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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend trying to pull me back into the closet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - okay so I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and he has met my family and they know he is my boyfriend. About two days ago he asked me to move in right after we went and met some of his friends and his parents but introduced me as "A FRIEND". What should I do?... (58 words)

HOw do you attract and get an older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HOw do you attract and get an older guy? im 18 in a few months and he will be 23 by the time i become 18. he wants to wait till im legal to pursue a friendship and what else might be to follow. i was just wondering if there are any small tips or pointers on how to keep him ... (68 words)

Taking a chance on losing a great woman for the unknown

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age - I'm on my way to being divorced. I've been separated for well over a year. I started dating a few months ago. I started seeing a well educated professional woman who has fallen hard for me. I like her a lot. My problem is that I don't want a comitted relationship yet and told ... (299 words)

I want his attention but I don't want to appear like an idiot

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey!! So, i am a freshman, and i like a guy from my marching band who is a junior. the thing is, he plays snare, so we dont see each other very much. i dont want to ruin it with him by acting goony just so he looks at me, because that would make me seem immature. how can i get ... (108 words)

He talks to me like nothing has happened but he won't sleep with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guyz, i kno this may get confusin but i dnt know what to do anymore =( so here goes, me and my boyfriend had an arguement about a week ago over something silly and since then he wont sleep in the same bed as me ( he has seperated the bed) but yet he still talks to me like... (113 words)

What are some things girls like when kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering what are some things girls like when kissing. Where the guys hands are and what not.... (20 words)

Everyone can get a girlfriend except me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid question i must be a fool to think women will go out with me. what have i got to offer women i'm got my own house and car but that all i've got to offer it not enough for them. i'm only storeman in furniture store i've doing that job for 20 years now. everyone else ... (64 words)

How can I try to get his dad to be nice to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. This is a teensy bit awkward. Basically, the guy I've been seeing for over a year, I've had a crush on since I was 12. Although I payed him a lot of attention, he was never really interested in me, so I gave up and dated another guy. We all go to the same youth group. ... (327 words)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to stop me before orgasming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for two months, things regularly get heated, yet I haven't slept with him yet. The thing is, when I toss him off he always stops be by saying 'stop' or pulling my hand away, just before orgasming. I think he's scared to come infront of me an... (162 words)

He broke up with me because I never show that I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now.i just found out that he impregnanted sum girl and i decided to forgive him.two weeks later he dumps me because he claims that i never do anything to show that i love him,and yet i always ask him if he loves me.do u guys ... (65 words)

I'm seriously in love with her and want to know how to prove it, as she doesn't have much time to hang out with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl freshan year at first it started as a crush and well it started to grow we did things as if we were a couple but i never officially asked her to be my gf,,,time passed by and i was juss an idiot and still never did,,,sophmore year came and i saw her makin out ... (337 words)

I Need to Learn How to Show Affection, Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now but we always run into one problem. I am not a very affectionate person, I never have been. Like I'm just not used to being showered with love and affection and giving it in return. And all he wants from me is to show him ... (234 words)

How to get good sex when the guy is smaller

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i've been with my new boyfriend for about 5 weeks now. andwe recently started having sex. The problem is, my ex was a lot bigger in the downstairs department than this new guy. I love my boyfriend to pieces he is absolutely perfect but because hes quite small down there i ... (92 words)

Should I just leave him to simmer...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - See this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-could-possibly-have-been-going-through-his.html for the story leading up to this. He's been writing me on Facebook nonstop telling me how sorry he is and how I'm somehow different from those girls and I'm somehow not ... (353 words)

Why has she went cold on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a junior in high school, i had started talking to this sophomore girl and after about a month we were talking about us and how we liked each other and so on, at the end of one of the friday night football games we were hanging out and we had our first kiss, but it was right ... (102 words)

I just feel so alone and don't know how to move forward.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this is complicated and I'm sure will sound silly to a lot of people. I met this guy about 3 years ago when I was still living with my kid's dad. I didn't love my kid's dad and I was planning on breaking up with him so meeting this other guy just gave me the extra cou... (841 words)

