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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My life is a reflection of the movie "The Notebook"...I'm torn between my ex and my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I had a child together and were together for 10 years. We divorced for stupid reasons and neither of us felt right about it but for some reason we went through with it anyhow. We were on again off again for 3 years until he finally married a girl after 2 months. ... (324 words)

I cant get over my break-up and I'm losing hope in myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My LDR girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 6 weeks now, about a week after we broke up she was already involved in another relationship with someone else. She told me this about 2 weeks after we broke up. It hurt like hell, all I could really do was sit there and ... (381 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I am afraid to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i tell my boyfriend i am afraid to have sex because: 1. i am afraid of getting pregnant 2. im still a virgin. we have been together for almost a year and i trust him. he means the world to me. also i did get to meet his brother and he was cool. should i not but to muc... (77 words)

Does ex-wife of 13 years want to try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Does ex-wife of 13 years want to try again? We both remarried and divorced. The first time we had a few drinks buzzed then 3 days later again..she said she was feeling vunerable becuase of a problem we have since resolved with our son. A month later we have more drinks not ... (107 words)

Does he love me? He walked out of my life for 5 months

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Would you say that a man loves you when he walked out of your life for 5 months. He promised that one day you would both be together, but his wife tried to kill herself and he found out and went back to her. so he just walked out of my life and no contact at all for five ... (134 words)

Is he just shy or not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy at my school who I really like. He's 6 months older than me(i'm 17) We've greeted twice at school but never had a proper conversation...so I added him on facebook but when we chatted I was the one asking all the questions. Like I would ask what his favourite ... (163 words)

Could he be gay/bi? And what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and a sophmore in highschool. I am a bi guy. Nobody knows that I am bi. I have a huge crush on this guy. He doesnt know im bi, and I'm not sure if he is gay or bi. He takes every chance he has to hug me, and he said that I was cute. In our one class we have together, we ... (272 words)

I had an abortion when very young. Will I be able to get pregnant later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i just want to ask some information about something. When i was 14 years old i sleep with my boyfriend 17 years old that time and got positive 6 weeks. when my mother find it out she was very very angry and tell me theres no way for her to accept the situation since im s... (370 words)

My girlfriend's ex is stalking her and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm dating my ex-girlfriend again. We broke up about 2 and a half years ago and she dated this other guy for about 2 years. They broke up about 9 months ago, I dated other girls but none of them really fit the bill so I decided to try again with my ex. We've been dating for ... (379 words)

Jealously to a whole new level

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my Girlfriend have been actively in a relationship for a little over 2 years now. However we have expirenced a few problems in the relationship. The main of which being after a drunken text on my part to the wrong party, she has completely lost trust in me. This happened ... (173 words)

He tried to hit me and then spit in my face!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the thing, We had a argument which lead to him trying to physically throw me out, and then when i started to fight back he spit on my face. I love him but i feel like he went too far and now i don't think i can stay with him. He said sorry so many times, but i don't ... (81 words)

Moving On From One Night Of Horror In A Happy Marriage Of 10 yrs??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married now for almost 10 years. My husband and I have what most people consider a great relationship. We don't argue or stupid things and when we do, the fights don't involve name calling, profanity, or low blows...and we make up quickly. Those things are what ... (298 words)

I tried to get her interested in me, never planning on following through, and now I've got a problem!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've got myself into an awkward position. I am married 12 years with two children, very happy and wouldn't change that for the world. I love my wife dearly. However, there was a similarly aged lady at work who I thought was quite attractive, she is also married, no chil... (208 words)

Losing my virginity..how and where?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i'm 14 and think i am bi. I want to lose my virginity, but i don't know where to meet someone at my age. Also i have been talking to someone on msn who is gay and 17 and say they will help me lose it, but he doesn't live near me, though he did say he would meet me by where... (87 words)

I think she likes me, despite the boyfriend and her telling me she just wants to be friends, how do I not mess this up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - she told me she just wants to be friends am really heart broken she has a boyfriend but i dont think shes that happy and i know its wrong to case somebody with a boyfriend but we get on so well she comes out with me most lunch times at work she laughs all time at m... (163 words)

