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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Cousin Catastrophe

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) age 26-29 - So heres the deal. I like my cousin. I mean i LIKE LIKE my cousin. He is older than I, and he knows I like him. We have talked about having sex or kissing and such, but every time i say i want to wait cause im not ready. Ive never felt this way about a guy before, and I know ... (92 words)

Help! My friend and I BOTH like the same guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have liked this guy for quite a while now, but today I have found out that my friend likes him too, and is planning to ask him out. The thing is, she is the sort of person who goes out with a lot of guys and has sex a lot and I am a virgin who has never had a boyfriend. She ... (142 words)

I finish her, but she never makes sure to finish me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend never finishes me off. I love her very much, but i find that her lack of sexual interest pushes part of me away. I have tried talking to her about it straight forwardly, and tried to insinuate it by making her feel sexy by praising her, and telling her how much I ... (675 words)

Why not with me? I want the things other men got!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has had a lot of sexual experience! Tons of boys as a teen, and I know what she did in bed with her ex husband. But... with me? It's plain ol' sex. Why? I want the things other men got. Is it because she is getting older? Am I boring? I have great stamina. I always put ... (87 words)

Is it over? Have I been played?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I am so confused. I met a nice guy online, I live in UK and he lives in Norway. We started chatting for a few days, all seemed to be going well, so I suggested a phone call, which also went well. We spoke for about an hour, and seemed to get along, and as we said ... (632 words)

I just want our friendship to go back like it was...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well.. It all started two and half years ago.. We got to know each other really well, her BF who met her after me who she really loves - they shared PW's on every account they have.. FaceBook, Xfire, MSN and so on, well to cut to the question.. He the BF asked her for al... (380 words)

Is telling him the right thing to do...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I have liked for a long time. A few years ago, someone told him without my permission, and he didn't feel the same way. Things became awkward and we lost our friendship. Recently, we've rebuilt our friendship, and he's started treating me differently. He apologis... (155 words)

Junior with a freshiee!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend ryan has his god brother over all the time, alex. We hang out EVERY weekend together, His god brother is a junior at my school and I am a freshman. He always says flirty comments to me and talks with me, and the class we have near each other always talks to me. ... (118 words)

Threesome gone bad...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i just had a threesome with my boyfriend and another female that i have known and now i feel like all the attention was on that girl and i dont know if i still wanna be with him... the threesome was his idea and i feel like maybe it wasnt a threesome, that maybe i should've ... (97 words)

Respecting and trust in a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two questions about relationships. What is truly respecting someone? How? and.. What is truly trusting someone? Do they have to earn it or do you just have to learn how to etc...? I need some advice on what the two really mean.... (53 words)

Is she flirting???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy jus a quick question erm right this may sound dumb but I need help I'm in my second year at college and I've met this girl who seems heavily flirtatious when we text or chat on facebook she uses the wink face alot and she asked me who do I fancy on the course of which we ... (155 words)

This girl at school has a boyfriend but she still flirts with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl at school has a boyfriend but she still flirts with me? Well there is this girl at school that i ignored for the first month of school, because everyday she would talk about her boyfriend. she would say i love my boyfriend so much bla bla bla, it actually is very... (398 words)

Adventurous but looking for even more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a straight male in a relationship and I just started using our steel dildo to stimulate my prostate during masturbation occasionally. I love it. I'm wondering if there are any other fun/kinky self-masturbation things I could try. Adventure is great. ... (41 words)

I finished with him yet I can't seem to move on... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep tryin to move on but i can't.. I'm always thinking about him no matter who i am with. And i was the one who let him go... How do i cope? I need help..... (36 words)

Is it ok for a man to talk to a woman online when he has a wife and kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I guy who follows my photography blog messaged me a few times about how much he liked my work, he also reblogged some of my images and told people about me. He sent me a message asking me to go and see him play (hes a musician) I didn't go even though he lives in the sam... (188 words)

Why would a guy not want to do it with his girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little confused by the problem because in most cases a girl cuts her boyfriend off of sex, but in my case my boyfriend cuts me off! sometimes its for a few nites but there has been times where I'd only get it maybe once a month if I'm lucky. he always has a different ... (72 words)