Should I keep him sweet in order to get my inheritence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I don't know my biological father... After many years, I have recently been emailing with his sister, and she hasnt mentioned him at all and neither have I. He has never shown any interest at all, and has a new family. I of course, have my own family (including step ... (302 words)

Contacting old exes and flings for the past 1.5 years? Should I be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So this may all sound a bit childish and trivial but I'm hoping to get some perspective and make sense of this all. Thanks everyone for reading. My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 4 years and living together for 3 and a half. Hes 10 years older than me. Now when he ... (522 words)

Boy crazy!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a passionate and really nice person but i'm also extremely boy crazy. I've only had one boyfriend so far because all the guy i like go for the C cup size 0 bitchy girls and i'm not like that so i'm insecure sometimes. I feel like i need to change my self to make them like ... (173 words)

How do I get over the resentment for my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I let go The resentment that I have for my husband? He had an affair some time ago and he now told me and I can't let it go. I love him and hate him at the same time. We argue almost once a week now over this. He feels that i should just let it go and we move on. I ... (191 words)

Doggie dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old female and my boyfriend is 18. whenever we have sex, i enjoy the missionary position but as we start doing other positions (esp. dogggie) i just cant bear the pain on my lower stomach. Does anyone know about this? and is this the reason for my irregular ... (61 words)

Would YOU not cancel the trip if you broke up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So if you've read a lot of my questions on here I have beeen moving on with my life... but still wonder why my ex who ended it with me 3 weeks ago hasn't cancelled the trip we were supposed to go on in Nov. I can't cancel it, its not in my name... but if he wants to go why ... (111 words)

Why do I always look for something wrong in the guys I fancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I feel like I always try to find stuff wrong with guys that I am interested in (looks, personality, etc)... I do that so that way I can convince myself that I don't like them and that I can do so much better. I am not sure why I am doing that though... any thoughts/advice?... (65 words)

Help!!! Scared of sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i have a really serious problem that is worrying me for a while.. i'm a girl and i'm afraid of sex.. yeah i'm a virgin but my fear is different than most girls'. It's like i'm not afraid of the first time because it's going to hurt, more i'm afraid of having sex cause... (122 words)

I'm too old for such games. I either want to hit him or kiss him. I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age - I dated a man one year and a half ago. At the time I had not dated since my divorce which was ten years at the time. I asked him for coffee and I didn't think it would go anywhere but it lasted six months. We had a lot of fun together and had a lot in common. He had only ... (862 words)

Am I just repelling guys my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm hoping you can help me out! I am so confused about myself and what guys think of me. I am a freshman in High school; I just turned 15. I've noticed something over the months that is really confusing. It seems like no freshman guys are interested in me, but a ... (115 words)

So, I have a crush on my ex's best friend..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just recently broke up. And before I get all these "Don't do anything! You'll ruin their friendship!" responses, the break up was mutual, so we've decided to stay friends; best friends, in fact, because we know no one knows each other like we do. Anyway, ... (282 words)

Was this man just too kinky for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was seeing this guy a while ago, we've known each other a long time but started to get more romantic lately. However he showed a side of himself that I never knew existed before. It was very strange he started 'joking' about scenes in porn films, talking about his favourite ... (261 words)

Abusive ex, back in touch.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - One year ago I split from am extremely abusive boyfriend. My boyfriend knows everything that I can possibly think to tell him about that relationship. But recently my abusive ex has been back in touch and has told me he wants me back. I told him I was happier than I've ever ... (127 words)

Together 7 months now but he's not very affectionate with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 19. He has been known as the "macho" kind of guy.. Very cavalier and promiscuous. I have always been the hopeless romantic.. One day, we started dating and in the beginning he told me that it was nothing serious we were just casually dating.... (206 words)

Did he have sex with others? Should I believe him when he says no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age - we lived together for six years ,he ended up moving out,its been a year we started to salvage the relationship,we havent been sexually active in this year i was waiting for him to treat me better and he is showing me that he is somewhat . So I asked him to go and get checked ... (130 words)

