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writes:I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in different cities, but seen eachother before, and were very confident it will work out and we are attracted. So we decided to meet and spend whole day together. I travelled to her. It went off reli well and we were very happy. We kissed and was very intimate. Both claiming we are gf and bf. Ever since that day, she hardly txts, and I txt and sumtimes get ignored, and we dnt chat on fone anymore cuz she "claims" she lost voda sim and cnt get free mins. To talk again all she needs to do is buy new sim for 79p. But it seems that she dnt like me nemore, and has gone off me. She claims she is busy, wen I confronted her. Its been 2weeks since her awkwardness. Havent called in 7days and didnt txt either till 2days ago. She too busy to txt/call/meet? I dnt believe dat. Wat is up with her and how can I fix this problem? Thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, mr toyboy  +, writes (21 October 2010):
As sad as it may seem, i think she had an expectation, and when she met you, that expectation wasnt met, so just let it go.
I also met someone like that through a website, we chatted for a while and when we decided to meet, she was too short while i like tall girls, so i just stopped communicating.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 October 2010):
I think you've done as much as you can. I think to be honest she's probably not interested anymore, for whatever reason. Maybe things moved too fast when you met romantically. Maybe she's met someone else. Maybe she's embarrassed, or not ready. Who knows. All I know is that she's made no real effort since you met. Better to just say goodbye now and get it over and done with than prolong your pain.
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reader, turkishsabre  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 man i think you re enough intelligent to understand this situation..let me open it alittle bit..
you met her..it was okay..in this situation 3 possible thing may be the cause.. first..after dating she didnt like you..second she told to her stupid close friends and they didnt like you..third there is another guy who is closer to her than you.. what is clear is she is not really busy..if someone want to contact you no one can stop her..this is the point...so whatever the situation is you have to step back and wait if she wants she will come if not you must not go over her because when you try often she will think you re needy and no girl like a needy guy..this is a rule..so my friend dont lose your standing upright infront of her and protect your pride know how to behave..dont stay in a place where you re not wanted..wait her to call..if she doesnt..ignore her..and dont lose your time with that girl..
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reader, breath_in  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 we got to think optimistically you could be reading a little too much into her not responding to you when you want her to.
you have to understand you both have separate lives and theres things that go on in both of them that can sometimes take up a lot of your time .she might not be able to afford the sim card who knows the point is we don't know for sure .
my best advice to give you on the subject is talk it out try to be understanding and tell her how you feel the only way to get a straight answer from her is if your honest .
if she still avoids the topic and it keeps on continuing then maybe you should consider letting it go and moving on because really theres no point if your not talking since thats all you two have in order to communicate .
best of luck
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