I cannot have an orgasm unless I dirty talk to my boyfriend about him with other women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This question is quite embarrassing for me to admit. I have been with my boyfriend for close to a year. I am having a problem more and more lately with not being able to get an orgasm unless I give him dirty talk involving a made up scenerio with him and other women having sex. ... (220 words)

My husband is no longer nice to me and I'm 3000 miles away from my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I loved my husband more than anything but a few months after we got married he is no longer nice to me i've tried ignoring it and making light of it but its come to the point where i ignore him because i hate him yelling at me however he still says nasty things to me. I have ... (314 words)

Its insane for me to still love this guy but I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically I'm heartbroken... There was a guy I gave two years of my life too, devoted pretty much... I saw nothing but him in my life... He wasn't the best piece of work to be honest... He made me feel like all my friends were out to get me, like nobody cared but him... He used ... (214 words)

My jealousy's slowing us down.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a very jelous girl. and i think my boyfriend is getting tired of that, and he thinks i don´t trust him. what should i do ?... (28 words)

Why does he criticize me but not do anything to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I lost my job few months ago and been very stressed lately dat i'v lost weight. My fiance always complain abt my clothes dat r now bigger dan me bt he doesn't buy me anything. He buys himself clothes every now and den and sumtyms when i'm wit him (when he buys) i get so ... (100 words)

Should I give him more space?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He said we could still be friends, and i want to. We still love each other but broke up 2 days ago. NOt necessarily because my my insecurity and trust problems.. assumptions, but it made us unhappy. I still want this and I think he does too, he just wanted me to better myself. ... (272 words)

What does it feel like to have someone you consider a life partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What does it feel like to be with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with and to have them want to be with you too?... (30 words)

What distinguishes boy from man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a question mostly for guys but input from the ladies is also appreciated. My question is: What distinguishes boy from man?... (23 words)

How do I find a foreplay/fetish partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a fetish for cotton, namely cotton petticoats/underskirts. I also like foreplay and doing it partially dressed...I'm not interested in intercourse. I've been attempting to look for a partner to share my desires with, but almost everyone I've met just wants "se... (142 words)

Messing around with both of my best friends and now its really weird

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, i'm 15 and i have two best friends who are boys (we'll call them tom and james) it's like us 3 are really close. Not so long ago tom started sort of coming onto me and at first i was like :S i don't know he's my best friend but then because it didn't feel wrong i ... (472 words)

Why does he keep asking "what are you thinking"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Recently me and a guy friend met up for drinks and i ended up staying over at his place. He has a girlfriend and nothing happened between us that night. The thing i find a bit odd is when we got to his we were a bit worse for wear me more so than him and we were sitting on the ... (122 words)

LDR g/f wants a break but says she still loves me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met my girlfriend four months ago on a mission trip to Ukraine. It was a very emotional experience visiting orphanages with children with special needs. Apart from that experience I met her and we had a connection right away and built up our relationship up. One thing led to ... (831 words)

Was my wife just joking about us becoming swingers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife and i were talking about our sex the other night and i said maybee we need to spice things up. she says maybe we should be swingers. i asked if thats what she wants she said yes. a min later she says she was just kidding. i just dont know if she really was.... (56 words)

I'm heartbroken at being dumped because we got uninvolved with each other's daily lives... I need to hear some different perspectives!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive had a relationship before, and ive been dumped before. This time its worse. Basically, ive been going out with him for a while now, and it might just be me but i get used to things, i get attatched and when they leave i cant cope myself. He moved away for university, ... (219 words)

Please give me some ideas on how to find a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys this is undead here for the first time in my lifer am planing to get a girlfriend and gf means not just for flirting or to have sex with her for everything and I want to stay with her for whole she got to be my first best and last gf so I want that kinda girl so pls ... (75 words)

Military boyfriend out of touch and I'm beside myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is in the military, and last week he told me he was going away for a week, now he's out of touch and I'm beside myself. He's turned off his phone and not answering any messages I've sent him, as we usually message every day and I have no idea when or if I'm going ... (73 words)

Did he really mean that he doesn't want to be a boyfriend because he can't be a good one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex broke up 1 month ago. We were together for almost 5 months, which was my longest relationship. Anyway, he always said that if we broke up that he wanted us to stay friends. I usually stay friends so that's not a problem for me. Now that we're broken up, I dont ... (356 words)

