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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend has an alcohol abuse problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 months is amazing. I love him dearly. But I have started to notice he has an alcohol abuse problem. He does not drink every day but when he does he drinks all day or just enough that he gets really loud, inconsiderate or passes out early. Most of the time when ... (488 words)

I punched my boyfriend in the face!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. We are deeply in love but have a few minor setbacks. Our relationship for the most part is amazing. I have been really grouchy lately and I have also been sick and have a rash all over my body. I just don't feel well. I have ... (733 words)

I really like this girl but I freeze when I'm around her HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so first thanks for viewing my post =). And second lets get down to dirty business lol. Ok so theres this girl I like at my high school and I don't really know her well. She is my best friend's girlfriend's bestfriend lol. SO basically the way im best friends with my ... (301 words)

How can I survive living with these "mates"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm currently living in halls of residence for university and already some of my flatmates are being imature. Basically, some of them think that playing pranks is funny. Especially playing with our power switches and turning bedroom lights out (now I keep a lamp on so when ... (165 words)

I'm upset guys don't seem to like me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I really really REALLY Like this guy that I've known for a year. We havent really hung out outside of school time, but I see him pretty much everyday and he nudges me in the hall ways and says hi and whatnot. And he talks to me during the class we have together and we laugh. ... (296 words)

Are we an item, boyfriend/girlfriend or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my friend recently got together secretly. No one in our group of friends know about us. We go out together secretly and Almost everytime we see eachother we end up making out in the car for hours. One particular night on my birthday I had a party at my house and it ... (235 words)

So sad...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I need advice as i have no one to confide in My husband had a year an a half affair with a workmate 5 years ago. We did not have sex very often because of me, i was suffering depression after my children and i think he felt regected and very sad about this. He would ... (270 words)

What should I do to get my ex back when I tell her I'm being serious about working out our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, My wife and i are seperated for almost 4 months now. After, she kicked me out, she found a guy that she dated 5 times in the past. she kicked me out in the past and she took me back after weeks. We have our problems, like most marriage couples has. The last time she kicked ... (267 words)

My immaturity is causing jealousy of his ex wife and I have to stop!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I get over my jealousy towards his ex wife? They have kids, she isn't friendly towards me but they get along good. I don't feel that she's a threat to me really as she has her own man but I'm still very jealous of her and...well, I don't what else but it gives me a bad ... (140 words)

I keep forgetting to eat...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately i have been so busy at work that I have been forgetting to eat. Its not that I don't have time, I could make time, but food just doesn't occur to me. And then people remind me and say, what did you have for dinner, and get annoyed when I say, 'dinner, I forgot.' Wh... (167 words)

My daughter cries every night before she has to go back to her mothers.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My daughter cries every night before she has to go back to her mothers. Her mother physically and verbally abuses her on a constant basis, She gets slapped around the face and dragged down the stairs. I have followed every legal course of action to now avail. what can I say to ... (200 words)

How can she tell her boyfriend she wants to dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a girl. For more than a year, i've been trying to win her heart but she kept on saying that she loves me. But she said she don't know how to quit her relationship with her guy. Pls advice me on what to do because i'm really in love with the girl.... (56 words)

Why did he run away from me? Am I that scary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age - I met a man at my previous job. There was a strong attraction between us. Neither of us tried to move it on. I left over three months ago. We have had limited e-mail contact. He's trying to remain professional as I am on the payroll until the end of this month (he was my ... (367 words)

Why is my husband always putting me down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband always put me down for everything. even in front of his brothers. he always attacks me on my weakness. i have try so hard to please me. but i see that it is not working. i really love my husband so much, but what i can understand is that why is he always been ... (164 words)

Will losing my virginity hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks who I met online. He's really nice and everything, and I want to sleep with him. The thing is, I'm a virgin, but havnt told him. All I want to know is will it hurt? I do masturbate which I hope helps me. Will this effect my ability ... (94 words)

Sex then on to the next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy at my high school who is apparently the biggest player and has had sex and relationships with many many girls. He is very attractive and has a way with words. But all he wants from girls is one thing: sex. I found this out because he tried talking to me for ... (262 words)

What should I do about my boyfriend's controlling sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a sister who supports him financially (she pays for his university, apartment, car and gives him money to live on whilst he studys). She uses this to control him and blackmail him into doing what she wants. The worst thing she's done is on my birthday she ... (173 words)

I found pictures of my boyfriend wearing woman's lingerie

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - yesturday afternoon i was looking at pictures on my boyfriends computer of a trip we had just taken. In the folder there was a secret folder that i clicked on and inside i found photos of my boyfriend in a thong and wonmans lingerie aswell asa pictures of 5 sex toys. I di... (308 words)

Help!!! Am I imagining it or does he like me?

