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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

By the hair of my chinny chin chin...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my question is a quick one, im dating a smart beautiful girl whos been great so far and i have nothing bad to say about her, theres just one thing that bugs me - every time im with her, she has a few hairs on her chin and i just dont have to heart to say anything. what ... (63 words)

Can a gift get an ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men really care if you put a lot of thought into a gift for them or not? i bought my then boyfriend a vintage concert t-shirt to replace the one he got destroyed and had to give it to him after we broke up cause i don't need it... He was speachless when I gave it to him, of ... (121 words)

What should a girl do in this situation of flirting with her friend's boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Situation: Girl A has a boyfriend. Her friend Girl B "heavily flirts" with Girl A's boyfriend a couple of times, whilst talking online. The boyfriend breaks up with Girl A shortly after this [not due to the flirting, just for some other reason]. A year later.. Would Gi... (97 words)

Why is it so difficult to find a really nice and honest man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 39 year old single mom with 2 kids. I've been single for almost 4 years now. Of course my kids mean the whole world to me, but at times I do need someone for intimate moments, to share the good and bad times together, to talk about everything and anything... I just can't ... (101 words)

How do I answer the doctor's question?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - before i ask my question i really need to ask you not to consider my age, i just need help on the question thank you. I want to go on the pill soon because i have very heavy periods and every month they kill! I know some of the questions that they ask and there is one that i a... (114 words)

What kind of gift do you get for the man who has everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I know this is very early but I'm eager to get my best friend a present as soon as possible-but he seems to have everything already! He's got nice clothes, colognes, guitars, books by the thousands on his Kindle, and movies and music...It's very frustrating :/ ... (120 words)

Are baby steps the right way to go about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my ex still, its been 3 months till our horrible break up and well, he called me (i was strong) and he said he wanted to work things out, things were okay and kinda flirty, but if hes working things out or trying to work things out shouldnt he CALL or text! i ... (267 words)

This is driving me nuts... I'm heartbroken he cheated and we've not even met yet!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - whats happening???? I met a guy on the net 2 years ago and we have become very close, get on wicked its unreal and we have a great connection... he says he loves me and wants to marry me... we havent even met each other yet!!! he occasionally spits his dummy out for no reaso... (184 words)

The thought of infertility scares me as I'm desperate to have children when I'm older.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Around four months ago I found out my now ex boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend, and soon after she announced she was pregnant. However, although I believe it is his baby, she has told me herself that she 'thinks' the baby is his, but she's not sure as the dates don't ... (234 words)

We won't be talking as often... how do I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend, "Jane," and I have been best friends for 7 years now. Her boyfriend and I go to the same school while she goes to a different school. She had a barn dance last weekend and her bf was unable to go, so she invited me. We were drinking and got pretty drunk.. ended up ... (314 words)

He's smoking again and I consider this like cheating!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 20 (almost 21) and have been together for a little over four months now. He was a smoker for two years before he started dating me and he told me he would quit once we started dating; that was the ultimatum I set for him and he chose me. Well, he DID ... (210 words)

Ex says he can't trust me but I want him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were very close friends for 3 years before we started going out, i thought he was amazing, then suddenly there was just no trust in the relationship. He constantly went through my phone and I admit, I don't really have girlfriends so all my friends were ... (161 words)

Should I hang in there? I don't want to be played games with...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age - I met a man at church and he will wink at me and we always look into each other eyes. last sunday i went up to him while he was sitting down and said good morning to him. he had a big smile on his face and he pulled my head down next to his. after that the same sunday he came ... (202 words)

High sex drive, don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a very high sex drive. I don't want to break my promise to God of having premarital sex. I don't want to do any of these things, but I am so tempted. I love this girl. I don't get hard or anything when I look at her or talk to her, but when I look at almost any other ... (112 words)

I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought we got along great. But when I ... (520 words)

I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he told me he thinks im ... (120 words)

She left me, now wants to come back, but her facebook says she in a relationship with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - what to do when your girlfriend of two years leaves? her only excuses she keeps telling me is that i am controlling. we was talking she told me if i love her i would bring her stuff to her so we could start working on things. any way that has been two months ago, then she ... (125 words)