Should I keep my baby? It's all up to me....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and now im 4 weeks pregnant. Im 19 years old and I don't feel I'm ready to be a mother. I want an abortion but I'm scared to kill my baby, most of all, I'm afraid he won't be there during and after the pregnancy the way he is suppose to. ... (120 words)

I am a wifey in distress! Should I try to work it out with him or just throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a Wifey in distress. I don't think my husband is in love with me whats worse is I think he is being unfaithful. We have been together since we were 14 ( I know right) we are now 29, we have 4 kids and we are busy people. He used to be affectionate, and just involved ... (290 words)

Girlfriend moving to Brazil - She says she loves me but I need advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and have been in a relationship with a 24 year old woman for 3 months. We have done so much together and our relationship has been developing fast. We go on trips together, enjoy the outdoors, and just love being together. She says that she loves me and I love her. She ... (269 words)

Am I nuts for worrying that she'll keep my personal information to herself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Can someone give me some advice? I've always been a person that will be honest in a relationship. I think its a good attribute to have just so there are never anything to worry about, coming back to haunt me, etc... I have been very honest with my girlfriend of a 6 months, a... (119 words)

Should I walk out of her life? She doesn't want an LDR and has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, i fell for this girl and it was the biggest mistake of my life because when she found it hard to have a long distance relationship she broke up with me. 3 days later she got a new boyfriend and it hurt me, really did kill me inside that i couldnt help but cry. i told her ... (164 words)

My mate and I fancy the same guy but the rumor is that he likes her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mate and I fancy the same guy but there are rumors that he likes my mate. me and him are just friends and i dont want to ask him out myself. please help.... (34 words)

What is my girlfriend thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So heres my problem: My girlfriend hasnt been so affectionate lately so i brought it up with her and asked if there was something wrong and if she wanted to talk about anything. so she kinda gave me round about answers like "idk" and such so eventually i got her to talk. Sh... (162 words)

What's been your experience with the morning-after pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had to take the Plan B emergency contraceptive this morning after a condom slipped with my boyfriend last night and I had forgot to take my birth control. I have read that it is 85% effective and am just curious if anyone has had experiences with it and whether they have been ... (64 words)

Jealous partner, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for just over 2 months now, I've been really happy in the relationship, we are happy together and nothing has gone wrong so far, well that's what I thought. We went out to a party the other night and he went to the toilet and I was chatting to my f... (468 words)

I don't want to spoil his new-found fun with his long lost daughter but how do I get him to see our daughter needs quality time too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my husband of three years, has a daughter by a previous relationship and hasnt seen her for 5 years. The Ex now says its ok for him to see her. I am ok with that, but in the 3 years we've been married he has worked almost every week 6 or 7 days a week, any free time is ... (200 words)

The slightly immature girlfriend... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is awsome. until a few months ago, we are constantly fighting and it sucks. she gets mad when i dont send her a txt message first to say "hey whats up?' i am a person who doesnt txt for no reason and i have told her that but she doesnt seem to listen, i think its ... (187 words)

Is it possible there is no pleasure in sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible for a promiscuous person to not enjoy sex? Why sleep around if there is no pleasure? ... (19 words)

Can one brand of the pill be okay for years then suddenly not work for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can one brand of the pill be okay for years then suddenly not work for you? ... (16 words)

He is finishing his labs and I feel neglected and sad... What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is busy with his final year report in the university. I feel so neglected by him he is still in his lab doing experiments at 1am................ =( What can I do to spice up our life I feel so sad...... (48 words)

What to do in this lose/lose situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - iam so worried and i really need help. me and my boy fiend are in a long distance relationship (we talk on phone every night since we have met and text each other all day). he loves me and i die on him. my mom and his whole family know about our this relationship and they are ... (284 words)

Our anniversary plans have turned into a fight, should I apologize?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My bf and I had a petty argument this week while organising a weekend away for our anniversary, and he was really stressed out at work and I tried to help, but in these circumstances he is the better one to plan holidays as he knows who, what and where and its in his nature. ... (575 words)

I am unsure of whether or not this woman from one of my college classes is interested.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with a woman for 5 years. After a tumultuous breakup, involving her cheating, time has passed and we are friends and I feel great about life and everything. My problem is this: I have been out of the dating game for so long that I am unsure of whether ... (440 words)

