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writes:I spent the night at my boyfriend's apartment. I slept in the bedroom while he slept in the front room. I got up this morning to find a condom wrapper beside the bed. Then i found a receipt to a lingere shop. He is sleep now. Should i wake him up and talk? Or just leave without waking him up? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni let him explain and told him that if he want to live a nasty life, just leave me out. Im having no trust in him anymore--especially after i opened up about issues with men. I guess the flame has died. I just he was not a man.
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Yeah, wake him.let him explain now whe the evidence is stil 'visible'...! But remain calm,dont let your emotions over-rule you,goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): I think it really depends on what your going to do.
It looks like he cheated, are you willing to stay with a cheater ? do you really care as to the why he cheated ?
If you have no intention of staying, or caring as to the why, I would gather my things, and leave the wrapper and reciept on the bed. This way he already knows why you are gone. But be the more mature and rational person and just walk out never to be heard from again.
Now if youre willing to accept and forgive, you need to wake him up and talk .. or yell .. now. Do it while you are feeling all the emotions so that he can see first hand how much he has hurt you, and hopefully that will make him think twice about doing it again. I would also talk about ways he can regain your trust back and make him stick to whatever rules you guys come up with.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (19 October 2010):
 No, let him sleep. That way you can gather your things and leave before he wakes up.
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