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41-50,
*vis101
writes:I broke up with a man that I was TOTALLY in love with...because he said he was not "in love" with me after 10 months of seriously dating. I broke up with him as soon as he confirmed this. I did this because another man who had been after me was quite in my face at the moment. I took his offer of "being his lady". Needless to say, this has not worked out. The REBOUND man has been discovered to be an alcoholic, verbally abusive and recently, physically-alienating sort. The REBOUND was so tempting, and good at first. But now, I regret so much giving up my ex...I feel lonely, cuckold and my ex will not even call or email me back. what should I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 October 2010):
Why would you want your ex back anyway? He told you he wasn't 'in love' with you. Therefore, he's not the right guy for you either. He doesn't love you
I think you'd do much better to be single, focusing on your own life right not. Neither of these two men are right for you, and you shouldn't be with either.
And be very careful of the type of man you're attracted to. you went for one who was clearly not in love with you, then another who was an alcoholic. Make sure you're not going for flawed men.
Be single. There is no use in you going for rubbish men just because you feel lonely. that's the wrong thing to do. Your ex wasn't in love, so isn't the right guy, and the less said about the Rebound, the better.
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