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writes:I'm 18 years old, and have not been in a relationship. Someone asked me out but I knew I would not last 1 day with him. I fancied this guy at my badmington club but he has recently got a girlfriend. I have 3 partys coming up where I will be socialising with guys I don't know. How can I attract them to ask me out? Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (21 October 2010):
 I think you are asking the wrong question. Stop worrying about how to attract men. Just accept that it is a mutual process. There is no point in pretending to be something you are not by acting a certain way or dressing differently. Long term relationships are based on great friendships, as well as physical attraction. You just have to build the self confidence to realise that a good boyfriend for you would fancy you no matter what you do. Just be yourself, go out to socialise with boys and maybe you will meet a nice person. If it doesn't happen right away then don't worry. Sooner or later you will meet someone who is great fun to hang out with and they will adore you just for who you are. It is better to be single than stuck in a relationship with someone who is very different and not interesting to you 'just to have a boyfriend'.
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