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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's been using the word 'love' in our chats, should I tell him I've noticed or just carry on as normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - hi just a quick one, been here before, just need a little advise on what to do, my man, who i have been with for over a year and half, and we are in LDR, but we are fully committed do all a LDR does, he has a bit of a hard time telling me his feelings, hes shy and i am, but my ... (294 words)

I don't want to live in an abusive environment but I'm confused.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in limbo for nearly a year, the stress is presenting viscerally now and my indecision is hurting all the people I care about and I really need help deciding what to do. I have been married for a year and a half, together three years total, and separated for 10... (1603 words)

My boyfriend's parents are disgusting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really love my boyf but his family are the pits. His mum is alcoholic and drinks cheap wine out of a coffee cup all day (so you don't realise!) His dad had a mild heart attack and was told not to smoke or drink anymore but still does both. The house is a state, dis... (158 words)

Should I get baptized while being 8 months pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 8 months pregnant and also joining fellowship at dis church. Since I have been going and taking my classes I was asked did I want to be baptized. I always wanted to be baptized and be in a church and now that I'm pregnant I want the same for my child. After talking to ... (96 words)

Why is the teacher avoiding me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I think this teacher at school is really good looking. I see him at lunch and in the hallway twice. He isn't my teacher because he teaches freshmen and I'm a junior. Me and him always look at each other in the eyes everytime we see each other. I can't help it because his ... (143 words)

I feel like I'm going nowhere, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I will be 26 years old soon and the thing is I never had a girlfriend. I kept on getting rejected by women even though I never acted desperate, said anything stupid or said anything nasty to women. Eventually I kind of gave up, everytime I go out now I just go out and do what I ... (478 words)

I am ignored when girlfriend is stressed, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - When my girlfriend of 5 years gets stressed at work mainly she practically ignores me but continues doing things with her son family and friends and then get annoyed when I raise this issue and accuses me of not being supportive, what am I doing wrong if anything?... (48 words)

I like him, but don't want to come across as pushy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There is someone I met a couple of months ago and we have been getting along well. We've talked alot, seen eachother alone and with friends, kissed and had sex. He has made the effort with me and I'm sure that he does like me. We haven't talked about the situation but no... (137 words)

Do I risk my marriage to find a better match? I feel my husband is more of a roommate.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m 30 and been married to my husband for 2 years now. We do not have any kids together. To give you a little background, I met him through mutual friends that were also dating. When I first met him, I was not attracted to him. But my friends told me he liked me. I had just ... (492 words)

Would he ever date me in spite of my weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that i used to hook up with as a teenager. now after many years i saw him again at college n he went out of his way to start a conversation up with me. now me n him are hanging out and talking all the time. he is showing many signs that he likes me. and weve only ... (112 words)

Should I stay in contact with him or cut him out of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I came across this site in search of advice and would appreciate any answers. This is a bit complicated... i'm friends with a guy, we used to have a casual thing going a while ago, this is no longer the case. Now, he is seeing somebody and i currently am not, when he got with ... (292 words)

How come the sudden silence, and then surprise phone calls after I started calling him?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this may sound stupid (lol) but a while back ago I've realized that my boyfriend hasn't been calling me as much anymore. Actually I'm going to say he stopped altogether haha, but he kept texting me though! After my realization I started to call him just to say hi and then ... (83 words)

Very needy and get depressed when I fall out with friends. Any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I have realised that I'm very needy and cannot take a breakup well. Whenever I fall out with a friend specifically female, I get very depressed. I feel like crying and as if my chest exploding. I do not know why this is however I believe I was mothered too muc... (65 words)

We had a great time but he doesn't keep in touch!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i met this guy in leeds and im from london me and my mates went there for fun and we met these guys and i really hit of with one of them. i spent a week there and it was good and bad i really liked him and i assume he liked me back however so did he's mate. anyhow we spent ... (529 words)

Having an affair with a married man with no children.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 20 this year and i have a boyfriend. well me and my boyfriend is in a pretty good relationship. but the thing is, im actually having an affair with this guy who is an owner of a restaurant and he's 36 years old. and he is married. well he's a korean but living in Malays... (712 words)

I'm 23 and a virgin!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 23 years old guy and going to be 24 this December......and i am still a virgin.... i masturbate when i feel turning on, but about sex with a girl(i feel like is it right to have sex with any girl who likes me, or to whom i like?)....doesn't she deserve better then sex? is ... (108 words)