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and am now in my last year of high school. Last year a new guy transferred from a different school (lets call him L). He was expelled from his last school and messed about alot last year. Every time I've spoken to him he has been caring. But at the same time he often ... (159 words)

Should I send her a card for our anniversary even although we're having problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and i been together for a total of 4 years and been married for 3 years. We have 1 son together that is 3 years, and she has 1 son by her last realationship. We had our ups and downs through the marriage. I love her with all my heart. We been seperated for almost 4 ... (383 words)

Should I tell my husband I was going to actually leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am a 37 year old woman, and have been married to my husband for 4 years. We've been struggling with our marriage, but were trying very hard to make it work, and have been trying to get pregnant. We hadn't had any luck getting pregnant for 6 months, and were ... (196 words)

How to approach an older woman I want to have sex with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) age 30-35 - How to approach an older women i want to have sex with her, but dont know what to do? She is about 35 and i am 19 but she really attracts me. she is single and i am. i m not so confident but i dont know why. ... (50 words)

Does this friend mean it when he says love? uh oh!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ah! I'm a little startled and don't know what to make out of a situation..I have this friend I used to work with, it was through a yearlong program where we basically lived together. he always made himself into this ladies man (although I don't think he had much action while we ... (345 words)

Is it possible to revert a break up after two failed trials?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is my story: I met him at job. Our relation started as good friends. After 9 months we got together. I never thought our relation may work due to the fact I have a daugther (5 years) and I am separated. I did not want to get hurt any longer but it happened: I felt in love ... (460 words)

I have a mental illness and can't deal with the emotions of my wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't love my wife any more and I can no longer tell her I love her anymore. I have a daughter at a young age and don't want to divorce but I feel that our relationship is hurting my child. I have a mental illness and can't deal with the emotions of my wife. I don't know how ... (102 words)

How can I tighten up when I'm having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'd love some advice from readers, especially any males, about how to tighten up when I'm having sex with my new bf. He has a large penis and looooads of stamina, and he always tries to pleasure me first, which gets me very wet...when he first enters me, it feels a little ... (130 words)

If a man misses his family and wants to come home, why would he stay with his affair partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If a man misses his family and wants to come home, why would he stay with his affair partner? He doesn't get along with her, she's mean to his kids and he misses his family? Whats stopping him?... (38 words)

How can I stop caring about what my ex boyfriend says to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I still love my ex. I broke it off with him, 'cause he was too jealous. It was tiresome for me. I know he wasn't the one, and that he's a jerk, but I love him, so still, what he tells me hurts me. The thing is, he knows that I've been meeting new guys and all, even though... (220 words)

Am I really the fool they want me to think I am?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm feeling pretty crappy these days after 11 years of marriage. Both sides of our family insist on pointing out what a tramp my wife was as a teen and the things she did in bed with her ex HB. He apparently made things known. I knew a lot about my wife in the beginning. I know ... (200 words)

She never calls me, so I'm thinking I should make the 2 hour drive and go see her! Any input?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey my question is kind of long so here goes, my girlfriend left town a month ago, she says her mom and dad made a plan to ''kidnapp'' her. She hasnt ended things or anything of the sort, i on the other hand am trying to get over her but i cant get any closure because weeks ... (127 words)

Since , Mom died, out family has been in crisis! How can I turn things around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom died in a drunk driving accident (other guy was drunk) seven years ago when me and my twin were 14 and our younger brother was 11. Our dad has been sober for about a week of the last seven years. Once, when I was 18, my dad told me the only reason he hasn't yet killed ... (392 words)

Wife isn't sexually attracted to me anymore! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 41 and have been married to my wife for 16 years. We waited 6 years after marriage for kids to make sure we were compatible; we don't believe in divorce. Our 2 children are ages 10 and 8. I am above average-looking, slim build.....I have never cheated on her...even though I ... (335 words)