Is my husband in love with his best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, Let me preface this by saying that I am a man and my husband is also a man, so if that makes you uncomfortable this is not the post for you... So here it is. I'm not sure where to start so I'll start with my husband and I have been married for 4 years. From t... (518 words)

What date is the first kiss usually initiated on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Im 18. He's 20. We've been dating for about a month. Met up three times during the month, two of them which were dates. He hasnt made any move other than putting his arm around me on the bus journey home, feeding me icecream in the cinema and giving me reallyy... (121 words)

Why am I feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - why am i feeling like this,i split with my partner of 15 years then after 2 years we got back together again,it was good in the beginning,now i dont feel happy again i dont know why,he is a good man.i keep having panic attacks and anxiety.an ex recently contacted me then i ... (74 words)

In the heat of the argument I told him he has a tiny penis! I know I have screwed up, so how do I fix this?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but hes not small hes like 6.5 in. Ive been told never tell a guy he has a ... (171 words)

He's proposed, but where is the ring?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend proposed to me a few weeks ago...Kind of. Basically, the subject has come up once or twice, in passing. He knew I would say yes if he asked. We were lying in bed, drifting off to sleep, and he started to speak, being very hesitant and sounding a bit nervous, ... (216 words)

Could my dad be cheating on my mom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I was browsing through my dad's phone and saw a msg from a woman in our church giving him her banking details and said " i luv u c u on d....." What does that mean? Is he cheating on mom.... (45 words)

How to stay friends with an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stay friends with my ex? I'm still not over him, but he seems to be very much over me. When he mentions other girls, it bothers me. Or when he flirts with other girls. Since we're over, it shouldn't matter that much to me. We go to the same school and have the same ... (109 words)

How can I make him stay at school so I can get to know him better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi how do i convince this boy i like not to leave school because in the UK you can leave school and get a collage thing this summmer and i want him to least to stay on so i can know him better and be with him i just really dont want him to see him leave please please he... (77 words)

Is it normal for him to masturbate to porn whenever I am not at home?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my guy masturbates every time I am not home to porn is this normal? Even if we have sex on a regular? It always makes me angry when I find out , should I be worried ? I have talked to him about it but he says its normal but it hurts my feelings should I feel this way? He says ... (105 words)

Why wont my ex return my belongings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I split up about two weeks ago, and he still has some of my stuff at his place. I have asked for these things to be retuned, and a week ago I got some of them, but not the most important ones. Last meeting ended up with a fight as he revealed he had looked ... (342 words)

Was I just second best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i was a bit bored the other day and decided to look through the guy im seeing's facebook not to check up on him or anythin just out of curiosity really. So anyway we've been seein each other since the beginning of the year but we started hangin out and that last november ... (253 words)

Should I confront her again and let her know that I don't appreciate her calling my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age - I'm in a 5yr. relationship with an super guy. He's everything that I could ask for in a man. He's a real man. But I am having a few problems with his female neighbor. She's an attractive black female, but he says that she's not his type and not to be jealous because nothing is ... (257 words)

Pregnancy tests have come back negative, but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My periods are 4 days late. I took 2 pregnancy tests and they both came out negative. I've never missed periods before and they are always on time. I had sex 2 days after my last periods. Could i be pregnant?... (43 words)

Why cant he even show our children some fatherly love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,i once was married to a guy whom i got two kids with. My in laws recognized me as his wife but he delayed too much in officiating the matter. I later moved out of the relationship with my kids. He never bothered about our whereabouts until six months later when he inquired ... (153 words)

How to help a friend who is terribly ill, has an abusive husband, and lost all contact with the outside world?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Early this year, an old friend from high school reconnected with me after fifteen years of absence. I was at the time recovering from a harrowing illness and was out of work, so as time and health allowed, we took our kids to hang out together. She was one of the very few ... (713 words)

Do men really get afraid?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) age 51-59 - My boss and I have been fooling around for about 6 months, no sex, no kissing, just fondling. We haven't gone further as he is very afraid of my husband finding out and hurting him. We are both married with children. Yet we continue to fool around. Do men actually get afraid?... (53 words)