I don't know if I should even try to make my marriage work or not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - im 22 and im getting divorced. i was married for about 2 weeks then she left. she saw texts from girls that i did not think was bad but she blew it up and left. she said she was still in love with ehr x and wanted to be with him but she says different now. i married her cuz i ... (124 words)

My first sexual relationship and I cannot orgasm with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship (my first sexually active one) for 1 year and a few months now and my girlfriend has still not been able to give me an orgasm. I have narrowed this down to these possibilities 1. Watching porn too often (every day) and masturbating - I... (284 words)

Did he want to break up with me? Why not just tell me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was in a casual relationship during the last seven months. He was so happy with me and always caring. It was a long distance relationship and we knew from the beginning we cannot have something serious. I have feelings for me and i thought he shared those. It was an... (447 words)

I'm scared my flat mates will hear us having sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is coming to see me soon in my halls of residence. However one thing thats bothering is my flat mates. I am worried that they be will embarassing or whatever, or that they may hear something due to the paper thin walls. I don't know if I like the idea of presenting ... (88 words)

If you make a mistake do you own up to it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey just a general question. If you make a genuine mistake, and then lie about it, would you say you was bad person? What if you wouldn't get found out, but your conscience preys on you? Would you finally own up, even though you know people would be shocked and your reputat... (65 words)

I'm terrified for my friend who is being deployed to Afghanistan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship question but i feel like i really could do with some help. For the past few months i've been thinking about death, yes death, the reason this came about is because a friend, who's in the army, is being deployed to afghanistan, even me typing the wo... (210 words)

Only one date in eight years; need some reassurance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am 34, single and never been married. I have had one relationship, with a woman, for 10 months, eight and a half years ago. Since then, I have been on one date. I have made friends, like I had an older gay guy friend for two years. Then I had a female friend fo... (729 words)

Does this sound like a STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Very personal question- I'm sexually active and I'm afraid I may have an STD. I have these tiny bumps on the inside of my vagina but only towards the bottom. They itch like crazy and hurt sometimes, especially if I scratch them. I get temporary relief from vagisal. Does th... (60 words)

He decided I'm not worth the effort of fixing this marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I do not understand how someone, man or woman, can simply walk out on their family. My husband and I have had our share of problems. Our marriage hasnt ever been a cake walk, but I have supported him in every decision he has ever made during our 3 year marriage. I quit my job ... (556 words)

I feel disgusted after masturbating to porn, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm 16 and I'm gay... or bi (confused). And I've got something that I don't understand. So I'm hoping you guys might have the answer. So the thing is I only like porn when I'm turned on. And when I masturbate and cum; afterward I find it utterly disgusting and I have this ... (117 words)

Do I stay with my husband or live with my lover of 8 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age - To stay with the man I have been married to for 35 years or to move in with the lover of 8 years. Neither relationship is brilliant but the clock is ticking. Why am I so unsatisfied with my life?... (43 words)

I really like this guy but he did "things" with another friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, here goes: I like this guy. Really really like him. His name is Tal. The other night there was a party, and well, him and me fooled around. Alot. As in, underneath bra and panties. After the party we went over to a friends house, but i had to leave at around 2 a.m. T... (267 words)

My teacher shouts at me around others but is nice in private. What does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - my teacher is grumpy in front of others and shouts at me and points out my flaws but when i go to ask for doubts privately he acts so sweet and he brushes on me and acts as if nothing wrong has happened, what does he have in mind?... (49 words)

Is he pulling my leg here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been working at my job for 3 years, just like 2 years ago this guy started well like 3 months in to him working then we started having sex but he says he didnt want anything serious but is talking about he wants me to be his baby momma number # 2 what do I do cause I dont ... (74 words)

Why do they only seem to want to be friends with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! My situation is wired because I'm 22 and I'm still virgin. I'm not ugly but always I have problem to have relationships. Some of the girls are curious to know me but after we pass some time everything changes and most of them want to be only be friends with me. My last ... (101 words)

Sometimes it's clear for me to see how much he loves me but other times I feel like he doesn't care at all.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know what to say about this situation so I'm just gonna vent and ask for advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I've had my share of boyfriend and he's only the second one I've ever loved. He loves me too and I can honestly see myself with him ... (133 words)

