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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): I like giving them when it is like most foreplay should be...spontaneous. I was in a very long relationship where it was a requirement...she simply couldn't orgasm or even get into it unless she was relaxed first with a long backrub. I gladly accepted it as her "foreplay", but it became a bit of a chore because it was so long (at least 15 minutes, usually longer), and it often killed the spontenaety of the moment. Not always, but sometimes it sucked.
But I love giving them because i am most aroused when my woman is most aroused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): I like giving them when it is like most foreplay should be...spontaneous. I was in a very long relationship where it was a requirement...she simply couldn't orgasm or even get into it unless she was relaxed first with a long backrub. I gladly accepted it as her "foreplay", but it became a bit of a chore because it was so long (at least 15 minutes, usually longer), and it often killed the spontenaety of the moment.
But I lov
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reader, glassblower  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Yes. Personally, I think back massages are the most sensual acts (besides sex of course) that a couple can share.
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
Not a Woman,They can see it as both. They love massages. All of them. Sometimes it can be sexual, sometimes affectionate. Sometimes they start out seeing it as affectionate and randomly decide to roll over and jump you later.The one most important thing for a man is this: the second she thinks you think thatMassage = ForeplayYou have ruined the back rub magic. It is every bit as crushing as a child finding out that Santa isn't real. SO DON'T USE IT TO GET LAID.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Yes,most women appreciate back massages if they like to be touched in general. When I receive a back massage from my guy, I am flattered by his affectionate giving, and thus turned on in a sexual matter. His "care" excites my sexual interest.
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