Need reassurance that my penis is big enough for her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age - OK, I've been married for almost 32 years. I've never been with another woman, but my wife had some flings long ago before we were married. I've always wondered if I'm really big renough for her as she seems to always enjoy sex but almost never climaxes with just intercourse... (90 words)

Should I be worried that he sent her this message? Was it right that he did that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for 3 years. Would have been 3 years straight if it werent for this one girl Kristen. He kept cheating on me with her..then they started dating. Things got horrible between them. I mean BAD. It made him realize how much he wanted ... (115 words)

Who do I lose my virginity to? Someone I love...or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Would it be better to lose your virginity to someone your totally madly in love with? Or someone you dont care too much for?? I want to lose it to someone im in love with but i dont wanna feel a huge freakin piece missing from me if/when we break up. Im scared of someon... (165 words)

Did marriage change your relationship? Input appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I was talking to my best friend the other day about getting married. His comments put me off...even though he's happily married, he told me how his relationship changed alot once he got married!! I want to hear about other peoples experinces. Thanks ... (57 words)

Facebook is becoming a problem between me and my husband! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been together for almost seven years we've been married for almost 2 . Here lately he's been on facebook a lot and it's really starting to bother me he adds women he claims he doesn't know and comments on their posts one woman even told him sweet dreams ... (189 words)

It's hard to talk to him! what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i've got a big crush on a boy from our class!! he said to his friend that i'm one of his good friends..i want to tell him but i'm scared and since i'm quite shy,i find it hard to talk to him sometimes. What should i do??What can i do?? help!!... (52 words)

Is my friend interfering in my relationships? Or am I over thinking here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i know this might sound silly but when my friend is texting i think it is one of my ex's or boys i have met. i know your probley thinking im paranoid but let me explain lol. when i was 15 i was with this boy for about a year and as soon as i finshed with him my friend ... (365 words)

How do I tell my family I am seeing this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so we are happy together but i am scared that my parents will disown me because of the fact of the man i am seeing .. we have a 2 year old child together and my family know this they just dont know that the man of my dreams that i love truly is my ex teacher. okay so we ha... (125 words)

Should I listen to my parents or my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and Blake have been dating on and off for 3 years.Were both 17. My parents just stubbornly have their foot down..a positive NO that i cant see him. They think he's a bad person. One night i got caught sneaking out to see him (this was when they liked him) Long story ... (187 words)

She got this odd text from another guy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So at the beginning of my relationship i saw on my girlfriends phone a text that said "im craving you rn". i asked her about it and she said the guy was drunk and didn't know why he would text that to her. At the beginning of our relationship she would hang out with this guy ... (97 words)

Should I wait or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, there is this boy where i met on a night out i got his number and we was textin but he found it hard as he had a child and it got too much for him, i understood this and he said he does really like me and wants to be friends and maybe when everything is sorted we could ... (102 words)

How do I stop 'bailing out' on a guy, after the 2nd date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. at 21 i have never been in a relationship. i have never kissed a guy, held hands, hugged, or anything else for that matter. it is not because i dont get chances it is because im scared. with every guy i date i end up "running" after the 2nd date. i want to do ... (127 words)

How can I fix things with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a 1 and 1/2 years. He's the longest relationship I've ever been in (the second longest only being 2 months). We're young (he's 22; I just turned 20), so I don't expect us to be super serious or talking about marriage yet. However, if the ... (712 words)

Why has his sex drive decreased so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering why the sex in our relationship has fizzled. I've been with my bf for a bit over 1.5 years now, a lot of it living together. And in the beginning we'd have sex quite a bit, at least once a day, a lot of times more. And back then both of us would initiate it. ... (372 words)

Why would my coworker act this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why would a man do this? Theres this man where I work who has really been pushing it with me lately. He initiates conversations with me then starts asking me about whether I watch porn, that I should go browse dvd stores with my partner, and start off with something 'softe... (222 words)

Why is there a distinction between bisexual and bi-curious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a random question I often wonder about, not a plea for help... I hear a lot from different people, when it comes to bisexuality, that if you haven't 'slept' with or 'been' with a person of the same sex, you are only bi-curious because you haven't tried it. How on earth... (235 words)

Does this make me a terrible person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a really spiteful person. Today my boyfriend text me, asking me to get ready and meet him in town. I got ready, drove halfway to town when my phone started ringing. I pulled into a street, stopped and answered it. It was my boyfriend telling me he couldnt see me anymore, ... (269 words)