I would like to see her more often but I don't think she feels the same way...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am in a new relationship about 16 days. We met with each other from a social networking website. Our first date was great. Afterwards, the problems began. She was and is talking about freedom, her own personal space etc. and i told that it's ok, i care about these things. ... (179 words)

Has he met someone else or just busy with his studies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, I am 22 years and an indian. I've been in a relationship with a guy from almost 8 months but we've been friends for about a year. we plan on getting married after 3 years. we are both are still studyin(pg). he has been acting strange lately, he seems to not have time for ... (131 words)

I always turn down girls due to my lack of confidence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i dont know what it is but when im around a proper nice girl i fall to pieces, by that i mean; i was with my mates and these two girls, i never spoke to them before, but my mates went and asked one if i could have her number. at this point i went proper embarrassed and acte... (147 words)

Have I saved enough to support myself and my unemployed boyfriend in a new place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone i need help ive been with my partner for 3 and half years hes unemployed n i work 40 hrs a week ive managed to save 4'000 pounds so far n calculated this time next year il have abt 14,000 just need advice if u think thts enough for us to rent a 1bedroom flat bare ... (98 words)

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm! How can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. My partner says she has nver had an orgasm, and I would like to know if this could be possible... She has Cerebral Palsy. She has gone through quite a lot of stress. How is it best to relax before sex and is is best to try oral sex and stimulating her clitoris bef... (116 words)

I'm 16 and think I'm in love with my 23 year old boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and I've been talking to a much older guy for about 3 years now. I really like him and feel like I'm in love with him. I know he knows I have a thing for him and he did say he does too but it's hard because of the age and a few other reasons. We get along amazingly ... (181 words)

I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we started talking more often and ... (978 words)

My emotions are back and forth with my LDR!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for 3 months now. We only see each once every two weeks as he lives 150 miles away from me. The problem is I seem to be torn between commitment phobia and separation anxiety, eg on our last date. At first I was totally happy and content and I knew every... (124 words)

He said I look like a school teacher... A good or bad thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) age 41-50 - What does it mean when a guy said:'You look like u are a school teacher"? Does it mean he means that i look boring or not very exciting?... (28 words)

Is it normal to not be affectionate with my family but I am with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't cuddle my family and rarly kiss them or tell them I love them, but I cuddle and kiss my girlfriend ands tell her I love her alot, is this normal?... Or am I crazy?... (36 words)

He says he really likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a few months now (I have not been sleeping with him) ... He comes down basicully every night after work and college and we watch some t.v and chat. We do sleep in the same bed, although we are not having sex. He seems really keen and we have alot ... (274 words)

Opinions on the minimum and maximum ages to date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16, and curious as to your opinion as to what the minimum and maximum age to date would be and why.... (23 words)

He distanced himself from me after my father passed away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and since then he has only texted me o... (146 words)

Why is he so different from the other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend soo different? we were chatting for 3months..we went out on a few dates and he asked me to be his girlfriend. he thinks am different from any other girl hes been with with. hes really sweet, attentive, caring and he makes me feel so special. ive bei... (235 words)

I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission. He says 3 or 4 times in a month is ok, but don't cross this limit. I am doing it 2 or 3 times in a month with my friends. also i had it with his friend some time. actually it was his idea to have sex with others. At the ... (235 words)

I'm terrified to have a child with this man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been in a relationship for a year. I broke up with the guy cause he was verbally abusive and talk about my child. He was playing on my phone leaving harassing call. Then he stalks me at night making sure that i'm home. He been stalking me. Anyway my car got vandalized and I ... (188 words)

He hurt my feelings when he said not tonight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and we are getting along great. Normally we see each other 1 time a week since we live 30 miles apart and due to our work schedules. In addition to our regular jobs, we both have weekend part time work as well. We stated earl... (353 words)

I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now. And the one thing on the back of my mind, is his best friend. I've started developing feelings for him, and it's just come on so randomly. There's just something about him, that clicks for me. And I love my ... (275 words)

I don't trust my boyfriend and I wait for the next bad thing to happen

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend messed me about a bit for the first half of our two year relationship [he met up with his ex behind my back, he flirted with other girls and was just generally not appropriate for a guy in a relationship]. Now he's behaving but my trust is low. I literally sit and ... (88 words)