Why does a guy message a girl at I am in the morning...what does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is probably going to sound like an odd question but here goes: If a guy sent you a message at 1 in the morning asking you to call them what do you think that means? The message went something like "hey, my number is ***** call me xxx" This was at the weekend, do you think ... (64 words)

I have questions about condoms, masturbation and diseases--mature answers, please!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - loads of people in my school are NOT virgins, some of them are but i wouldnt say many people are, they all have big boobs and have nice legs, and know all about sex and masturbation, can someone answer these questions: Do condoms really protect you 100%? what do you do ... (109 words)

Was I out of line in saying I was too good for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for about 4 months. I fell in love the first night, based on his personality, how he presented himself, how he made himself be. He was someone I had always wanted, I loved who he was. At the begining he tried to make time for me. We saw each other in ... (757 words)

How do I get over these feelings of resentment for my younger sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past year, I have been feeling resentful towards my very young half sister. Also for the past year, I feel that I do not have a close relationship with my father. My father left my mother for my step mother 16 years ago and I would only see him twice a month. Seve... (358 words)

Should I ignore him..or will that tear us apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months, but since we got back to school from the summer holidays things have gone rocky and now, we're both wanting space. Even though I love him I still want space because I'm sick and tired of being depressed that he doesn't want ... (278 words)

I dumped my controlling ex and he won't leave me alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up several months ago. He was abusive during the relationship and extremely jealous. He had all the control in the relationship. I was so in love with him (he was my first boyfriend) that I endured it because most of the time he was very sweet anyway, and we ... (341 words)

I only seem to be interested when there's a challenge

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! So I have a problem I cant figure out... whenever theres a guy I meet that I'm attracted to, I flirt with him and everything because I like him, but then when I find out he likes me, my feelings and attraction towards them, just go away, and instead I feel turned of... (270 words)

Do you think this guy is ignoring me? I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My heart is slowly breaking. I met a guy online (not a dating site) and we rarely talked at first and conversations were short. Then we stopped talking completely for months. Then we started talking again and out chats gre longer and more enjoyable. I could tell he was starting ... (410 words)

Who to choose? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - guy number 1 makes me laugh and smile and i get scared when i talk to him on the phone. guy number 2 rides my bus but my best friend likes him. guy number 3 is my bff's cousin and he is sooo cute. who to choose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (65 words)

Husband is losing his sex-drive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) age - How can I figure out my husband? He is a good guy,I can;t imagine my life without him. But he is no longer sexual with me. He said he lost sexual interest,generally. Is there such a thing? |Well, this got to the point,that he never looks at me,or touches me? I wonder if all ... (164 words)

I slept my first guy and feel kind of dirty! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I slept with a random guy last night. He was my first. I was really drunk! I just feel weird right now. I feel kinda dirty and kinda glad its over. Why do I feel so different?... (37 words)

He lied to me! Should I move in with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry its jumbled, but my mind is racing! Recently I found out my man of 8 years was seeing someone else. We have been in a long distance relationship about 5 years. He's admited hes been seeing her for 2 years. But says it was just sexual, and its me he loves,and hes en... (214 words)

I might be pregnant! What's going to happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 me and my partner want a baby , i might be pregnant and we really hope i am he is scared what will happwn if i am what will happen to the baby ?... (37 words)

How do I talk dirty to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently taken on a new lover. He loves talking dirty in bed. (Which was a surprise...he's fairly conservative.) I'm alright with it and willing to talk back, but I just have no idea what to say without sounding like a cheesy porno. Any ideas? I'd also like to drive him ... (65 words)

Married but I love another!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Am married and am in love with a married man. I've been in this relationship for only one month. we've been kissing and caressing and he makes me feel something I dont feel with my husband. i think I love but am feeling guilty. i wouldn't like my marriage to break just incase ... (95 words)

Would it help if we lived together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i split up after he cheated over one year ago we stayed together for months but it just blew up we're now trying to fix things again to get back together, i have depts and mortgage do you think he should help me out if we live together and what would be a far ... (65 words)

He asked me to homecoming but openly flirts with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I said yes. We had a time where we both liked each other but nothing ever happened cause he ended it. Now, after he asks me to HC, he sometimes ignores me and openly flirts with my friend (and they both had a time where they liked each other too). I know we're just going... (107 words)

