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*argent45
writes:I feel really embarrassed asking this but I'm a guy who has been going out with this girl for a while now. And we have decided to maybe have sex together. The only problem is is that I'm worried about losing my virginity which I have read does not hurt but she has had sex with her other boyfriends before me and so she knows the deal but I'm new. I know that if we have sex that it will be fine because we will be safe and use protection and communicate but I still feel a little nervous. If people could give me some tips and tell me what it will be like for my first time that would really help me out a lot. Thank you to everyone who sends back, you will have really helped me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sargent45 +, writes (20 October 2010):
Sargent45 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both of you but I have thought about it and I don't care for it. I just wanted to because of my hormones probably. And I even thought about it and I don't want to explain to my wife why that is not my first time. But yeah, I am to young, and Ven, if you told me I was to young I would have listened. But thank you both of you you really helped me out and now I know why I am certain on waiting.
Thanks again,
Sargent45
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reader, mynowministries +, writes (19 October 2010):
I would like you to read this book i kiss dating goodbye, by josha harris I think have SEX should be very special for you wedding day,Every time you have sex with this person you're giving yourself away, think of it its not to late to save yourself, if you love this person and you know you want to spend the rest of your life with her stop, it will be the best thing you ever do for yourself.
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
Sargent, you are 13-15?
I'm not going to tell you that you are too young, since you would most likely ignore me anyway. However, I will still be somewhat mean and tell you that at your age your emotional development is still so low that you really won't be able to know if your first time was how it's supposed to be anyway.
Sex won't hurt you, as it doesn't hurt men (at least not under normal circumstances). It will most likely be over quickly, and you really won't be able to process what happened right then. It's your first time doing something very new and different.
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