Should I never accept calls from him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Hey, I was dating a married man a few years ago. Not trying to break up a maarriage but because he said she cheated and they were getting a divorce. Well, the divorce never came so of course I tryed dating someone else after some years passed. It didn't work out and I di... (573 words)

My husband is living with his mistress but says he loves me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. My husband has moved out and in with his mistress. He met her on facebook and had an online relationship with her for several months before meeting in person. I found out shortly after, but he did not end the affair and now lives with her, has been living with her for 3 ... (309 words)

Is there any way I could combine my militant attitude to a part time job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i would post this problem on dearcupid's sister site careerglove.com, but it looks like the last activity it had was in 2007. anyway heres my dilemma. even though i'm only 16, i've made up my mind in joining the military, i've started filling out paperwork and fo... (221 words)

How do we talk about sex openly without the shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey friends.. I know this is weird..but can anyone help me to fix this problem? I saw my bf looking at my breasts. We were sitting close to each other and i was telling him about something looking somewhere else. As i turned my head towards him, i saw him looking at my breas... (188 words)

B/f dates all these other girls but calls me his "wife"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend who loves me a lot and whom i love a lot too. he has had 2 other girls in his life which he truly loved. am the 3rd one. apart from that he dates 4 girls with whom he does not has true intention. it happens that last time i have asked him a question. befo... (299 words)

I can't even get a one night stand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it so hard to get into a relationship? I can't even get a date only a one night stand. The men that want me are too feminine, if i wanted a sensitive partner id turn to women. All the stuck up preps get the guy while the socially awkward girl is pussed to the side... ... (93 words)

I cheated and never told him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im with my boyfriend 5 years and we have a daughter together and another child on the way. I should be happy but im not because i cheated at christmas and never told him the truth. Before you judge me listen to my story first. i was just 18 when i got with him looking back i ... (764 words)

Why don't I want to have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i had a child 6 months ago and during the pregnancy as well as afterwards I've been put off of sex whenever my partner tries to be affectionate i feel like he is trying to have sex with me and it makes me almost reject him, i only seem to be interested in sex when he acts ... (147 words)

His text to his friend has hurt my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been together with my partner for 2 years, earlier this feb he wrote a fb message to his female friend about her friend. he wrote OMG WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? i might have to marry her. and his friend replied oo got a crush? ill let her know. he didnt reply back after. i saw ... (98 words)

If he needs to watch porn does it mean I am not enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not sure whether to be offended or not I've been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and the only time ive known him to put porn on is when he is trying to wind me up by putting it on the computer so i can see it, but i have recently noticed that he has been on pornsites ... (300 words)

She wants to move in together but I don't feel ready

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a woman for two years now, she wants us to move in together, but i dont feel ready, thing is she is very sociable when we go out to pubs parties etc she goes up to the bar for drinks goes outside for a cig on her own and people men women warm ... (162 words)

Cousin and I have been having sex but I think we need to stop

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i know this is going to sound weird but i need to say it. im 19 and my names summer and my second cousin sara is too. we were actually born only 3 days apart and our moms were cousins and we lived down the street from eachother so we were always super close. were both ... (105 words)

I have a crush on my bank teller!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So it's been a couple years since I've really liked someone. I had my heart crushed so I decided to take some time to focus on myself and what I want out of life. Recently this new guy started working at the bank I go to, and it has certainly developed into a crush. He seems... (212 words)

Parents don't like my b/f and are always trying to come between us

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! So my parents dont like my boyfriend, were almost ingaged, hes just getting the ring....anyways, my parents know were dating, they know were serious, but theyre always trying to come between us. Theyre always trying to catch some reason they shouldnt like him, ... (361 words)

I'm a girl who loves porn!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - When I was about sixteen, like most people, i got curious about sex and so i started searching the internet for sexual videos. People always talk about how horrible it is for guys to watch porn and i feel like being a girl...its even worse for me to do. I watch it once or ... (103 words)

Should I talk about whats wrong when nothing can be done about it?

