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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

By the hair of my chinny chin chin...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my question is a quick one, im dating a smart beautiful girl whos been great so far and i have nothing bad to say about her, theres just one thing that bugs me - every time im with her, she has a few hairs on her chin and i just dont have to heart to say anything. what ... (63 words)

Can a gift get an ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men really care if you put a lot of thought into a gift for them or not? i bought my then boyfriend a vintage concert t-shirt to replace the one he got destroyed and had to give it to him after we broke up cause i don't need it... He was speachless when I gave it to him, of ... (121 words)

What should a girl do in this situation of flirting with her friend's boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Situation: Girl A has a boyfriend. Her friend Girl B "heavily flirts" with Girl A's boyfriend a couple of times, whilst talking online. The boyfriend breaks up with Girl A shortly after this [not due to the flirting, just for some other reason]. A year later.. Would Gi... (97 words)

Why is it so difficult to find a really nice and honest man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 39 year old single mom with 2 kids. I've been single for almost 4 years now. Of course my kids mean the whole world to me, but at times I do need someone for intimate moments, to share the good and bad times together, to talk about everything and anything... I just can't ... (101 words)

How do I answer the doctor's question?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - before i ask my question i really need to ask you not to consider my age, i just need help on the question thank you. I want to go on the pill soon because i have very heavy periods and every month they kill! I know some of the questions that they ask and there is one that i a... (114 words)

What kind of gift do you get for the man who has everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I know this is very early but I'm eager to get my best friend a present as soon as possible-but he seems to have everything already! He's got nice clothes, colognes, guitars, books by the thousands on his Kindle, and movies and music...It's very frustrating :/ ... (120 words)

Are baby steps the right way to go about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my ex still, its been 3 months till our horrible break up and well, he called me (i was strong) and he said he wanted to work things out, things were okay and kinda flirty, but if hes working things out or trying to work things out shouldnt he CALL or text! i ... (267 words)

This is driving me nuts... I'm heartbroken he cheated and we've not even met yet!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - whats happening???? I met a guy on the net 2 years ago and we have become very close, get on wicked its unreal and we have a great connection... he says he loves me and wants to marry me... we havent even met each other yet!!! he occasionally spits his dummy out for no reaso... (184 words)

The thought of infertility scares me as I'm desperate to have children when I'm older.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Around four months ago I found out my now ex boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend, and soon after she announced she was pregnant. However, although I believe it is his baby, she has told me herself that she 'thinks' the baby is his, but she's not sure as the dates don't ... (234 words)

We won't be talking as often... how do I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend, "Jane," and I have been best friends for 7 years now. Her boyfriend and I go to the same school while she goes to a different school. She had a barn dance last weekend and her bf was unable to go, so she invited me. We were drinking and got pretty drunk.. ended up ... (314 words)

He's smoking again and I consider this like cheating!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 20 (almost 21) and have been together for a little over four months now. He was a smoker for two years before he started dating me and he told me he would quit once we started dating; that was the ultimatum I set for him and he chose me. Well, he DID ... (210 words)

Ex says he can't trust me but I want him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were very close friends for 3 years before we started going out, i thought he was amazing, then suddenly there was just no trust in the relationship. He constantly went through my phone and I admit, I don't really have girlfriends so all my friends were ... (161 words)

Should I hang in there? I don't want to be played games with...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age - I met a man at church and he will wink at me and we always look into each other eyes. last sunday i went up to him while he was sitting down and said good morning to him. he had a big smile on his face and he pulled my head down next to his. after that the same sunday he came ... (202 words)

High sex drive, don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a very high sex drive. I don't want to break my promise to God of having premarital sex. I don't want to do any of these things, but I am so tempted. I love this girl. I don't get hard or anything when I look at her or talk to her, but when I look at almost any other ... (112 words)

I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought we got along great. But when I ... (520 words)

I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he told me he thinks im ... (120 words)

She left me, now wants to come back, but her facebook says she in a relationship with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - what to do when your girlfriend of two years leaves? her only excuses she keeps telling me is that i am controlling. we was talking she told me if i love her i would bring her stuff to her so we could start working on things. any way that has been two months ago, then she ... (125 words)