Will he lose interest if I don't let him see me naked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is really personal.. Ok, so im like really shy about my body. I'm pretty with a petite figure but when i take my clothes off i feel ugly. I feel like im driving my boyfriend crazy, i wont have sex and the lite nor n my life has anyone but my doctor seen my breasts or ... (108 words)

I'm debating on dumping her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll try to keep this short for you. I'm debating on whether i should dump my girlfriend or not. We've been dating for five months, We're juniors in highschool. I really like her alot, but our relationship has flaws i just cant ignore anymore. She flirts with another guy on ... (255 words)

Is this just coincidence or some supernatural force?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time I'm on facebook, his name pops up or his picture pops up. Like whatever I click on, even if it has nothing to do with him, his name is either on the side of "tagged pictures" or whatever or a picture. And everywhere I go, his name is there or mentioned. I'm reall... (72 words)

Why didn't boyfriend cum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time last night, and he didn't cum/finish. i was doing it for about 10-15 minutes and i didn't really feel like i was getting anywhere so i stopped. except i did a lot of like "research" online before we did it, and i felt like i wa... (137 words)

Cant believe he said this to me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well we have been together 7 months and if im honest things have gone pretty slow and i feel sometimes like hes not after anything serious. I put a guard up and sometimes act like the tough girl who's not bothered but i do really care (i guess im scared of getting hurt). Anyw... (175 words)

I feel like I'm risking so much by staying this relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey all, well just about half hour ago, my boyfriend of almost 5 yrs told me the same thing. we are both 23 btw. he told me that its like a stressful "need" for him to go with other women. he says this crying as if he's guilty 4 feeling this way, idk. But we were both virgins ... (405 words)

How do I make my move with him without coming too desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I am gay and I am attending a community college and in a public speaking class there's this guy that both intrigues me and I am convinced he's gay. I can't explain but just like other gay men, there's just a certain feeling you get when you know its a gay man without ... (132 words)

I need more ideas for kinky sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, me and my boyfriend having being going out about 2 months but have been seeing each other for over 2 years. He is slightly older and we like that whole dominant submissive kinky thing and seem as we seem to have tried almost everything (spanking, biting, whipping, ... (72 words)

He's choosing the wrong friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Any help would be so greatly appreciated! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three and a half years and we went to college together, graduated together, and now I am working and he is in law school. We barely get to see each other so it's usually on the weekends ... (773 words)

Sexual Problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I need some advice on a subject(please help) I have problems sexually with my husband, i dont understand why... about a few years back we were happy and we had a great sex life but about 3-4 months ago i started to cry for no reason when he would finish but i did get ov... (126 words)

How to cope with a possible bad decision to end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this girl for about 4 months not long I know we are both in college we broke up obviously I dated other girls and what not and I was happy, plus I cheated on her. Yes it was wrong and yes I felt like shit after. Anyways, we end up getting back together and dating for a ... (326 words)

Finding the love for SELF!???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - whats wrong with me? why do i hook up with guys who i dont really like... not really into physically either, but still get horny if their in my apt. well ok, its just one guy, i feel lonely and he likes me, he's decent looking but i dont want to be with him at all... im not ... (203 words)

What is this zit on my vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a zit or what looks like a zit on my vagina. I dont know what it is or what to do. I'm a virgin so I know it's not a STD. Please help... (35 words)

If he was interested in me he wouldn't be falling asleep, would he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not very good at picking up on social cues and I have absolutely no sense as to whether this guy likes me or no. I went on a date on the Friday night with a guy I met through a friend. We had been out the Saturday night the weekend before but in a group and he texted me... (249 words)

When I looked into his eyes it was like... magic!

