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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:i need help trying to decide if i shold tell husband whom i love that i am also in love with another man. i've been married over 15 years and we have had our ups and downs but i love him. the other man i have also known for same legnth of time and have never stopped loving him. the other man is divorced and has stated that he has in many ways been waiting for me. i have four wonderful kids with husband and am not planning on leaving but recently my husband has complained about our relationship and is not as happy as i think he could be. is this because i have always loved someone else also? should i tell my husband and let him decide what he wants to do? i am happy overall just probably not as happy as i could be but the worlds not perfect and i have kids so any advice would be helpful.
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reader, Ven +, writes (20 October 2010):
Ignore the other man for a moment. Your relationship with your husband is good, you have 4 kids, and you are worried when your husband complains about the relationship?
Work on your marriage. Whether or not it fails should have nothing to do with guys you have decided to let sit on the sidelines. Even if you aren't acting upon those desires, they are detracting from your marriage and that is something you should attempt to fix before you decide to bail.
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