Unattended by hubby so I cheat and then feel so shameful! Please advise.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help I cant stop seeking and cheating on my husband i love him very much however he is so cold to me and not supportive of me in any ways that i can think of. I constantly seek out the eyes and hands of other men to fill a void i feel i am lacking. I want a true ... (179 words)

Has anyone used sex toys to acquire multiple penetration with your partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone used sex toys to acquire multiple penetration with your partner? He would like this too. I would like multiple penetration without the guilt, and problems of asking other people into our bedroom.... (35 words)

I want to break up with my boyfriend but fear hurting him, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys this is quite confusing... 2 and a half years agoin the summer i met this guy we hit it off and we made it offical 1 year later we were goin out for roughly 1 year 3 months, it was good we spent all the time we could together sometimes from early morning til late at ... (183 words)

In a casual relationship where I miss him. Is this over now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all During the last six months i have been in a casual relationship. He used to contact me all the time and show clear interest in seeing me. Ten days ago i sent him a text saying i missed him and wishing him to have fun (he has been on holiday from then, back yesterday) ... (124 words)

I can't feel him ejaculating inside me, is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my fiance and I started having sex about 2 weeks ago. We were both virgins and we wanted to wait until we get married in May but it kind of happened by accident. We talked and decided it was OK even though both our families are really against premarital sex. Now we're... (260 words)

I gave up everything to be with him, but then I found out he isn't divorced... yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Moved from another state to be with my long lost love after 13 yrs of no contact. Gave up my good job house to come back home and marry him (we're both divorced) and start a new life. Found out I'm pregnant and also that he is not divorced. When I found out I feel like someone ... (157 words)

What do you think, was my husband born gay ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 20 years, and I caught my husband cheating on me with a man.He was doing that for more than 10 years, and he was keeping that as a secret. He had more than one long relationships with man. We have a daughter 13 years and it was so shocking for me and her. ... (112 words)

My divorce is almost final and the love of my life asks me to never contact her again... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in the middle of Divorcing my wife. The reasons why are long - but in summary she has abused me for 20 years, including physically and now broken the law and destroyed our lives. Her case has been pending for over a year. After I filed for divorce, I have been having... (379 words)

I'm so stressed and tired, how do I get my mother to listen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - for some reason people think my life is perfect so when i cant do something they think im just being selfish. when you first see me ill admit im quite pretty, im quite smart(not geeky tho) popular and quite well off but because people have such sterotypical views of me they get ... (187 words)

How to approach her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm at uni at the moment and there's this girl doing the same course as me that I really like. But I'm quite shy and I don't know how to go about letting her know I like her. The only things I know about her are her name and that she lives on campus. I'd just like some advice ... (61 words)

Is he lying or telling me the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over half a year. I was the first to say I love you, but he took a little more time to say it back to me. Like 2 months more time after I said it. His past history with relationships really isn't great at all. He used to cheat, ... (943 words)

I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I really, really need someone's advice! There's this guy that I've known for almost a year now. He's one year my senior at our university and we're in the same clubs/interest groups so we see each other around quite often. He has also been regularly volunteering at ... (572 words)

I love her and want to wait for her, but she wants to finish raising her children first

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 yrs old female in love with married female of 26 yrs and we are deeply in love and adoration of each other. We are also having physical relation. The thing is that she's not ready to leave her husband and 3 yr old boy at all for me. She's asking me to wait for 15 yrs as ... (284 words)

I don't like my girlfriend's choice in friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi guys, I'm 26 years old and my girlfriend is 23. we have been dating for like four months and everything has been rosy. I'm however bothered by one thing..her choice in friends. Recently she's been hanging out or rather talking to a guy who hurls any insult at her. She crie... (223 words)

She wants to open the relationship to other guys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - For readers who aren't aware, my girlfriend of two years left me about 6 weeks ago because I was unfaithful. While I was not sexually promiscuous, I had a habit of pushing the lines of flirting until a girl sent me nude photos last November. My girlfriend left me then and ... (481 words)

I really want the baby to be my boyfriend's

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pregnant and I'm 12 weeks but I'm not sure if the baby my boyfriend cause I had sex with him and one more person during the month of July well my boyfriends knows about that but the thing about it when I have the baby and if it ain't his baby he going to leave me and I'm ... (149 words)