I don't know if I should even try to make my marriage work or not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - im 22 and im getting divorced. i was married for about 2 weeks then she left. she saw texts from girls that i did not think was bad but she blew it up and left. she said she was still in love with ehr x and wanted to be with him but she says different now. i married her cuz i ... (124 words)

My first sexual relationship and I cannot orgasm with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship (my first sexually active one) for 1 year and a few months now and my girlfriend has still not been able to give me an orgasm. I have narrowed this down to these possibilities 1. Watching porn too often (every day) and masturbating - I... (284 words)

Did he want to break up with me? Why not just tell me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was in a casual relationship during the last seven months. He was so happy with me and always caring. It was a long distance relationship and we knew from the beginning we cannot have something serious. I have feelings for me and i thought he shared those. It was an... (447 words)

I'm scared my flat mates will hear us having sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is coming to see me soon in my halls of residence. However one thing thats bothering is my flat mates. I am worried that they be will embarassing or whatever, or that they may hear something due to the paper thin walls. I don't know if I like the idea of presenting ... (88 words)

If you make a mistake do you own up to it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey just a general question. If you make a genuine mistake, and then lie about it, would you say you was bad person? What if you wouldn't get found out, but your conscience preys on you? Would you finally own up, even though you know people would be shocked and your reputat... (65 words)

I'm terrified for my friend who is being deployed to Afghanistan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship question but i feel like i really could do with some help. For the past few months i've been thinking about death, yes death, the reason this came about is because a friend, who's in the army, is being deployed to afghanistan, even me typing the wo... (210 words)

Only one date in eight years; need some reassurance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am 34, single and never been married. I have had one relationship, with a woman, for 10 months, eight and a half years ago. Since then, I have been on one date. I have made friends, like I had an older gay guy friend for two years. Then I had a female friend fo... (729 words)

Does this sound like a STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Very personal question- I'm sexually active and I'm afraid I may have an STD. I have these tiny bumps on the inside of my vagina but only towards the bottom. They itch like crazy and hurt sometimes, especially if I scratch them. I get temporary relief from vagisal. Does th... (60 words)

He decided I'm not worth the effort of fixing this marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I do not understand how someone, man or woman, can simply walk out on their family. My husband and I have had our share of problems. Our marriage hasnt ever been a cake walk, but I have supported him in every decision he has ever made during our 3 year marriage. I quit my job ... (556 words)

I feel disgusted after masturbating to porn, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm 16 and I'm gay... or bi (confused). And I've got something that I don't understand. So I'm hoping you guys might have the answer. So the thing is I only like porn when I'm turned on. And when I masturbate and cum; afterward I find it utterly disgusting and I have this ... (117 words)

Do I stay with my husband or live with my lover of 8 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age - To stay with the man I have been married to for 35 years or to move in with the lover of 8 years. Neither relationship is brilliant but the clock is ticking. Why am I so unsatisfied with my life?... (43 words)

I really like this guy but he did "things" with another friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, here goes: I like this guy. Really really like him. His name is Tal. The other night there was a party, and well, him and me fooled around. Alot. As in, underneath bra and panties. After the party we went over to a friends house, but i had to leave at around 2 a.m. T... (267 words)

My teacher shouts at me around others but is nice in private. What does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - my teacher is grumpy in front of others and shouts at me and points out my flaws but when i go to ask for doubts privately he acts so sweet and he brushes on me and acts as if nothing wrong has happened, what does he have in mind?... (49 words)

Is he pulling my leg here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been working at my job for 3 years, just like 2 years ago this guy started well like 3 months in to him working then we started having sex but he says he didnt want anything serious but is talking about he wants me to be his baby momma number # 2 what do I do cause I dont ... (74 words)

Why do they only seem to want to be friends with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! My situation is wired because I'm 22 and I'm still virgin. I'm not ugly but always I have problem to have relationships. Some of the girls are curious to know me but after we pass some time everything changes and most of them want to be only be friends with me. My last ... (101 words)