Did I just get played by my ex?!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm confused and scared that the love of my life has just played me! My ex and i broke up about 4 months ago and there has not been a day that has gone by that we haven't talked to one another. Sometimes it's at arms length, a lot of the times it's flirty, and sometimes it... (536 words)

I'm cold toward my wife and need to get the love back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, we have been married for 11 years and have two beautiful daughters. My question is that my wife is not or rather seem not to be interested in sex. Whenever I get close to her or try to make a move towards having sex she shrugs me off and says she's not in the mood. We have ... (193 words)

This complex situation is taking its toll on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a married women in love with a married men who is involved with my collegue. they have a child together and we all work together. to make things worse the wife hate my collegue but likes me, she invites me without knowing that i am involved with her husband, he says he ... (81 words)

This new guy online has me questioning my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current boyfriend for 5 years and we had until recently a great relationship we have a 3 year old son and live together.we have always had a passionate relationship however he has hit me twice(drunk both times)and recently we dont talk as much, when we do we ... (149 words)

How can I stop supporting my sister's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys this wil be long but i need help.i hate my big sis and when she comes to visit its like i want to die.shes 33 and has 3 kids.2 are staying with me and mom.i buy food and suport the family while shes staying at my grams waiting for welfare.i hate that she doesnt want to ... (107 words)

Complicated and hurtful family mess

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age - I feel really stupid writing about this, but I would like to get other people's takes on this situation. My 29 year old daughter is "re-marrying" her husband of 10 years. I haven't spoken to either of them in over a year because last year I was living with them for 2 month... (759 words)

How can I learn to make myself squirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I learn to make myself squirt?... (8 words)

I think I still love my ex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been broken up with my ex for over 2 yrs. We are both in other relationships but my problem is that I'm still in love with her. We were together for 8 years. We had an up and down relationship but were always deeply in love. We had a connection I have never felt with ... (143 words)

Will my parents ever move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i married against my parents will and they have not accepted me till date. even after 4 years they are depressed about my marrige and their health is depleating.i have tried all the things to make them accept me but in vain. What should i do to make them happy and take t... (66 words)

I get so upset when he leaves on business!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 18 months has gone abroad for three weeks on a business trip. I get very upset when he leaves usually and he is aware of this. This time in order to stop me getting upset we have been talking everyday. I call him because I have an international ca... (161 words)

Will it work if we take it slowly this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i had my first seious relationship when i was 15 till i was 22 and had my son, i have been single since which now is 5 years, i have had interest from males and had funtimes but never wanted to committ to them, i then on a unexpected night not looking for anyone got interest ... (191 words)

My boyfriend is acting weird, after I told him I contacted my hospitalized ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf of 2 years is acting weird when i talked to my ex bf. my ex bf was not well couple of weeks n was in hospital. so i called him to hear how he was. told my bf abt this, he started acting weird. he said he is not jealous or possesstive, but always switching off his mobile ... (89 words)

I love my boyfriend, despite our rocky relationship, but just can't get Toxic Boy out of my head!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years. Overall its been a happy relationship with a few ups and downs. Over the last few months however, I just havent been happy, its probably longer then that if Im being honest. We were just arguing all the time and didnt seem to be moving ... (417 words)

My parents are putting pressure on me. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had posted about this in a different context earlier. But as days pass on I can't seem to handle this anymore. Please advice. My parents have been with us for a year now for my dad's cancer treatment as they can't do this alone. My mother lack's the will power and confid... (684 words)

Ask her what went wrong, did I do it right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Heya guys and gals, sorry to keep on about my breakup, its been a difficult couple of weeks for me. my parents and sister is away on holiday, so iv got an empty house and a great deal of loneliness, iv not been able to get a great deal of sleep my ex gf who gave me a modifi... (816 words)

What can I do to get my marriage back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I been married for 3 years now. We had our ups and downs too. we have 1 kid together that is 3 years old, a stepson with her that is 6 years. We been separated for 4 months now and she wont return my messages or anything of the matter. Shes in a realationship with a ... (157 words)

Pregnant wife questions husband's fidelity after finding sex profile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm eight months pregnant and I recently found out that my husband has a sex profile on a website that he frequently visits. I learned this from a friend who stumbled across it on her search for whatever. She sent me a link and the most recent time he had logged on was that ... (314 words)