Some days he's interested, some days he's not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heres a long story short iv met this boy and he seem intrested some days but then does bother for weeks am i wasting my time or try and make him intrested ??... (33 words)

How do you keep a boy interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know its a random question but how to you keep a boy intrested ???? ... (15 words)

Why do I feel hurt seeing her with another guy when I am the one that ended the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age - I have just broken up (6 weeks ago) with my gf of two years. She has a small daughter and really wanted to get married. My intentions were also to get married. But I always felt that she was not in love with me. For example not all that eager to see me or when she was out ... (301 words)

How do women decide whether a man is to be a friend or a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. The strange thing is that I've always had more female friends than the average man does. (No, I don't get mistaken for being gay) I'm not a recluse and I cannot understand why other men have so many more opportunities than I ... (172 words)

Married with kids and I have a crush on my doctor!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help!!! Any advise out there about getting over a crush? I am in my forties married to the man of my dreams and have two beautiful kids but can't get my MD out of my head! I did not really like him at first but then he started flirting with me and I was hooked! I admit I ... (76 words)

Should I give up or try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was just in a very bad break up and am wondering now if I should just give up or if I should try. The Situation: We have been together for 2 years, and occasionally have argued about things. We got into a really bad argument a while ago and broke up over it. The break up... (199 words)

I stumbled across viagra in his cabinet, do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a guy for a about six months now and over the six months I have noticed that on some occasions he cant get an erection or he is a bit soft or cant maintain the ercetion. We havent really talked about it but he has said he was a bit sorry he wasnt hard enough ... (269 words)

Guys: What are signs that he's only into it for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) age 41-50 - What are some signs a girl could look for in a guy to tell that he is only interested in sex and nothing more prior to actually going out or anything? Primarily interested in the guys' responses. Thanks.... (40 words)

Why did my ex call me a stalker online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and My ex used to chat on gmail. I created that account for us only. And then I added few other friends with whom I chat often. He is always there online blinking but i never buzzed him or talked with him. Suddenly one morning, he typed in custom message under his ID ... (164 words)

I miss the closeness we once used to have

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im having a long distant relationship and have been for the last year...we had a row and i ended it but 2 weeks later i sent him an email saying that i missed him and wanted him back...i really did grovel..anyway he said that he loved me but we were damaged due to a few rows in ... (156 words)

Some trust issues in new relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I started dating this guy almost 4 months ago, and this has been the most different relationship I have ever been in. He likes his space and doesn't like to see me often because he said that ruined his past relationships... with seeing them all the time. Sometimes I ... (533 words)

Why is so much more expressive now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boss came on to me and for months tried to get me to mess around with him. He would rub up against me and grab me in places. When I finally gave in, the sexual relationship continued up until I got another job. During the entire time, he never kissed me. When I started ... (136 words)

My addiction to sex is causing problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I don't know how to go on about my situation but I'm addicted to sex. Its really embarrassing but I know I need advice. I have stopped masturbating for almost 2months now but I know there is a problem because whenever I talk to girls, especially new ones, I get ... (135 words)

Has anyone experienced a late period one month and nothing at all the next??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I had unprotected sex (no need for criticism) on the 4th of August and my period came late but it did show up and lasted 5 days I just noticed that I didn't have a period for the month of September I'm not having Pms nor Pregnancy symptoms besides being bloated so what ... (124 words)

Boyfriend makes me feel beholden to him and its making me sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age - Looking for some advice!! I'm a 47yr old woman who it seems has got a realtionship all wrong again..or have I? Maybe its me??!! I'm with a guy who's 50..he runs his own business..and he is very financially sound. He likes to let me know of this...in everyway he can, e.g by t... (199 words)

Who to chose? Parents? Or partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Who to choose parents or partner? I am in the edge of taking the biggest and hardest decision of my life.i am with my boyfriend since 1 year,i am a mauritian and he is indian we met in uk and we moved together. We love each other like crazy.My problem is that my visa is expir... (287 words)

Is he creepy? Or just a freak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I have officially not been dating for over a year now but we still basically were together but without the title. We would still be, i guess you could call it, sexting, but it was never raunchy or over the top or anything. Well now we havent hooked up in ... (159 words)

Unhappily Married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am an alcoholic/addict who has been married for 9 years. I currently have 1 year clean and sober. I can't seem to enjoy my family. I am miserable once I walk through the door. Why????? ... (40 words)

