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writes:I've been happily with someone for the past 15 months. There has been nothing wrong with our relationship. He is the only one I feel comfortable around, and can completely be myself around him. And he thinks I'm absoulutely pefect, and does anything to make me happy. But lately, there has been this other guy. He is amazing, and really does like me alot. I've started to like him as well, even though I know I shouldn't. Since that has been happening, I've been finding myself less attracted to my boyfriend.I also told the other guy that I liked him as well, and he asked if one day we could date. I didn't know what to say, so I said yes. And this is making him like me more. And turn, like him more. He is such a nice guy, and I feel like telling him nothing can happen will hurt him so much. But, I always just find myself thinking about him, and not my boyfriend. I don't know what to do. So I guess my question is : If you're in a great loving relationship and someone just as amazing comes along, what should you do? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 There's something lacking in your great loving relationship causing you to stray. This new guy is fresh, amazing, and is in to you..you seem to be tiring of your 15 month relationship, the newness and excitement have well worn off.
If you are losing interest in your boyfriend then it's best to break it off before you cheat on him. It's possible he's too perfect. Where everything is going as according to planned, no problems, no fights..if you're like you you gotta have a little argument and stubbornness. Once, you have broken up with you boyfriend then it's ok to pursue this new guy. Don't have both at the same time because it will backfire on you. Out with the old and in with the new.
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