Confused by this love triangle! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Hello, I have been dating a guy for a few months, he was great at first helped me with everything, told me he was married but getting a divorce, he came for a visit a few weeks ago left early saying he needed to get back to finish business didn't hear from... (293 words)

Marrying an older guy soon..but he treats me like a child! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting married in seven months...but I'm just not happy in the relationship..I'm marrying an older guy, who is more established than I. Which would normally be a good thing but the closer we get to our date the more he makes me feel like I'm his child ..always correcting ... (106 words)

Why are the girls at school, so mean to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - y dont girls like me, at school there mean to me, call me names for no reason and dont really know me at all. Im in the football A team, top 5 for athletics in my year, Im not disgusting, Im very polite and haven't said a mean word to any girl. though they're is one girl who is ... (111 words)

Suspicious behaviors? Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 1year and 2months only takes me sround his mom and dad i have yet to meet his friends and other relatives and when he talks or text his friends he either speak in codes or walk outside and then gets upset if i follow him .one night he rushes and takes me home ... (81 words)

I'm 27 and gay...how do I know if this guy I love, want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, here we go! I'm 27 years old. I'm male and I'm gay. I'm in love with this guy who's 10 years younger than me. We hang out all the time. He doesn't know that I'm gay, and I supposedly do not know if he is gay. We flirt, and we almost have what I consider soft sex. I even ... (215 words)

I have Borderline Personality Disorder..should I leave my bf for his own good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a fantastic, supportive relationship, but I've recently found out that I could have Borderline Personality Disorder, I'm worried that my boyfriend won't be able to cope with my behaviour for much longer. It's a lot for me to deal with but I can't imagine what it must be ... (106 words)

When a guy is being possessive in a relationship, is it healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When a guy is being possessive in a relationship, is it healthy? Especially when it lasted very long (4 - 5 years). Where there has been breaks ups but then patching back many times. Hurting the girl emotionally with harshful words and slapping a girl in the past. And then bei... (150 words)

His friend's stag is at a stripclub! I am feeling uncomfortable about him going!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is going to a strip club for his mates stag. I'm obviously not going to say anything. But is is abnormal that this makes me really uncomfortable? ... (29 words)

We're seeing each other, but he said something on the phone, that confused me! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Saturday, I went out with a friend. I correctly guessed that since the guy I'm seeing was off work and his family was back in town, he'd have no time for me. He doesn't call or text me the whole day. So, whatever. He calls me last night and I'm busy so I don't pick up. He calls ... (106 words)

Problems in the bedroom..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys I really need help. I used to masterbate a lot. i mean probably 2 or 3 times a day. now i have a girlfriend and the past few times we have tried to have sex i haven't been able to get hard. idk wtf is wrong. its really becoming a nuisance and she thinks its because I ... (79 words)

How long will it be, before she regrets our breakup and will want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How long before my ex fiance will sense any feeling of regret or fear of loss? We broke up just a week ago because of something fairly insignificant that got blown out of proportion, emotions were high and we both said things we regret. She told me in the past that she doesn't ... (300 words)

Great personality but I'm not attracted to his looks..he's way too thin. Should I date him anyways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a boy who likes me, hes lovely and funny, not too bad looking but hes super super skinny, like you think hes just going to break when you see him. He has such an amazing pesonality and I get on with him so well but I think because hes so thin its putting me off him, I ... (228 words)

I want a baby with my boyfriend, but he doesn't. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. At the beginning of the relationship I was pregnant with another mans baby, I decided to have a termination due to the circumstances in which it was conceived. Now I'm desperate to be pregnant again, I don't understand why he ... (68 words)

Why do all I attract is Jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old female. I know I have a good head on my shoulders. I am a fulltime college student, and more importantly, I know where I want to go and where I want to be in life. Ok, now on to the juicy stuff. I just dont understand why I always attract jerks. I used to be ... (653 words)

He's nervous about hanging out with me..so, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this guy I kind of like I asked him if he,could hang out today And he said that he wil try and go. Then later today which was when we were suppose to hang out he told me that he couldnt go. And then after I left I text him telling him he should have came but he didnt text ... (210 words)