How do I make my family understand how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to let my family know that i identify as genderqueer and hate more than anything being called a girl/she/female even though i dont really identify as a male either i know they wont really accept this but how can i make them understand how i feel?... (48 words)

How to beat an old french-woman-player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for one year with a french woman player, 10 years older than me. She treated me like shit the whole year. Then she decided to move to a different city. And when she was ok again she broke up with me. Now after one month she is saying she loves me. I ... (268 words)

My parents think my date is 25, but he's 33 and I don't think they will accept that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old girl and recently started at a full time work place and I've met someone who I like but he's 14 years older than me! When I first met him I thought he was 25 as he looked that age. So when I started to develop feelings for him, I told my parents about him and ... (162 words)

Is forgiving the guy countless times for the same mistake a good thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - In a long term relationship that has lasted for almost 5 years, is forgiving the guy countless times for the same mistake a good thing? The girl in this relationship has went through many break ups but patched back with him thinking he might change for good. The girl has went ... (138 words)

Are there bad side effects of having a coil fitted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend was discussing with me about getting a coil put in, she didnt originally want one because she said it made one of her friends gain a lot of weight. She has since talked with her doctor who said that was impossible. Shes made another appointment with her doctor ... (72 words)

Why do I doubt my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I started dating a man I knew of, but didn't really know in January we were engaged by mid febuary and married by mid march. Yes I know very quickly!! Everything was wonderful and really still is other than I continually have a doubt of some sort and not really sure what it ... (442 words)

My boyfriend is a great kisser! Should I praise him for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. He's never had a relationship before, never dated a girl actually and he's a virgin. I've had 2 previous relationships, but never had sex. I'm 22 he's 26. We haven't had sex yet, I'm not ready and he's not pushing... (350 words)

Prove you want me back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - If a girl you loved dearly for 6 years breaks up with you for another man cause of "Grass is greener on the other side" and she comes back to you after realizing the guy was just after "attached girls" to use and abuse them. She asks for another chance and I tell her You ... (128 words)

Where does our marriage go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i recently found out that my husband of 8 years went to a lapdancing club and paid for a private dance and tried to touch the stripper, this happened 6 years ago. i found out from a freind that thought i knew. he tried to deny it at first, then he admitted it. im not sure how ... (110 words)

Is she telling the truth judging by the signs or do I go by logic and walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Not sure what to think anymore but basically heres the story . I met this girl we knew each other before! We started talking on a night out and supprisingly we hit it off ! We met up a few times and we really liked each other so we started dating. Four months in we were fin... (807 words)

He wants me to pay expenses for his house but I don't live there!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I both own houses. He rarely comes to mine but wants me to come to his. He has a child that he has custody of every other week and we get along great. I have suggested for the kid's stability that we do the week he has his kid at his house and the other week ... (308 words)

Breasts or nipples?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My question might be a little hard to answer but for starters some guys, well a lot of guys like big breasts on a woman but will tell a woman that has really small breasts that more than a hand full is a waste but what I was wanting to know is this: is the guy more interested ... (74 words)

Studies... or women???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been trying to create serious relationship but it looks like I'm failing. I've broke-up with more than than four girls in the past two years. And all of them claimed that I was not giving them much time to be with me, others said I'm very serious in doing things, and I ... (71 words)

Only son is in living with another man in a gay relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have given birth to 3 sons in 22 years. 2 died at birth and my living son is just 17 and has met someone from the internet 'A 21yr old man!' he did not tell me what was going on just that he was moving out. Neither lads work and sponge from the 21yr olds mother who ... (367 words)

I've made myself appear clingy to my ex, and now I feel really stupid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry that this is quite long, but I'd really appreciate you reading to the end and giving advice, thank you in advance :) Let me just give some background: My boyfriend broke up with me in May earlier this year, after 6months of being together. He said he loved me and i loved ... (647 words)

Why do I always ruin my relationships through paranoid jealousy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Why do i always ruin my relationships through paranoid jealousy? I have recently entered into a new relationship and as soon as i saw love forming i started to mistrust my partner. I have an insane paranoia and do not trust her whenever she is out. I do not mention anything... (268 words)