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy I fancy and I think he fancies me because he tells me stuff that are really personal to him and he laughs at everything I say. The other day we had this moment when I dropped something and he helped me pick it up and we just looked in each others eyes. It was ... (78 words)

Why cant I look him in the eyes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why cant I look him in the eyes? There's a guy at school who always tries to catch my eye. I can always feel him watching me from across the room and stuff, if I'm honest it scares me stiff even though I like it.He does things like sitting close to me (sends me sooo many sig... (216 words)

Tips from students for break up pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am looking for tips to get through one of the worst types of Break ups...especially as i am going through my Final Year Uni in a very very tough course. I feel like I am in a nightmare and I dont know how I am going to get through this year at university..any tips from ... (69 words)

Does he like me? Or just messing with my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's is this guy, half turkish-half german, I met exactly one year ago. Normally I like someone very quick (1 day) by looking at the guy's behavior, but this one I met was not like that. I started liking him after almost 1 month, I think I fell in love. I asked myself what I ... (1609 words)

He broke up saying I was too obsessive over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have recently broken up. we were together for 2 years and 4 months. when he broke up with me he told me he still loves me and always will. he broke up with me because i was obsessive over him and my world just revolved around him. he said maybe if i change h... (134 words)

My son's father seems to want me back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My son's father and i have been apart for about 4 years.. he left without notice when our son was a baby.. we have talked about getting back together many times but neither of us worked toward that common goal.. a day before our son's birthday he called out of the blue saying ... (220 words)

So... is it true???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been brpoken up for four months now... any chance that we could get back together? Does it happen that people who were in a very long relationship get bored and need to break off and get back with the person they do and is it truth that once he dumps you once, he wil... (62 words)

Wanted men's opinion... Is a silk or woollen scarf a good gift for men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Men... What do you think? Is a scarf especially a silk or a woollen scarf a good gift for a man?... (22 words)

Has she got a sixth sense or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all. Am in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. Its been hard since its a long distance relationship and we're both at colleges. Bt we've managed so far. Is it possible 2 end up together later in life? Coz thats what she and i want. Bt lately i've been ... (146 words)

How do I flirt with him without seeming too sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so a couple days ago at a gig me and my friends met this 4 guys. And one of the guys and I really hit it off, and me and one of my friends are planning to meet up with all of them sometime in the half term. We're going to go to the cinema, then grab some pizza afterwards. ... (162 words)

What can we do about his jealousy problems stemming from his past relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend's marriage ended due to his wife cheating. His next 2 girlfriends also cheated on him. Now in our relationship, I can not go out with my friends or visit my son who works as a bartender without it starting verbal fights. If I look too long in any one direction when ... (146 words)

Should I take a gamble...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past six months or so I have been getting to know this guy who started out as someone I was more or less just attracted to. I recently just got back into the dating world and don't feel things for people quickly or get attracted strongly to many people. However with ... (269 words)

Lost virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend fingered me hard by inserting 3 fingers into my vagina. Then the very next day I found brown stains on my panties. Have I lost my virginity already?... (30 words)

He said I'm way to young for him at the moment... what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, im 14 and i met this boy, ive known him for around a year now, and everday i just become more and more in love with him, he likes me to and hes told me that im way to young at the moment. what do i do, the age difference is 5 years.... (57 words)

Insecurities about my dick!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My penis is just shy of 6 inches long and 4.75 inches around - my girlfriend had a larger than average pussy - I can get 4 fingers in her when wet easily and she says she has had larger dicks than mine before - she reckons 7/7.5 inches long and maybe 6 inches around - I feel ... (136 words)

Having sex with him, but what if he's not the one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend loves me a lot, we have been dating 3 months. He wants to have sex. Despite everything i'm still not ready to have sex with him. I don't know what the problem is. My question is what if I have sex with him and he's not the one?... (51 words)

I envy my ex boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I envy my ex boyfriend. I see him going out, having fun with his friends, like he's already over me, or maybe if he's not over me, at least he's happy and confident. I'm not. I feel ugly, uninteresting, boring, worthless. I have friends, we go out, but I don't enjoy myse... (276 words)

I refuse to be with someone who would be into that stuff!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so im dating a guy for about 3 months now. I moved with him and everythng seems fine. Except one thing. We got a computer from his friend and downloaded limewire. A few times i caught him downloading porn. I didnt make a deal about it. But then when i had the computer to ... (138 words)

Dating for 2 years and living together - No sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Reading on other questions which are similar, people come with the religious responses. Trust me, I understand where she is coming from. The religious responses aren't going to help me. So here's the situation. I've been dating the same girl for two years (first two years... (421 words)

