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anonymous
writes:Hi readers! So I became friend of this girl that i like and today she said i was her best. about a week ago everyone started saying that she likes me, and when someone says that out loud she denies it. Also, I personally think that three other guys like her too, and everyone also says that those three like her, but she does not like her cause i have talked to her about that, and while we were talking, today, she brought that subject up (again) and this time it got to the part that everyone says she likes me, and i don't know if she does cause she denied it several times in front of me and while talking to me. she see's me hugging another friend of my and she tells me she gets jealous about that and she wants me to hug her too. she wants a hello kiss and goodbye kiss, she asks my friend or askes me to ask him to let her sit next to me and she goes against me on purpose and then hits me --'...I'm very shy and I have low self-esteem. Should I tell her how I feel?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Take your chances. If she rejects you, well, you pack your things and go. If she doesn't, then you got her.
Piece of cake!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 So you want us to read her mind...
Sorry, but the only person who can tell you how she feels is her. It's been said that with great risk sometimes comes great reward. Maybe it's time for you to put your feelings out there and see how she reacts.
Her behavior points to someone who is interested. Interested in what exactly, I can't say for sure. I think you should tell her. Even if she rejects you she's not likely to stop being your friend.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (19 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) Hun, don't be afraind.. If she likes you for you, which I'm sure she does. Than go for her, ask her out and tell her you like her. It wont be surprising if she says the same to you, there's a spark. I can tell. Good luck, xoxo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry, but that didn't help me at all :S... you gave me the two options that i already know, but i really want to know befor i make my move. is it because I didn't asked for this that i just typed here in this question or because you can't know just from my text? if anyone wants to know more about this please type it in, but i really need to know if its friend or maybe gf
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 October 2010):
Yes. She's likely denying her feelings because she's waiting for you to tell her you like her. It's either that or she truely just wants to be friends, but I'd venture it is that she likes you. All of her behavior is pointing in that direction.
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