How do I win back the hearts of my daughters after our traumatic past, involving my ex wife (their mother) having an affair with my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age - Hi: I am sixty-on years old and have been happily married to my second wife for thirty-five years now. I have had three children from my second wife (two boys and one girl). My profession during my career was engineering; however, because of the crippling arthritis in bot... (1592 words)

All of a sudden I am overcome with my feelings for my girlfriend! Why has this happened all of a sudden?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, first of all thanks for your time you spend to help me, i think im having a crush on my own girlfriend, here is our situation , we are in LDR for about 2 years and for some reasons we didnt see each other in this 2 years, anyway i know you would call me a ... (216 words)

Is swallowing harmful to my health?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to go on a vaginal sex break coz i want my vagina to get back in shape.I know about kegel exercises but i think taking a break also will help.While on break,i intend to be giving my bf as many bjs as he wants (he's incredible at giving oral as well,he gives me whenever i ... (84 words)

She has been seeing another man behind my back! Despite this I still want us to work but trust is a major issue now....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

6 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi , I am really in a mess. About a month ago I suspected my girlfriend of two years was cheating on me. I was right and she admitted everything to me 7 days ago. She has been seeing a work colleague and says she is falling in love with him . She says she is so confused as s... (174 words)

Should I tell my friend her boyfriend has kissed another girl? Is it even my place to say something when I am friends with both of them?

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been solid friends with this guy, A, for a while, and friends with his girlfriend of three years, B, for even longer. A and B have a very stable, happy relationship. But the other day A told me he'd kissed another girl, C, who he's liked for ages. He said they were tal... (461 words)

I really want to overcome my secret affair with my male cousin now I am going to get married

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - oK my problem, im in my mid 20"s. growing up was Pretty hard my parents all ways working you same old story, but my problem is that all my life ive been stuck in a limbo of sick mental mind games. that i find really hard to overcome and people and family think im crazy and very ... (418 words)

I see porn everywhere and go haywire!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi just wondering if i am okay! i am 18 and whenever i see porn or naked pics i go haywire and i get thick white discharge on my vagina. it goes EVERYWHERE espiacially when i have sex. is this ok? my bf loves it bt i do not! ... (52 words)

I need to save my friend before he goes too deep into his depression and self pity!

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a love question of my own accord, but more about my friend. His name on here is JazzedUp and is really good at answering people's problems from what I;ve read based on cmments. But I'm worried about him. He dated a girl named Kaitlyn for 6 months and was ... (344 words)

Struggling to concieve.....

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am young and I want a baby, we have a decent income and a home but i am having a very hard time getting pregnant but I do have a monthly cycle. I am even beginning to get depressed but I am often ok because I do understand that i have time because I am only 18. The big ... (197 words)

I don't know if I want to miss out on an opportunity with someone so amazing for a trip..

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright so I really need some help. I am beyond confused and stressed out and dont know what to do. So back in June I had decided I was unhappy in my home town and wanted to finally travel, which is something I have always wanted to do and never have. I was single and am 24yrs... (390 words)

Should I let go of him, or is this older man (who happens to be my sisters ex!) worth risking everything for?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The thing is, I am a young girl in my late teens and for almost 4 years now I have found myself drawn to an older man. Yes, that may sound rather generic but there’s more to it. It all sort of started when I was 14-ish years old I met this guy during the summer through a large ... (967 words)

How can I spice things up after having a baby?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my guy for 5 years now and we are kind of happy.... We have a baby- heath. in the last 3 years he hasnt really been very afectionate towards me...when it comes down to having sex... he will only say "are we gonna have sex tonight"... and im not very turned on ... (212 words)

Husband has just used me, will he ever miss me?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 4 years. We just married 3 months ago and I am finding out that everything has been a big lie. He saw the sweet giving person I am and jumped on for the ride. He is 4 years younger than me. I have taught him alot about life, love, business, and ... (608 words)

Ex broke up with me numerous times and then cheated with my best friend!