Same problem is rearing its ugly head again and I need your advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for thirty years. About 20 years ago my husband had a three year relationship with another woman that caused me to have a breakdown. I have had trust issues ever since. He has since had what he says is a friendship with another woman that I have asked him ... (154 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to meet his family???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. He is Italian. I am American. He does not have as close of a relationship with his family as I have with mine and given that he's going through a bought of unemployment (which is unacceptable to his family), they've been ... (195 words)

Break up or make up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well a four days ago I found out my boyfriend had a face book without telling me and so I wait to see if he tells me and he still doesn't so the next day I stayed home it was a friday night and I went to bed early because my mom is in the hospital and than I find out the next ... (157 words)

I like him but I'm not sure whether I really love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like him but I'm not sure whether I really love him. maybe i do... but the fact that his family background aint that good that my mother will get me married to him makes me think again whether ive made the right choice. I've got plenty of time to see if hes the "one"... but ... (143 words)

Nasty rumours!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need urgent advice! Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. and im still hurting and worse of all i been hearing rumors that im not sure if him or his friend are saying that i sleep around and that i lost my virginity with him and i dont know what else, its gotten to the point ... (178 words)

Would going as a white Blade be offensive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i know this isnt really a relationship question but i have gotten good advice from this site in the past and thought i would try it for this question. basically for halloween i want to dress up as Blade the vampire hunter, which in itself should be fine, but he is black an... (146 words)

Long Distance has killed my relationship... help me get him back!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've been with my boyfriend, for about 11 months. He lives 70 miles away, about an hour and a half in up the motorway!! He has two jobs - a full time 8-5 weekday job, and does shifts in a bar over the weekend! We were going along quite nicely, except he was working ... (299 words)

Sick of sleeping on the couch without sex or intimacy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have living with a man for apprx 6 months now. He never seems to want to have sex, maybe once every 2 weeks. He was never any different but I had thought that in the beginning it was because he was a bit shy and insecure. But after so long that initial insecurity should ... (481 words)

Guy actually got beter when I took him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so ive been with my boyfriend almost a year now and its been up and down. When we first got together it seemed like i was chasing someone out of my leaugue but he did things for me that let me know he was interested. We moved 2 hours away to a town the next state over which ... (214 words)

I'm having some red flags about this relationship now. What do you guys think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship with a man for 5 months now, we were friends for 2 months before that, so weve known each other more like 7 months... we get along good, and when i met him I thought i not be with another man again, because my ex-fiancee abused me so badly and then e... (274 words)

Uni... or boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started at university which is about 1 hour 30 mins away from my boyfriend and were both finding it quite hard. He is now starting to question if he can handle a long distance relationship. I love him so much and im torn because i would give all of this up to be ... (99 words)

What he did hurt me now I don't know what to do and can't talk to my friends about it. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm really confused now. I just found out that my boyfriend has been talking to some men on the internet about wanted to experiencing being with another man. Okay i can say that i understand him a bit, because i have always been curious about how it would be being with another ... (166 words)

I dunno if this girl likes me like I do her or if she just wanted a little something at the time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - yesterday, i walked a girl i really like (for some time) to her home after we hung out with some of our friends, and everyone went home, and i decided why not walk her home, so we were walking home just having fun and fooling around, and then we were outside her garage, and she ... (249 words)

Heck, she won't have sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So iv'e been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now and we totally accept each other and we are totally open with each other, we really really like each other. The thing is it's been 3 months and she still is acting a bit strange about having sex with me. I got to tell you ... (281 words)

I can see us being happy, but he has thought way too far into the future. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a guy (lets call him 'guy') know each other through a friend (lets call her 'girl'), for around a month now. He found me attractive, and so did I. We met up twice afterwards by ourselves and last time we met, we kissed. The attraction between is so obvious. He is not ... (259 words)

Can a marriage sustained by a lie survive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - If someone believes that their partner would leave them, if they knew a particular truth, can the marriage survive? Regardless of whether the truth comes out or not? It's hard to believe that a marriage can survive when it is being held together by a lie... is it inevitable ... (59 words)

A choice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long term relationship with John for 4 years. We have had a lot of ups and downs throughout this time and many guys have liked me and tried to get me to leave him, but i always stayed. I feel as if John and I have nothing in common... I want to travel and work ... (269 words)

