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female
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30-35,
*ayel
writes: my boyfriend is very trustworthy and our relation is for 3 years. but now-a-days i feel that he is ignoring me, not talking with me like previous. i am not understanding his problem. i asked him several times but he is avoiding my question.is he loosing his interest in this relation? how i can prove his loyalty? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): You shouldn't pay so much attention to him or your relationship, as ultimately both are useless to you.
Focus instead on your own mission in life. If he wants to join you on that mission fantastic... if he doesn't, who cares?
You sound like you're addicted to him or something he gives you, so the best way to deal with this is to kick the addiction, as if you were giving up smoking.
He is bad for your health, just like cigarettes.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (21 October 2010):
He's losing interest...there's no way to prove his loyalty. Either play his game and ignore him back or just dump him.
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