I'm angry my ex could treat me like a ghost after everything we've been through together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Just broke up with my Ex. Its been a week and a few days. We were on a break, but she made it permanent and now she's "dating" this guy she met at a bar 2 wks ago who lives in Australia. After we decided to take a break so she could work on her alcoholism and severe depre... (480 words)

Am I imagining things or does this guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...! I met a guy through my close friend, she introduced him as her boyfriend although he doesn't act like it,and i know that my friend have more than just 1 guy thats why its hard to know if she is serious about this guy. My friend is at another varsity while me and the... (178 words)

I'm worried we're not having sex often enough and that he's gone off me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is my boyfriend of 9 months going off me? He hardly ever initiates sex anymore. He's never been a highly sexed person but this past month it's dwindled down to 1-2 times per week. He has brought it up and says it worries him that we're not having sex often enough but he some... (222 words)

Do I break up with him until he sorts out their living arrangement or should I stand by him as he's going through a tough time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has 2 young (2yrs old) twins with his ex gf. She still lives in his house, in a separate bedroom ofcourse, because she cant afford to live on her own and was unemployed for a while and he supported her in regards to buying her a car, paying for her medical aid, ... (370 words)

He said that if we break up, it will be because of me.

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of more than one year told me that he loves me and that he'll never break up with me. He said that if we break up, it will be because of me. My brain went blank for a few moments when he told me this, so I don't want to re-open this topic with him. I know he loves ... (128 words)

I think my b/f is just waiting for me to dump him

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I checked my bf on facebook, his status says "i am separated and i am looking for dating" and the other one says " if your gf slap you what can you do?tell me then i wil tell you what i did", since we have been together(3 yrs) i never slap him and i last saw him ... (186 words)

Is my ex thinking of getting back with me later on...maybe?

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf broke up with me about 1 1/2 months ago, we talked here and there since then because I had hard time letting go. Few days ago we talked again, his phone kept dying and he was acting kind of unusual because he was trying hard to call me back a lot of times to tell me his ... (267 words)

Cheating hb treating ME badly!!!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I caught my hb of 6 years cheating on me for the 2nd time... The 1st time was last year in November.. When I caught him he literally begged me to give him a 2nd chance.. And I did for our kids sake....everything was great until about august this year, I started recognizing the ... (178 words)

How can I win my wife back and keep our marriage alive?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and i are getting ready go through a divorce but were still married at this time. She is already in a realationship with a guy that she dated 5 times in the past. How could i win her back and keep our marriage alive? I told her that im sorry and i want to change ... (102 words)

Whenever I want to have a relationship, it never works out!

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright I'm pretty sure this is said quite a bit but here goes... I'm an attractive guy I'm told quite a bit all through high school and middle school. I am always called and sent messages on my phone and facebook about my lady friends wanting to hang out and party with me. I... (162 words)

S it right to have it end like this... Or should we try at it?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - First off, thanks to everyone who takes the time to read this, I really appreciate the help. Anywho, I'm pretty upset right now because my girlfriend and I just got out of yet another argument about an hour ago and I don't know what to do. We've been together for a tad ... (535 words)

Why am I sexually attracted to older men? Much, Much older men.

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sexually attracted to older men probably around the ages of 40-60's. I never been with an older man, but I fantasize about having sex with them. I tried reading about people with this "issue", but most of them like older men because of their mature-ness, and stability. I ... (233 words)

How do I get my parents to back off?

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious help on how to get my parents off my back about my boyfriend. I am 18 almost 19, he is 24. We have been seeing each other since january. We met online (when i met him in person i had my mom come with me in case he was a creeper, luckily he wasn't) in the ... (461 words)

I'm 15, she's only 12, should I leave her alone?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok so i just recently found out that the girl i like is 12 i am 15. i didnt really care at first but now its really big. we do band together although shes in middle school and im in high school. shes really funny, smart, cute. she just makes me happy when im around her. so i ... (89 words)

Sometimes his very touch irritates me. I don't want to have sex with him ... why?

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months or so. We live together... and in a couple weeks we won't be, as I really want my own apartment, and living together was out of convenience. We're both cool with this. So... I don't want to have sex with him. At all. Like... so... (352 words)

My problem is that I have a bent penis, and don't know if I can really pleasure her!

