guy doesn't? Please include body language, eye contact...etc. I need help ):... (31 words)

Lonely and isolated after switching jobs

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26 October 2010 (F)

age - This is not really a cupid kind of question. I just quit a very public social job and am working a very different kind of job doing counseling work. All of a sudden I am feeling very lonely and isolated. It's scary. Can someone advise me? Real sympathy would be appreciated. ... (53 words)

Do guys like curly hair?

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26 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - oky i want to get a perm ... this well make my hair go curly. I have wavy hair but i straighten it like almost everyday. however im thinking about it a lot because i wonder if guys like really curly hair? or are atleast okay with it.?... (49 words)

My bf's wandering eye, flirting, and internet cheating.

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid...im a female in a monoginus relationhip with my boyfriend..most things we have in common that make it so wonderful are, our health and keep our selves becoming over weight, our kids, our physical, our wonderful sexual relationship, our cooking together in the ... (147 words)

I love dudes but can't get one!

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i dont know whats wrong with me i love dudes,but cant seem to get one! im not ugly at all but i am awkardly tall does that effect the guysopionon on me? i mean i get guys, but mostly out of town and if i do it really dosent work out. do i come off to strong? i mea... (183 words)

Two guys, one me, big problem!

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I've messed up. I am recently divorced after 14 years of a miserable marriage that I was never happy end. I have also recently gotten back in touch w/ some old friends. One of the guys tried to kiss me a few months back (before the divorce was final) but I said no. ... (304 words)

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but I like this other guy ...

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend. He is amazing. Sure, we argue sometimes. But he is AMAZING. He loves me so much, and thinks I look beautiful no matter what. He will do anything to make me happy, and just would do anything to make sure we never break up. Well ... there is this other guy. ... (157 words)

She's miserable to him, and I have feelings ...

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me out, Im a junior in high-school and I go to an all girls school. One of my friends has the most amazing boyfriend, (from our brother school) who does everything imaginable for her, he cooks for her, he MADE her her birthday present with his bare hands, and ... (364 words)

He's dominating during sex, but doesn't remember

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating for almost 9 months now. He is perfect in so many ways, he is very sweet, protective and very loving. I have never worried that he would hurt me or anything like that. We don't fight often and he isn't controlling or anything like that. BUT he has ... (211 words)

I'm getting bored, and wondering about his ex

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, thanks for reading this long question. I dont quite now where to start. So i'm with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. And we spend all the spare time we have with each other, which is everyday. And once a week he goes out to the pub with his friends, which is fine, (i... (425 words)

I got amazing 'jail mail', but now ... ?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy for 2 weeks, then he got locked up for 60 dys. during that time i got some amazing "jail mail"...however once i mentioned to him i was worried that's all it was he freaked and the lovey dovey stuff stopped. he is home now, and wow are things different. we ... (174 words)

I don't want to be disappointed again but I don't want to send him the message that I'm not interested because I am.

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid~ I've liked this guy for years, literally. We're both in high school, he's kind of perfect even though he obviously has imperfections. But I accept him and, when we talk, he seems to accept mine. I swear we connect in a way I've never felt before. Let's call t... (232 words)

Is my relationship with my father influencing my dating?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I have daddy issues? About 3 years ago my dad stopped talking to me and yes, we live in the same house. I don't know why but I was a bit of a rebel. Nothing dramatic but I use to skip school and come home late. He used to lock me out of the house and call the police on me... (446 words)

Why is he withdrawing?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been dating this guy for just about 2 years. I guess back in February his company was bought out by another. They cut his pay in half, cut his hours. he started getting very withdrawn. About three weeks ago he decided that his depression wasnt to me and my children. he ... (165 words)

I regret what I did, but regret doesn't fix things

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I'm bogged down with regret, it never really leaves, but I usually manage it a little better, today though, I'm to weak to fight it, and so I feel its full debilitating force. I've always been a romantic, ever since I was a toddler, but after years of loneliness and a... (435 words)

British reserve getting in the way of approaching an American girl

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a college student who has come from the UK to America, and I just don't know what to do romantically. I am rather shy, and anhedonic, so I have difficulty just relaxing and having fun with women. There is one girl I really like who's really fun-loving and excitable; but I ... (202 words)

Do I tell my g/f about this?

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex gf cheated on her then fiance, now husband with me. It happened after a night of drinks, a conversation that we wanted to be friends, and that she wasn't as happy as she was when she got engaged. I in a way started to think there was a chance for us to get back ... (296 words)

Should I have a kid; don't get off

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Moderator note: two questions from the same address Hello. Well me and this guy are talking and I want to have unprotected sex one time and he does too, because he said if you want to we can do it one time. Well we have only had sex 4-5 times with condoms. But I kinda want a k... (130 words)

I feel used after sex

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well I'm 14 and me and my friend are "talking" to these two guys who are best friends and my guy who is 16 lives with my friends guy who is 15. Well we are having sex on and off and I give my guy blowjobs all the time. Well after we have sex he is kinda distant but before ... (95 words)

I love my girlfriend, and want to propose to her, but now I'm having doubts

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am madly in love with my girlfriend, I'll call Tracy, of nearly two years. I've been wanting to propose to her (she knows this), but lately, her actions have been giving me doubts. In a nutshell, I think she's is obsessed with the materialistic side of marriage... (635 words)

Partner needs to come to terms with my past abuse

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship for approx 4 yrs and i now have a 2yr old daughter as a result of this, i have left her father and about 5 months ago i met a guy 4 yrs younger than i and it has been fantastic!! however, my past is impacting greatly on ... (184 words)

Does she need all the cheating details?

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so I am 18 and in college and my girlfriend who i care about very much is 17 and still in high school. about two months ago I made a horrible mistake and cheated on her with another girl. I kissed her and got a hand job and also fingered her for a short period of time. I called ... (200 words)

Teenage, horny, and it's killing my relationship

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26 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm an young male seeking help, I have a problem with my horniness, At all times of the day I cannot stop thinking about sex, Nothing I seem to do will erase my need for sex. Masturbation hardly provides me with any relief anymore, and it's ruining my relationship with ... (135 words)

Ideas for a second anniversary?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My 2nd year anniversay is coming up. I made a scrap book for the first and I'd like to make something again. What shall I make? Any ideas?... (28 words)

When will I start enjoying sex? What should bf and I do?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started having sex last month. With school we can't really manage to get together more than once a week, but when we do it's pretty uncomfortable. It has hurt each time, and I'm pretty dry. We glob on lube (silicone, if it makes a difference, since the KY ... (178 words)

Husband wants to leave but can't but he claims he doesn't love me

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do? My husband of two plus years has told me he no longer loves me yet he can't leave me. He is no longer sleeping in the same bed. He has spent some nights away from the house. He says he needs space away from me to decide if he loves me or not. He refuses ... (362 words)

Started out great... Now it's fizzling!!

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing this guy about 6 weeks ago, we have known each other for like a year and a half but not socially. He was so sweet to start with, I would hang out with him at work then he'd drop me home at like 3am, he took me out, he was lovely. He went on holiday for 2 ... (172 words)

Wondering about drinking at social events?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now, and so far, we have a really good relationship. I'm just under the drinking age, but all my friends and his friends drink. I have sips of alcohol here and there at his house with just him, but only enough for a tas... (276 words)

Are these questions leading up to Xmas?

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26 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday, while driving with my boyfriend on a very very long trip we somehow got to the topic of proposals. He then wanted to ask me questions for future reference and to not "look too much into it." He asked what kind of metals (gold, silver, etc) I like, if I liked ... (150 words)