Is the pill making me emotional or is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Girls. I am really very emotional and to be honest, a bit of a mess everytime my period arrives. I get so low and cry at pretty much anything that makes me even remotely sad. I am on the pill. Is it the pill or just normal? I can deal with it myself. I just feel bad for my ... (66 words)

Should I take one more chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I asked a girl to a game for Tuesday. She excitedly agreed. Everything seemed set but then she remembered she had to do something for her sister, and said she'd lemme know. I found out that I told her the wrong day for the game the next day, so I told her the ... (183 words)

Life after depression and big relationship problems, is there such a thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Thank you in advance for reading this. This is not a short post and I am not in a very stable state of mind so the writing may reflect that. And thanks again for bearing with me. And I really appreciate every piece of advice I can possibly get. My story is this:... (1515 words)

Is it a problem I can't fully retract my foreskin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't retract when i have an erection; but when it's not erected; i can retract it but i never went under the head because i'm scared the skin is so tight it won't go back like it was :/ Is it a problem or is it ok if i just leave it like that? I mean it's not a problem for ... (83 words)

I really like this guy but the sex is terrible because of his small penis!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with this guy for 8 mnths,my problem is that hes got a small penis.its like 3 inches but i didnt mind until we had sex,i didnt feel anything nothing what so ever.is there something wrong with me?i need help.or is it too small.i really like this guy but our sex life is ... (63 words)

My girlfriend asked who I was attracted to when I first started school, I told her the truth and now she wants a break!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Thanks for checking my post So here's the situation. Yesterday, I had a VERY rough day. I was talking to my girlfriend, when all of a sudden she asks me this question. "Who do you find attractive when you first entered school?". I said that another girl is ... (280 words)

My LDR guy is coming to visit and he wants to have sex with me, but I have no idea how to do it!

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well im from NZ and im having a LDR with a guy from Australia. we've met once when i was in Australia, well he is comeing to visit me in 2 days and he'll be staying in a hotel and he wants to have sex with me. im ready to have sex with him but the thing is i dont know how to do ... (88 words)

Is he just acting shy or does he want to have sex with me?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey friends.. I am a 19 yrs. Old girl. Recently, i found myself in a great dilemma.. and want to ask your opinion on the same. There is a guy with whom, i am going around from the last 2 yrs. We have hugged and kissed each other but since we both are extremely shy, we never... (236 words)

I think he rejected me by ignoring the bit about dinner, was he ever interested in me or was it just a bit of fun?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 3 months ago I started a new job. I never go into work situations thinking I'll meet anyone who might be boyfriend material, so I never expected this... I start work late, a guy in my team starts early, so he's always there when I walk into work. I never really thought a... (619 words)

Is my partner gay because he sends rude texts to his male friends?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi so i have a burning question my bloke talks dirty to his mates and also send really rude and descriptive disgusting texts to each other what i want to know is is he gay ? might sound silly but id like oppinions from people who ,maybe do this or know of people that do it ... (57 words)

I am too quick in bed and I am not satisfying my partner, what should I do?

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - when i am with my sex partner, My liquid is falling quickly, my partner has not got satisfaction with my sex, pls. advice , what i do... (27 words)

Why can't I find a girlfriend? I'm tired of being so lonely.

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well alright...here goes! I'm a 19 year old Asian American. Throughout my childhood, I have had my string of girls that had a crush on me but I had followed my parent's strict code of "no girlfriend before college" and just sat idly as those girls move on with their lives. ... (182 words)

A guy new to dating needs advice

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old college freshman who has never been in a relationship, nor have I ever dated in my life. I am not good at body language. I am the type of guy that would be considered a loner due to my lack of social interaction with people, especially those who I don't ... (1563 words)

There is no room at the Inn for our best friend!

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have 2 best friends, named Ashley and Mary. Ashley has a job and is going to school, and Mary doesn't have a job and is doing an internship and not getting paid for it, and I have a job and I'm going to school. We have all been talking about moving out for some time now bu... (248 words)

How do I get their father to take an interest?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married and had two kids with my husband. After five years i quit due to some misunderstandings with my husband. I left with my two kids whom i am still taking care of all by myself.My peers and relatives advices me to fall in love again and get married since am still yo... (147 words)

My boyfriend cheated and lied like he was going for an emmy!