Will she ever wake up and realize what she has?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age - I recently broke up with my gf or 5 yrs. It's about the 15th time or so that this has happened very possibly for the last time. She has major men issues. She has never had 1 positive male role model in her life. I had sent most of or time proving to her that I was someone she ... (344 words)

Why does he bother to say he'll change when he doesn't even make the effort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been on and off with my partner for 7years because he has cheated,lied,and wudnt take on the responsibility of a father and was a selfish partner.every time i would leave him,he would come looking for me some time later.i have 3 kids with him,2girls and one boy.for my ... (371 words)

My lady tastes like salt??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

3 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I wonder if other guys (esp) have the same experience? I am not used to giving oral as my long term ex liked to give but didnt want me down there...although we did loads of "other things" ;)...lol I am with a new partner who I think is "the one" and recentl... (219 words)

Abusive ex keeps walking all over me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a single mother and the father of my child (my ex) is emotionally abusive and keeps walking over me..what can i do/ ... (25 words)

I am confused over my ex and in pain. He still responds to me. What do I do? Think?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, I would appreciate your advice on the following heartache. In breif. I dated a guy and he took me to meet his parents and best freinds within weeks. All was good, and we got on very well. I fell in love with him within a few weeks, but we seemed to fall out a bit whilst ... (671 words)

Boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and gave me no reason why!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend of 3 years left me. We have had a thing for each other since 4th grade (In 1 year of college now) Out of the blue, We have been going threw some rough times. I just didn't know he would do this to us. He has been planning for it for about 2 weeks (I... (374 words)

Why would he send me a page that is about viagra?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year or the year before I went to a seminar in Rome for three days, to learn about business managing and finding "the power within", as the leaflet said. I was part of a group of about six, two of them were italian volunteers who were basically acting as our guides, and ... (827 words)

Single mum with a big headache!

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I started seeing a lovely man 6 weeks ago. I have a 9yr old daughter who lives with me and he has a 6yr old son who stays with him 9 days out of 14. My ex only sees my daughter every other weekend but I have had her 2 weekends in a row. My new man and I have spent 2 weekends ... (595 words)

We'be broken up but don't want to lose each other

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3 October 2010 (M) - I really dont know how i feel. me and my ex split up in january, there has been all the hate, nearly getting back together, thing. We were each others first love, we were engaged, lived together for 3 years, 1 and half years in our own place, and we were happy for most of it, ... (378 words)

Boyfriend went abroad, does he want me to stick around for him?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for nine months, the big challenge now is that he traveled abroad to study and the time difference is about six hours, we hardly talk because of that. It's been three weeks and some days now. Before he left though, he was a little ... (108 words)

My boyfriend wants me to be more sexual?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 13 years old. My boyfriend is 16 last week. The problem is, im a virgin...he isn't. He wants me to be more sexual, and i don't know what to say! He is really nice but he said it will never work unless i try to become a little bit more sexual with him! He said he isn... (134 words)

He wont take me out but he always goes out! Why?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello,me and my partner have been together 3 years now i have 2 chidren with him one from my previous realationship.he never likes to take me out eneywhere he just makes excusess all the time like he as no money but he goes out on his own why why?... (49 words)

Is there anything that males prefer?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I've not been on this website for a while! I'll just start by saying I've learned quite a lot about the opposite sex, and I managed to avoid them whilst doing my GCSE exams and I am proud to say I did quite well and got into the college of my choice, whils... (250 words)

I don't know if I should follow my head or my heart

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now , its been a very tough relationships as we both come from different backgrounds .. i'm from a quite nice one .. his isn't so fortunate .. but we love each other very much . i really truly love him and i know he does the ... (503 words)

My sister was caught stealing from my prospective employer but doesn't care

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have lost all respect for my sister. She was the person that I looked up to. The worst part is that she doesn't even seem sorry, and she isn't showing any guilt or remorse whatsoever. It's a long story.... I have just started back at college after working full time for the ... (176 words)

My boyfriend of three years tells me I am ugly!

