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female
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41-50,
*issymel74
writes:ok so 3 weeks ago my boyfriend and i seperated, after 14 months, 10 of those living together, I have 3 kids he has 1, my kids well behaved his a nightmare, i put 110% into him and his son even with out realizing pushing mine away, We loved each other very intensily but he wouldnt give back to me what i was putting in, he wouldnt communicate with me his own son or my kids, he was always angry, became more miserable as time went by, we argued and broke up on a weekly basis, he had no patience with my kids i actually think he didnt like them never talked to them, my kids hated him and often told me he treated me like shit, all he wanted to do was come home have some drinks and watch TV, again no communication, he never liked anything i cooked but would never make a desision as to what would be for dinner, atually he never made any desisions, but told me i always had to be in control, yes i quess someone had to make desisions. His hobby of cars were more important than me and so on, now i wish he would just go see a counsillor and make things work but he told me he is the way he is, there has been no communication for a week I miss him Im getting counsilling but struggle so much to move on with out him, please tell me if you have been in this situation what you did etc, i need help thank you
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reader, Ven  +, writes (19 October 2010):
If he is willing to try, then he is worth working for. If he is going to ignore you, decline couples counseling, and do his own thing, then you need to find someone who cares enough about you to get up and work for you.
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