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, this is a subject that I've tried to research a lot on and I really can't seem to come up with a good answer. My problem is that I have a bent penis. It's pent to the left at about 30 or 40 degrees. My girlfriend says she sometimes feels everything to her right side when ... (242 words)

I feel like I'm engaged to a 15 year old, and have reconnected with an old friend. I don't know what to do!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiancee for 10 yrs...and I'm only 23. We have 2 children ages 5 and 2. We moved to another state directly after highschool. I do not have any real friends here and have lost touch with many friends from my hometown. During the first 4 years of my and my ... (208 words)

Is it wrong to be in love with my fathers cousin?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently fallen in love with my dads cousin. Their mothers are sisters. She is10 yrs older than i am.(30) We crazy abt each other and dont really care what the family thinks or says. But is it wrong for us to be in love?... (46 words)

Married and no sexual chemistry anymore

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband was very sexual with me in the beginning. He had to have sex at every meeting. After we moved in together his interest dissipated a bit. I'd say we had sex 4 to 5 times a week. After living together for 1 year we were having sex maybe 3 times a week. Around 2 years ... (319 words)

Is it the soap or too much masturbation?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so I was showering the other day, and I was washing my penis, and I'm pretty sure I got soap in it, this has happened before, but my penis still hurts in my urethra from time to time. I know this probably isn't an std, but I masturbate quite frequently, and I don't know ... (98 words)

What's a nice way of breaking it off?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age - I've met this lady about a month ago actually about 2 months ago, because I took off up north for about two weeks and sort of kept in touch with each other by e-mailing each other for the time! The question is she is to short can't kiss and and has nothing to talk about an... (142 words)

After 2 days and 100 texts, why did he start ignoring me?

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, So I'm Sixteen, I have never kissed a guy and I am really embarrassed about this. I have had this one particular crush for about a year now. About two weeks ago he told me he liked me and I admitted to liking him. I thought we were going to start something. But about two ... (213 words)

I'm trying to get over a girl.

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to get over a girl. It is hard to do, especially because we are around each other a lot. I can't talk to anyone in my life about it for reasons I don't want to get into, but there is a reason I am posting this on a website anonymously. She is the only girl I've ever ... (220 words)

My boyfriend is hiding his new vices from me!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he keep things from me? We have been going on and off for a couple years now. im 16 years old, and right now, for the third time we are dating, trying to make it work. the reason we broke up was becasue i went to japan for a year for an exchange, but during that... (192 words)

If he can't have an orgasm, does that mean he's cheating?

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I been datn the same guy for over a yr now when we have sex he can never have a oragasim hes 45 and works alot but whay could b the problem why he can never have one does it mean hes cheatn? ... (43 words)

By the time he gets into it, my jaw is tired. Help!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've tried giving my boyfriend oral several times (he's the first guy i've done it for) and even though i've gotten better according to him, i can't make him come. Its hard at times because he's big and too thick for my mouth, we're opposite in size. I'm petite and he's built. ... (323 words)

How to be considered as a potential boyfriend?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 20 year old guy and I was wondering what is the best way to get a girls attention so that she actually conciders you as a potential bf.... (32 words)

His sister wants to come stay with us and I don't feel comfortable with her

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am living with my boy friend since last 4 years. We got engaged 2 years ago. Before getting engaged we both had our insecurities of whether our parents will approve this relationship (since arrange marriage is still quite big in our culture). We took a chance and went to ... (571 words)

I don't know what he wants from me ...

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have worked with this guy for 2 years.. we have been through a lot together. I really really like him and we hang out all the time. Our personalities just match perfectly we have never fought and we really enjoy each others company. The first time we kissed was about 3 months ... (440 words)

Is it ok to be a guy who doesn't like porn

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok here is the situation, I am visually turned on by females, and always have been. Thats important because the next part of what im about to say hinges off that fact. Porn as a whole has never done anything for me. I have always been more of a thinker/daydreamer and the ... (169 words)

Do I have to start letting go of her?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and a half now. I am completely in love with her and would do anything for her. Last year I went off to university while she was still in high school. Our relationship remained strong and actually got a lot stronger and we had an ... (956 words)

4 kids and now pregnant with twins!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im pregnant with twins. im 27 years old. i did't tell none of my family members.im not in my own place. im staying with someone.i already have 4 kids. so what should i do?... (34 words)

Friend asked me to homecoming but he has a girlfriend

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i have this guy friend who i will have known 4 a year now this nov. i never really liked him until just resently. i found out he has liked me ever since he met me. im 15 and a sophmore he is 17 and a senor. the only thing is he has a girl friend, even though he likes me? ... (134 words)

I need some advice for online dating.