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! What can you do if your bf told you that your ugly? I have beem with my bf for 3yrs, last year he told that im ugly and he don't know why he's in love with me, he says may is because of im good in sex, i was realy hurt and after that he asked to forgive him and a ... (100 words)

HELP! I LIED AND NOW I NEED HELP!

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so long story: Me and girlfriend broke up quite messily in February. I was devastated and begged her to get back but she wouldnt. I knew she still loved me alot at the time so I told her I was seeing another girl (when in fact I wasnt), when she asked who I tol... (245 words)

Secretly I don't want to get over him

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3 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello. I really like this one person in my class. I've liked him for more than a year now and he doesn't know about it. I really want to tell him but I fear rejection. Due to which I haven't really even displayed any remote emotions of liking him or anything. Initially I ... (160 words)

He wants me back but I don't trust him

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, am in a dilemma. Am torn apart i dont know what to choose please help. I was in a relationship for almost 3yrs with my ex boyfriend. It was a long distance relationship. I loved this man so much and i still do. During this 3yrs all was well until when he chang... (263 words)

I fear our relationship is falling apart

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend of six months has become really distant and I am concerned that he is cheating. He has questioned his love for me in the past, and has admitted to being "sick of me" before. From time to time he does make an effort, such as when he wants sex and when we have... (240 words)

I want her back and this makes me angry!

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF left me because she wants to "live life worry free and have fun" a few days ago which has me confused and hurt as it is, she said that i scared her when i said i wanted to settle down...she saw no future in me aswell. i keep trying to convince her to stay but she just ... (223 words)

Female Readers Only Please??--Irregular Periods??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ehhrr.. My periods started about a year and a half ago, and they are still very very irregular:/ I'm not sure if that is because I don't eat enough or what really, but I'm just wandering if there is a way to know that it's on it's way or not, because it's quite embarrasing when ... (172 words)

We are separating, but she means the world to me

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm after some advice, my wife and I are seperating and she is going home to live in Canada with my 2 year old daughter. We have both had huge money problems while we have been together for the last 6 years and there's been big issues with my family who have never welcomed ... (238 words)

Partner slept with my best friend who is in a relationship with my partners brother! They don't know I know please help me

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - It's so horrible it's eating away at me everyday i resent him a bit for it even though it happened before we were together but my friend told me before we even met. Basically my boyfriend has slept with my best friend,She then shortly after got into a relationship with his ... (231 words)

He's older but does he like me?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy I like at the moment is four years older than me. We get along very well and I feel like he likes me. However, I'm not sure if he pays extra attention to me because I am his youngest friend or because he actually likes me. Age isn't a problem for me, but to a lot of ... (107 words)

Are all relationships like this?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How happy can one really expect to be in the relationship. I am starting to think that living with most man is kind of a boring routine, that includes their excessive computer use, lack of sexual and romantic interest after the initial stages of relationship. So many man are ... (186 words)

We're both shy! Does he like me?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know if my cousin has a crush on me. What shall I do? It is quite complicated. I have a crush on him for 11 years. He lives in US and I live in HK so we only see each other for every two years. I am a Virgo and his birthday is on February. We both are shy and seldom ... (144 words)

Why does she keep throwing this in my face?

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i wil try to only add needed details..me and my ex broke up 2 years ago..i am with my new gf for a year now and dont want my ex back whatsoever..we have tried to be friends but there is a feeling of resentment towards eachother..(she broke up with me because i didnt know how ... (183 words)

Am I fat?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 5"3 nd weigh 130 pounds i have a flat tummy nd big breast for some men do you consider this fat? ... (22 words)

Twitter codes and teenagers

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3 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Ok this is probably the rarest question submitted. But i am hoping someone knows the answer. I have a 16 yr old daughter and as a concerned parent, I like to know what she is up to. I notice from time to time on her tweeter page she would type a bunch of letters like this: ... (128 words)

It would seem I am just another girl with relationship problems

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined. I don't want to say that I'm just another girl with a relationship problem/question, but it seems to be just that. I have diagnosed myself with the fact that I have commitment problems. I've noticed this early on. 8th ... (344 words)

Should I wait, or date other people?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love but we are broken up... We started going out october of last year and broke up in January. Since then he has dated one other girl. In June, he started hanging out with me again and told me that he still likes me and we hang out and talk on the phone a lot. At ... (139 words)

I love my girlfriend, but this other girl is just amazingly compatable.