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex cheated on me 4 times I forgave her three times then I broke up with her the fourth. Then a week after I broke up with her She fucked my best friend. And im really not coping at all, what should I do? ... (45 words)

Husband is using me for benefits! I don't want this to happen to me again!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted a ? about my family and in laws trying to destroy my marriage. Today something happened. I think its all adding up. The man I have married contributes very little to the relationship. Nothing in finances but a cell phone on his account. His in laws have done some ... (1028 words)

I secretly believe he will leave his wife for me! Am I mistaken?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been having an affair with a man for the past six months. we really are in love. when we first got together we never thought that we would have feelings for each other the way that we do he is in a loveless relationship for convenience. him and her got together really ... (146 words)

He made a list of things I do that annoy him!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have known each other for at least ten years, but have only been dating for about a year and a half. He had a crush on me for the LONGEST time and I always turned him down, until I realized what I was turning down. He is funny, loving, and not like any other ... (674 words)

My family disapprove of my thing for older men and they are too controlling!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am an 18 year old girl..i've always liked older men...my last boyfriend and i were 10 years apart..the man i am in love with now is 30 years old, we have been together for almost six months, my family don't know but have already voiced their opinion that they would disapprove ... (208 words)

Do I like him or am I just infatuated with him?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Okay, so I am having trouble figuring out if I like this boy or not. I think about him, and lately hes been on my mind all the time! We only really see each other once a week, and sometimes he flirts (i think...hes really weird, hes flirty but not..if that makes any s... (127 words)

Polygamist relationships?

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I just wanted to ask a very serious question. Have you ever had a polygamist relationship that was either successful or unsuccessful? Thank you.... (25 words)

Husband lying about his whereabouts! Cheating?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want to know if I should be worried my husband is cheating? He does not show me affection anymore and has been lying about his whereabouts. He seems to be caring an awful lot lately about his appearance but has not been for my benefit. When should I worry?... (51 words)

Should I tell my ex how much she has hurt me?

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me about less then a month ago. And only after a week breaking up with me had another boyfriend in her life. I'm just so completely hurt from all this that words can't even describe my pain. It's like our relationship didn't even matter to her. She ... (121 words)

B/f broke up with me because I was clingy and immature. I want him back!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there hope for me and my ex to reunite after a month apart: we have a lot in common and he broke up because I got clingy and immature....but I like him still. I mean he asked me for family advice when he could have asked his best friend.... and I do want him back.. is i... (68 words)

I'm afraid my girlfriend will find out I'm bisexual! I never told her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

6 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So I've been with my girl friend for a year. Everything with me and her is pretty good. I really love her. However, my ex has recently been coming around trying to get me back. The problem is, my ex is a guy and I never told my girl friend that I'm bisexual. I know that I ... (128 words)

My girlfriend keeps telling me she wants to be skinny but she isn't fat?!

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl friend have been going out for 2 years and 6 months now. we were friends in grade school and i had a death in the family about 4 years ago and my aunt remarried so my mm had a wedding shower for her at our house and i had gotten re acquainted with my girlfriend ... (154 words)

FWB likes me as more than a friend?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I sometimes wonder if my FWB likes me as more than a friend. What things do I look for?... (20 words)

Is our relationship turning into a fading spark?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for 15 months almost to the day. Our courtship was awesome and we have great chemistry--plus, he's my bestest friend. God, I used to look back at our time together and just be marveled... The first guy to twirl me around, to dip me and kiss me, to ... (286 words)

Boyfriend doesn't like head??

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Boys help me! My bf does not enjoy head. What else can I do to/for him that he may enjoy?! ... (20 words)

Is our marriage doomed before it starts?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I just moved in together a few months ago. We had lived together before at his dad's, but this was our first place on our own. Ever since we moved in, he has been sleeping on the couch unless I beg him - then he is mad he has to sleep with me. At first he said it ... (157 words)

The chase is always better than the catch!

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys hope to get some good opinions here :) Ok so I just started at a new school (graduate program, I'm 22) and a girl in my class really caught my eye. After a couple days of thinking, I decided to try to flirt with her a little which She reciprocated. A couple of weeks ... (221 words)

My crush asks for other money and other girls numbers from me?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so recently this boy in my spanish class started talking to me and let me know that he was interested. You see he's two years older than me and has a bit of a bad boy reputation so at first I turned him down, but we ended up kissing and I began to have feelings for ... (200 words)

I"m 14 and my best friends wants a FWB relationship

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 and i just found out my best friend has liked me since 5th grade. We were on the phone a few days ago and he wants to be "friends with benifits" Well i like him alot to and i kinda do wanna be to. but he has a rep of just using people. I can't tell if he seriously likes ... (116 words)

Can you develop chemistry for someone?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I've fallen in love with a couple of people before, one I'm still sort of infatuated by but I don't think likes me. I really really like him, but he is disinterested, and acts really strange around me. I give him attention but it goes unnoticed, and he snobs and ign... (264 words)