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm interested in online dating, and want some advice as to how to go about it. Frankly, I am a novice to dating in general and would like some advice. Also, please don't post answers saying NOT to do online dating. ... (43 words)

Why am I missing my ex who caused me so much pain?

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone, I was in a relationship with one guy for about 2 years. In the beginning everything was great, he treated me like a queen and we could be together for hours and never get bored. He was dealing with a lot at the time, and eventually found himself getting ... (360 words)

He doesn't feel the same as when we first started dating

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not a person to give up easily and I believe that we are meant to be together, but he says he is no longer 'in love' with me. He still lvoes me, but doesn't feel the same as he did when we first started dating. I love him and want to be with him forever. What can I do to ... (97 words)

Living a secret life?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Does anyone feel they're leading a secret life from their spouse and/or family?... (13 words)

Why would she not want her boyfriend to meet her ex?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering why would a girl not want her boy friend to meet her ex boy friend. I know it can be because it will be awkward,but if they have been with each other for about a year and she still thinks it would be and just does not want them to meet, is there anything more ... (65 words)

if our daughter wasn't in the picture, I would have been gone long ago.

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I feel like I'm in a little bit of trouble. I have a 15 month old child, and over the last year and a half I've felt myself drifting apart from my fiance. We've sort of just figured out that he's depressed, and he's going to go talk to someone about it. He's continously ... (214 words)

Confused in sexuality

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I don't know how this happened but I'll tell you anyway. About 4 years ago during sophomore year, I had a big thing for this guy, then out of the blue I don't like him anymore. Instead I wound up developing feelings for some ugly chick who looks like a man! I'm really ... (146 words)

Lonely... my boyfriend of two years just moved out, out of the blue!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused.. my boyfriend of the last 2 years just moved out, out of the blue. We have lived together almost the entire time. We have had some money issues and he is not used to not having extra money to spend. He says he still wants to be together and he loves me, he ... (174 words)

Hopelessly still in love with my ex!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am hoplessly still in love with my ex but I have a boyfriend we haven't been together for longg but I feel like I am pushing him away bcoz of it , he is lovely tells me he loves me and would do anything for me but he does have some drink problems but I cannot forget about my ... (203 words)

How do you stand up for yourself?

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know how but people think im too flirty. I barly have any guy friends and the ones I do have I don't love them like that. And one person called me a bitch about it. I don't know how but people think I am and I never liked a guy before or kiss a guy or anything! What ... (70 words)

His ex wants to meet him for closure but I'm uncomfortable with it!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend got out of a 5 year relationship about 6 months ago. I have been seeing him for the past 3 months. It is the only girl he has ever loved. Now that she is single she has been texting and calling him (not a lot but enough) and has moved on to asking him to meet ... (179 words)

My friend invited me to Paris, but I didn't know so many others would go!

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, Basically I suffer with anxiety and cyclothymia. I attend CBT when agreed with my therapist. I have been progressing very well with my health and tackling my anxiety well. I have understand that initial thoughts about certain situations turn out better than expe... (175 words)

I hardly see my boyfriend with his new job!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf has a new job and I barely see him now. I don't know what to do because I am struggling with this limited contact. Please advise me!... (29 words)

My lovely little ball of stress takes out her stress on me!

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am currently 19 and I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I have noticed she is an extremely stressed out person. Everything seems so hard for her to do because it usually requires her to complain a little or anger her. As our relationship has progressed I have ... (243 words)

Is it possible to have this kind of serious relationship in college?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been in the same relationship for almost two years. Both me girlfriend and I are 19 and in college full time. We are both in love and devoted to each other. Our problem is that we argue a lot. Typically, an arguments results in her being stressed out or taking out ... (491 words)

What was your best first date? I need ideas!

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14 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what was the best first date you ever had? what made it so great and did you end up together? im just curious and looking for great date ideas!... (29 words)

Will I have more luck with women once they're older?

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14 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am wondering about how age affects relationships. I know that when girls are young (teens to early 20s), they get a LOT of attention from guys. It seems that the girls I want don't want me right now because they have a pretty big selection of guys to choose from. I'm not ... (378 words)