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31 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Do I talk about whats upsetting me if there's nothing we can do about it ? How can she help me ? This is kinda the second part of a question I asked earlier. Her past is really really difficult for me to get over and for the first week it seemed to constantly be on... (248 words)

She likes me but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

31 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - see there is this one girl who likes me and i like her to but she has a boy friend but she does not want to hurt his feelings what do i do?... (33 words)

Is 9 times too much in a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating two years and have recently become a long distance relationship. We met at a hotel between the two of us a few weeks ago and he was able to finish multiple times within only a few hours. probably about 4 times. He even admitted to ... (90 words)

Impossible to penetrate!

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi well im 18 and i have tried to hold off sex with my bf for almost a year now and my bf and i have decided itz time to give it a try... he tried to finger me but it hurt but i thought it was normal so i just went with it. Then he tried to penetrate me but it wouldnt go in at ... (135 words)

Do you ever get over someone you've been with for years?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my question is about love. After you have been with someone for a long time (years) and things don't work out between you two and you both move on what can you do to get yourself to stop loving, thinking about, and caring for the person that you spent that much time with? Or ... (73 words)

My mood swings are jeopardizing the relationship

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a lesbian. and ive been with my gf for 2 and a half years. We were planning to move in together by the end of this month. We are both 18 and want to go to the same uni. So we were planning on flatting or rentin' an apartment. But lately my mood has changed. I get s... (415 words)

How to deal with a girl who is always bored

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a girlfriend that is always bored. before i met her i was never going anywhere or doing anything. she likes to do things bt get upset when she ask me what i want to do but i always say i dont know. what should i do?... (48 words)

What should I say to his girlfriend?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay..so I have this guy friend (he has a 3 year relationship with a girl...until now) and we've been good friends for about 2 years now. And I must admit that i like him more than a friend should. Within those years of being friends, we somehow flirted each other. We kiss once ... (292 words)

How much baggage is too much baggage?

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31 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How much baggage is too much, should it matter anyway? Am I to swallow my pride and move on. How do I stop thinking of the negative ? Ive been with my girlfriend for just over a year now. Prior to that I was in a long term relationship straight out of high school that last... (545 words)

Do I leave my abusive spouse for someone who is kind and my sister used to like?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I been married for 1 1/2 yrs. but been together for 4 yrs. I love him unconditionally thats why i never left him even though he chokes me and slaps me. I do the same to him too and i'm usually the one to do it first thats why i cut him some slack. I been trying to get him to ... (174 words)

Mistress is threating to tell my wife about us

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31 October 2010 (M)

age - I feel like I'm about to lose the best thing that ever happened for me behind ignorance. I know everyone's probably going to say I deserve it and I probably due but no one's perfect. I told my mistress that we needed to sto and she's threatening to tell my wife and that will ... (207 words)

Going to sit at a table full of girls, the same one that the girl I love sits at. what do I talk about?

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31 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, there is this girl I like a lot, but I would more say it is I love her a lot. She doesn't know I love her. I just want to be friends with her and build a relationship. I am planning to sit at her table at lunch on Monday and I don't know what to talk about. (All the girls ... (223 words)

I found out he's got someone else and I went into shut down mode

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a broken heart. And I need advise to get over him. See I like this boy and I thought he liked me. I went on his Facebook to add him to be my friend and I see he's in a relationship. I went into shut down mode. How do I get over him? Thanks... (56 words)

Is cheating/open relationship ok in this case?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and up until recently things have been amazing. We're both in college and he's under a certain amount of pressure to be single, but he's always been more mature than them and has coped fine. Recently he talked about ... (265 words)

Does a man ever suggest to 'have sex for fun' even if he is truly interested in a woman ?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Does ever a man suggest to 'have sex for fun' even if he is truly interested in a woman ? Or is this always a sign that he has no emotional interest in her?... (34 words)

My brother is married to my ex's sister, so trying to avoid him his very difficult. Help!!

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. How can I get over my ex when we have to be around each other and be friends. See, My brother Is married to his Sister. Its crazy I know. But since this is the way it is. We have to be friends, which I don't mind I love being his friend. But aren't you supposed to stop ... (197 words)

Scared about getting married....