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend charles and I have been together for a year and 5 months. We have a three month old baby boy. During the last few weeks of my pregnancy we took a break. during this break he proposed that we would only have sex with each other we would just have a little space and ... (403 words)

He just doesn't seem to make an effort anymore!

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - since my boyfriend started his apprenticeship 4 months ago he has never set foot in my house, i always have to go down to him. which until yesterday never bothered me. it was my birthday yesterday and he never even made the effort to appear. am a over reacting or should he be ... (88 words)

We broke up, but now she is cheating on new b/f with me!

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok ill start off by saying that i dated my ex for 2 and a half years and we were friends for like 6 months before that. We took everything slow and we fell in love with each other. we had some problems at the end and she started ignoring me and eventually broke up with me. ... (287 words)

How to completely satisfy a circumcised man?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i will be with a man who is circumcised i want to please him and leave him satisfied...since i always leave my guys satisfied by my bjs, but ive never had a circumcised penis before. i would like to know if the head [underneath the head] is more sensitive than a noncircumcised ... (77 words)

Sexy chatters don't know they are neighbours who don't speak

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is very strange but its truth one of my friend from 2months chatting with a girl he'll ask her everything about sex dirty talk everything and she didn't see his face and never know him even she know he's stranger also ready to have sex with him but my friend know who is she the ... (94 words)

I am hooked on the calls from a married man

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27 October 2010 (F)

age - I am in love with a married man. We have known each other since High School. He has been married for 29 years. We have been talking for 1 year, we have never touched. We have talked about sex 7 or 8 times, the other times we talk about families, work and we laugh a lot. I have ... (254 words)

I was a spoilt brat used to getting my own way

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and i havnt had the best figures to follow i love my family but they arent educated and i appreciate them for getting me to where i am, i am the first o go to colege in my family besides my father who i didnt live with growing up, and i am too passive and need ... (242 words)

Husband bullies teen daughter from previous marriage how do I get him to stop?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i met my husband when my daughter was 1 he was great with her till she hit puberty now he hates her. He blames her for everything expects perfection from her and hardly acknowledges the things she does he calls her lazy, putrid and a spazz. I have 2 sons with him 6 and 5 ... (311 words)

After two full on weekends he has stopped texting me goodnight

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27 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - i met this guy and he has took me out every day over the weekend for the past 2weeks and i think we have fallen fast for eachother we have this feeling like weve known eachother forever! im very confurtable with him we talk about everything together and he says he really likes ... (141 words)

What is acceptable to text/ talk to opposite sex friends about, when in a relationship with another?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I first found this site when my bf who I trust started having a large increase of female friends. This really bothered me becuase he would text them all of the time. They would talk about sex and their relationships to him. Now after a year together ... (274 words)

Should I do something with my hair to get this guy to notice me?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy at school but i dont know how to get him to notice me. should i do something with my hair or face? what do i do to get with him!!! he is so cute help asap thanks!... (45 words)

Already jealous of girls in sexy Halloween outfits

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are going to a club for Halloween, and obviously the place is gonna be full of skantily clad, but for the most part hot girls. I know he doesn't want me to dress like that, and out of respect for him (and for myself as well, although I do have ... (207 words)

LDR boyfriend present ideas?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a LDR. It's great! I want to send him something for his birthday that's coming up soon. Does anyone have any ideas? i need as many ideas as i can get. Lots of ideas please! thank you!... (39 words)

How do I handle my boyfriend's mother? She's driving me crazy!

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for 1.5 years and we've been living together for 4 months. He's the only child and lives with his parents. At first I didn't have a problem with his mom, but as time went by i realized that there are some annoyance caused by his mom. I ignored it at... (634 words)

I'm a virgin but my new boyfriend really likes anal sex, and his ex liked it too! What should I do?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 5 days and 8.5 hours is the love of my life. We have known each other for almost a month now and never go anywhere without each other! I'm a virgin and my boyfriend likes anal sex a lot. Should I just tell him I don't want it.. He says his ex really liked it ... (63 words)

My wife says sex makes her feel nasty?