Sometimes it's clear for me to see how much he loves me but other times I feel like he doesn't care at all.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know what to say about this situation so I'm just gonna vent and ask for advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I've had my share of boyfriend and he's only the second one I've ever loved. He loves me too and I can honestly see myself with him ... (133 words)

I would like to see her more often but I don't think she feels the same way...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am in a new relationship about 16 days. We met with each other from a social networking website. Our first date was great. Afterwards, the problems began. She was and is talking about freedom, her own personal space etc. and i told that it's ok, i care about these things. ... (179 words)

Has he met someone else or just busy with his studies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, I am 22 years and an indian. I've been in a relationship with a guy from almost 8 months but we've been friends for about a year. we plan on getting married after 3 years. we are both are still studyin(pg). he has been acting strange lately, he seems to not have time for ... (131 words)

I always turn down girls due to my lack of confidence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i dont know what it is but when im around a proper nice girl i fall to pieces, by that i mean; i was with my mates and these two girls, i never spoke to them before, but my mates went and asked one if i could have her number. at this point i went proper embarrassed and acte... (147 words)

Have I saved enough to support myself and my unemployed boyfriend in a new place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone i need help ive been with my partner for 3 and half years hes unemployed n i work 40 hrs a week ive managed to save 4'000 pounds so far n calculated this time next year il have abt 14,000 just need advice if u think thts enough for us to rent a 1bedroom flat bare ... (98 words)

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm! How can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. My partner says she has nver had an orgasm, and I would like to know if this could be possible... She has Cerebral Palsy. She has gone through quite a lot of stress. How is it best to relax before sex and is is best to try oral sex and stimulating her clitoris bef... (116 words)

I'm 16 and think I'm in love with my 23 year old boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and I've been talking to a much older guy for about 3 years now. I really like him and feel like I'm in love with him. I know he knows I have a thing for him and he did say he does too but it's hard because of the age and a few other reasons. We get along amazingly ... (181 words)

I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we started talking more often and ... (978 words)

My emotions are back and forth with my LDR!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for 3 months now. We only see each once every two weeks as he lives 150 miles away from me. The problem is I seem to be torn between commitment phobia and separation anxiety, eg on our last date. At first I was totally happy and content and I knew every... (124 words)

He said I look like a school teacher... A good or bad thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) age 41-50 - What does it mean when a guy said:'You look like u are a school teacher"? Does it mean he means that i look boring or not very exciting?... (28 words)

Is it normal to not be affectionate with my family but I am with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't cuddle my family and rarly kiss them or tell them I love them, but I cuddle and kiss my girlfriend ands tell her I love her alot, is this normal?... Or am I crazy?... (36 words)

He says he really likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a few months now (I have not been sleeping with him) ... He comes down basicully every night after work and college and we watch some t.v and chat. We do sleep in the same bed, although we are not having sex. He seems really keen and we have alot ... (274 words)

Opinions on the minimum and maximum ages to date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16, and curious as to your opinion as to what the minimum and maximum age to date would be and why.... (23 words)

He distanced himself from me after my father passed away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and since then he has only texted me o... (146 words)

Why is he so different from the other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend soo different? we were chatting for 3months..we went out on a few dates and he asked me to be his girlfriend. he thinks am different from any other girl hes been with with. hes really sweet, attentive, caring and he makes me feel so special. ive bei... (235 words)

I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission. He says 3 or 4 times in a month is ok, but don't cross this limit. I am doing it 2 or 3 times in a month with my friends. also i had it with his friend some time. actually it was his idea to have sex with others. At the ... (235 words)

I'm terrified to have a child with this man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been in a relationship for a year. I broke up with the guy cause he was verbally abusive and talk about my child. He was playing on my phone leaving harassing call. Then he stalks me at night making sure that i'm home. He been stalking me. Anyway my car got vandalized and I ... (188 words)

He hurt my feelings when he said not tonight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and we are getting along great. Normally we see each other 1 time a week since we live 30 miles apart and due to our work schedules. In addition to our regular jobs, we both have weekend part time work as well. We stated earl... (353 words)