Despondent in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am so tired of all this, i feel like crying, i have never been lucky with guys and can't find any reason why. ok am 18, tall, slim and fair in complexion, people say am pretty so why do the guys i like not seem attracted to me and the two guys that really love me are the ones ... (140 words)

What should I do if I'm falling for an unhappy married man that I truly care about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in LA. I met this guy that is married he says hes not happy. We met at a karaoke bar. he was really honest told me he was married with 3 kids two are adults one is 14. i am 24 and he is 35. he is a very nice respectful guy. we talk about his marriage i asked if hes ... (762 words)

Is it wrong of me to get mad at this? Am I just a jealous freak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was in love with this guy... I hate using the word "in love" cuz I'm only 16 but I liked him more than any other guy in the world. We were absolutly perfect for each other. Then all of the sudden we stopped talking every day and things just went down hill.. This was around ... (190 words)

Is he playing hard to get and why hasn't he returned my call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay my ex broke up with me over the summer and i was heartbroken but we've been talking to each other, in fact i know more about him in the last two months than in the last months months of his relationship. now i told him if he starts to see other girls let me know. we talk ... (185 words)

Help! I feel I'm stuck in the middle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my husband passed away about 2 years ago, and I have been seeing this guy now for over a year. We had our ups and downs. I think mainly because I wasn't ready at first. But he truly cared for me and stayed with me through my grieving process. That says a lot to me about ... (230 words)

How do I leave my husband?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to leave my husband, we have been together 21 years, married for 5, we have 2 kids aged 16 and 13. I have nowhere to go and no money. Please help... (34 words)

How do I hint to him about this party so that he'll come with me?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, Well I am 24 years old and I like this guy at work.. he is fairly new.. took over my old job 2 months ago. Since he started we have spent lunch together 90% of the time.. we have a laugh together and there is good banter between us. I hope he likes me back but I am ... (157 words)

The things girls do!!!

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17 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Over the years I have either read or heard from some of my guy friends about little things girls do that they find sexy. One example is putting on lipstick or lip gloss in front of them. Are there any little things that we may or may not be aware we are doing that get g... (102 words)

Should I give up on tough love?

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im so in love with a girl i told her how i feel about her,but she is giving me a hard time the thing is that she tells me that she wanna know if she is trully commiting her self to a right guy,she first wanna feel the same as i do feel about her but know she say if i trully ... (112 words)

I don't know how to get over the shame and humiliation

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17 October 2010 (F)

age - Dear anyone I've been married for nearly 30 years and weve had our ups and downs. It turns out my ex to be hubby has been a secret cross dresser all of our married life. he has hidden it so well that i didn't have a clue until he came out and told me he wanted to be my sister r... (112 words)

Comunication Breakdown

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i have posted her before and was happy with the mature responses i got so im back for some advice and opinion. my on and off girlfriend have had some huge communication issues. I am a talker and she is not. i am dealing with the fact that she had sex with someone else the ... (476 words)

I believe he was my soulmate, and now cant get over him!

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know if a guy I dated was my soulmate, and if so how to do I get over him? So my sophomore year of high school I had a class with this guy... and immediately felt a connection. We both wanted to take it slow and not rush into things, but it's really hard to do that ... (1098 words)

Hiya Gorgeous, it's the guy who wants to steal you from your boyfriend!

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay well my girlfrind got a random text last night saying, hiya gourgous its spencer, i see the text come up but she said to me that she doesnt know who it is, it was playing with my head, i heard the name spencer a couple of days earler, thats when it hit me check on facebook ... (119 words)

Do I really want her, or am I just feeling sorry for her?

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I met this girl in my second week at university. She sat beside me, and I talked to her. She was basically the first girl to ever positively respond to me, and she even facilitated the conversations, which was a wholly new situation for me. You could say that we hit ... (413 words)

She's just not that type of girl at all...

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello guys, i really need every single bit of advice and feedback from you guys. I've been with my LDR gf for 2 years, we knew each other for over 5 years but we just got back together after i went abroad for studies, so i never even had the chance to kiss her or get that ... (496 words)

I want to be more comfortable with my curves! Any ideas?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know its a girl thing to have self esteem issues, but i alway feel really inscure about my weight.I know im not huge but im not small either Im trying to change but i have two jobs and its hard. I just dont know how anyone could be attracted to a bigger girl, how could i gain ... (66 words)

I once cheated on my boyfriend, and now the other guy wants me!