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have asked for help before and you guys have tried but it's been almost 2 years and I still can't get my wife to have sex hardly at all I still can't get a hand job, I can't even get a kiss goodnight here lately. I love my wife very much but I don't know how much longer I can ... (189 words)

My best friend is engaged, but I love her! what do I do?

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been best friends with this girl for 4 years. And in love with her for at least 3 of those years. She has been in a relationship since not long before I met her and has recently gotten engaged. We go out together to lunch, run errands, and spend copious amounts of time ... (308 words)

I want to know about her sexual experiences but I'm afraid to ask

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27 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I am in the first sexual relationship after a LTR ended. She is just a little more sexually experienced than me, and I find myself wanting to try things I've never done before sexually. I hate to ask details about her past, because i dont want to pry and I know from expereince ... (181 words)

We've been trying to save this relationship for 2 years

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 8 months. For about 2 years we've been trying to fix our relationship. We mostly fought because of my jealousy, insecurities, and low self esteem. I guess I would nag him a lot. However, lately he wants to end the relationship. He ... (131 words)

Can I save what is left of my marriage?

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - im having an affair with a 21 year old, but are still very much inlove with my wife, who on her end claim she divorced me coz of this girl, i so much wana get back with my wife and make things rite with her but only problem is this girl fell pregnant and is now 4 months... Is ... (86 words)

Do you think this woman is a transsexual ?

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I had intercourse with a woman last night who was subtly, but adamantly wanting to have sex with her anally. This really weired me out as I had never done that before. No matter what I did she always found a way to position herself so that I would be having anal sex with her. ... (108 words)

Am I doing the right thing by not saying anything until I am sure I am pregnant?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i woke up this morning with a predicament you see i woke this morning and realized that i'm two weeks late for my period and to add to it the possible dad and i no longer speak to each other because hes now my ex.. to make it a little more complicated i refuse to tell him... (241 words)

3 months later still crying over a 10 month relationship?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me about 3 months ago and I'm still not over it. The relationship only lasted about 10 months, but I know I really loved him and still do. 3 months seems like too long to be crying over a 10 month relationship. I see him almost everyday because of school, so ... (95 words)

Why does she need a visa?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is the story since I've been living in mexico for a long while now, one of my bff's is like having a "long distance ""engagement"" thing" sorta. She's mexican and he is american. So common right? The thing is that she told me what are the benefits for her getting a "K" ... (104 words)

Why am I suddenly thinking of my ex?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, so I had a bf ~5 years when I was 17. We went out for just over a year and then broke up-we have hardly spoken since. I thought I had got over him and in fact I hadn't thought about him for a number of years. However, just recently I've started thinking about him. I've ... (188 words)

Is there a way to proceed without flirting?

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm irredeemably serious and kind of shy. There's a girl I really like who's very outgoing and fun-loving (though I think she sometimes withdraws to just be alone for a while - not sure), and I'm just not capable of flirting. Shyness isn't so much the problem: I can b... (169 words)

Why would he get sent to jail, and what should I do?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Moderator Note: Two questions combined from same asker. So me and this guy I'm "talking" to and have been for 3 months, go to diiferent schools. They are in the same city and county and stuff just diffrent highschools. Well we ate in a sexual relationship but that not importan... (155 words)

When is it the end?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you honestly know when your relationship is at a end point... (13 words)

Best friendship at an end?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got engaged to my boyfriend and thought that my best friend would phone or visit to congratulate me after I messaged her to let her know but I haven't heard from her. She had a minor operation two weeks ago but she has been out doing errands so this wouldn't prevent her ... (173 words)

She doesn't want to date right now but I don't want some other guy to get her!

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so theres this girl I like and shes a really nice girl. Shes the kinda girl that doesnt really want to date anybody till shes thinking about getting married. Shes really funny and cute and I think she really likes me but I'm not sure if she wants to date anybody right now. ... (69 words)

Is it time to give things up?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age - I am a 56 year old woman,in the middle of a divorce after 30 yrs. 2 years ago I met a woman 10 years younger than me, who has been in a relationship with her lesbian lover for 8 years. They were very happy together, until we fell in love 2 years ago. Until then I had never... (136 words)

Do you think my long distance boyfriend fancies her?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We are both in uni in Europe (different countries). We meet once in a while and I am crazily in love with him and it seems its the same with him. He keeps flying down to visit me and he's coming to mine tomorrow. He's a little older than me. We talk a lot on the phone- a lot... (298 words)

I begged him not to break up with me

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,My boyfriend and been together for three years. He and I was in love but lately we been arguing and we broke up. He told me we have to be friends because he says he is scared. I beged himm but he wants to be friends with me and still talk to me. But i asked him if he can ... (163 words)

Dating a week and his already in love ...

