Am I right to be angry about this?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have recently started seeing a guy. We have been talking for 2 1/2 months on email and skype as he lives in another country. We went to school together 20 years ago and started talking on facebook and developed a friendship. recently he spent £700 and flew to uk to spend a week to meet me,,,, it was going quite well intially when i first met him i wasnt instantly attracted but he grew on me over the next few days. I have never been so spoilt when he arrived a huge bouquet, chocolates and chamapagne andtook me out for dinner. As he was going back in one week we were spending so much time together. I am a strict Christian and he is a catholic and he alraedy introduced me to his mother. Anyway after the first night he returned back to his mothers which is a costly taxi away so the second night i agreed he could sleep on the sofa then the 3rd night i said he could share my bed well one thing led to another. Now i thought i'd finish my period but afterwards there was some blood on the sheets, i was so embarrased so i just said that its probably because its been a longtime since lasttime i had sex. then the next day i had no bleeding so thought i was ok and when i woke up there was more blood. i went to work and he rang me saying he was worried and to see the dr. anyway the thing is he told his mother everthing. i put the phone down and told him he shouldnt tell his mum my personal buisness and i feel so angry. Have i got a right to be angry? Is it forgivable? I should add im 34 and he is 36 both professional people. hes talked about wanting to marry me but how could i ever face his mum after she knows all this and that i slept with hm on the third night of him coming to the uk. Since i put down the phone he has tried calling me over 20 times thanks for your advice

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