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know if its a good idea to do this...never the less... I once cheated on my bf when we were going through a really bad phase...without sounding like i am trying to justify what i did...i was really unhappy...he was making life difficult for me ; we had fights every... (805 words)

I am a bit jittery about being intimate!

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts, This might be a long one -here's some b/ground info - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just about a year now. A while ago I had an incident where some guy basically felt me up while i was asleep - it kind of left me a bit jittery with being intimate... (416 words)

My boyfriend is more focussed on his sister in law than our wedding plans

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.. I am 19 yrs old girl, having trouble in understanding my bf whom i am dating from almost 2 yrs. He was my best friend and now bf. Things were cool before but now i feel he has changed. We were talking yesterday about our wedding plans when suddenly he shifted all focus ov... (272 words)

My boyfriend thinks I don't understand so he wont talk to me

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend thinks i dont understand so he wont tell me whats been bothering him what should i do ?... (20 words)

Would him showing his friends naked pics of me be a deal breaker?

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17 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I just found out my boyfriend of 2yrs showed a bunch of his friends and co-workers pictures of my breasts that he and I took during our first year of dating. I don't know at what point he showed these pictures--possibly during a big fight...or maybe right away? Does it even ... (148 words)

Since he dumped me he stalks my facebook page

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need big help. I met a charming fellow on a dating site a year ago and it seemed we really hit it off but there was something about him that didn't sit quite well. One week he aadored me and the next he would unexplainedly treat me like crap and call me names that are no way ... (240 words)

My boyfriend feels my problems shouldn't affect him in any way

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Iv been a bit depressed lately,because my family is going through a crisis, and iv been feeling very low, my PhD work is all stacked up..i have so much to do and i dont even know where to start from, and to top it all, I have a clingy boyfriend (Im going to call him Alec). Iv ... (489 words)

I don't want to have to accept this child

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old female married for 4 years now to my husband. We have a 4 and 1/2 year old daughter as well as a 3 year old daughter. Yesterday, I found out that due to a one night stand with another woman, there is now a 5 yr old little girl that could possibly be his ... (374 words)

I am 21 and not married yet but can see lots of problems ahead

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 21-years-old and we've been together for 5 years. We have a precious two-year-old son together...but I don't think I'd still be with him if we didn't have a kid. We've been talking about marriage since we first got together (even though we were w... (992 words)

In the navy I can sail the seven seas ....

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is not a relationship question... But I need some advice. I'm 22 years old, not going to school, working but not somewhere I want to be long term. I'm seriously considering joining the navy. The only thing that's holding me back is fear of the unknown I guess. I've never ... (125 words)

My wife is in ER and I can't get back to her!

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife is in the ER as I write this. I am thousands of miles away on business. She is 8 months pregnant and has been complaining of pain in between her shoulder blades, more to the right side. It has radiated to the front of her chest. Right below her right breast. She says it ... (313 words)

How can I pick myself up and stop feeling so down?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i pick myself up and stop feeling so down? I am 21 and a half years old and I have no reason to feel unhappy, I have a great family, good friends, and a caring loving boyfriend. I have my whole life ahead of me but i find myself just feeling so unhappy. I hate going... (177 words)

He said I was "not the one" and then had sex with me anyway

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i broke up . we had a nice dinner and he said i was not the "one" however he kept saying he loves me and wants to be my friend. when we left the restaurant we ended up having sex in the parking lot. he still kept saying how beautiful i am . when we were done i ... (144 words)

After a rocky start I have told her I am fine with being just friends

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok im a male and 24 and this girl is 21. I dont know if this helps anything but I havent had alot of relationships with girls. so sometime I dont know how to act around them like when to make moves or stuff. Im a good looking guy so ive been told but being the nice guy i am i ... (495 words)

I am sick of being single, but too shy to ask guys out!