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current girlfriend on and off for almost 7 years. We are very happy and I love her very much. However, recently I have met a new girl, and this girl has so much in common with me it is borderline eerie. Like the same movies, music, comics, games, we even ... (120 words)

Leave my girlfriend for someone I'm so compatible with?

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3 October 2010 (M)

What to do about my boyfriend? And his best friend?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now, and lately I've noticed some changes. I'll shorten this as much as I can.. He's kind of addicted to an online game, and I think that's where all of his problems come from. He gets upset at his family very ... (323 words)

2 hpt's are negative, but period hasn't started

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i had sex with a girl three weeks ago from today, she claims she hasnt gotten her period.. and the day we had sex was her last day taking lo seasonique. there is a little bump between her belly button and pubic area, i gave her two hpt's which both came negative.. What should i ... (74 words)

My friend isn't really happy when something good happens to me

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. I am 21 and have been best friends with my best friend for half my life. She means a lot to me, and i am closer to her than my family. We have shared a lot of experiences together. I really love her as a friend. However, she isnt a good friend. I always want the best f... (194 words)

Does he still wish we were together or is his he done?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i need help? i was married for 16 years together for 20 had 3 beautiful children together. built three homes without complication went thru a business deal with friends and got screwed.. my husband began drinking heavily and disconnecting from me..it progressively got worse i ... (288 words)

Distance or lost feelings?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago and I'm still not over him because he was my first love and everything. He said that he broke up with me because of the distance but after a few conversations he revealed that he's no longer in love with me. Everyone else still ... (266 words)

I'm leaving for two weeks, shouldn't he be wanting to spend his time with me?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 yrs and we have a beautiful 13 month old daughter together. All of my family lives across country so I try to go and visit a few times a year, he has yet to ever come with me. He always seems excited for our daughter and I to leave, I ... (283 words)

Body imperfections making me uncomfortable, suggestions needed on how to cope??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Have you ever felt uncomfortable infront of your boyfriend or girlfriend because of a flaw/imperfection you had? For example, a crooked nose, a birthmark smack dab in the center of your face. Did aknowledging the flaw ever come up in discussion between you two? ... (44 words)

Should I try to help him with this health issue?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope that terms i used are not too explicit, just to make it clearer. I've been with my boyfriend for longer than a year now. We have a long distance relationship. We've never had a couple before, so we took things a bit slow (we were friends long before dating), and we l... (339 words)

Would I mess up their friendship by asking one of them out??

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - There are these two girls in my class and they both like me, but they best friends. If I ask one out I might screw up there friendship. What should I do?... (32 words)

Can't remember how I was able to have an orgasm, need help please??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so frustrated. I've only cum once and now I don't know how i did it :( And it sucks because the last time I engaged in sexual intercourse, I was so close to climaxing but I couldn't for some reason... even though the sex was amazing as well as the foreplay. I haven't been ... (83 words)

My friend wants to move away to be with his girlfriend

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well my problem is that my best friend wants to move 1200 miles away to Texas to be with his ldr girlfriend. I don't agree with it at all but haven't said anything because he seems so happy. Personally I feel there that no boyfriend or girlfriend is worth it to leave everything ... (114 words)

First time sex went wrong

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i attempted sex for the first time last night. we were both confident about it and it felt right, but we couldn't manage to get him inside of me. it didnt hurt but we couldn't get him in the vagina. am i too small? or is it normal? i got upset because we wanted ... (89 words)

What should I do about my immature boyfriend?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years and everything was good..he's just really immature..and since i'm his first girlfriend he just seems really unexperienced and clumsy in a way..he makes jokes that ruin the moment..I don't even want to make out with him ... (141 words)

Does my daughter feel the need to be promiscuous?why?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my daughter just had a baby boy. she is 18. she was told by the father of her child to leave when they were living together before the birth. Except he didn't know she was pregnant, and doesn't want to tell him about the baby. she often leaves the baby with me on weekends to go ... (106 words)

Advice desperately needed on how to lift myself up and begin again??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in desperate need of some help, answers, something. I feel as if I am loosing my spirit if not entirely lost already. I have lost everything car, Home, spouse, career. and have ended up on the couch of my family. which is awful considering as a kid they were very verbally ... (133 words)

Met on a cruise, like her, facebook connection, be here March, what to do till then??