Help.. broke up with bf and miss him desperately

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. i had been dating someone for 2 1/2 years - let's call him jim. jim and i met online, both in relationships we were tired of. so we broke up with our respective others to get together. a week later, we had our first date. it was perfect. in the few short weeks i knew him, ... (858 words)

I think my ex is losing his mind!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex wont leave me alone... i think he's slowly losing his mind. im 19 and i live alone. we have been apart for about a month, and when i took him i didnt wanna get back wit him he told me if i eva said so much as said 1 word 2 him eva again he'd shoot me in da head. about 20 ... (197 words)

The man I love found out about my crush on a girl and isn't talking to me!! Please help!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *Sigh* I think I just lost a man because of a woman...I met Frida on saturday and she really fascinated me, I mean she was sooo confident and mysterious and smart! I'm on the rocks with my guy. I feel used one moment and loved the next...he found out that I liked her and now, I ... (138 words)

We are trying to move past the second affair. Should I stay or should I go now?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 9 years, I cheated on him about 7 years ago and he found out. I never came clean but he is pretty sure that something happened. We have been married now for 6 years and for the past 2 years we have had a rocky relationship. He has allowed his ... (173 words)

Six months of dating LDR and I still don't know what is going on!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm freaking out- I'm in love with a guy I hardly know after six months of dating I'm none the wiser. I've tried so hard to het him to trust me an open up- now it feels like I'm being pushed to end it because I don't know what to do. He says he loves me but his actions in our ... (123 words)

Fixed on feet and lost about sex. Help!

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old male from the UK. I have a sexual fixation with female feet, Unfortunately I judge women on their feet and am usually easily put off if they arn't nice. This being the only body part that really turns me on has led to problems over the years, namely the fact ... (293 words)

I want to move in together but he's dragging his feet about it!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating a year and one month. We are both 24 living at home with parents. He moved up here from flordia to start fresh in a new place. I know everyone says this but we are very much in love and plan to be with each other the rest of our lives. We ... (237 words)

How long is too down? The sex has never been good and now I don't look forward to being with my husband.

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 21 years. During that time our sex life has never been that great for me,. For the past 10 years I have had no desire to have sex with my husband, do so just to keep him happy as a wife should, normally only last a couple of minutes anyway. I am no ... (447 words)

Cheating boyfriend! How do I get my girl back?

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6 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I cheated on my girlfriend, I told her and we broke up. Now I want her back. I'm in love with her and I can't stand knowing she's not with me. I need her back in my life. How do I get her back?... (44 words)

He just wont talk to me! Why wont he tell me why?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i need your help, its a long story but i'll try to cut it short. basically i fell in love with this guy and i thought the feeling was mutal. He just seemed to shy to say, afew things happened but i still didnt say anything and when i eventually did he told m... (933 words)

How to get him to like me?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get him to like me? I like this new guy were so oppsistes but w.e how do I talk to him or ask him to hangout or be noticed..Like yes we talk and stuff at work but I want more.Help me pleasee :) ... (46 words)

I had a boyfriend, cheating on him, and then found out the other guy was getting married in 2 weeks!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry in advance if this gets long. I've been in a relationship (if you want to call it that) with this guy for the past two and a half years. I found out about eight months into it that he had a girlfriend but I stuck around in the hopes that someday he'd leave her for me. ... (486 words)

Confused By Really Strong Feelings For An Old Friend, What Can I Do?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I cannot stop thinking about my male friend, I've been friends with since childhood. We are adults now, he has a girlfriend, who I admit is beautiful. Recently I can't stop fantasizing about being with him physically. He's been on my mind constantly for weeks now, not just ... (218 words)

Should I walk away or steal him away?

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6 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a crush on this guy for years and me and him are friends and have been for a really long time. Not to long ago me and him had sex and he got his ex-girlfriend back I met her and she is nice and everything but a big part of me was wanting to punch her in the face and ... (122 words)

I'm heartbroken! He dumped me to go back with his ex!

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6 October 2010 (F)

age - I've written before and its about the same guy again and our short yo yo relationship (he has OCD and possibly bi-polar) and was always telling me he couldn't cope with a relationship etc, but I maybe foolishly ignored good advice posted and kept talking him round and stuck ... (273 words)