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i havent been dating for very long (one week) and hes already told me he loves me. my problem with that is..i dont feel the same way. i care about him and love hanging out with him and our friend who for now im going to name c. also lately since a(my bf) and i ... (251 words)

What changes after sex?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So im just going to be out and open with this question. What happens to your body after you have sex for the 1st time? (and your under 18) Btw im not pregnant... (33 words)

Is she denying that she's really in love with me or what?

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a female friend, in fact she calls me her 'best friend', we hang out almost every day, and if we don't hang out we'll normally text or chat to each other. However, she doesn't treat me like 'just a friend', sometimes she'll want to hold my hand, rub my leg/arm/hair, ho... (248 words)

He doesn't help with our daughter much...what should I do?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, So I (26) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (25) for 2.5yrs. We live together and we have a 15 month old daughter. It seems every 3 months he gets very irritated and will pick a fight with me over something small, but it will turn in to a huge fight. He h... (291 words)

Is my husband sexually attracted to men?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years now. Over the last 2 years my husband has developed an interest in anal sex. I didn't think twice about it because he is very masculine. Last night I found she-male and men on men websites on the search history of his phone. We don't have ... (222 words)

I don't get any attention from him....am I wasting my time with this guy?

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27 October 2010 (?) - Dear Cupid, I need to know whether I should stay or go, my boyfriend of almost 4 years just doesn't seem too interested in trying to make our relationship work. A few months ago we stopped having sex and he stopped wanting it and so did I, I thought we should have a break to ... (211 words)

Should I wait or run from this guy, as fast as I can?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy 4 montha ago. i stayed focus because i was just afraid. he told me one day that i was all he was looking for. a week ago he told me he needed space because he wanted to try to make it work with his wife. he said at least if it don't work he can say he tried? i told ... (86 words)

I want his phone number..should I just ask?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy in my chemistry class that I really like, and I'm pretty sure he likes me back. We sneak looks at each other in class and always sit right next to each other in lab. Today I was with him and another friend and we skipped lab- instead we sat outside, telling ... (112 words)

Lately, I've been distancing myself from my boyfriend..and don't know why?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello im wondering if anyone can give me advice on what i am experiencing at the moment. I am nearly 22 and my bf of 6 months is also the same age. He is my 2nd relationship. I broke up with my 1st bf of 2 years about 5 months before i met my bf. It was a mutural breakup ... (189 words)

Doubts or insecure?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Me (28) and my boyfriend (30) have been together for a year and 6 months, of which we have been living together for a year. We are very happy together, respect, love and treasure each other and best of all we are best friends. I know that he feels the same and I f... (439 words)

How am I supposed to move on when he's being so lovely towards me?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Dearcupids! I need help concerning an ex boyfriend. He finished with me in April this year, claiming he wasnt ready for a relationship. It was a fair enough reason, although I have to admit that the relationship wasn't that great due to the fact that I couldnt be my tr... (365 words)

He dumped me. Why doesn't he move on?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend dumped me not too long ago. (2 months) Im still hurt but moved in with dignity and havent looked back. However he is contacting everyone we know mutually and making childish stories up such as Im harassing him. It isnt just the stories but numerous people are ... (143 words)

Should I go for the long distance guy or overlook my feelings for him and try harder on my relationship with my boyfriend?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i have a boyfriend who i have been with for 2 weeks, but weve liked each other for a while. i really like him and want to be with him and all my friends and my family likes him. he helped me through my last relationship with my cheating boyfriend and im so grateful to ... (186 words)

Only friends, I want more!

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27 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a question, and i need your help. I am in love with a women that i flirted with over two yrs ago, and we never really had sex except once was ok, most of the time we were drunk and did not really rock any of our worlds and mostly because i was feeling guilty because ... (263 words)

Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?

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27 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he got my phone number off of the ... (967 words)