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey Everyone, So this summer me and my dad went on vacation on a cruise to Alaska. We were having a lot of fun and I met tons of people that I hung out with. We kinda formed a group that we hung out with with 4 guys and 3 girls. There was one girl that i liked for the cruise... (268 words)

First time blowjob.any tips?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive never done a blow job before and was thinkin about doin one for a guy i like a lot... any sugesstions on what the best way to do it is? hes had some experience so i dont wanna seem like its my 1st time... (45 words)

Guys, would older experienced man still try to pursue a teenaged girl??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if your an older guy who likes a severely younger girl (bout 6 yrs) and you have a lot of sexual experience but she has none so she shyes away from stuff would you still try to get with her? ... (42 words)

Girl likes me for my motorbike?whats going on?

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Aight, There is a girl that I have liked for a while. Known her but never talked to her, she never really noticed me. I bought a motorcycle and she noticed me. Got rims put on my truck and guess what, she started texting me. What is up with this, idk i guess she thinks I am ... (136 words)

She is separated, not divorced, is it worth spending my time, I do care for her??

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3 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in my early 30's. Have been married before and went through a horrific experience with the seperation. It's been a few years and I just started to get back into the swing of things and I'm now getting serious with this woman. She is appx the same age as me. When we firs... (221 words)

I cheated on my great husband with his brother..did I do it for approval?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is tall dark handsome and my best friend.Due to past abuse and other issues I have a severe (unnecessary ) prejudice against men, yet I somehow need their approval.I have always had sexual issues but my first husband was my first partner.My current husband is my ... (125 words)

Dating seems to be a lose/lose situation for me.

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have always failed to get into relationships that i actually feel are right for me, in fact i get so far with that person, then they lose interest when i ask them out. i have tried every approach, being nice, kind, being hard to get, being forceful and being laid back and ... (162 words)

Is he cheating or am I too suspicious??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 7 months is the first boy in my life. 3 months ago I found that he has been on many dating sites, all of them of sexual nature and he said it is old and that he doesn't use it anymore. I found old emails of him praising his ex girlfriend just 3 months before ... (265 words)

Is there hope for the two of us, he said he was finished, but is back for sex??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up a week ago, due to my bad habits i guess or so he says. He said he was tired of the little petty stuff i did and that they added all up and he cant deal with it anymore. I love this man with all my heart i wrote him a 6pg letter telling him my ... (239 words)

Need a little advice on going to the next step, help??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I have kissed this guy maybe 3 or 4 times.. And i think im ready to go to makeout. I know he wants to because he has told me he wants to before. I have never made out with a guy and im scared i wont do it right. Oh ya, He also has braces. I dont have braces but he does ... (76 words)

How do I figure him out, he acts like two different people?

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a coworker that I hang out with a lot. We started out as lunch buddies and then about his intentions though because at work, we flirt with each other and he is always nvading my personal space like pulling my hair or trying to steal my phone. We've even sat in the car ... (376 words)

Guys! Is being a flat chested girl a turn-off to you??

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i know this is probably asked all the time but I'm worried my boobs are really small and i'll dissapoint when my bra comes off. I wear a B cup and it's usually at least a slightly padded bra that i wear. without it, there's practically nothing there. I mean, it's not ... (141 words)

I am not attracted to my skinny boyfriend with his beer gut!

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3 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiancee just made 2 years we have a 6 month old son, i am 19 and he is 24 and we plan to get married next year. Here is my dilemma im in love with him but not physically attracted to him. I like my guys muscular at least somewhat, he is very skinny with a bit of a ... (424 words)