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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I really like this guy. The problem is I'm already going out with someone but this guy is single. My bf is the sweetest guy on the planet but I don't really want to go out with him anymore because I don't love him I love this other guy. My bf is also really sensitive and I've just had sex with him for the first time (to test my feelings for him) and there was no spark whatsoever however when I just touch this other person my stomach has butterflies and my legs turn to jelly. I know this sounds really soppy but this is how I feel and I'm sure this other guy feels the same way as he acts weird around me (or my mates say so) and he also keeps on saying how pretty I am when I say that Im ugly. I know this sounds really confusing but I'm pretty confused! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Why go out with someone you dont love,you just wasting each others time.You not doing him a favour by staying with him,you just making it worse for yourself.Remember,grass aint always greener on the otherside.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Well hun its your choice if you dont love your boyfriend then i think its best if you finish things now as the longer you leave it the worst it will be for him. Also for you aswell you need to be honest with him without hurting his feelings dont mention the other guys name just tell him you dont feel the connection there anymore and you want to break things off as you need to sort your head out, its never easy breaking up with someone but believe me sweet it will only get worse.
As for this other bloke well i would advise giving it some space first so that you can clear your head and not jump from one guy to the other, and am sure you wouldnt want your boyfriend being upset if you only break up and you are with another guy straight away. Am not telling you to ignore him talk to him and maybe even lightly flirt but dont get with him for a while until you feel that you've distanced yourself completely from your current boyfriend.
Good Luck
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