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24yrs old and getting married in a few months. I love my fiance but i maybe having second thoughts about this wedding. I am so confused, i dont know if i want to get married?! I love going out and partying and i love the attention i get from other guys when I am out, t... (91 words)

Having concerned if this man is really large?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age - I'm a little embarrassed to post this question, but am going to anyway: I'm an older woman (post-menopausal) and am in relationship with a really nice man. He likes me a lot and vice-versa, and we have a great deal in common. In short, its going very well indeed. We h... (331 words)

My married man won't respond

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Happy Halloween everyone. Well i have a new problem,I know the answer that everyone is gonna say but i just want some reassurance on what i need to do. I have talked to my friends and coworkers and they have said what i think i should do. This married man that i ask to take a ... (275 words)

What is a good height for men?

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31 October 2010 (?) age - What is a good height for a man?, I'm 5 10 or 5 11, and i'm 25 years old.. i have always wanted to be tall. Sometimes i ask my self whether im tall or short. i never seem to get the right answer.. my dad is well over 6 feet and my brother is 6 or very close to 6 but i'm not.. ... (181 words)

Indian guys don't do oral?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - why don't indian guys give there women oral sex??... (9 words)

What did I do and what is he doing?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay..this is a long story so just try and keep up. At the end of July this year (2010) I met this guy, M.A.D (Since that's the initals to his first, middle and last name). I met him through a guy that I've known for five years and used to like me but we never dated or had ... (568 words)

We spend most of our time together and I can't hide my feelings for him

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31 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So I'm caught in a an awkward situation with myself. See I'm really good friends with this guy, let's call him Bob, we've been friends forever. We're both the same age, but the thing is I'm gay. He knows, I came out to him 2 years ago. He accepted me, which I'm really ... (198 words)

She rejected me before I asked her out!

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31 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I did really like this girl. But she rejected me before I asked her out. Her words were: "I don't like him, he don't like me and that will never happen." I tried to shrug it off but it didnt work and I cried..but not in front of her. I wish she knew how I felt..but I think I ... (104 words)

Lie after lie from him. Shouldn't he be trying to make it up to me?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lied. Now what? PLEASE help? Thursday I was with my boyfriend and I called him for our late night convo. But I remember him saying that he was going to have visitors and want get to talk to me tonight . I could hear that he was at a party (he picked up by accident... (587 words)

Do these guys like my girlfriend?

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31 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hello again i already know my gf has many male friends but i just want to know the signs if they like her or not cuz i already feel uncomfortable with her knowing so many guys... (38 words)

How to open communications with an ex when you want her as a friend?

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31 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my LDR girlfriend, of 10 months, and I have been broken up now for about 2 months now. She was the one who decided to end things and at first I didn't agree with the breakup but over time I've come to realize that maybe it was for the best considering she didn't feel the ... (388 words)

How do I get over the condom business?

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31 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have just started a new relationship with a woman i really fancy and drives me crazy any way last night things got a little steamy to steamy as soon as the word condom got mentioned i went soft and just could not get it hard again i was so embarrised as i wanted to give her ... (131 words)

What's up with the 'wink'?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This is something which has been puzzling me recently. I started a new career/job about a year ago and there is a guy who works there occasionally. When he started seeing me around he winked at me. We hadn't really introduced ourselves properly or spoken much at that point. ... (209 words)

Can't stretch the foreskin

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31 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 14 i was able to roll my foreskin back fully no problem but then one day i found that i couldnt stretch it even to see the tip of my pennis my skin arround it rips and i cant clean properly, it really itches. what should i do? thx... (51 words)

Does he think our relationship won't work?

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend doesn't call me at all even if i ask him and i am afraid that he doesn't want to get close to me because he doesn't think it will work or does he want it to work IDK i really want to be with him ... (47 words)

I feel like I'm still in a relationship!

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been a month since he left. He comes by once or twice a week. And talks to me every other day if don't contact him first. He says he still loves me and doesn't want to disappear from my life. He insists on paying the electric bill even though I've told him not to. I'm ... (123 words)

He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a queen he dined me, he took me ... (179 words)

Help!!! Think I'm in love with my best friend but can't imagine being in a romantic relationship with him...

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31 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and him have been best friends for a long long time. We're so close that it fascinates people. We were that close that we ended up in bed together and it never made anything awkward. We're still extremely close, but the thing is, I think I'm in love with him. But at the same ... (70 words)