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really sick of being single. And Im shy and never been good around men. I dont wanna ask them out and then have them have a girlfreind or soemthign. It makes me really normal. what do you think that I should do... (43 words)

My heart is broken and life has no colour anymore

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i met the girl of my dreams about 5 years ago, we dated for three. halfway though, she broke up with me over a text, because i used to get too jealous when she was hanging out with her multiple friends who happened to be guys. regardless, i changed my ways, worker super ha... (366 words)

On again off again for five years but I can't let him go

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid my ex and i have been on and off for five years. everytime he is the one that breaks up with me, but we always get back together with in a year or two. Both of us have been with others, him more than me, but i always compare other guys to him with out meanign ... (146 words)

I've developed feelings for a man that's still in prison!

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old and the daughter of an Alabama all-men prison's warden. I'm a junior in college studying to be a psychiatrist for prison inmates. For the last two months, I've been working with a 23 year old white male accused of raping an 18 year old black female just over... (184 words)

Is it true all men want to cheat?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got in a disagreement earlier with my mom and brother that really made me upset. I won't go into how we got onto this subject, but my mom and brother were telling me that all men cheat or want to cheat, and that for me to believe otherwise is naive. I told them that there is ... (282 words)

We haven't spoken in a week, is it over?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my boyfriend are in the no contact situation but we never said it wuz over. i stopped contacting him bcuz he wouldnt call me or txt me.. so i figure i would give him time to figure out wht he wants... do to his insecurity and trust issues with me.. we havnt talked for a ... (125 words)

I can't attract the right type of woman

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 30-year old male who is single after a 4-year relationship that ended 6 months ago. I have been trying hard to get back on the dating scene with no success. I am not sure what the reasons are but I can't seem to attract women or shall I say, the "right woman". I am ... (219 words)

My mother favors my niece over me!

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my mom keep doing this to me? Ever since I was little she's always cared most about work. It's a family business, where shes an owner. My niece, my brothers daughter was born spoiled. I'm not saying I'm not, but she lives in a fantasy and she's about 15 years old now. ... (234 words)

Very insecure girlfriend, inexperienced me.

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm new to the site, but have found this site several times in the past while looking for answers to problems. First, a bit of background. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and things have progressed very fast since then. We're very open about everything... (1005 words)

Why is his ex still hanging around him?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Agony aunts and uncles, I just don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together about three months now and are very much in love. We were both out of extremely long relationships (mine lasting six years and his lasting four) before we met eachother so it'... (316 words)

I lied about being sexually experienced, and now worry I will disappoint

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, Ive got myself in this somewhat awkward situation. First of all im a 19 year old male, and still virgin. A few weeks ago I met this Girl and I really like her, we get along quite well. We went out for 2-3 dates and always had a good time and ended up kis... (177 words)

Dated him. Broke up. Then got back together. Lost the feeling again. Did it again. Then really fell for him. He dumped me. I love him. How do I get over him?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Awhile ago me and this guy went out. A few weeks later I broke up with him, because I wasnt really feeling it anymore. About a month later, he asked me out again. I said yes,because i thought i liked him again. We went out for about three days. Again, I lost the feeling. Three ... (240 words)

Can depression affect sex drive?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - can sadness affect a mans sex drive? Wanting sex and affection? What can you do to make that man feel better about hiself or situation? Can this feeling be long term?... (32 words)

How can I put my girlfriend at ease and let her know she can trust me?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is really quiet and shy. She's explained to me why (childhood experiences relating to abuse and fitting in pressures). And I'm totally understanding of that. I just want to know what would be the best approach of getting her to trust me, to finally let her guards ... (101 words)

He keeps texting other women! Am I overreacting?

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17 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a story to tell and then some questions, I ask for any insight. So, my husband went away for work for 5 weeks, two of which went great. Then, he stopped calling to say goodnight and I noticed him texting a particular number ALL the time. This was the one number that ... (514 words)

My girlfriend's 'friend' tried to talk her into cheating on me!

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend got a booty call last night from one of her former f-buddies. I met her f-buddy at a party about two months ago. She said they were still friends but not sexually active so I didn't worry about it. But then yesterday he sent her a booty call even though he k... (275 words)

How to get my ex girlfriend to like me again and call me back and want to talk to me?

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17 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I was in a long distance relationship with this girl from Boston and Im from Oregon. I have not heard from her in two weeks from the last time I have talked to her. That was even after she said she wanted to give me a second chance with her. I want her back in I don't know ... (209 words)